142. “MUCH DEPENDS ON THE HUSBAND.”

I had my children several years apart. I must say that I was much

better in health during pregnancy, and up to the time of the birth of

the child was able to do most of my work. Kneeling, I found, was the

worst thing, which I was careful to avoid, but a certain amount of

exercise did me good. But it was after confinement that I had to be

very careful. I could never sit up in bed for a fortnight, and it was

a month or five weeks before I could come downstairs. That was the

time I wanted all the nourishment I could get. Of course, there is a

difference amongst women, as I know of some that suffer for months

before with dropsy and various other things, then as a rule they are

much better afterwards. Much depends on what kind of a husband the

wife has. Worry must be a great drawback to a woman in that state. I

am thankful to say my experience has not been a bad one, as all my

children were healthy and strong. A woman cannot possibly get on if she

has a bad, worrying husband. I think that makes a lot of difference.

_Wages 36s.; four children._

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