61. A VERY SAD CASE.

The man and woman I know, who are very steady people, have six

children. The three elder ones are quite normal. After the birth of

the third the father had a very serious illness--double pneumonia

followed by typhoid fever--and for weeks he lay at death’s door. The

expense of all this so reduced them that they had to sell the best of

their furniture to pay doctor’s bills, over £20, and to keep going

until he could start work again. Then the doctor said he must not go

back to his work as a mason, and he had to take a job at labouring

work. This and short time brought his income down to 14s. per week,

and to make ends meet the wife had to go out cleaning. She had been

parlourmaid. She continued to do so until near the birth of her fourth

child, who was very delicate and suffered from abscesses. The mother

told me she did not know how to get sufficient food for them. When her

fifth child was born she had a bad time and the child appeared very

backward, but it was not until it was two years old that they knew its

brain was affected. He is in his sixth year, and can only say a few

words, and has never come downstairs, always had to be carried, and

at times is violent; if thwarted in what he wants to do will go into

violent tempers and throw anything he may have in his hand. He will

also put a rope round the neck of the younger child to play horses,

and has no control over bowels. A sad case indeed. The youngest child

is in his fourth year, and can only walk two or three yards without

help. He cannot say a word yet. I am beginning to be afraid he may be

dumb. Both his hands are deformed, and he has no control over bowels,

and has been ruptured from birth. Doctors say they cannot perform any

operation until he is stronger. When the mother asked the doctor how

it was her children were so delicate, he turned to her and said in the

kindest possible manner, “Ask the mother,” showing that it was due, in

his opinion, to the weak state she was in previous to their birth. I do

not think the two youngest will ever be able to work for themselves.

The mother looks almost distracted at times. I have known her from

girlhood, and pity her most sincerely.

_Six children._

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