52. “GET VERY LITTLE PITY.”

I am the mother of a large family, but I am glad to say they are fast

growing up, as their ages range from twenty-eight down to five years,

so that I feel I can speak from experience, if anyone can. I must say

that although it is a time that women suffer terribly, yet it is a time

when they get very little pity, as it is looked upon as quite a natural

state of things. I have myself got up in the morning, unable to partake

of any breakfast, and tried to get about my work, and had to sit down

in every chair I have got to with my brush in my hand. Then after

confinement, as soon as I could sit up in bed, having such a large

family, I have had to sit with my needle in my hand. But all this does

no good, but only tends to keep a woman’s health down. When I had my

first miscarriage--it happened in October--and I crawled about all the

winter, and well on into the next summer, like a person in consumption;

in fact, it was generally thought that I was. And, of course, all those

months we were obliged to have a woman in, as I could do nothing. So I

think if anything could be done to lessen the sufferings of the coming

generations, I for one should be in great favour of it, as of course,

if it is too late for me to benefit by it, I have daughters growing up,

and sons’ wives to think of. Suffering as I have done, it is really a

time when extra funds are needed, so that one could pay a little to

have anything done, instead of having to do it themselves.

_Wages 17s. 8d.; nine children, six miscarriages._

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