1. Make divorce as easy, as cheap, and as private as marriage.

2. Grant divorce at the request of either party, whether the other

consents or not; and admit no other ground than the request, which

should be made without stating any reasons.

3. Confine the power of dissolving marriage for misconduct to the

State acting on the petition of the king's proctor or other suitable

functionary, who may, however, be moved by either party to intervene in

ordinary request cases, not to prevent the divorce taking place, but to

enforce alimony if it be refused and the case is one which needs it.

4. Make it impossible for marriage to be used as a punishment as it

is at present. Send the husband and wife to penal servitude if you

disapprove of their conduct and want to punish them; but do not send

them back to perpetual wedlock.

5. If, on the other hand, you think a couple perfectly innocent and well

conducted, do not condemn them also to perpetual wedlock against their

wills, thereby making the treatment of what you consider innocence on

both sides the same as the treatment of what you consider guilt on both

sides.

6. Place the work of a wife and mother on the same footing as other

work: that is, on the footing of labor worthy of its hire; and provide

for unemployment in it exactly as for unemployment in shipbuilding or an

other recognized bread-winning trade.

7. And take and deal with all the consequences of these acts of justice

instead of letting yourself be frightened out of reason and good sense

by fear of consequences. We must finally adapt our institutions to human

nature. In the long run our present plan of trying to force human nature

into a mould of existing abuses, superstitions, and corrupt interests,

produces the explosive forces that wreck civilization.

8. Never forget that if you leave your law to judges and your religion

to bishops, you will presently find yourself without either law or

religion. If you doubt this, ask any decent judge or bishop. Do NOT ask

somebody who does not know what a judge is, or what a bishop is, or

what the law is, or what religion is. In other words, do not ask your

newspaper. Journalists are too poorly paid in this country to know

anything that is fit for publication.

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