CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE

First among these is the habit of allowing ourselves to be bound not

only by the truths of the Christian religion but by the excesses and

extravagances which the Christian movement acquired in its earlier days

as a violent reaction against what it still calls paganism. By far the

most dangerous of these, because it is a blasphemy against life, and,

to put it in Christian terms, an accusation of indecency against God, is

the notion that sex, with all its operations, is in itself absolutely

an obscene thing, and that an immaculate conception is a miracle.

So unwholesome an absurdity could only have gained ground under two

conditions: one, a reaction against a society in which sensual luxury

had been carried to revolting extremes, and, two, a belief that the

world was coming to an end, and that therefore sex was no longer a

necessity. Christianity, because it began under these conditions,

made sexlessness and Communism the two main practical articles of its

propaganda; and it has never quite lost its original bias in these

directions. In spite of the putting off of the Second Coming from

the lifetime of the apostles to the millennium, and of the great

disappointment of the year 1000 A.D., in which multitudes of Christians

seriously prepared for the end of the world, the prophet who announces

that the end is at hand is still popular. Many of the people who

ridicule his demonstrations that the fantastic monsters of the book

of Revelation are among us in the persons of our own political

contemporaries, and who proceed sanely in all their affairs on the

assumption that the world is going to last, really do believe that there

will be a Judgment Day, and that it MIGHT even be in their own time.

A thunderstorm, an eclipse, or any very unusual weather will make them

apprehensive and uncomfortable.

This explains why, for a long time, the Christian Church refused to have

anything to do with marriage. The result was, not the abolition of sex,

but its excommunication. And, of course, the consequences of persuading

people that matrimony was an unholy state were so grossly carnal, that

the Church had to execute a complete right-about-face, and try to make

people understand that it was a holy state: so holy indeed that it could

not be validly inaugurated without the blessing of the Church. And by

this teaching it did something to atone for its earlier blasphemy. But

the mischief of chopping and changing your doctrine to meet this or that

practical emergency instead of keeping it adjusted to the whole scheme

of life, is that you end by having half-a-dozen contradictory doctrines

to suit half-a-dozen different emergencies. The Church solemnized and

sanctified marriage without ever giving up its original Pauline doctrine

on the subject. And it soon fell into another confusion. At the point at

which it took up marriage and endeavored to make it holy, marriage was,

as it still is, largely a survival of the custom of selling women to

men. Now in all trades a marked difference is made in price between

a new article and a second-hand one. The moment we meet with this

difference in value between human beings, we may know that we are in the

slave-market, where the conception of our relations to the persons sold

is neither religious nor natural nor human nor superhuman, but simply

commercial. The Church, when it finally gave its blessing to marriage,

did not, in its innocence, fathom these commercial traditions.

Consequently it tried to sanctify them too, with grotesque results. The

slave-dealer having always asked more money for virginity, the Church,

instead of detecting the money-changer and driving him out of the

temple, took him for a sentimental and chivalrous lover, and, helped by

its only half-discarded doctrine of celibacy, gave virginity a heavenly

value to ennoble its commercial pretensions. In short, Mammon, always

mighty, put the Church in his pocket, where he keeps it to this day,

in spite of the occasional saints and martyrs who contrive from time to

time to get their heads and souls free to testify against him.

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