CHAPTER X. COURAGE, RESIGNATION, SUBLIMATION, PATIENCE, THE WISH,

AND ANHEDONIA

In the preceding chapter we spoke of the feeling of energy and

certain of the basic emotions--such as fear, anger, joy, sorrow,

disgust, surprise and admiration. It is important to know that

rarely does a man react to any life situation in which the

feeling of energy is not an emotional constituent and governs in

a general way that reaction. Moreover, fear, anger, joy and the

other feelings described mingle with this energy feeling and so

are built great systems of the affective life.

1. Courage is one of these systems. It is not merely the absence

of fear that constitutes courage, though we interchange

"fearless" with "courageous." Frequently it is the conquest of

fear by the man himself that leads him to the highest courage.

There is a type of courage based on the lack of imagination, the

inability to see ahead the disaster that lurks around every

corner. There is another type of courage based on the philosophy

that to lose control of oneself is the greatest disaster. There

are the nobly proud, whose conception of "ought," of "noblesse

oblige," makes them the real aristocrats of the race.

The fierce, the predisposed to anger are usually courageous.

Unrestrained anger tends to break down imagination and foresight;

caution disappears and the smallest will attack the largest. In

racial propaganda, one way to arouse courage is to arouse anger.

The enemy is represented as all that is despicable and mean and

as threatening the women and children, religion, or the flag. It

is not sufficient to arouse hate, for hate may fear. While

individuals of a fierce type may be cowards, and the gentle often

enough are heroes, the history of the race shows that physical

courage resides more with the fierce races than with the gentle.

Those who feel themselves superior in strength and energy are

much more apt to be courageous than those who feel themselves

inferior. In fact, the latter have to force themselves to

courage, whereas the former's courage is spontaneous. Men do not

fear to be alone in a house as women do, largely because men feel

themselves equal to coping with intruders, who are sure to be

men, while women do not. One of the early signs of chronic

sickness is a feeling of fear, a loss of courage, based on a

feeling of inferiority to emergencies. The Spartans made it part

of that development of courage for which their name stands, to

develop the physique of both their men and women. Their example,

in rational measure, should be followed by all education, for

courage is essential to nobility of character. I emphasize that

such training should be extended to both male and female, for we

cannot expect to have a timorous mother efficiently educate her

boy to be brave, to say nothing of the fact that her own

happiness and efficiency rest on courage.

Tradition is a mighty factor in the production of courage. To

feel that something is expected of one because one's ancestors

lived up to a high standard becomes a guiding feeling in life.

Not to be inferior, not to disappoint expectation, to maintain

the tradition that a "So-and-So" never shows the white feather,

makes, heroes of the soldiers of famous regiments, of firemen and

policemen, of priests, of the scions of distinguished families,

aye, even of races. To every man in the grip of a glorious

tradition it seems as if those back of him are not really dead,

as if they stand with him, and speak with his voice and act in

his deeds. The doctor who knows of the martyrs of his profession

and knows that in the code of his calling there are no diseases

he must hesitate to face, goes with equanimity where others who

are braver in facing death of other kinds do not dare to enter.

Courage is competitive, courage is cooperative, as is every other

phase of the mental life of men. We gather courage as we watch a

fellow worker face his danger with a brave spirit, for we will

not be outdone. Amour propre will not permit us to cringe or give

in, though we are weary to death of a struggle. But also we

thrill with a common feeling at the sight of the hero holding his

own, we are enthused by it, we wish to be with him; and his

shining example moves us to a fellowship in courage. We find

courage in the belief that others are "with us," whether that

courage faces physical or moral danger. To be "with" a man is to

more than double his resources of strength, intelligence and

courage; it is more than an addition, for it multiplies all his

virtues and eliminates his defects. The sum total is the Hero. I

wonder if there really ever has been a truly lonely hero, if

always there has not been some one who said, "I have faith in

you; I am with you!" If a man has lacked human backing, he has

said to himself, "The Highest of all is with me, though I seem to

stand alone. God gives me courage!"

In a profoundly intellectual way, courage depends on a feeling

that one is useful, not futile. Men lose courage, in the sense of

brave and determined effort, when it seems as if progress has

ceased and their place in the world has disappeared. This one

sees frequently in middle-aged men, who find themselves relegated

to secondary places by younger men, who feel that they are

slipping and soon will be dependents.

Hope, the foreseeing of a possible success, is necessary for most

courage, though now and then despair acts with a courage that is

largely pride. The idea of a future world has given more courage

to man in his difficulties than all other conceptions together,

for the essence of the belief in immortality is to transfer hope

and success from the tangle of this world to the clear,

untroubled heavenly other world.

2. Here we must consider other, related qualities. The office of

intelligence is to adjust man to a complex world, to furnish

pathways to a goal which instinct perhaps chooses. Suppose a goal

reached,--say marriage is entered upon with the one that we think

is to give us that satisfaction and happiness we long for. The

marriage does not so result, either because we have expected too

much, or because the partner falls below a reasonable

expectation, or because contradictory elements in the natures of

the wedded pair cannot be reconciled. Unity is not reached;

disunion results, almost, let us say, from the very start. What

happens?

Many adjustments may take place. A crude one is that the pair,

after much quarreling, decide to separate or become divorced, or

on a still cruder, ignoble level, one or the other runs away,

deserts the family. A common adjustment, of an anti-social kind,

forms the basis of much of modern and ancient literature; the

partners seek compensation elsewhere, enter into illicit love

affairs and maintain a dual existence which rarely is peaceful or

happy. Indeed, the nature of the situation, with outraged

conscience and fear of exposure, prevents happiness.

But there are those who in such a situation do what is known as

"make the best of it." They avoid quarrels, they keep up the

pretense of affection, they seek to discover the good qualities

in the mate; they are, as we say, resigned to the situation. To

be resigned is to accept an evil with calmness and equanimity,

but without energy. Resignation and courage are closely related,

though the former is a rather pallid member of the family. The

poor and the miserable everywhere practise this virtue; the

church has raised it perforce to the most needed of qualities; it

is a sort of policy of nonresistance to the evils of the world

and one's own lot.

But resignation represents only one type of legitimate

adjustment, of sublimation. By sublimation is meant the process

of using the energy of a repressed desire and purpose for some

"higher" end. Thus in the case of domestic unhappiness the man

may plunge himself deeply into work and even be unconscious of

the source of his energy. This type of adjustment is thus a form

of compensation and is seen everywhere. In the case of many a

woman who gives herself over to her children without stint you

may find this sublimation against the disappearance of romance,

even if no actual unhappiness exists. Where a woman is childless,

perforce and not per will, an intense communal activity often

develops, leading to good if that activity is intelligent,

leading to harm if it is not. For sublimation develops the crank

and pest as well as the reformer. In every half-baked reform

movement you find those who are striving to sublimate for a

thwarted instinct or purpose.[1]

[1] The historian, Higginson, put it well when he said

substantially, "There is a fringe of insanity around all reform."

Sublimation is the mark of the personality that will not admit

defeat even to itself. The one who does admit defeat becomes

resigned or seeks illicit compensation,--other men, other women,

drink. Freud and his followers believe that the neurasthenic or

hysteric is striving to find compensation through his symptoms or

that he seeks to fly from the situation that way. I believe that

the symptoms of the neurasthenic and hysteric often find a use in

this way, but are not caused by an effort for compensation. That

is, a neurasthenic may learn that his or her pains or aches give

advantages in sympathy, relief from hard tasks or disagreeable

situations; that they cover up or are an excuse for failure and

inferiority,--but the symptoms arise originally from defects in

character or because of the physical and social situation.

Nevertheless, it is well to keep in mind, when dealing with the

"nervous," that often enough their weaknesses are related to

something they may gain through them. This I have called

elsewhere "Will to power through weakness," and it is as old as

Adam and Eve. The weak have their wills and their weapons as have

the strong.

The highest sublimation, in the face of an insuperable obstacle

to purpose or an inescapable life situation, finds a socially

useful substitute in philanthropy, kindness, charity, achievement

of all sorts; the lowest seeks it in a direct but illicit

compensation for the self and in a way that merely increases the

social and personal confusion; and a pathological sublimation in

part, at least, manifests itself iii sickness. These are the

three leading forms, but it must be remembered that there are no

pure types in character; a man may sublimate nobly when his

domestic happiness is threatened but cheat when his business

purposes are blocked; a woman may compensate finely for

childlessness but "go all to pieces" because hair is growing on

her face and the beauty she cherishes must go. Contradictions of

all sorts exist, and he is wise who does not expect too great

consistency from himself or others.

3. "Man," says Hocking, "can prolong the vestibule of his desire

through infinity." By the vestibule of desire this philosopher

means the deferring of satisfaction for any impulse or desire. We

love, but we can wait for love's fulfillment; we desire

achievement, but we can work and watch the approach of our goal.

Something we desire is directly ahead, almost in our reach,--

fame, love, riches, vindication, anything you please from the

sensuous to the sublime satisfaction; and then an obstacle, a

delay, appears, and the vestibule is lengthened out. A man may

even plan for the satisfaction he can never hope to have, and in

his greatest ideal that vestibule reaches through eternity.

That quality which enables a man to work and wait, to stand the

deferring of hope and desire, is patience. The classic figure of

patience sitting on a monument is wrong, for she must sit on the

eager desires of man. Nor is patience only the virtue of the good

and farseeing, for we find patience in the rogue and schemer.

Altruists may be patient or impatient, and so may be the selfish.

Like most of the qualities, patience is to be judged by the

company it keeps.

Nevertheless, the impatient are very often those of small

purposes and are rarely those of great achievement. For all great

purposes have to be spread over time, have to overcome obstacles,

and these must be met with courage and patience. Impatience is

fussiness, fretfulness and a prime breeder of neurasthenia.

Patience is realistic, and though it may seek perfection it puts

up with imperfection as a part of human life. But here I am

drifting into an error against which I warned the reader,--of

making an entity of a conception. People are patient or

impatient, but not necessarily throughout. There are men and

women who fuss and fume over trifles who never falter or fret

when their larger purposes are blocked or deferred. Some cannot

stand detail who plan wisely and with patience. Vice versa, there

are meticulous folk, little people, whose petty obstacles are met

with patience and cheerfulness, who revel in minute detail, but

who want returns soon and cannot wait a long time. We are not to

ask of any man whether he is patient but rather what does he

stand or do patiently? What renders him impatient?

A form of impatience of enormous social importance is that which

manifests itself in cure-alls. A man finds that his will

overcomes some obstacles. Eager to apply this, he announces that

will cures all ills. Impatient of evil, men seek to annihilate it

by denying its existence or by loudly chanting that good thoughts

will destroy it. These are typical impatient solutions in the

sphere of religion; in the sphere of economics men urge

nationalization, free trade, socialism or laissez faire, or some

law or other to change social structure and human nature. War

itself is the most impatient and consequently most socially

destructive method of the methods of the treatment of evil.

While patience is a virtue, it may also be a vice. One may bear

wrongs too patiently or defer satisfaction too long. One meets

every day men and women who help injustice and iniquity by their

patience. We are too patient, at least with the wrongs of others;

perhaps we really do not feel this intensely or for any length of

time. In fact, the difficulty with most of the preaching of life

is its essential insincerity, for it counsels patience for that

which it feels but little. We bear the troubles of others, on the

whole, very well. Nevertheless, there are Griseldas everywhere

whom one would respect far more if they rebelled against their

tyrants and taskmasters. Organized wrong and oppression owe their

existence mainly to the habitual patience of the oppressed. To be

meek and mild and long-suffering in a world containing plenty of

egoists and cannibalistic types is to give them supremacy.[1] We

admire patience only when it is part of a plan of action, not

when it is the mark of a passive nature.

[1] Here the ideals of East and West clash. The East, bearing a

huge burden of misery and essentially pessimistic, exhorts

patience. The West, eager and full of hope, is impatient.

4. Because man foresees he wishes. Rather than the reasoning

animal, we might speak of the human being as the wishing animal.

An automatically working instinct would produce no wish. The

image of something which has been experienced arouses an

excitement akin to the secretion of saliva at the thought of

food. The wish which accompanies the excitement is a

dissatisfaction, a tingling, an incomplete pleasurable emotional

state which presses to action. Sensuous pleasure, power,

conformity to the ideal, whatever direction the wish takes, are

sought because of the wish. Right education is to train towards

right wishing.

Because the wish is the prelude to action, it became all powerful

in mythology and superstition. Certain things would help you get

your wishes, others would obstruct them. Wishes became animate

and had power,--power to destroy an enemy, power to help a

friend, power to bring good to yourself. But certain ceremonies

had to be observed, and certain people, magicians and priests had

to be utilized in order to give the wish its power. Wisdom and

magic were mainly the ways of obtaining wishes. Childhood still

holds to this, and prayer is a faith that your wish, if placed

before the All-Mighty, will be fulfilled.

Since wishing brings a pleasurable excitement, it has its

dangers, in the daydream where wishes are fulfilled without

effort. Power, glory, beauty and admiration are obtained; the

ugly Duckling becomes the Swan, Cinderella becomes the Princess,

Jack kills the Giant and is honored by all men; the girl becomes

the beauty and heroine of romance; the boy becomes the Hero,

taking over power, wealth and beauty as his due. The world of

romance is largely the wish-world, as is the most of the stage.

The happy ending is our wish-fulfillment, and only the

sophisticated and highly cultured object to it. Moulding the

world to the heart's desire has been the principal business of

stage, novel and song.

In the normal relations of life, the wish is the beginning of

will, as something definitely related to a future goal. He who

wishes finds his way to planning and to patient endeavor, IF

training, circumstances and essential character meet. To wish

much is the first step in acquiring much,--but only the first

step. For many it is almost the only step, and in the popular

phrase these have a "wishbone in the place of a backbone." They

are the daydreamers, the inveterate readers of novels, who carry

into adult life what is relatively normal in the child. The

introspective are this latter type; rarely indeed do the

objective personalities spend much time in wishing. Undoubtedly

it is from the introspective that the wish as a symbol and worker

of power gained its influence and meaning. This transformation of

the wish to a power is found in all primitive thought, in the

power of the blessing and the curse, in the delusions of certain

of the insane who build up the belief in their greatness out of

the wish to be great; and in our days New Thought and kindred

beliefs are modernized forms of this ancient fallacy.

It is a comforting thought to those who seek an optimistic point

of view that most men wish to do right. Very few, indeed,

deliberately wish to do wrong. But the difficulty lies in this,

that this wish to do right camouflages all their wishes, no

matter what their essential character. Thus the contestants on

either side of any controversy color as right their opposing

wishes, and cruelties even if they burn people at the stake for

heresy, kill and ruin, degrade and cheat, lie and steal. Thus has

arisen the dictum, "The end justifies the means." The good

desired hallows the methods used, and all kinds of evil have

resulted. Practical wisdom believes that up to a certain point

you must seek your purpose with all the methods at hand. But the

temptation to go farther always operates; a man starts to do

something a little underhanded in behalf of his noble wish and

finds himself committed to conduct unqualifiedly evil.

5. There are certain other emotional states associated with

energy and the energy feeling of great interest. What we call

eagerness, enthusiasm, passion, refers to the intensity of an

instinct, wish, desire or purpose. In childhood this energy is

quite striking; it is one of the great charms of childhood and is

a trait all adults envy. For it is the disappearance of passion,

eagerness and enthusiasm that is the tragedy of old age and which

really constitutes getting old. Youth anticipates with eagerness

and relishes with keen satisfaction. The enthusiasm of typical

youth is easily aroused and sweeps it on to action, a feature

called impulsiveness. Sympathy, pity, hope, sex feeling--all the

self-feelings and all the other feelings--are at once more lively

and more demonstrative in youth, and thus it is that in youth the

reform spirit is at its height and recedes as time goes on. What

we call "experience" chills enthusiasm and passion, but though

hope deferred and a realization of the complexity of human

affairs has a moderating, inhibiting result, there is as much or

more importance to be attached to bodily changes. If you could

attach to the old man's experience and knowledge the body of

youth, with its fresher arteries, more resilient muscles and

joints, its exuberant glands and fresh bodily juices,--desire,

passion, enthusiasm would return. In the chemistry of life,

passion and enthusiasm arise; sickness, fatigue, experience and

time are their antagonists.

This is not to deny that these energy manifestations can be

aroused from the outside. That is the purpose of teaching and

preaching; the purpose of writer and orator. There is a social

spread of enthusiasm that is the most marked feature of crowds

and assemblies, and this eagerness makes a unit of thousands of

diverse personalities. Further, the problem of awakening

enthusiasm and desire is the therapeutic problem of the physician

and especially in the condition described as anhedonia.

In anhedonia, as first described by Ribot, mentioned by James,

and which has recently been worked up by myself as a group of

symptoms in mental and nervous disease, as well as in life in

general, there is a characteristic lack of enthusiasm in

anticipation and realization, a lack of appetite and desire, a

lack of satisfaction. Nothing appeals, and the values drop out of

existence. The victims of anhedonia at first pass from one

"pleasure" to another, hoping each will please and satisfy, but

it does not. Food, drink, work, play, sex, music, art,--all have

lost their savor. Restless, introspective, with a feeling of

unreality gripping at his heart, the patient finds himself

confronting a world that has lost meaning because it has lost

enthusiasm in desire and satisfaction.

How does this unhappy state arise? In the first place, from the

very start of life people differ in the quality of eagerness.

There is a wide variability in these qualities. Of two infants

one will call lustily for whatever he wants, show great glee in

anticipating, great eagerness in seeking, and a high degree of

satisfaction when his desire is gratified. And another will be

lackadaisical in his appetite, whimsical, "hard to please" and

much more difficult to keep pleased. Fatigue will strip the

second child of the capacity to eat and sleep, to say nothing of

his desires for social pleasures, whereas it will only dampen the

zeal and eagerness of the first child. There is a hearty simple

type of person who is naively eager and enthusiastic, full of

desire, passion and enthusiasm, who finds joy and satisfaction in

simple things, whose purposes do not grow stale or monotonous;

there is a finicky type, easily displeased and dissatisfied,

laying weight on trifles, easily made anhedonic, victims of any

reduction in their own energy (which is on the whole low) or of

any disagreeable event. True, these sensitive folk are creators

of beauty and the esthetic, but also they are the victims of the

malady we are here discussing.

Aside from this temperament, training plays its part. I think it

a crime against childhood to make its joys complex or

sophisticated. Too much adult company and adult amusements are

destructive of desire and satisfaction to the child. A boy or

girl whose wishes are at once gratified gets none of the pleasure

of effort and misses one of the essential lessons of life.--that

pleasure and satisfaction must come from the chase and not from

the quarry, from the struggle and effort as well as from the

goal. Montaigne, that wise skeptic, lays much homely emphasis on

this, as indeed all wise men do. But too great a struggle, too

desperate an effort, exhausts, and as a runner lies panting and

motionless at the tape, so we all have seen men reach a desired

place after untold privation and sacrifice and who then found

that there seemed to be no energy, no zeal or desire, no

satisfaction left for them. The too eager and enthusiastic are

exposed, like all the overemotional, to great recessions, great

ebbs, in the volume of their feeling and feel for a time the

direst pain in all experience, the death in life of anhedonia.

After an illness, particularly influenza, when recovery has

seemingly taken place, there develops a lack of energy feeling

and the whole syndrome of anhedonia which lasts until the subtle

damage done by the disease passes off. Half or more of the

"nervousness" in the world is based on actual physical trouble,

and the rest relates to temperament.

When a great purpose or desire has been built up, has drained all

the enthusiasm of the individual and then suddenly becomes

blocked, as in a love affair, or when a business is threatened or

crashes or when beauty starts to leave,--then one sees the

syndrome of anhedonia in essential purity. A great fear, or an

obsessive moral struggle (as when one fights hopelessly against

temptation), has the same effect. The enthusiasm of purpose and

the eagerness of appetite go at once, in certain delicate people,

when pride is seriously injured or when a once established

superiority is crumbled. The humiliated man is anhedonic, even if

he is a philosopher.

The most striking cases are seen in men who have been swung from

humdrum existence to the exciting, disagreeable life of war and

then back to their former life. The former task cannot be taken

up or is carried on with great effort; the zest of things has

disappeared, and what was so longed for while in the service

seems flat and stale, especially if it is now realized that there

are far more interesting fields of effort. In a lesser degree,

the romances that girls feed on unfit them for sober realities,

and the expectation of marriage built up by romantic novel and

theater do far more harm than good. The triangle play or story is

less mischievous than the one which paints married life as an

amorous glow.

One could write a volume on eagerness, enthusiasm and passion,

satisfaction and dissatisfaction. Life, to be worth the living,

must have its enthusiasms, must swing constantly from desire to

satisfaction, or else seems void and painful. Great purposes are

the surest to maintain enthusiasm, little purposes become flat.

He who hitches his wagon to a star must risk indeed, but there is

a thrill to his life outweighing the joy of minor success.

To reenthuse the apathetic is an individual problem. When the

lowered pressure of the energy feeling is physical in origin,

then rest and exercise, massage hydrotherapy, medicines

(especially the bitter tonics), change of scene are valuable. And

even where the cause is not in illness, these procedures have

great value for in stimulating the organism the function of

enthusiasm is recharged. But one does not neglect the value of

new hopes, new interests, friendship, physical pleasure and above

all a new philosophy, a philosophy based on readjustment and the

nobility of struggle. Not all people can thus be reached, for in

some, perhaps many cases, the loss of these desires is the

beginning of mental disease, but patient effort and intelligent

sympathetic understanding still work their miracles.

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