Life’s Handicaps (1918)

One day a group of Galilean people wanted to carry a sick friend to

Jesus to be healed. He was in a house, and when they came near they found

such a crowd about the doors and windows that they could not get in. Not

to be defeated in their purpose, they cut an opening through the roof and

let the sick man, bed and all, down to where the Great Physician was.

Of course, the result was that the afflicted person received the gift of a

whole body as the reward for their insistent attitude. The story is simply

another version of the value of importunity in seeking the gifts of the

Great Helper.

This story of the long ago indicates one of the great principles of life,

and one which has played a part in the activities and struggles of every

age. It suggests that one may at any time have to reckon with handicaps,

but that there is usually a way to overcome them if one has the will to

seek and follow that way. There is something highly admirable about the

spirit of this group of people who, when they could not accomplish their

desire in one way, promptly found another in which they could

accomplish it.

The Scriptures say a good many things by implication which they do not say

in exactly so many words. It is said that in an experience meeting in

which the attendants fell to quoting favorite passages of Scripture, an

old lady arose and stated that of all the beautiful and helpful Scripture

texts in which she had found strength and comfort, her favorite was this:

“Grin and bear it.” The Bible does not contain such a text, but it does

contain such a teaching, and the old lady was not so far wrong after all.

This Scripture story of the sick man and his friends suggests another

adage of the world, which has expression at least by implication in the

Scriptures. The Bible does not contain such a text as: “Where there’s a

will there’s a way,” yet such is the exact teaching implied in the story

outlined above.

Along whatever way one’s path may happen to lie, and whatever may be the

task which he undertakes to perform, his life would be utterly unnatural

if it were devoid of difficulties. A life without handicaps would be no

more natural than a summer without showers or a year without a winter.

It is not even desirable that one should live without encountering more or

less resistance to his efforts to realize his best and highest hopes.

Furthermore, these difficulties are often unforeseen. They cannot be

calculated, but they must be allowed for. At the beginning of the carrying

out of any enterprise, the proper thing to do is to reckon one’s resources

and to count the cost. At the beginning of any journey, the barriers in

the way must be a calculation in the plan. At the outset of any endeavor,

one must realize that not every part of his task will be altogether easy.

If it were, the finished product would hardly be worth while, and

certainly the toiler himself would not have benefited largely from his

labor. Difficulties, expected and unexpected, are as certain to come as is

the succession of the days and nights.

Life is frequently likened to a race. It is true that it is a progress

toward a goal, and that in it there are many who are contending against

each other for what they look upon as a victory. Life is not a race,

however, in which every element of the situation is ideal for every

runner. It is only in dreams where such perfect conditions may be found.

In the hard facts of life it is otherwise. In the real race each

contestant has at least some odds against him.

Life, then, is a race in which each runner is hampered with a handicap.

Each situation presents some difficulty, and occasionally the most

brilliant of successes is made in spite of this hindrance. The ideal race

would not be one without handicaps. It is rather one in which a man plays

his part well in spite of handicaps. The ideal victory is not that which

is won because the contestant had everything in his favor. It is rather

the one which is gained in spite of the odds which the contestant had

against him.

Homer and Milton were blind, yet each won for himself a secure place among

the world’s small group of immortal poets. It would have been easy for

either to have made his affliction an excuse for failure. Instead, each

made his handicap an added reason for success. Each learned to glimpse a

glory which is hidden to most who are blessed with faultless vision.

Demosthenes was born with a faulty utterance and with a hollow chest.

Nevertheless, he conceived a great desire to be an orator. Most men would

have found their physical unfitness a sufficient handicap to discourage

them from any effort. Demosthenes determined to overcome the hindrances

which had been born with him. He sought a remote and secluded place,

shaved his head in order that he might not soon venture back among his

friends, and exercised his voice and body until the weakness of both had

been overcome. All the world is familiar with the final results of

his efforts.

On the day when Demosthenes was uttering the amazing words which so

tellingly advocated his right to receive a crown at the hands of his

fellow citizens, the explanation of his achievement did not lie in his

birth. It lay rather in the fact that he had willed to overcome the

limitations with which nature had surrounded him. It is true that he had

seized a psychological moment, but he was able to seize that moment

because he had not feared the long period of painstaking effort which had

been necessary to overcome his handicaps. The secret of his success was

not opportunity, but toil. He had merely refused to surrender to the

forces which would have destroyed the usefulness of many men. His triumph

was but the result of a task patiently performed in spite of

its difficulty.

During the last century, Spain produced a remarkable artist in the person

of Daniel Vierge. He attained eminence in his work while still a young

man. At the early age of thirty, however, he suffered complete paralysis

of the right side. It would have been easy to have admitted that his work

with the brush and pencil was done, and to have resigned himself to what

seemed to be a hard fate. Such was not his spirit, however. He had no

intention of relinquishing the tools of his art. He still had the use of

his left arm, and he determined that it should be trained to possess the

power which the other had lost.

The long and tedious period of training had to be gone through again. He

accomplished his task, however, and in spite of the difficulty which he

had encountered he learned to draw nearly as well with his left hand as

he had ever been able to do with the other. By making the most of the one

resource which was left to him, he managed to retain his place in the

front rank of his profession as an illustrator. The work which he produced

after his affliction can scarcely be distinguished in quality from his

earlier efforts.

Dr. Holmes once said that the best way to live long is to become afflicted

with some serious disease. What he meant was that such an affliction

sometimes teaches people the care of their bodies, when enduring health

would leave them utterly careless of the essential laws of well-being. It

does sometimes happen that, even in this regard, a handicap is found to be

a helpful thing. There are cases on record which tell the story of renewed

effort to cultivate health and strength, when life was rapidly slipping

away, and of the crowning of that effort with success, health, and

long life.

The old story of the hare and the tortoise is re-enacted daily in modern

life. The battle does not always go to the strong, nor is victory in the

race the inevitable portion of the swift. The winner is more apt to be the

patient toiler who has chosen a purpose, and who struggles in the

direction of his goal in spite of handicaps. His progress may not always

be swift, but it is at least continuous.

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