CHAPTER XII

PREVENTION OF PREGNANCY

This morning I received a letter which says in part, "I am a young

school teacher and do not know lots I should, but will come to you for

advice. Now I am engaged to the dearest boy in the world. I will do my

best to be a good wife and do my duty. But my health is not so very good

and I want to put off motherhood for awhile. Will you kindly tell me

some remedy that will keep me from becoming pregnant? I have long wanted

to ask someone but always was afraid. Mother never tells me anything."

This is the type of question that is asked every physician many times.

Those who do not ask, wish to--and blame physicians for not telling the

things they want to know. What is my answer to such a question? Just

this:

There is in effect a federal statute making it a felony punishable by

$5,000 fine and five years at hard labor to impart any information

_whatever_ relating to the preventing of conception. The information may

concern a thing, an instrument, or it need not be any material substance

at all--only a "method." I obey that law as I am not foolhardy enough to

walk into absolute danger.

Every day we see examples of heart-breaking misery caused by lack of

knowledge of the proper means of prevention. The limitation of the

number of offspring has become an important problem to be considered.

There are thousands of families that would be perfectly happy if the

number of offspring could be limited. There are thousands of young men

who would be glad to get married but are afraid to do so for fear of

having a family larger than they could supply with the necessities of

life. These same young men, because they are not married, frequent

questionable houses and often contract one or more of the venereal

diseases.

There are thousands of women who have become semi-invalids because of a

too prolific offspring. The babies came so fast the mother had no

opportunity to regain her health and strength. There are other thousands

of women who are made invalids because of attempts at abortion, or have

been driven into early graves by these attempts, while some have

actually killed themselves.

There are thousands of children half starved because their parents are

unable to supply them the necessities of life. There are other thousands

of children below par mentally and physically because of the fact that

the mother was weak from too frequent child-bearing. There are other

thousands of children born of syphilitic, tubercular or epileptic

parents who never should have been born at all because they came into

life so handicapped and had to fight against such severe odds that they,

after a brief struggle, met an early death. There are children brought

into this world amidst cursing who never hear much else.

We find it necessary to regulate the parentage of our domestic animals

in order to insure a good race. But children can come by chance. The

most degraded of men is allowed to beget children of his kind. There is

small chance for race improvement under such conditions. The same laws

hold true as to the future generation of humans as are true of animals

or plants.

Human beings are not mere animals and they should be allowed to decide

how many children they should have. Furthermore, the present laws do not

attain their object. We all pretend to obey the laws but everyone knows

that in every city there are many women, and men also, who make an

excellent income from performing abortions. I would venture to say that

in Chicago alone there is at least one abortion performed every

hour--and Chicago is not so very different from other parts of the

country in this respect. The ways and means to prevent pregnancy are

sold and are bringing a rich reward to their manufacturers. But the

advertisements are so carefully worded that the law is not violated. But

the interested understand. If the manufacturer or his agent were accused

of selling anything to prevent pregnancy, he would simulate great

surprise and possible indignation. He doing such a thing! Impossible!

Why, he is selling a simple hygienic device or drug used in the

treatment of certain diseases.

If we have laws, let us obey them; but if we do not intend to obey them,

let us stop being hypocrites and remove them from the statutes. If the

law remains let us make it far-reaching enough to include those who now

are so flagrantly violating it. But if means for the prevention of

pregnancy are necessary to the health and happiness of the human race,

let us change the laws so we can have the best of these preventives and

allow reputable physicians to give whatever information they can to

prevent this wholesale misuse of a law by the unscrupulous,--the

law-breakers.

A recent investigation carried on by one magazine proved that the

knowledge of how to prevent conception would not mean race suicide, as

some fear. As reported in this magazine, the college girls and

professional women who no doubt had given these subjects careful

consideration, desired children more than did those whose experience had

been a poor home and a large family. The average number of children

desired by the well-informed woman was four. That would not mean

race-suicide! It would mean that children were given a fair start in

life by being desired and planned for before their conception. Every

true woman desires a home and children but she does not wish to be

driven into motherhood. Every true man desires a family but he does not

feel justified in bringing children into the world to be half starved

and with no advantages of education.

What is the solution of the problem?

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