CHAPTER XX.

ABUSES.

Bad seats for children at table and elsewhere. Why children hate Sunday.

Seats at Sabbath school--at church--at district schools. Suspending

children between the heavens and the earth. Cushions to sit on. Seats

with backs. Children in factories. Evils produced. Bodily punishment.

Striking the heads of children very injurious. Beating across the middle

of the body. Anecdote of a teacher. Concluding advice to mothers.

It is difficult to determine, in regard to many things which concern the

management of the young, whether they belong most properly to moral or

physical education; so close is the connection between the two, and so

decidedly does everything, or nearly everything which relates to the

management of the body, have a bearing upon the formation of moral

character. This work might be extended very much farther, did it comport

with my original plan. But I hasten to close the volume, with a few

thoughts on certain abuses of the body, which prevail to a greater or

less extent in families and schools; and to which I have not adverted

elsewhere.

The seats of children are usually bad, both at table and elsewhere. It

seems not enough that we condemn them to the use of knives, forks,

spoons, &c., of the same size with those of adults. We go farther; and

give them chairs of the same height and proportion with our own. There

are a few exceptions to the truth of this remark. Here and there we see

a child's chair, it is true--but not often.

But how unreasonable is it to seat a child in a chair so high that his

feet cannot reach the floor; and so constructed that there is no outer

place on which the feet can rest. What adult would be willing to sit in

so painful a posture, with his legs dangling? No wonder children dislike

to sit much, in such circumstances. And it is a great blessing to both

parent and child that they do. No wonder children hate the Sabbath,

especially in those families where they are compelled to keep the day

holy by sitting motionless! Sabbath schools, though they bring with them

some evil along with a great deal of good, are a relief to the young in

this particular--especially if their seats are more comfortable

elsewhere than at home. They consider it much more tolerable to spend

the morning and intermission of the day in going and returning from

Sabbath school, than in constant and close confinement. They prefer

variety, and the occasional light and air of heaven, to monotony and

seclusion and silence.

It happens, however, that the seats at the Sabbath school and at church,

are not always what they should be; nor, so far as church is concerned,

do I see that this evil can be wholly avoided. Children usually sit with

their parents, in the sanctuary--and they ought to do so: and the height

of the seats cannot, of course, accommodate both. If there is a building

erected solely for the use of the Sabbath school, the seats may be

constructed accordingly, without seriously incommoding anybody; but in

the church, I do not see, as I have once before observed, how the evil

can be remedied.

The greatest trouble in regard to seats, however, is at the day school;

especially in our district or common schools. There, it is usual for

children to be confined six hours a day--and sometimes two in

succession--to hard, narrow, plank seats, a large proportion of which

are without backs, and raised so high that the feet of most of the

pupils cannot possibly touch the floor. There, "suspended," as I have

said in another work, [Footnote: See a "Prize Essay," on School Houses,

page 7.] "between the heavens and the earth, they are compelled to

remain motionless for an hour or an hour and a half together."

I have also shown, in the same essay, that in regard to the desks, and

indeed many other things which pertain to, or are connected with the

school, very little pains is taken to provide for the physical welfare

or even comfort of the pupils; and that a thorough reform on the subject

appears to be indispensable.

When I speak of hard plank seats, let me not be understood as hinting at

the necessity of cushions. When I wrote the essay above mentioned, I did

indeed believe that they were desirable. But I am now opposed to their

use, either by children or adults, even where a laborious employment

would seem to demand a long confinement to this awkward and unnatural

position. If our seats are cushioned, we shall sit too easily. I believe

that our health requires a hard seat; because its very hardness inclines

us to change, frequently, our position.

But if we must sit, be it ever so short a time, our seats should always

have backs; and those which are designed for children, should not be so

high as to render them uncomfortable. Nor should the backs of seats be

so high as they usually are, either for children or adults. They should

never come much higher than the middle of the body. If they reach the

shoulders, they either favor a crouching forward, or interfere with the

free action of the lungs.

This might be deemed a proper place for saying something on the position

of children in manufactories. But here a world of abuse opens upon my

view, the full development of which demands a large volume. How many

crooked spines, emaciated bodies, decaying lungs, as well as scrofulas,

fevers, and consumptions, are either induced or accelerated by these

unnatural employments! I mean they are unnatural for the _young_. As to

employing adults in them, I have nothing at present to say. But when I

think of the cruel custom of placing children in these places, whose

bodies--and were this the place, I might add, _minds_--are immature, and

especially girls, I am compelled, by the voice of conscience, and, as I

trust, by a regard to those laws which God has established in our

physical frames, but which are yet so strangely violated, to protest

against it. Better that no factories should exist, than that children

should be ruined in them as they now are. Better by far that we should

return, were it possible, to the primitive habits of New England--to

those by-gone days when mothers and daughters made the wearing apparel

of themselves and their families--when, if there was less of

intellectual cultivation, and less money expended for luxuries and

extravagances, there was much more of health and happiness.

There is one more species of abuse to which, in closing, I wish to

direct maternal attention. I allude to injudicious modes of inflicting

corporal punishment.

Let me not be understood to appear, in this place, as the advocate of

bodily punishments of any kind; for if they are even admissible under

some circumstances, I am fully convinced that in the way in which they

are commonly administered, they do much more harm than good.

But leaving the question of their utility, in the abstract, wholly

untouched, and taking it for granted, for the present, that they are--as

is undoubtedly the fact--sometimes employed, and will continue to be so

for a great while to come, I proceed to speak of their more flagrant

abuses.

Among these, none are more reprehensible than blows of any kind on the

head. Even the rod is objectionable for this purpose, since it exposes

the eyes. But the hand--in boxing the ears or striking in any way--is

more so. The bones of the head, in young children, are not yet firmly

knit together, and these concussions may injure the tender brain. I

know of whole families, whose mental faculties are dull, as the

consequence--I believe--of a perpetual boxing and striking of the head.

Some individuals are made almost idiots, in this very manner.--But the

worst is not yet told. Many teachers are in the habit of striking their

pupils' heads with thick heavy books; and with wooden rules. I have seen

one of the latter, of considerable size and thickness, broken in two

across the head of a very small boy; and this, too--such is the public

mind--in the presence of a mother who was paying a visit to the school.

I have seen parents and masters strike the heads of their children with

pieces of wood, of much larger size;--in one instance with a common

sized tailor's press-board; in another with the heavy end of a wooden

whip-handle, about an inch in diameter.

Children are sometimes severely beaten across the middle of the

body--the region where lie the vital organs--the lungs, the heart, the

liver, &c. They are sometimes beaten too, across the joints, or in any

place that the excited, perhaps passionate teacher or parent can reach.

Rules and books are thrown with violence at pupils in school. There is a

story in the "Annals of Education," Vol. IV. at page 28, of a teacher

who threw a rule at a little boy, six years old, which struck him with

great force, within an inch of one of his eyes. Had it struck a little

nearer to his nose, it would, in all probability, have destroyed his

left eye.

* * * * *

But without extending these remarks any farther, every intelligent

mother who reads what I have already written, will see, as I trust, the

necessity of properly informing herself on the great subject of physical

education; and of being better prepared than she has hitherto been for

acquitting herself, with satisfaction, of those high and sacred

responsibilities which, in the wise arrangements of Nature and

Providence, devolve upon her.

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