CHAPTER XIII.

LAUGHING.

"Laugh and be fat." Laughing is healthy. A common error. Monastic

notions yet too prevalent on this subject.

Laughing, like crying, has a good effect on the infantile lungs; nor is

it less salutary in other respects. "Laugh and be fat," an old adage,

has its meaning, and also its philosophy.

There is an excess, however, to which laughing, no less than crying, may

be carried, and which we cannot too carefully avoid. But how little to

be envied--how much to be pitied--are they who consider it a weakness

and a sin to laugh, and in the plenitude of their wisdom, tell us that

_the Saviour of mankind never laughed_. When I hear this last assertion,

I am always ready to ask, whether the individual who makes it has read a

new revelation or a new gospel; for certainly none of the sacred books

which I have seen give us any such information.

But I will not dwell here. The common notion on this subject, if not

ridiculous, is certainly strange. I will only add, that, come into vogue

as it might have done, there is no opinion more unfounded than the very

general one among adults, that children should be uniformly grave; and

that just in proportion as they laugh and appear frolicsome, just in the

same proportion are they out of the way, and deserving of reprehension.

It is strange that it should be so, but I have seen many parents who

were miserable because their children were sportive and joyful. Oh, when

will the days of monkish sadness and austerity be over; and the public

sentiment in the christian world get right on this subject!

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