ON LOVE TO ONE'S OFFSPRING.

Sec. I. Appeals to foreign law-courts were first devised among the Greeks

through mistrust of one another's justice, for they looked on justice as

a necessity not indigenous among them. Is it not on much the same

principle that the philosophers, in regard to some of their questions,

owing to their variety of opinion, have appealed to the brute creation

as to a strange state, and submitted the decision to their instincts and

habits as not to be talked over and impartial? Or is it a general

charge against human infirmity that, having different opinions on the

most necessary and important things, we seek in horses and dogs and

birds how to marry and beget and rear children, as though we had no

means of making our own nature known, and appeal to the habits and

instincts of the brute creation, and call them in to bear witness

against the many deviations from nature in our lives, which from the

first are confused and disorderly. For among the brutes nature remains

ever the same, pure and simple, but in men, owing to reason and habit,

like oil in the hands of the perfumers, being mixed up with many added

opinions, it becomes various and loses its original simplicity. And let

us not wonder that the brutes follow nature more closely than human

beings, for in that respect even they are outstripped by inanimate

things, which, being dowered neither with imagination nor any appetite

or inclination contrary to nature, ever continue in the one path which

nature has prescribed for them, as if they were tied and bound. But in

brutes the gentleness of mood inspired by reason, the subtlety, the love

of freedom, are not qualities found in excess, but they have

unreasonable appetites and desires, and act in a roundabout way within

certain limits, riding, as it were, at the anchor of nature, and only

going straight under bit and bridle. But in man reason, which is

absolute master, inventing different modes and fashions of life, has

left no plain or evident trace of nature.[44]

Sec. II. Consider in their marriages how much the animals follow nature.

For they do not wait for any legislation about bachelor or late-married,

like the citizens of Lycurgus and Solon, nor do they fear penalties for

childlessness, nor are they anxious for the _jus trium liberorum_,[45]

like many of the Romans, who only marry and have children for the

privileges it bestows, not to have heirs, but to be qualified for

succeeding themselves to inheritances. Then, again, the male animal

does not go with the female at all times; for its aim is not pleasure

but procreation: so in the season of spring, the most appropriate time

for such pairings,[46] the female being submissive and tender attracts

the male by her beautiful condition of body, coming as she does from the

dew and fresh pastures, and when pregnant modestly retires and takes

thought for the birth and safety of her offspring. We cannot adequately

describe all this, but every animal exhibits for its young affection and

forethought and endurance and unselfishness. We call the bee wise, and

celebrate its "making the yellow honey,"[47] flattering it for its

tickling sweetness; but we neglect the wisdom and ingenuity of other

creatures, both as regards the birth and bringing up of their young. For

example, the kingfisher after conception weaves its nest with the thorns

of the marine needle, making it round and oblong in shape like a

fisherman's basket, and after deftly and closely weaving it together,

subjects it to the action of the sea waves, that its surface may be

rendered waterproof by this plash and cement, and it is hard for even

iron or stone to break it. And what is more wonderful still, so

symmetrically is the entrance of the nest adjusted to the kingfisher's

shape and size, that no beast either greater or smaller can enter it,

they even say that it does not admit the sea, or even the very smallest

things. And cats, when they breed, very often let their kittens go out

and feed, and take them back into their entrails again.[48] And the

bear, a most savage and ugly beast, gives birth to its young without

shape or joints, and with its tongue as with an instrument moulds its

features, so that it seems to give form as well as life to its progeny.

And the lion in Homer, "whom the hunters meet in the wood with its

whelps, exulting in its strength, which so frowns that it hides its

eyes,"[49] does it not intend to bargain with the hunters for its

whelps? For universally the love of animals for their offspring makes

timid ones bold, and lazy ones energetic, and greedy ones unselfish.

And so the bird in Homer, feeding its young "with its beak, with

whatever it has captured, even though it goes ill with itself,"[50]

nourishes its young at the cost of its own hunger, and when the food is

near its maw abstains from it, and holds it tightly in its mouth, that

it may not gulp it down unawares. "And so a bitch bestriding her tender

pups, barks at a strange man, and yearns for the fray,"[51] making her

fear for them a sort of second anger. And partridges when they are

pursued with their young let them fly on, and, contriving their safety,

themselves fly so near the sportsmen as to be almost caught, and then

wheel round, and again fly back and make the sportsmen hope to catch

them, till at last, having thus provided for the safety of their young,

they lead the sportsmen on a long way. As to hens, we see every day how

they watch over their chicks, dropping their wings over some, and

letting others climb on their backs, or anywhere about them, and

clucking for joy all the time: and though they fly from dogs and dragons

when only afraid for themselves, if they are afraid for their chicks

they stand their ground and fight valiantly. Are we to suppose then that

nature has only implanted these instincts in fowls and dogs and bears,

anxious only about their offspring, to put us mortals out of countenance

and to give us a bad name? considering these examples for us to follow,

while disgrace justly attaches to our inhumanity, for mankind only is

accused of having no disinterested affection, and of not knowing how to

love except in regard to advantage. For that line is greatly admired in

the theatres, "Man loves man only for reward," and is the view of

Epicurus, who thinks that the father so loves his son, the mother her

child, children their parents. Whereas, if the brutes could understand

conversation, and if anyone were to introduce horses and cows and dogs

and birds into a common theatre,[52] and were to change the sentiment

into "neither do dogs love their pups, nor horses their foals, nor birds

their young, out of interest, but gratuitously and by nature," it would

be recognized by the affections of all of them to be a true sentiment.

Why it would be disgraceful, great God, that birth and travail and

procreation should be gratis and mere nature among the beasts, while

among mankind they should be merely mercenary transactions!

Sec. III. But such a statement is not true or worthy of credit. For as

nature, in wild growths, such as wild vines, wild figs, or wild olives,

makes the fruit imperfect and inferior to the fruit of cultivated trees,

so has she given to the brutes an imperfect affection for their kind,

one neither marked by justice nor going beyond commodity: whereas to

man, a logical and social animal, she has taught justice and law, and

honour to the gods, and building of cities, and philanthropy, and has

contributed the noble and goodly and fruitful seeds of all these in love

to one's offspring, thereby following the very first elements that are

found in the construction of the body. For nature is everywhere perfect

and artistic and complete, and, to borrow the expression of

Erasistratus, has nothing tawdry about her: but one cannot adequately

describe all the processes appertaining to birth, nor would it be

perhaps decent to pry too closely into such hidden matters, and to

particularize too minutely all their wondrous ingenuity. But her

contrivance and dispensation of milk alone is sufficient to prove

nature's wonderful care and forethought. For all the superfluous blood

in women, that owing to their languor and thinness of spirit floats

about on the surface and oppresses them, has a safety-valve provided by

nature in the menses, which relieve and cleanse the rest of the body,

and fit the womb for conception in due season. But after conception

nature stops the menses, and arrests the flow of the blood, using it as

aliment for the babe in the womb, until the time arrives for its birth,

and it requires a different kind of food. At this stage the blood is

most ingeniously changed into a supply of milk, not diffused all over

the body, but externally in the breasts, so that the babe can with its

mouth imbibe the gentle and soothing nutriment.[53] But all these

various processes of nature, all this economy, all this forethought,

would be useless, had not nature also implanted in mothers love to their

offspring and anxiety for their welfare.

"For of all things, that on the earth do breathe

Or creep, man is by far the wretchedest."[54]

And the poet's words are especially applicable to a newborn babe. For

there is nothing so imperfect, so helpless, so naked, so shapeless, so

foul as a newborn babe: to whom almost alone nature has given an impure

outlet to the light of day: being kneaded with blood, and full of

defilement, and like one killed rather than born: which no one would

touch, or lift up, or kiss, or embrace, but from natural affection. And

that is why all the animals have their udders under the belly, women

alone have their breasts high on their bodies, that they can lift up

their babes to kiss, to dandle, and to fondle: seeing that their bearing

and rearing children comes not from necessity but love.

Sec. IV. Refer the question to the ancient inhabitants of the earth, to the

first mothers and fathers. There was no law ordering them to have

families, no expectation of advantage or return to be got out of them. I

should rather say that mothers would be likely to be hostile and bear

malice to their babes, owing to the great danger and pains of travail.

And women say the lines, "When the sharp pangs of travail seize on the

pregnant woman, then come to her aid the Ilithyiae, who help women in

hard childbirth, those daughters of Hera, goddesses of travail,"[55]

were not written by Homer, but by some Homerid who had been a mother, or

was even then in the throes of travail, and who vividly felt the sharp

pain in her womb. But the love to one's offspring implanted by nature,

moves and influences the mother even then: in the very height of her

throes, she neglects not nor flees from her babe, but turns to it and

smiles at it, and takes it up and caresses it, though she derives no

pleasure or utility from it, but with pain and sorrow receives it,

"warming it and fostering it in swaddling clothes, with unintermittent

assiduity both night and day."[56] What hope of gain or advantage had

they in those days? nay, or even now? for the hopes of parents are

uncertain, and have to be long waited for. He who plants a vine in the

spring equinox, gleans its vintage in the autumnal equinox; he who sows

corn when the Pleiads set, reaps it when they rise; cattle and horses

and birds have produce at once fit for use; whereas man's bringing up is

toilsome, his growth slow; and as excellence flowers late, most fathers

die before their sons attain to fame. Neocles lived not to see

Themistocles' victory at Salamis, nor Miltiades Cimon's at the

Eurymedon, nor did Xanthippus hear Pericles haranguing, nor did Aristo

hear Plato philosophizing, nor did their fathers know of the triumphs of

Euripides and Sophocles. They heard them faltering in speech and lisping

in syllables, the poor parents saw their errors in revelling and

drinking and love-affairs, so that of all Evenus'[57] lines, that one

alone is most remembered and quoted, "to a father a son is always a

cause of fear or pain." Nevertheless, parents do not cease to bring up

sons, even when they can least need them. For it is ridiculous to

suppose that the rich, when they have sons, sacrifice and rejoice that

they will have people to take care of them and to bury them; unless

indeed they bring up sons from want of heirs; as if one could not find

or fall in with anyone who would be willing to have another's property!

Why, the sand on the sea shore, and the dust, and the wings of birds of

varied note, are less numerous than the number of would-be heirs. For

had Danaus, the father of fifty daughters, been childless, he would have

had more heirs, and of a different spirit. For sons have no gratitude,

nor regard, nor veneration for inheritance; but take it as a debt;

whereas the voices of strangers which you hear round the childless man,

are like those lines in the play, "O People, first bathe, after one

decision in the courts, then eat, drink, gobble, take the

three-obol-piece."[58] And what Euripides has said, "Money finds friends

for men, and has the greatest power among mankind," is not merely a

general truth, but is especially true in the case of the childless. For

those the rich entertain to dinner, those great men pay court to, to

those alone orators give their services gratis. "A mighty personage is a

rich man, whose heir is unknown." It has at any rate made many much

loved and honoured, whom the possession of one child would have made

unloved and insignificant. Whence we see that there is no power or

advantage to be got from children, but that the love of them, alike in

mankind as among the animals, proceeds entirely from nature.

Sec. V. What if this natural affection, like many other virtues, is

obscured by badness, as a wilderness chokes a garden? Are we to say that

man does not love himself by nature, because many cut their throats or

throw themselves down precipices? Did not Oedipus put out his eyes? And

did not Hegesias by his speeches make, many of his hearers to commit

suicide?[59] "Fatality has many different aspects."[60] But all these

are diseases and maladies of the soul driving a man contrary to nature

out of his wits: as men themselves testify even against themselves. For

if a sow destroys one of its litter, or a bitch one of its pups, men are

dejected and troubled, and think it an evil omen, and sacrifice to the

gods to avert any bad results, on the score that it is natural to all to

love and cherish their offspring, unnatural to destroy it. For just as

in mines the gold is conspicuous even though mixed up with earth, so

nature manifests plainly love to offspring even in instances of faulty

habits and affections. For when the poor do not rear their children, it

is from fear that if reared to man's estate they would be more than

ought to be the case servile, and have little culture, and be debarred

of all advantages: so, thinking poverty the worst of all evils, they

cannot bear to give it their children, any more than they would some bad

disease.[61]

[44] Much of this is very corrupt in the Greek. I have

tried to get the best sense I could; but it is very

obscure. Certainly Plutarch's style is often very harsh

and crabbed.

[45] The _jus trium liberorum_ assigned certain

privileges to the father of three children, under the

Roman Emperors. Frequent allusions are made to this law

by the ancient writers.

[46] Compare Lucretius, i. 10-20.

[47] A quotation from Simonides.

[48] We are not bound to swallow all the ancients tell

us. Credat Judaeus Apella!

[49] "Iliad," xvii. 134-136.

[50] "Iliad," ix. 324. Quoted again in "How one may be

aware of one's Progress in Virtue," Sec. 8.

[51] "Odyssey," xx. 14, 15.

[52] A theatre, that is, in which animals and birds and

human beings should meet in common.

[53] All that is said here about the milk, the menses,

and the blood, I have been obliged somewhat to condense

and paraphrase. The ancients sometimes speak more

plainly than we can. Ever and anon one must pare down a

phrase or word in translating an ancient author. It is

inevitable. _Verbum sat sapienti._

[54] Homer, "Iliad," xvii. 446, 447.

[55] Ibid. xi. 269-271.

[56] A fragment from Euripides, according to Xylander.

[57] Evenus of Paros was an Elegiac Poet.

[58] Aristophanes, "Equites," 50, 51.

[59] See Cicero "Tuscul." i. 34.

[60] Euripides, "Alcestis," 1159; "Helena," 1688;

"Andromache," 1284; "Bacchae," 1388.

[61] The discourse breaks off abruptly. It is directed

against the Epicureans. It throws ridicule on appealing

to the affection of brutes for their offspring instead

of appealing to human nature.

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