OF NATURAL AFFECTION TOWARDS ONE’S OFFSPRING.

1. Appeals to foreign judicatures first came in request among the

Grecians out of their distrust of one another’s justice, they deeming

it as requisite to fetch justice from abroad, as any other necessary

commodity which was not of their own growth. And is it not even so that

philosophers, by reason of dissensions amongst themselves, have in the

decision of some questions appealed to the nature of irrational beings,

as to a strange city, and have submitted the final determination of

such questions to the affections or to the dispositions of brutes,

as being unbiassed and not corrupted by bribes? Or else this is the

general complaint of human frailty, that while we differ about the most

necessary and the greatest things, we consult horses, dogs, and birds,

how we should marry, beget children, and bring them up; and, as if the

evidence of Nature in ourselves were not to be trusted, we appeal to

the dispositions and affections of brute beasts, and testify against

the manifold transgressions of our own lives, intimating how at the

very first and in the first things we are confounded and disturbed. For

Nature conserves the propriety in them pure, unmixed, and simple; but

in men, the mixture of ascititious opinions and judgments (as oil is

served by the druggists) alters the properties, and does not preserve

what is their peculiar. Nor need we wonder if irrational animals

follow Nature more than rational; for plants do it more than animals,

for they have neither imagination nor passion for what is not according

to Nature, but are bound in chains, and ever go that one way that

Nature leads them. Brutes do little regard gentleness, wit, or liberty;

they have indeed the use of irrational incitements and appetites, which

put them upon wandering and running about,—but seldom far, for they

seem to lie at the anchor of Nature, who guides them in the right way

(as it were) by bit and bridle. But reason, the lord and master in

man, finds sometimes one turning, sometimes another; but in all its

wanderings leaves no mark or footstep of Nature.

2. But in brutes observe how all things are accommodated to Nature. As

to marriages, they tarry not till laws are passed against celibacy and

late marriages, as Lycurgus and Solon’s citizens did; they matter not

the disgrace of wanting children; nor are they ambitious of the honor

of having three children, as many Romans, who marry and get children,

not that they may have heirs, but that they may get estates. Again,

the male accompanies with the female not at all times, because not

pleasure but procreation is his end. Therefore in the spring time,

when the fruitful breezes blow and the air is of a pregnant temper,

then the female approaches the male, gentle and desirable, wantoning

in the sweet smell and peculiar ornament of her body, full of dew and

pure grass; and when she perceives she has conceived, she modestly

departs, and provides for her bringing forth and for the safety of

what she shall be delivered of. What brutes do cannot be sufficiently

expressed; in all of them their affection to their young is evident

by their providence, patience, and continence. Indeed we call the bee

wise, and we celebrate her who “deviseth the yellow honey,” flattering

her for glutting us with her sweetness; but the wisdom and art of other

creatures, about their bringing forth and the rearing their young, we

wholly neglect. For instance, first, the king-fisher, when she has

conceived, makes her nest of the prickles of the sea-needle, weaving

them one among another, in form of a long oval fishing-net; then she

puts it under the dashing of the waters, that being by degrees beaten

upon and milled, it may acquire a smooth surface, and become so solid

that it cannot easily be divided by either stone or iron. And what

is more wonderful, the mouth of the nest is so exactly fitted to the

king-fisher, that neither a greater nor a less animal can enter it;

and when she is in (as they say) it will not admit the sea-water. The

sea-fish called γαλεοί give birth to their young within themselves, let

them go abroad to feed, and then take them into their bellies again

when they go to sleep. The bear, a most fierce and ugly beast, brings

forth her young shapeless and without limbs, but with her tongue, as

with a tool, she shapes the members; so that she seems not only to

bring forth but to work out her young. And Homer’s lioness,—

Thus in the centre of some gloomy wood,

With many a step the lioness surrounds

Her tawny young, beset by men and hounds;

Elate her heart, and rousing all her powers,

Dark o’er the fiery balls each hanging eyebrow lowers;[47]

does she not, I say, look as if she were contriving how to make a

bargain with the huntsman for her whelps? For generally the love of

their young makes bold creatures timorous, the slothful industrious,

and the voracious parsimonious. So Homer’s bird “gives to her young,

though with herself it go hard.”[48] She feeds them by starving

herself, and when she has taken up her food, she lays it down again,

and keeps it down with her bill, lest she should swallow it unawares.

In like manner,

For tender whelps, when strangers come in sight,

The barking bitch prepares herself to fight;[49]

and fear for her young turns into a second passion. When partridges

and their young are pursued, the old suffer the young to fly away

before, so contriving it that the fowler may think to catch them. Thus

they hover about, run forward a little, then turn again, and so detain

the fowler till their young are safe. We daily behold hens, how they

cherish their chickens, taking some of them under their spread wings,

suffering others of them to run upon their backs, and taking them

in again, with a voice expressing kindness and joy. When themselves

are concerned, they fly from dogs and serpents; but to defend their

chickens, they will venture beyond their strength and fight.

And shall we think that Nature has bred such affections in these

creatures, because she is solicitous for the propagation of hens,

dogs, and bears, and not that she may by these means make us ashamed?

Certainly we must conclude that these creatures, following the duct

of nature, are for our example, and that they much upbraid the

remorselessness of humanity, of which human nature alone is culpable,

in not being capable of gratuitous love, nor knowing how to be a friend

without profit. Well therefore might the comedian be admired who said,

For reward only man loves man. Epicurus thinks that after this manner

children are beloved of their parents, and parents of their children.

But if the benefit of speech were allowed to brutes, and if horses,

cows, dogs, and birds were brought upon the stage, and the song were

changed, and it were said that neither the bitch loved her whelps for

gain, nor the mare her foal, nor fowls their chickens, but that they

were all beloved gratis and by impulse of nature, then by the affection

of all brutes this assertion would be approved as just and true. And is

it not a shame, that the procreation of beasts, their birth, pains in

birth, and their education, should be by nature and gratis, and yet for

these things that man should require usury, rewards, and bribes?

3. This assertion, as to pure Nature, can never be true, nor ought it

to be believed. For, as in wild plants, such as wild vines, figs, and

olives, Nature has implanted the principles of cultivated fruit, though

crude and imperfect; so she has endowed beasts with a love of their

young, though imperfect and not attaining to justice, nor proceeding

further than utility. But in man, whom she produced a rational and

political being, inclining him to justice, law, religion, building

of cities, and friendship, she hath placed the seed of those things

that are generous, fair, and fruitful,—that is, the love of their

children,—following the first principles which entered into the very

constitution of their bodies. For terms and expressions are wanting

to declare with what industry Nature—who is skilful, unerring, and

not to be surpassed, and (as Erasistratus says) has nothing idle or

frivolous—has contrived all things pertaining to the procreation of

mankind; and modesty will not permit it. The making and economy of milk

sufficiently speak her providence and care. In women what abundance of

blood more than serves for necessary uses, which, through languidness

and want of spirit, wanders about and disturbs the body; being at other

times by Nature in monthly periods discharged by proper canals and

passages, for the relief and purgation of the body, and to render the

womb like a field fit for the plough and seed, and desirous of it at

seasons. But when the womb has caught the seed, and it has taken root

(for the navel as Democritus says, grows first, like an anchor to keep

the foetus from fluctuating, or as a stay or footstalk to the child),

then Nature stops the passages proper for monthly purgations, and keeps

the superfluous blood after that for nourishment and to moisten the

birth, which now begins to be formed and fashioned, and at the end

of a set number of days increases so in the womb, that it must seek

another place and other sort of food. Then Nature, more diligent than

any husbandman, deriving the blood to other uses, has as it were some

subterranean fountains, which receive the affluent liquors; and they

receive them not negligently nor without affection, but with a gentle

heat and womanish softness they concoct, mollify, and alter them; for

in this manner are the breasts internally affected and tempered. And

milk is not poured out of them by pipes in a full stream; but the

breasts, terminating in flesh that is pervious by small and insensible

passages, do afford store of sweet and pleasant sucking to the infant’s

mouth. But for all this, such and so many instruments for procreation,

such preparation, so great industry and providence, were all to no

purpose, unless Nature had inbred in the mothers a love and care of

their offspring.

Than man more wretched naught takes breath,

Not th’ vilest thing that creeps on earth;[50]

which infallibly holds good of infants new-born. For nothing can be

beheld so imperfect, helpless, naked, shapeless, and nasty, as man is

just at his birth; to whom alone almost Nature has denied a cleanly

passage into the world; and as he is smeared with blood, and daubed

with filth, more like to one killed than to one new-born, he could

never be touched, taken in arms, kissed, or hugged by any one to whom

Nature had not given an inbred affection for him. Therefore other

animals have their dugs below their belly, which grow on woman above

her breast, that she may the more conveniently kiss, embrace, and

cherish her infant; because the end of bringing forth and rearing is

not necessity but love.

4. For let us look back to ancient times, to those who first

brought forth and who first saw a child born. Upon them certainly

no law enjoined any necessity of rearing their offspring, nor could

expectation of thanks oblige them to feed their infants, as if it were

for usury. Nay, rather, they were angry with their children, and long

remembered the injuries they had received from them, as authors of so

many dangers and of so much pain and travail to them.

As when keen darts the fierce Ilithyiae send;

The powers that cause the teeming matron’s throes.

Sad mothers of unutterable woes![51]

These verses, some say, were not written by Homer, but by some

Homeress, who either had been or was then in travail, and felt the very

pangs in her bowels. Yet the love implanted by Nature melts and sways

the childbed woman. While she is still in a sweat and trembling for

pain, she is not averse to her infant; but turns it to her, smiles on

it, hugs and kisses it. Though she finds no true sweetness, nor yet

profit, however, “she sometimes rocks it in a warm cradle, sometimes

she dances it in the cool air, turning one toil into another, resting

neither night nor day.”

For what reward or gain was all this? For as little then as now; for

the hopes are uncertain and far off. He that plants a vine in the

vernal equinox gathers grapes upon it in the autumnal. He that sows

wheat at the setting of the Pleiades reaps it at their rising. Cows,

mares, and birds bring forth young ready for use. Man’s education is

laborious, his increase slow, his virtue lies at a distance; so that

most parents die before their children show their virtue. Neocles never

saw Themistocles’s victory at Salamis, nor Miltiades the valor of Cimon

at Eurymedon; Xanthippus never heard Pericles pleading; nor Aristo

Plato philosophizing; nor did the fathers of Euripides and Sophocles

know the victories their sons won, though they heard them indeed

stammering and learning to talk. It is the mishap of fathers to see the

revelling, drinking, and love intrigues of their children; to which

purpose that of Evenus is memorable,

Terror or grief unto his father’s heart

A son must ever be.

And yet men find no end of rearing of children; they especially who

have no need of them. For it is ridiculous to think that rich men,

when they have children born to them, sacrifice and rejoice that they

may have some to maintain and to bury them. Or is it perhaps that they

bring up children for want of heirs, because, forsooth, men cannot be

found to accept of another man’s estate? “Sand, dust, and the feathers

of all the birds in the world, are not so numerous” as heirs are to

other men’s estates. Danaus was the father of fifty daughters; but if

he had wanted issue, he might have had many more heirs. The case is far

otherwise with children; they make not acknowledgments nor curry favor

nor pay their devotions, as expecting the inheritance of due. But you

may hear strangers who hang about them that have no heirs, talking like

the comedian:

O Demos, having after judgment bathed,

Drink, eat a morsel, take three oboli.[52]

And what Euripides said,

’Tis money that procures us friends to choose,

And mightiest power o’er all things that men use,

does not universally hold true, but of such only as have no children.

To such the rich give banquets, such great men honor, and for such

only lawyers plead gratis. “A rich man who has no known heir can do

great matters.” Many a man who has had a great number of friends and

followers, as soon as he has had a child, has been divested of all his

alliances and power. So that children do not augment a man’s power; but

their whole power over their parents’ affection is due to Nature, and

is shown no less in men than in beasts.

5. But this natural affection, like many other good qualities in men,

may be choked and obscured by vices; as when a wild forest is sown

with garden-seeds. Can we say that man loves not himself, because some

hang themselves, others break their own necks, Oedipus put out his

own eyes,[53] and Hegesias, by his disputation, persuaded many of his

auditors to pine themselves to death?

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