SOCIAL LIFE IN OLD VIRGINIA BEFORE THE WAR

Let me see if I can describe an old Virginia home recalled from

a memory stamped with it when a virgin page. It may, perhaps, be

idealized by the haze of time; but it will be as I now remember it.

The mansion was a plain “weather-board” house, one story and a half

above the half-basement ground floor, set on a hill in a grove

of primeval oaks and hickories filled in with ash, maples, and

feathery-leafed locusts without number. It was built of timber cut

by the “servants” (they were never termed slaves except in legal

documents) out of the virgin forest, not long after the Revolution,

when that branch of the family moved from Yorktown. It had quaint

dormer windows, with small panes, poking out from its sloping upstairs

rooms, and long porches to shelter its walls from the sun and allow

house life in the open air.

A number of magnificent oaks and hickories (there had originally been a

dozen of the former, and the place from them took its name, “Oakland”),

under which Totapottamoi children may have played, spread their long

arms about it, sheltering nearly a half-acre apiece; whilst in among

them and all around were ash and maples, an evergreen or two, lilacs

and syringas and roses, and locusts of every age and size, which in

springtime filled the air with honeyed perfume, and lulled with the

“murmur of innumerable bees.”

[Illustration: _The Plantation House._]

There was an “office” in the yard; another house where the boys used

to stay, and the right to sleep in which was as eagerly looked forward

to and as highly prized as was by the youth of Rome the wearing of the

_toga virilis_. There the guns were kept; there the dogs might sleep

with their masters, under, or in cold weather even on, the beds; and

there charming bits of masculine gossip were retailed by the older

young gentlemen, and delicious tales of early wickedness related, all

the more delightful because they were veiled in chaste language phrased

not merely to meet the doctrine, _maxima reverentia pueris debetur_,

but to meet the higher truth that no gentleman would use foul language.

Off to one side was the orchard, in springtime a bower of pink and

snow, and always making a pleasant spot in the landscape; beyond which

peeped the ample barns and stables, and farther yet lay the wide green

fields.

Some of the fields that stretched around were poor, and in places where

the rains had washed off the soil, red “galls” showed through; but the

tillage was careful and systematic, and around the house were rich

hay-fields where the cattle stood knee-deep in clover. The brown worm

fences ran in lateral lines, and the ditches were kept clean except for

useful willows.

[Illustration: “_Shining tables with slender brass-tipped legs._”]

[Illustration: “_There the guns were kept._”]

[Illustration: “_Bookcases filled with brown-backed, much-read books._”]

The furniture was old-timey and plain,--mahogany and rosewood bedsteads

and dressers black with age, and polished till they shone like mirrors,

hung with draperies white as snow; straight-backed chairs generations

old interspersed with common new ones; long sofas with claw feet; old

shining tables with slender brass-tipped legs, straight or fluted,

holding some fine old books, and in springtime a blue or flowered

bowl or two with glorious roses; bookcases filled with brown-backed,

much-read books. This was all.

The servants’ houses, smoke-house, wash-house, and carpenter-shop were

set around the “back yard,” with “mammy’s house” a little nicer than

the others; and farther off, upon and beyond the quarters hill, “the

quarters,”--whitewashed, substantial buildings, each for a family, with

chicken-houses hard by, and with yards closed in by split palings,

filled with fruit trees, which somehow bore cherries, peaches, and

apples in a mysterious profusion even when the orchard failed.

Beyond the yard were gardens. There were two,--the vegetable garden and

the flower garden. The former was the test of the mistress’s power; for

at the most critical times she took the best hands on the place to work

it. The latter was the proof of her taste. It was a strange affair:

pyrocanthus hedged it on the outside; honeysuckle ran riot over its

palings, perfuming the air; yellow cowslips in well-regulated tufts

edged some borders, while sweet peas, pinks, and violets spread out

recklessly over others; jonquilles yellow as gold, and, once planted,

blooming every spring as certainly as the trees budded or the birds

nested, grew in thick bunches; and here and there were tall lilies,

white as angels’ wings and stately as the maidens that walked among

them; big snowball bushes blooming with snow, lilacs purple and white

and sweet in the spring, and always with birds’ nests in them with the

bluest of eggs; and in places rosebushes, and tall hollyhock stems

filled with rich rosettes of every hue and shade, made a delicious

tangle. In the autumn rich dahlias and pungent-odored chrysanthemums

ended the sweet procession and closed the season.

[Illustration: “_The flower of all others was the rose._”]

But the flower of all others was the rose. There were roses everywhere;

clambering roses over the porches and windows, sending their fragrance

into the rooms; roses beside the walks; roses around the yard and in

the garden; roses of every hue and delicate refinement of perfume;

rich yellow roses thick on their briery bushes, coming almost with

the dandelions and buttercups, before any others dared face the April

showers to learn if March had truly gone, sweet as if they had come

from Paradise to be worn upon young maidens’ bosoms, as they might well

have done--who knows?--followed by the Giant of Battles on their stout

stems, glorious enough to have been the worthy badge of victorious

Lancastrian kings; white Yorks, hardly less royal; cloth-of-golds;

dainty teas; rich damasks; old sweet hundred-leafs sifting down their

petals on the grass, and always filling with two the place where one

had fallen. These and many more whose names have faded made the air

fragrant, whilst the catbirds and mocking-birds fluttered and sang

among them, and the robins foraged in the grass for their greedy

yellow-throats waiting in the hidden nests.

Looking out over the fields was a scene not to be forgotten.

Let me give it in the words of one who knew and loved Virginia well,

and was her best interpreter:[1]--

[1] Dr. George W. Bagby. His “Old Virginia Gentleman” is

perhaps the best sketch yet written in the South. To it I am

doubtless indebted for much in this paper. His description

might do for a picture of Staunton Hill resting in delicious

calm on its eminence above the Staunton River.

[Illustration: _Tobacco._]

“A scene not of enchantment, though contrast often made it seem so, met

the eye. Wide, very wide fields of waving grain, billowy seas of green

or gold as the season chanced to be, over which the scudding shadows

chased and played, gladdened the heart with wealth far spread. Upon

lowlands level as the floor the plumed and tasselled corn stood tall

and dense, rank behind rank in military alignment--a serried army

lush and strong. The rich, dark soil of the gently swelling knolls

could scarcely be seen under the broad lapping leaves of the mottled

tobacco. The hills were carpeted with clover. Beneath the tree-clumps

fat cattle chewed the cud, or peaceful sheep reposed, grateful for the

shade. In the midst of this plenty, half hidden in foliage, over which

the graceful shafts of the Lombard poplar towered, with its bounteous

garden and its orchards heavy with fruit near at hand, peered the old

mansion, white, or dusky red, or mellow gray by the storm and shine of

years.

“Seen by the tired horseman halting at the woodland’s edge, this

picture, steeped in the intense quivering summer moonlight, filled the

soul with unspeakable emotions of beauty, tenderness, peace, home.

“How calm could we rest

In that bosom of shade with the friends we love best!

“Sorrows and care were there--where do they not penetrate? But, oh!

dear God, one day in those sweet, tranquil homes outweighed a fevered

lifetime in the gayest cities of the globe. Tell me nothing; I

undervalue naught that man’s heart delights in. I dearly love operas

and great pageants; but I do know--as I know nothing else--that the

first years of human life, and the last, yea, if it be possible, all

the years, should be passed in the country. The towns may do for a day,

a week, a month at most; but Nature, Mother Nature, pure and clean, is

for all time,--yes, for eternity itself.”

[Illustration: _A Typical “Mammy.”_]

The life about the place was amazing. There were the busy children

playing in groups, the boys of the family mingling with the little

darkies as freely as any other young animals, and forming the

associations which tempered slavery and made the relation one not to

be understood save by those who saw it. There they were, stooping down

and jumping up; turning and twisting, their heads close together,

like chickens over an “invisible repast,” their active bodies always

in motion: busy over their little matters with that ceaseless energy

of boyhood which could move the world could it but be concentrated

and conserved. They were all over the place; in the orchard robbing

birds’ nests, getting into wild excitement over catbirds, which they

ruthlessly murdered because they “called snakes”; in spring and summer

fishing or “washing” in the creek, riding the plough-horses to and from

the fields, running the calves and colts, and being as mischievous as

the young mules they chased.

[Illustration: “_The little girls in their great sun-bonnets._”]

There were the little girls in their great sunbonnets, often sewed on

to preserve the wonderful peach-blossom complexions, with their small

female companions playing about the yard or garden, running with and

wishing they were boys, and getting half scoldings from mammy for being

tomboys and tearing their aprons and dresses. There, in the shade,

near her “house,” was the mammy with her assistants, her little charge

in her arms, sleeping in her ample lap, or toddling about her, with

broken, half-formed phrases, better understood than framed. There

passed young negro girls, blue-habited, running about bearing messages;

or older women moving at a statelier pace, doing with deliberation

the little tasks which were their “work;” whilst about the office or

smoke-house or dairy or wood-pile there was always some movement

and life. The peace of it all was only emphasized by the sounds that

broke upon it: the call of ploughers to their teams; the shrill shouts

of children; the chant of women over their work, and as a bass the

recurrent hum of spinning-wheels, like the drone of some great insect,

sounding from cabins where the turbaned spinners spun their fleecy

rolls for the looms which were clacking in the loom-rooms making

homespun for the plantation.

[Illustration: “_Busy over their little matters with that ceaseless

energy of boyhood._”]

From the back yard and quarters the laughter of women and the

shrill, joyous voices of children came. Far off, in the fields, the

white-shirted “ploughers” followed singing their slow teams in the

fresh furrows, wagons rattled, and ox-carts crawled along, or gangs

of hands in lines performed their work in the corn or tobacco fields,

loud shouts and peals of laughter, mellowed by the distance, floating

up from time to time, telling that the heart was light and the toil not

too heavy.

[Illustration: “_The test of the men’s prowess._”]

At special times there was special activity: at ice-getting time,

at corn-thinning time, at fodder-pulling time, at threshing-wheat

time, but above all at corn-shucking time, at hog-killing time, and

at “harvest.” Harvest was spoken of as a season. It was a festival.

The severest toil of the year was a frolic. Every “hand” was eager

for it. It was the test of the men’s prowess and the women’s skill.

For it took a man to swing his cradle through the long June days and

keep pace with the bare-necked, knotted-armed leader as he strode and

swung his ringing cradle through the heavy wheat. So it demanded a

strong back and nimble fingers in the binding to “keep up” and bind

the sheaves. The young men looked forward to it as young bucks look to

the war-path. How gay they seemed, moving in oblique lines around the

“great parallelograms,” sweeping down the yellow grain, and, as they

neared the starting-point, chanting with mellow voices the harvest song

“Cool Water”! How musical was the cadence as, taking time to get their

wind, they whet in unison their ringing blades!

Though the plantations were large, so large that one master could not

hear his neighbor’s dog bark, there was never any loneliness: it was

movement and life without bustle; whilst somehow, in the midst of it

all, the house seemed to sit enthroned in perpetual tranquillity, with

outstretched wings under its spreading oaks, sheltering its children

like a great gray dove.

Even at night there was stirring about: the ring of an axe, the

infectious music of the banjos, the laughter of dancers, the festive

noise and merriment of the cabin, the distant, mellowed shouts of ’coon

or ’possum hunters, or the dirge-like chant of some serious and timid

wayfarer passing along the paths over the hills or through the woods,

and solacing his lonely walk with religious song.

Such was the outward scene. What was there within? That which has been

much misunderstood,--that which was like the roses, wasteful beyond

measure in its unheeded growth and blowing, but sweet beyond measure,

too, and filling with its fragrance not only the region round about,

but sending it out unmeasuredly on every breeze that wandered by.

The life within was of its own kind. There were the master and the

mistress: the old master and old mistress, the young masters and young

mistresses, and the children; besides some aunts and cousins, and the

relations or friends who did not live there, but were only always on

visits.

[Illustration: _The Exclusive Property of the Mistress._]

Properly, the mistress should be mentioned first, as she was the most

important personage about the home, the presence which pervaded the

mansion, the centre of all that life, the queen of that realm; the

master willingly and proudly yielding her entire management of all

household matters and simply carrying out her directions, confining

his ownership within the curtilage solely to his old “secretary,”

which on the mistress’s part was as sacred from her touch as her

bonnet was from his. There were kept mysterious folded papers, and

equally mysterious parcels, frequently brown with the stain of dust

and age. Had the papers been the lost sibylline leaves instead of old

receipts and bills, and had the parcels contained diamonds instead of

long-dried melon-seed or old flints, now out of date but once ready to

serve a useful purpose, they could not have been more sacredly guarded

by the mistress. The master usually had to hunt for a long period for

any particular paper, whilst the mistress could in a half-hour have

arranged everything in perfect order; but the chaos was regarded by her

with veneration as real as that with which she regarded the mystery of

the heavenly bodies.

On the other hand, outside of this piece of furniture there was nothing

in the house of which the master even pretended to know. It was all

in her keeping. Whatever he wanted he called for, and she produced

it with a certainty and promptness which struck him as a perpetual

miracle. Her system appeared to him as the result of a wisdom as

profound as that which fixed and held the firmament. He would not

have dared to interfere, not because he was afraid, but because he

recognized her superiority. It would no more have occurred to him to

make a suggestion about the management of the house than about that of

one of his neighbors; simply because he knew her and acknowledged her

infallibility. She was, indeed, a surprising creature--often delicate

in frame, and of a nervous organization so sensitive as perhaps to be

a great sufferer; but her force and character pervaded and directed

everything, as unseen yet as unmistakably as the power of gravity

controls the particles that constitute the earth.

It has been assumed by the outside world that our people lived a life

of idleness and ease, a kind of “hammock-swung,” “sherbet-sipping”

existence, fanned by slaves, and, in their pride, served on bended

knees. No conception could be further from the truth. The ease of

the master of a big plantation was about that of the head of any

great establishment where numbers of operatives are employed, and to

the management of which are added the responsibilities of the care

and complete mastership of the liberty of his operatives and their

families. His work was generally sufficiently systematized to admit

of enough personal independence to enable him to participate in the

duties of hospitality; but any master who had a successfully conducted

plantation was sure to have given it his personal supervision with an

unremitting attention which would not have failed to secure success in

any other calling. If this was true of the master, it was much more

so of the mistress. The master might, by having a good overseer and

reliable headmen, shift a portion of the burden from his shoulders;

the mistress had no such means of relief. She was the necessary and

invariable functionary; the keystone of the domestic economy which

bound all the rest of the structure and gave it its strength and

beauty. From early morn till morn again the most important and delicate

concerns of the plantation were her charge and care. She gave out and

directed all the work of the women. From superintending the setting

of the turkeys to fighting a pestilence, there was nothing which was

not her work. She was mistress, manager, doctor, nurse, counsellor,

seamstress, teacher, housekeeper, slave, all at once. She was at the

beck and call of every one, especially of her husband, to whom she was

“guide, philosopher, and friend.”

One of them, being told of a broken gate by her husband, said, “Well,

my dear, if I could sew it with my needle and thread, I would mend it

for you.”

What she was, only her husband divined, and even he stood before her in

dumb, half-amazed admiration, as he might before the inscrutable vision

of a superior being. What she really was, was known only to God. Her

life was one long act of devotion,--devotion to God, devotion to her

husband, devotion to her children, devotion to her servants, to her

friends, to the poor, to humanity. Nothing happened within the range

of her knowledge that her sympathy did not reach and her charity and

wisdom did not ameliorate. She was the head and front of the church;

an unmitred bishop _in partibus_, more effectual than the vestry

or deacons, more earnest than the rector; she managed her family,

regulated her servants, fed the poor, nursed the sick, consoled the

bereaved. Who knew of the visits she paid to the cabins of her sick

and suffering servants! often, at the dead of night, “slipping down”

the last thing to see that her directions were carried out; with her

own hands administering medicines or food; ever by her cheeriness

inspiring new hope, by her strength giving courage, by her presence

awaking faith; telling in her soft voice to dying ears the story of

the suffering Saviour; with her hope soothing the troubled spirit, and

lighting with her own faith the path down into the valley of the dark

shadow. What poor person was there, however inaccessible the cabin,

that was sick or destitute and knew not her charity! Who that was

bereaved that had not her sympathy!

The training of her children was her work. She watched over them,

inspired them, led them, governed them; her will impelled them; her

word to them, as to her servants, was law. She reaped the reward.

If she admired them, she was too wise to let them know it; but her

sympathy and tenderness were theirs always, and they worshipped her.

There was something in seeing the master and mistress obeyed by the

plantation and looked up to by the neighborhood which inspired the

children with a reverence akin to awe which is not known at this

present time. It was not till the young people were grown that this

reverence lost the awe and became based only upon affection and

admiration. Then, for the first time, they dared to jest with her;

then, for the first time, they took in that she had been like them

once, young and gay and pleasure-loving, with coquetries and maidenly

ways, with lovers suing for her; and that she still took pleasure in

the recollection,--this gentle, classic, serious mother among her tall

sons and radiant daughters. How she blushed as they laughed at her and

teased her to tell of her conquests, her confusion making her look

younger and prettier than they remembered her, and opening their eyes

to the truth of what their father had told them so often, that not one

of them could be as beautiful as she.

She became timid and dependent as they grew up and she found them

adorned with new fashions and ways which she did not know; she gave

herself up to their guidance with an appealing kind of diffidence; was

tremulous over her ignorance of the novel fashions which made them so

charming. Yet, when the exactions of her position came upon her, she

calmly took the lead, and, by her instinctive dignity, her wisdom, and

her force, eclipsed them all as naturally as the full moon in heaven

dims the stars.

Such in part was the mistress. As to the master himself, it is hard

to generalize. Yet there were indeed certain generic characteristics,

whether he was grave and severe, or jovial and easy. There was the

foundation of a certain pride based on self-respect and consciousness

of power. There were nearly always the firm mouth with its strong

lines, the calm, placid, direct gaze, the quiet speech of one who

is accustomed to command and have his command obeyed; there was a

contemplative expression due to much communing alone, with weighty

responsibilities resting upon him; there was absolute self-confidence,

and often a look caused by tenacity of opinion. There was not a

doubtful line in the face nor a doubtful tone in the voice; his

opinions were convictions; he was a partisan to the backbone; and

not infrequently he was incapable of seeing more than one side. This

prevented breadth, but gave force. He was proud, but rarely haughty

except to dishonor. To that he was inexorable. He believed in God, he

believed in his wife, he believed in his blood. He was chivalrous, he

was generous, he was usually incapable of fear or of meanness. To be a

Virginia gentleman was the first duty; it embraced being a Christian

and all the virtues. He lived as one; he left it as a heritage to

his children. He was fully appreciative of both the honors and the

responsibilities of his position. He believed in a democracy, but

understood that the absence of a titled aristocracy had to be supplied

by a class more virtuous than he believed any aristocracy to be. He

purposed in his own person to prove that this was practicable. He

established the fact that it was. This and other responsibilities made

him grave. He had inherited gravity from his father and grandfather.

The latter had been a performer in the greatest work of modern times,

with the shadow of the scaffold over him if he failed. The former had

faced the weighty problems of the new government, with many unsolved

questions ever to answer. He himself faced problems not less grave.

The greatness of the past, the time when Virginia had been the mighty

power of the New World, loomed ever above him. It increased his

natural conservatism. He saw the change that was steadily creeping

on. The conditions that had given his class their power and prestige

had altered. The fields were worked down, and agriculture that had

made his class rich no longer paid. The cloud was already gathering in

the horizon; the shadow already was stretching towards him. He could

foresee the danger that threatened Virginia. A peril ever sat beside

his door. He was “holding the wolf by the ears.” Outside influences

hostile to his interest were being brought to bear. Any movement must

work him injury. He sought the only refuge that appeared. He fell back

behind the Constitution that his fathers had helped to establish, and

became a strict constructionist for Virginia and his rights. These

things made him grave. He reflected much. Out on the long verandas in

the dusk of the summer nights, with his wide fields stretching away

into the gloom, and “the woods” bounding the horizon, his thoughts

dwelt upon serious things; he pondered causes and consequences; he

resolved everything to prime principles. He communed with the Creator

and his first work, Nature.

This communion made him a wonderful talker. He discoursed of

philosophy, politics, and religion. He read much, generally on these

subjects, and read only the best. His bookcases held the masters (in

mellow Elzevirs and Lintots) who had been his father’s friends, and

with whom he associated and communed more intimately than with his

neighbors. Homer, Horace, Virgil, Ovid, Shakespeare, Milton, Dryden,

Goldsmith, “Mr. Pope,” were his poets; Plutarch, Bacon, Burke, and

Dr. Johnson were his philosophers. He knew their teachings and tried

to pattern himself on them. These “new fellows” that his sons raved

over he held in so much contempt that his mere statement of their

inferiority was to his mind an all-convincing argument.

In religion he was as orthodox as the parson. He might not be a

professing member of the church; but he was one of its pillars:

ready to stand by, and, if need were, to fight to the death for the

Thirty-nine Articles, or the Confession of Faith. Yet, if he was

generally grave, he was at times, among his intimates and guests,

jovial, even gay. On festive occasions no one surpassed him in

cheeriness. To a stranger he was always a host, to a lady always a

courtier. When the house was full of guests, he was the life of the

company. He led the prettiest girl out for the dance. At Christmas he

took her under the mistletoe, and paid her gracious compliments which

made her blush and courtesy with dimpling face and dancing eyes. But

whatever was his mood, whatever his surroundings, he was always the

exponent of that grave and knightly courtesy which under all conditions

has become associated with the title “Virginia gentleman.”

[Illustration: “_His thoughts dwelt upon serious things._”]

Whether or not the sons were, as young men, peculiarly admirable may

be a question. They possessed the faults and the virtues of young men

of their kind and condition. They were given to self-indulgence; they

were not broad in their limitations; they were apt to contemn what

did not accord with their own established views (for their views were

established before their mustaches); they were wasteful of time and

energies beyond belief; they were addicted to the pursuit of pleasure.

They exhibited the customary failings of their kind in a society of

an aristocratic character. But they possessed in full measure the

corresponding virtues. They were brave, they were generous, they were

high-spirited. Indulgence in pleasure did not destroy them. It was

the young French noblesse who affected to eschew exertion even to

the point of having themselves borne on litters on their boar-hunts,

and who yet, with a hundred pounds of iron buckled on their frames,

charged like furies at Fontenoy. So these same languid, philandering

young gentlemen, when the crucial occasion came, suddenly appeared as

the most dashing and indomitable soldiery of modern times. It was the

Norfolk company known as the “Dandies” that was extirpated in a single

day.

But, whatever may be thought of the sons, there can be no question as

to the daughters. They were like the mother; made in her own image.

They filled a peculiar place in the civilization; the key was set to

them. They held by a universal consent the first place in the system,

all social life revolving around them. So generally did the life shape

itself about the young girl that it was almost as if a bit of the age

of chivalry had been blown down the centuries and lodged in the old

State. She instinctively adapted herself to it. In fact, she was made

for it. She was gently bred: her people for generations (since they

had come to Virginia) were gentlefolk. They were so well satisfied

that they had been the same in the mother country that they had never

taken the trouble to investigate it. She was the incontestable proof of

their gentility. In right of her blood (the beautiful Saxon, tempered

by the influences of the genial Southern clime), she was exquisite,

fine, beautiful; a creature of peach-blossom and snow; languid,

delicate, saucy; now imperious, now melting, always bewitching. She

was not versed in the ways of the world, but she had no need to be;

she was better than that; she was well bred. She had not to learn to

be a lady, because she was born one. Generations had given her that

by heredity. She grew up apart from the great world. But ignorance of

the world did not make her provincial. Her instinct was an infallible

guide. When a child she had in her sunbonnet and apron met the visitors

at the front steps and entertained them in the parlor until her mother

was ready to appear. Thus she had grown up to the duties of hostess.

Her manners were as perfectly formed as her mother’s, with perhaps a

shade more self-possession. Her beauty was a title which gave her a

graciousness that well befitted her. She never “came out,” because she

had never been “in;” and the line between girlhood and young-ladyhood

was never known. She began to have beaux certainly before she reached

the line; but it did her no harm: she would herself long walk “fancy

free.” A protracted devotion was required of her lovers, and they

began early. They were willing to serve long, for she was a prize worth

the service. Her beauty, though it was often dazzling, was not her

chief attraction.

[Illustration: _An Old Virginia Sideboard._]

That was herself: that indefinable charm; the result of many

attractions, in combination and perfect harmony, which made her

herself. She was delicate, she was dainty, she was sweet. She lived

in an atmosphere created for her,--the pure, clean, sweet atmosphere

of her country home. She made its sunshine. She was generally a

coquette, often an outrageous flirt. It did not imply heartlessness.

It was said that the worst flirts made the most devoted wives. It was

simply an instinct, an inheritance; it was in the life. Her heart was

tender towards every living thing but her lovers; even to them it was

soft in every way but one. Had they had a finger-ache, she would have

sympathized with them. But in the matter of love she was inexorable,

remorseless. She played upon every chord of the heart. Perhaps it was

because, when she gave up, the surrender was to be absolute. From the

moment of marriage she was the worshipper. Truly she was a strange

being. In her muslin and lawn; with her delicious, low, slow, musical

speech; accustomed to be waited on at every turn, with servants to do

her every bidding; unhabituated often even to putting on her dainty

slippers or combing her soft hair,--she possessed a reserve force

which was astounding. She was accustomed to have her wishes obeyed

as commands. It did not make her imperious; it simply gave her the

habit of control. At marriage she was prepared to assume the duties of

mistress of her establishment, whether it were great or small.

Thus, when the time came, the class at the South which had been deemed

the most supine suddenly appeared as the most efficient and the

most indomitable. The courage which the men displayed in battle was

wonderful; but it was nothing to what the Southern women exemplified

at home. There was, perhaps, not a doubtful woman within the limits

of the Confederacy. Whilst their lovers and husbands fought in the

field, they performed the harder part of waiting at home. With more

than a soldier’s courage they bore more than a soldier’s hardship. For

four long years they listened to the noise of the guns, awaiting with

blanched faces but undaunted hearts the news of battle after battle;

buried their beloved dead with tears, and still amid their tears

encouraged the survivors to fight on. It was a force which has not been

duly estimated. It was in the blood.

She was indeed a strange creature, that delicate, dainty, mischievous,

tender, God-fearing, inexplicable Southern girl. With her fine grain,

her silken hair, her satiny skin, her musical speech; pleasure-loving,

saucy, bewitching--deep down lay the bedrock foundation of innate

virtue, piety, and womanliness, on which were planted all for which

human nature can hope, and all to which it can aspire. Words fail to

convey an idea of what she was; as well try to describe the beauty of

the rose or the perfume of the violet. To appreciate her one must have

seen her, have known her, have loved her.

There are certain other characters without mention of which no

picture of the social life of the South would be complete: the old

mammies and family servants about the house. These were important,

and helped to make the life. The Mammy was the zealous, faithful, and

efficient assistant of the mistress in all that pertained to the care

and training of the children. Her authority was recognized in all

that related to them directly or indirectly, second only to that of

the Mistress and Master. She tended them, regulated them, disciplined

them: having authority indeed in cases to administer correction; for

her affection was undoubted. Her _régime_ extended frequently through

two generations, occasionally through three. From their infancy she

was the careful and faithful nurse, the affection between her and the

children she nursed being often more marked than that between her and

her own offspring. She may have been harsh to the latter; she was

never anything but tender with the others. Her authority was, in a

measure, recognized through life, for her devotion was unquestionable.

The young masters and mistresses were her “children” long after they

had children of their own. When they parted from her or met with her

again after separation, they embraced her with the same affection as

when in childhood she “led them smiling into sleep.” She was worthy of

the affection. At all times she was their faithful ally and champion,

excusing them, shielding them, petting them, aiding them, yet holding

them up too to a certain high accountability. Her influence was always

for good. She received, as she gave, an unqualified affection. If she

was a slave, she at least was not a servant, but was an honored member

of the family, universally beloved, universally cared for--“the Mammy.”

[Illustration: “_She was never anything but tender with the others._”]

Next to her in importance and rank were the Butler and the

Carriage-driver. These with the Mammy were the aristocrats of the

family, who trained the children in good manners and other exercises;

and uncompromising aristocrats they were. The Butler was apt to be

severe, and was feared; the Driver was genial and kindly, and was

adored. I recall a butler, “Uncle Tom,” an austere gentleman, who was

the terror of the juniors of the connection. One of the children, after

watching him furtively as he moved about with grand air, when he had

left the room and his footsteps had died away, crept over and asked her

grandmother, his mistress, in an awed whisper, “Grandma, are you ’fraid

of Unc’ Tom?”

The Driver was the ally of the boys, the worshipper of the girls, and

consequently had an ally in their mother, the mistress. As the head of

the stable, he was an important personage. This comradeship was never

forgotten; it lasted through life. The years might grow on him, his

eyes might become dim; but he was left in command even when he was

too feeble to hold the horses; and though he might no longer grasp

the reins, he at least held the title, and to the end was always “the

Driver of Mistiss’s carriage.”

Other servants too there were with special places and

privileges,--gardeners and “boys about the house,” comrades of the

boys; and “own maids,” for each girl had her “own maid.” They all

formed one great family in the social structure now passed away, a

structure incredible by those who knew it not, and now, under new

conditions, almost incredible by those who knew it best.

The social life formed of these elements combined was one of singular

sweetness and freedom from vice. If it was not filled with excitement,

it was replete with happiness and content. It is asserted that it was

narrow. Perhaps it was. It was so sweet, so charming, that it is little

wonder if it asked nothing more than to be let alone.

[Illustration: “_The Butler was apt to be severe, and was feared._”]

They who lived it were a careless and pleasure-loving people; but,

as in most rural communities, their festivities were free from

dissipation. There was sometimes too great an indulgence on the part

of young men in the State drink, the julep; but whether it was that it

killed early, or that it was usually abandoned as the responsibilities

of life increased, an elderly man of dissipated habits was almost

unknown. They were fond of sport, and excelled in it, being generally

fine riders, good shots, and skilled hunters. Love of horses was a race

characteristic, and fine horsemanship was a thing little considered

only because it was universal.

The life was gay. In addition to the perpetual round of ordinary

entertainment, there was always on hand or in prospect some more

formal festivity,--a club meeting, a fox-hunt, a party, a tournament,

a wedding. Little excuse was needed to bring people together where

every one was social, and where the great honor was to be the host.

Scientific horse-racing was confined to the regular race-tracks, where

the races were not dashes, but four-mile heats which tested speed and

bottom alike. But good blood was common, and even a ride with a girl in

an afternoon meant generally a dash along the level through the woods,

where, truth to tell, Miss Atalanta was very apt to win. Occasionally

there was even a dash from the church. The high-swung carriages, having

received their precious loads of lily-fingered, pink-faced, laughing

girls with teeth like pearls and eyes like stars, helped in by young

men who would have thrown not only their cloaks but their hearts into

the mud to keep those dainty feet from being soiled, would go ahead;

and then, the restive saddle-horses being untied from the swinging

limbs, the young gallants would mount, and, by an instinctive common

impulse, starting all together, would make a dash to the first hill, on

top of which the dust still lingered, a golden nimbus thrown from the

wheels that rolled their goddesses.

[Illustration: _The Lady and the Ox-Cart._]

The chief sport, however, was fox-hunting. It was, in season,

almost universal. Who that lived in that time does not remember the

fox-hunts,--the eager chase after “grays” or “old reds”! The grays

furnished more fun, the reds more excitement. The grays did not run

so far, but usually kept near home, going in a circuit of six or

eight miles. “An old red,” generally so called irrespective of age,

as a tribute to his prowess, might lead the dogs all day, and end by

losing them as evening fell, after taking them a dead stretch for

thirty miles. The capture of a gray was what men boasted of; a chase

after “an old red” was what they “yarned” about. Some old reds became

historical characters, and were as well known and as much discussed

in the counties they inhabited as the leaders of the bar or the crack

speakers of the circuit. The wiles and guiles of each veteran were the

pride of his neighbors and hunters. Many of them had names. Gentlemen

discussed them at their club dinners; lawyers told stories about them

in the “Lawyers’ Rooms” at the court-houses; young men, while they

waited for the preacher to get well into the service before going into

church, bragged about them in the churchyards on Sundays. There was one

such that I remember: he was known as “Nat Turner,” after the notorious

leader of “Nat Turner’s Rebellion,” who remained in hiding for weeks

after all his followers were taken.

Great frolics these hunts were; for there were the prettiest girls in

the world in the country houses round about, and each young fellow was

sure to have in his heart some brown or blue-eyed maiden to whom he had

promised the brush, and to whom, with feigned indifference but with

mantling cheek and beating heart, he would carry it if, as he counted

on doing, he should win it. Sometimes the girls came over themselves

and rode, or more likely were already there visiting, and the beaux

simply followed them by a law as immutable as that by which the result

follows the premises in a mathematical proposition.

Even the boys had their lady-loves, and rode for them on the colts or

mules: not the small girls of their own age (no “little girls” for

them!). Their sweethearts were grown young ladies, with smiling eyes

and silken hair and graceful mien, whom their grown cousins courted,

and whom they with their boys’ hearts worshipped. Often a half-dozen

were in love with one--always the prettiest one--and, with the generous

spirit of boys in whom the selfish instinct has not yet awakened,

agreed among themselves that they would all ride for her, and that

whichever got the brush should present it on behalf of all.

What a gallant sight it was! The appearance of the hunters on the

far hill, in the evening, with their packs surrounding them! Who does

not recall the excitement at the house; the arrival in the yard, with

horns blowing, hounds baying, horses prancing, and girls laughing;

the picture of the young ladies on the front portico with their arms

round each other’s dainty waists,--the slender, pretty figures, the

bright faces, the sparkling eyes, the gay laughter and musical voices,

as with coquettish merriment they challenged the riders, demanding to

blow the horns themselves or to ride some specially handsome horse

next morning! The way, the challenge being accepted, they tripped

down the steps,--some with little screams shrinking from the bounding

dogs; one or two with stouter hearts, fixed upon higher game, bravely

ignoring them and leaving their management to their masters, who at

their approach sprang to the ground to meet them, hat in hand and the

telltale blood mounting to their sunburned faces, handsome with the

beauty and pride of youth!

[Illustration: _An Old-fashioned Grist-Mill._]

I am painfully aware of the inadequacy of my picture. But who could do

justice to the truth!

It was owing to all these and some other characteristics that the life

was what it was. It was on a charming key. It possessed an ampleness

and generosity which were not splendid because they were too genuine

and refined.

Hospitality had become a recognized race characteristic, and was

practised as a matter of course. It was universal; it was spontaneous.

It was one of the distinguishing features of the civilization; as much

a part of the social life as any other of the domestic relations. Its

generosity secured it a distinctive title. The exactions it entailed

were engrossing. Its exercise occupied much of the time, and exhausted

much of the means. The constant intercourse of the neighborhood,

with its perpetual round of dinners, teas, and entertainments, was

supplemented by visits of friends and relatives from other sections,

who came with their families, their equipages, and personal servants,

to spend a month or two, or as long a time as they pleased. A dinner

invitation was not so designated. It was, with more exactitude, termed

“spending the day.” On Sundays every one invited every one else from

church, and there would be long lines of carriages passing in at the

open gates.

It is a mystery how the house ever held the visitors. Only the mistress

knew. Her resources were enormous. The rooms, with their low ceilings,

were wide, and had a holding capacity which was simply astounding. The

walls seemed to be made of india-rubber, so great was their stretching

power. No one who came, whether friend or stranger, was ever turned

away. If the beds were full--as when were they not!--pallets were put

down on the floor in the parlor or the garret for the younger members

of the family, sometimes even the passages being utilized. Frequently

at Christmas the master and mistress were compelled to resort to the

same refuge.

It was this intercourse, following the intermarriage and class feeling

of the old families, which made Virginians clannish, and caused a

single distinguishable common strain of blood, however distant, to be

recognized and counted as kinship.

Perhaps this universal entertainment might not now be considered

elegant. Let us see.

It was based upon a sentiment as pure and unselfish as can animate the

human mind,--upon kindness. It was easy, generous, and refined. The

manners of entertainers and entertained alike were gentle, cordial,

simple, with, to strangers, a slight trace of stateliness. The best the

hosts had was given; no more was required.

The conversation was surprising; it was of the crops, the roads,

history, literature, politics, mutual friends, including the entire

field of neighborhood matters, related not as gossip, but as affairs of

common interest, which every one knew or was expected and entitled to

know.

Among the ladies, the fashions came in, of course, embracing

particularly “patterns.”

Politics took the place of honor among the gentlemen, their range

embracing not only State and national politics, but British as well,

as to which they possessed astonishing knowledge, interest in English

matters having been handed down from father to son as a class test.

“My father’s” opinion was quoted as conclusive authority on this

and all points, and in matters of great importance historically “my

grandfather, sir,” was cited. The peculiarity of the whole was that it

was cast on a high plane, and possessed a literary flavor of a high

order; for, as has been said, the classics, Latin and English, with a

fair sprinkling of good old French authors, were in the bookcases, and

were there not for show, but for companionship. There was nothing for

show in that life; it was all genuine, real, true.

[Illustration: _A Colonial Stove._]

They had preserved the old customs that their fathers had brought

with them from the mother country. The great fête of the people was

Christmas. Spring had its special delights,--horse-back rides through

the budding woods, with the birds singing; fishing parties down on the

little rivers, with out-of-doors lunches and love-making; parties of

various kinds from house to house. Summer had its pleasures,--handsome

dinners, and teas with moonlight strolls and rides to follow; visits to

or from relatives, or even to the White Sulphur Springs, called simply

“the White.” The Fall had its pleasures. But all times and seasons

paled and dimmed before the festive joys of Christmas. It had been

handed down for generations; it belonged to the race. It had come over

with their forefathers. It had a peculiar significance. It was a title.

Religion had given it its benediction. It was the time to “Shout the

glad tidings.” It was The Holidays. There were other holidays for the

slaves, both of the school-room and the plantation, such as Easter and

Whit-Monday but Christmas was distinctively “The Holidays.” Then the

boys came home from school or college with their friends; the members

of the family who had moved away returned; pretty cousins came for the

festivities; the neighborhood grew merry. The negroes were all to

have holiday, the house-servants taking turn and turn about, and the

plantation, long before the time, made ready for Christmas cheer. It

was by all the younger population looked back to half the year, looked

forward to the other half. Time was measured by it: it was either so

long “since Christmas,” or so long “before Christmas.” The affairs

of the plantation were set in order against it. The corn was got in;

the hogs were killed; the lard “tried;” sausage-meat made; mince-meat

prepared; turkeys fattened, with “the big gobbler” specially devoted

to the “Christmas dinner;” the servants’ winter clothes and new shoes

stored away ready for distribution; and the plantation began to be

ready to prepare for Christmas.

In the first place, there was generally a cold spell which froze up

everything and enabled the ice-houses to be filled. (The seasons, like

a good many other things, appear to have changed since that old time

before the war.) This spell was the harbinger; and great fun it was

at the ice-pond, where the big rafts of ice were floated along, with

the boys on them. The rusty skates with their curled runners and stiff

straps were gotten out, and maybe tried for a day. Then the stir began.

The wagons all were put to hauling wood--hickory. Nothing but hickory

now; other wood might do for other times. But at Christmas only hickory

was used; and the wood-pile was heaped high with the logs; while to

the ordinary wood-cutters “for the house” were added three, four, a

half-dozen more, whose shining axes rang around the wood-pile all

day long. With what a vim they cut, and how telling was that earnest

“Ha’nh!” as they drove the ringing axes into the hard wood, sending the

big white chips flying in all directions! It was always the envy of the

boys, that simultaneous, ostentatious expulsion of the breath, and

they used to try vainly to imitate it.

In the midst of it all came the wagon or the ox-cart from “the depot,”

with the big white boxes of Christmas things, the black driver feigning

hypocritical indifference as he drove through the choppers to the

storeroom. Then came the rush of all the cutters to help him unload;

the jokes among themselves, as they pretended to strain in lifting, of

what “master” or “mistis” was going to give them out of those boxes,

uttered just loud enough to reach their master’s or mistress’s ears

where they stood looking on, whilst the driver took due advantage of

his temporary prestige to give many pompous cautions and directions.

The getting the evergreens and mistletoe was the sign that Christmas

had come, was really here. There were the parlor and hall and

dining-room to be “dressed,” and, above all, the old church. The last

was the work of the neighborhood; all united in it, and it was one of

the events of the year. Young men rode thirty and forty miles to “help”

dress that church. They did not go home again till after Christmas.

The return from the church was the beginning of the festivities.

Then by “Christmas Eve’s eve” the wood was all cut and stacked high in

the wood-house and on and under the back porticos, so as to be handy,

and secure from the snow which was almost certain to come. It seems

that Christmas was almost sure to bring it in old times; at least it is

closely associated with it. The excitement increased; the boxes were

unpacked, some of them openly, to the general delight; others with a

mysterious secrecy which stimulated curiosity to its highest point and

added immeasurably to the charm of the occasion. The kitchen filled up

with assistants famed for special skill in particular branches of the

cook’s art, who bustled about with glistening faces and shining teeth,

proud of their elevation and eager to prove their merits and add to the

general cheer.

[Illustration: _Dressing the Church._]

It was now Christmas Eve. From time to time the “hired out” servants

came home from Richmond or other places where they had been hired or

had hired out themselves, their terms having been by common custom

framed, with due regard to their rights to the holiday, to expire

in time for them to spend the Christmas at home.[2] There was much

hilarity over their arrival, and they were welcomed like members of the

family as, with their new winter clothes donned a little ahead of time,

they came to pay “bespec’s to master and mistis.”

[2] The hiring contracts ran from New Year to Christmas.

Then the vehicles went off to the distant station for the visitors--the

visitors and the boys. Oh the excitement of that! at first the drag of

the long hours, and then the eager expectancy as the time approached

for their return; the “making up” of the fires in the visitors’

rooms (of the big fires; there had been fires there all day “to air”

them, but now they must be made up afresh); the hurrying backwards

and forwards of the servants; the feverish impatience of every one,

especially of the children, who are sure the train is “late” or that

something has “happened,” and who run and look up towards the big gate

every five minutes, notwithstanding the mammy’s oft-repeated caution

that a “watch’ pot never b’iles.” There was one exception to the

general excitement: the Mistress, calm, deliberate, unperturbed, moved

about with her usual serene composure, her watchful eye seeing that

everything was “ready.” Her orders had been given and her arrangements

made days before, such was her system. The young ladies, having

finished dressing the parlor and hall, had disappeared. Satisfied at

last with their work, after innumerable final touches, every one of

which was an undeniable improvement to that which had already appeared

perfect, they had suddenly vanished--vanished as completely as a

dream--to appear again later on at the parlor door, radiant visions

of loveliness, or, maybe, if certain visitors unexpectedly arrived,

to meet accidentally in the less embarrassing and safer precincts

of the dimly lighted halls or passages. When they appeared, what a

transformation had taken place! If they were bewitching before, now

they were entrancing. The gay, laughing, saucy creature who had been

dressing the parlors and hanging the mistletoe with many jests and

parries of the half-veiled references was now a demure or stately

maiden in all the dignity of a new gown and with all the graciousness

of a young countess.

But this is after the carriages return. They have not yet arrived. They

are late--they are always late--and it is dark before they come; the

glow of the fires and candles shines out through the windows on the

snow, often blackened by the shadows of little figures whose noses are

pressed to the cold panes, which grow blurred with their warm breath.

Meantime the carriages, piled outside and in, are slowly making their

way homeward through the frozen roads, followed by the creaking wagon

filled with trunks, on which are haply perched small muffled figures,

whose places in the carriages are taken by unexpected guests. The

drivers still keep up a running fire with their young masters, though

they have long since been pumped dry as to every conceivable matter

connected with “home,” in return for which they receive information

as to school and college pranks. At last the “big gate” is reached; a

half-frozen figure rolls out and runs to open it, flapping his arms

in the darkness like some strange, uncanny bird; they pass through;

the gleam of a light shines away off on a far hill. The shout goes

up, “There she is; I see her!” The light is lost, but a little later

appears again. It is the light in the mother’s chamber, the curtains

of the windows of which have been left up intentionally, that the

welcoming gleam may be seen afar off by her boys on the first hill--a

blessed beacon shining from home and her mother’s heart.

[Illustration: “_At last the ‘big gate’ is reached._”]

Across the white fields the dark vehicles move, then toil up the house

hill, filled with their eager occupants, who can scarce restrain

themselves; approach the house, by this time glowing with lighted

windows, and enter the yard just as the doors open and a swarm rushes

out with joyful cries of, “Here they are!” “Yes, here we are!” comes in

cheery answer, and one after another they roll or step out, according

to age and dignity, and run up the steps, stamping their feet, the boys

to be taken fast into motherly arms, and the visitors to be given warm

handclasps and cordial welcomes.

Later on the children were got to bed, scarce able to keep in their

pallets for excitement; the stockings were all hung up over the big

fireplace; and the grown people grew gay in the crowded parlors. There

was no splendor, nor show, nor style as it would be understood now.

Had there been, it could not have been so charming. There were only

profusion and sincerity, heartiness and gayety, cordiality and cheer,

and withal genuineness and refinement.

Next morning the stir began before light. White-clad little figures

stole about in the gloom, with bulging stockings clasped to their

bosoms, opening doors, shouting “Christmas gift!” into dark rooms at

sleeping elders, and then scurrying away like so many white mice,

squeaking with delight, to rake open the embers and inspect their

treasures. At prayers, “Shout the glad tidings” was sung by fresh young

voices with due fervor.

How gay the scene was at breakfast! What pranks had been performed in

the name of Santa Claus! Every foible had been played on. What lovely

telltale blushes and glances and laughter greeted the confessions!

The larger part of the day was spent in going to and coming from the

beautifully dressed church, where the service was read, and the anthems

and hymns were sung by every one, for every one was happy.

But, as in the beginning of things, “the evening and the morning were

the first day.” Dinner was the great event. It was the test of the

mistress and the cook, or, rather, the cooks; for the kitchen now was

full of them. It is impossible to describe it. The old mahogany table,

stretched diagonally across the dining-room, groaned; the big gobbler

filled the place of honor; a great round of beef held the second place;

an old ham, with every other dish that ingenuity, backed by long

experience, could devise, was at the side, and the shining sideboard,

gleaming with glass, scarcely held the dessert. The butler and his

assistants were supernaturally serious and slow, which bespoke plainly

too frequent a recourse to the apple-toddy bowl; but under the stimulus

of the mistress’s eye, they got through all right, and their slight

unsteadiness was overlooked.

It was then that the fun began.

After dinner there were apple-toddy and egg-nog, as there had been

before.

[Illustration: _The Virginia Reel._]

There were games and dances--country dances, the lancers and

quadrilles. The top of the old piano was lifted up, and the infectious

dancing-tunes rolled out under the flying fingers. Haply there was some

demur on the part of the elder ladies, who were not quite sure that

it was right; but it was overruled by the gentlemen, and the master

in his frock coat and high collar started the ball by catching the

prettiest girl by the hand and leading her to the head of the room

right under the noses of half a dozen bashful lovers, calling to them

meantime to “get their sweethearts and come along.” Round dancing was

not yet introduced. It was regarded as an innovation, if nothing worse.

It was held generally as highly improper, by some as “disgusting.” As

to the german, why, had it been known, the very name would have been

sufficient to damn it. Nothing foreign in that civilization! There was

fun enough in the old-fashioned country dances, and the “Virginia reel”

at the close. Whoever could not be satisfied with that was hard to

please.

But it was not only in the “great house” that there was Christmas

cheer. Every cabin was full of it, and in the wash-house or the

carpenter-shop there was preparation for a plantation supper.

At this time, too, there were the negro parties, where the ladies and

gentlemen went to look on, the supper having been superintended by the

mistresses, and the tables being decorated by their own white hands.

There was almost sure to be a negro wedding during the holidays. The

ceremony might be performed in the dining-room or in the hall by the

master, or in one of the quarters by a colored preacher; but it was

a gay occasion, and the dusky bride’s trousseau had been arranged by

her young mistress, and the family was on hand to get fun out of the

entertainment, and to recognize by their presence the solemnity of the

tie.

Other weddings there were, too, sometimes following these Christmas

gayeties, and sometimes occurring “just so,” because the girls were

the loveliest in the world, and the men were lovers almost from their

boyhood. How beautiful our mothers must have been in their youth to

have been so beautiful in their age!

[Illustration: _A Negro Wedding._]

There were no long journeys for the young married folk in those times;

the travelling was usually done before marriage. When a wedding took

place, however, the entire neighborhood entertained the young couple.

Truly it was a charming life. There was a vast waste; but it was not

loss. Every one had food, every one had raiment, every one had peace.

There was not wealth in the base sense in which we know it and strive

for it and trample down others for it now. But there was wealth in the

good old sense in which the litany of our fathers used it. There was

weal. There was the best of all wealth; there was content, and “a quiet

mind is richer than a crown.”

We have gained something by the change. The South under her new

conditions will in time grow rich, will wax fat; nevertheless we have

lost much. How much only those who knew it can estimate; to them it was

inestimable.

That the social life of the Old South had its faults I am far from

denying. What civilization has not? But its virtues far outweighed

them; its graces were never equalled. For all its faults, it was, I

believe, the purest, sweetest life ever lived. It has been claimed

that it was non-productive, that it fostered sterility. Only ignorance

or folly could make the assertion. It largely contributed to produce

this nation; it led its armies and its navies; it established this

government so firmly that not even it could overthrow it; it opened up

the great West; it added Louisiana and Texas, and more than trebled

our territory; it christianized the negro race in a little over two

centuries, impressed upon it regard for order, and gave it the only

civilization it has ever possessed since the dawn of history. It

has maintained the supremacy of the Caucasian race, upon which all

civilization seems now to depend. It produced a people whose heroic

fight against the forces of the world has enriched the annals of the

human race,--a people whose fortitude in defeat has been even more

splendid than their valor in war. It made men noble, gentle, and

brave, and women tender and pure and true. It may have fallen short

in material development in its narrower sense, but it abounded in

spiritual development; it made the domestic virtues as common as light

and air, and filled homes with purity and peace.

[Illustration: _A Typical Negro Cabin._]

It has passed from the earth, but it has left its benignant influence

behind it to sweeten and sustain its children. The ivory palaces have

been destroyed, but myrrh, aloes, and cassia still breathe amid their

dismantled ruins.

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Transcriber’s Notes:

--Text in italics is enclosed by underscores (_italics_).

--Punctuation and spelling inaccuracies were silently corrected.

--Archaic and variable spelling has been preserved.

--Variations in hyphenation and compound words have been preserved.

--Added missing captions to the illustrations on pages 12, 18, 26

and 27, from the List of Illustrations.

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