’Tis true, that _GOD_ told _Eve_ after the Fall, that _her Husband

should Rule over her_: And so it is, that he told _Esau_ by the Mouth of

_Isaac_ his Father, that he should _serve_ his _younger Brother_, and

should in Time, and when he was strong enough to do it, _break the Yoke

from off his Neck_. Now, why one Text should be a Command any more than

the other, and not both of them be Predictions only; or why the former

should prove _Adam_’s Natural Right to Rule, and much less every Man’s,

any more than the latter is a Proof of _Jacob_’s Right to Rule, and of

_Esau_’s to Rebel, one is yet to learn? The Text in both Cases

foretelling what would be; but neither of them determining what _ought_

to be.

But the Scripture commands _Wives_ to _submit themselves to their own

Husbands_. True; for which St. _Paul_ gives a Mystical Reason (_Eph._ v.

22, _&c._) and St. _Peter_, a Prudential and Charitable one (1 _Pet._

iii.) but neither of them derive that Subjection from the Law of Nature.

Nay, St. _Paul_, as if he foresaw and meant to prevent this Plea, giving

Directions for their Conduct to Women in general, 1 _Tim._ ii. when he

comes to speak of _Subjection_, he changes his Phrase from _Women_,

which denotes the whole Sex, to _Woman_, which in the New Testament is

appropriated to a Wife.

As for his not suffering Women to speak in the Church, no sober Person

that I know of pretends to it. That learned Paraphrast, indeed, who lays

so much Stress on the _Natural Subjection_, provided this Prerogative be

secur’d, is willing to give up the other. For he endeavours to prove,

that Inspir’d Women, as well as Men, us’d to speak in the Church, and

that St. _Paul_ does not forbid it, but only takes care that the Women

should signify their Subjection by wearing a Veil. But the Apostle is

his own best Expositor, let us therefore compare his Precepts with his

Practice, for he was all of a Piece, and did not contradict himself. Now

by this Comparison we find, that though he forbids Women to teach in the

Church, and this for several Prudential Reasons, like those he

introduces with an _I give my Opinion, and now speak I, not the Lord_,

and not because of any Law of Nature, or positive Divine Precept, for

that the Words _they are commanded_ (1 _Cor._ xiv. 24.) are not in the

Original, appears from the _Italick_ Character, yet he did not found

this Prohibition on any suppos’d want of Understanding in Woman, or of

Ability to teach; neither does he confine them at all Times to _learn in

Silence_. For the eloquent _Apollos_, who was himself a Teacher, was

instructed by _Priscilla_, as well as by her Husband _Aquila_, and was

improv’d by them both in the Christian Faith. Nor does St. _Paul_ blame

her for this, or suppose that she _usurp’d Authority over_ that great

_Man_; so far from this, that as she is always honourably mention’d in

Holy Scripture, so our Apostle, in his Salutations, _Rom._ xvi. places

her in the Front, even before her Husband, giving to her, as well as to

him, the Noble Title of, _his Helper in Christ Jesus_, and of one _to

whom all the Churches of the_ Gentiles had great Obligations.

But, it will be said perhaps, that in 1 _Tim._ ii. 13, _&c._ St. _Paul_

argues for the Woman’s Subjection from the Reason of Things. To this I

answer, that it must be confess’d, that this (according to the vulgar

Interpretation) is a very obscure Place, and I should be glad to see a

Natural, and not a Forc’d Interpretation given of it by those who take

it Literally: Whereas if it be taken Allegorically, with respect to the

Mystical Union between Christ and his Church, to which St. _Paul_

frequently accommodates the Matrimonial Relation, the Difficulties

vanish. For the Earthly _Adam_’s being _form’d_ before _Eve_, seems as

little to prove her Natural Subjection to him, as the living Creatures,

Fishes, Birds and Beasts being form’d before them both, proves that

Mankind must be subject to these Animals. Nor can the Apostle mean that

_Eve_ only sinned; or that she only was _Deceiv’d_, for if _Adam_ sinn’d

wilfully and knowingly, he became the greater Transgressor. But it is

very true, that the Second _Adam_, the Man Christ Jesus, _was first

form’d_, and then his Spouse the Church. He was not in any respect

_Deceiv’d_, nor does she pretend to Infallibility. And from this second

_Adam_, promis’d to _Eve_ in the Day of our first Parents Transgression,

and from Him only, do all their Race, Men as well as Women, derive their

Hopes of Salvation. Nor is it promis’d to either Sex on any other Terms

besides Perseverance in _Faith, Charity, Holiness and Sobriety_.

If the Learned will not admit of this Interpretation, I know not how to

contend with them. For Sense is a Portion that _GOD_ Himself has been

pleased to distribute to both Sexes with an impartial Hand, but Learning

is what Men have engross’d to themselves, and one can’t but admire their

great Improvements! For, after doubting whether there was such a Thing

as Truth, and after many hundred Years Disputes about it, in the last

Century an extraordinary Genius arose, (whom yet, some are pleased to

call a Visionary) enquir’d after it, and laid down the best Method of

finding it. Not to the general Liking of the Men of Letters, perhaps,

because it was wrote in a vulgar Language, and was so natural and easy

as to debase Truth to common Understandings, shewing too plainly, that

Learning and true Knowledge are two very different Things. “For it often

happens (says that Author) that Women and Children acknowledge the

Falsehood of those Prejudices we contend with, because they do not dare

to judge without Examination, and they bring all the Attention they are

capable of to what they read. Whereas on the contrary, the Learned

continue wedded to their own Opinions, because they will not take the

Trouble of examining what is contrary to their receiv’d Doctrines.”

Sciences, indeed, have been invented and taught long ago, and, as Men

grew better advis’d, new modelled. So that it is become a considerable

Piece of Learning to give an Account of the Rise and Progress of the

Sciences, and of the various Opinions of Men concerning them. But

Certainty and Demonstration are much pretended to in this present Age,

and being obtain’d in many Things, ’tis hoped Men will never Dispute

them away in that which is of greatest Importance, the Way of Salvation.

And because there is not any thing more certain than what is delivered

in the Oracles of _GOD_, we come now to consider what they offer in

Favour of our Sex.

Let it be premis’d, (according to the Reasoning of a very ingenious

Person in a like Case) that one Text for us, is more to be regarded than

many against us. Because that _One_ being different from what Custom has

established, ought to be taken with Philosophical Strictness; whereas

the _Many_ being express’d according to the vulgar Mode of Speech, ought

to have no greater Stress laid on them, than that evident Condescension

will bear. One Place then were sufficient, but we have many Instances

wherein Holy Scripture considers Women very differently from what they

appear in the common Prejudices of Mankind.

The World will hardly allow a Woman to say any thing well, unless, as

she borrows it from Men, or as assisted by them: But _GOD_ Himself

allows that the Daughters of _Zelophehad spake right_, and passes their

Request into a Law. Considering how much the Tyranny, shall I say, or

the superior Force of Men, keeps Women from Acting in the World, or

doing any thing considerable, and remembring withal the Conciseness of

the Sacred Story, no small Part of it is bestow’d in transmitting the

History of Women, famous in their Generations: Two of the Canonical

Books, bearing the Names of those great Women whose Vertues and Actions

are there recorded. _Ruth_ being call’d from among the _Gentiles_ to be

an Ancestor of the Messiah, and _Esther_ being rais’d up by _GOD_ to be

the great Instrument of the Deliverance and Prosperity of the _Jewish_

Church.

The Character of _Isaac_, though one of the most blameless Men taken

Notice of in the Old Testament, must give Place to _Rebecca_’s, whose

Affections are more reasonably plac’d than his, her Favourite Son being

the same who was _GOD_’s Favourite. Nor was the Blessing bestow’d

according to his, but to her Desire; so that if you will not allow, that

her Command to _Jacob_ superseded _Isaac_’s to _Esau_, his Desire to

give the Blessing to this Son, being evidently an Effect of his

Partiality; you must at least grant, that she paid greater Deference to

the Divine Revelation, and for this Reason, at least, had a Right to

oppose her Husband’s Design; which, it seems, _Isaac_ was sensible of,

when upon his Disappointment, he _trembled so exceedingly_. And so much

Notice is taken even of _Rebecca_’s Nurse, that we have an Account where

she died, and where she was buried.

_GOD_ is pleas’d to Record it among His Favours to the ingrateful

_Jews_, that He sent before them His Servants _Moses_, _Aaron_, and

MIRIAM; who was also a Prophetess, and instructed the Women how to bear

their Part with _Moses_ in his Triumphal Hymn. Is she to be blam’d for

her Ambition? And is not the High Priest _Aaron_ also, who has his Share

in the Reproof as well as in the Crime? nor could she have mov’d

Sedition if she had not been a considerable Person, which appears also

by the Respect the People paid her, in deferring their Journey till she

was ready.

Where shall we find a nobler Piece of Poetry than _Deborah_’s Song? Or a

better and greater Ruler than that renowned Woman, whose Government so

much excell’d that of the former Judges? And though she had a Husband,

she her self judged _Israel_, and consequently was his Sovereign, of

whom we know no more than the Name. Which Instance, as I humbly suppose,

overthrows the Pretence of _Natural Inferiority_. For it is not the bare

Relation of a Fact, by which none ought to be concluded, unless it is

conformable to a Rule, and to the Reason of Things: But _Deborah_’s

Government was conferr’d on her by _GOD_ Himself. Consequently the

Sovereignty of a Woman is not contrary to the Law of Nature; for the Law

of Nature is the Law of _GOD_, who cannot contradict Himself; and yet it

was _GOD_ who inspir’d and approv’d that great Woman, raising her up to

Judge and to Deliver His People _Israel_.

Not to insist on the Courage of that valiant Woman, who deliver’d

_Thebez_ by slaying the Assailant; nor upon the Preference which _GOD_

thought fit to give to _Sampson_’s Mother, in sending the Angel to her,

and not to her Husband, whose vulgar Fear she so prudently answer’d, as

plainly shews her superior Understanding: To pass over _Abigail_’s wise

Conduct, whereby she preserv’d her Family and deserved _David_’s

Acknowledgments, for restraining him from doing a rash and unjustifiable

Action; the Holy Penman giving her the Character of a _Woman of good

Understanding_, whilst her Husband has that of a Churlish and Foolish

Person, and a Son of _Belial_: To say nothing of the _wise Woman_ (as

the Text calls her) of _Tekoah_; or of her of _Abel_, who has the same

Epithet, and who by her Prudence delivered the City and appeas’d a

dangerous Rebellion: Nor of the Queen of _Sheba_, whose Journey to hear

the Wisdom of _Solomon_, shews her own good Judgment and great Share in

that excellent Endowment. _Solomon_ does not think himself too wise to

be instructed by his Mother, nor too great to record her Lessons, which,

if he had followed, he might have spared the Trouble of Repentance, and

been delivered from a great deal of that Vanity he so deeply regrets.

What Reason can be assign’d why the Mothers of the Kings of _Judah_, are

so frequently noted in those very short Accounts that are given of their

Reigns, but the great Respect paid them, or perhaps their Influence on

the Government, and Share in the Administration? This is not improbable,

since the wicked _Athaliah_ had Power to carry on her Intrigues so far

as to get Possession of the Throne, and to keep it for some Years.

Neither was there any Necessity for _Asa_’s removing his Mother (or

Grandmother) from being Queen, if this were merely Titular, and did not

carry Power and Authority along with it. And we find what Influence

_Jezabel_ had in _Israel_, indeed to her Husband’s and her own

Destruction.

It was a _Widow-Woman_ whom _GOD_ made choice of to sustain his Prophet

_Elijah_ at _Zarephah_. And the History of the _Shunamite_ is a noble

Instance of the Account that is made of Women in Holy Scripture. For

whether it was not the Custom in _Shunem_ for the Husband to dictate, or

whether her’s was conscious of her superior Vertue, or whatever was the

Reason, we find it is she who governs, _dwelling_ with great Honour and

Satisfaction _among her own People_. Which Happiness she understood so

well, and was so far from a troublesome Ambition, that she desires no

Recommendation to _the King or Captain of the Host_, when the Prophet

offer’d it, being already greater than they could make her. The Text

calls her a _Great Woman_, whilst her Husband is hardly taken Notice of,

and this, no otherwise, than as performing the Office of a Bailiff. It

is _her_ Piety and Hospitality that are Recorded, _She_ invites the

Prophet to _her House_; who converses with, and is entertained by _her_.

She gives her Husband no Account of _her_ Affairs any further, than to

tell him _her_ Designs, that he may see them executed. And when he

desires to know the Reason of her Conduct, all the Answer she affords

is, _Well_, or, as the Margin has it from the _Hebrew_, _Peace_. Nor can

this be thought assuming, since it is no more than what the Prophet

encourages, for all his Addresses are to _her_, he takes no Notice of

her Husband. His Benefits are conferr’d on _her_, ’tis _she_ and _her

Household_ whom he warns of a Famine, and ’tis _she_ who Appeals to the

King for the Restitution of _her House_ and _Land_. I would not infer

from hence, that Women, generally speaking, ought to govern in their

Families when they have a Husband; but I think this Instance and Example

is a sufficient Proof, that if by Custom or Contract, or the Laws of the

Country, or Birth-right, (as in the Case of Sovereign Princesses) they

have the supreme Authority, it is no Usurpation, nor do they act

contrary to Holy Scripture, nor consequently to the Law of Nature. For

they are no where, that I know of, forbidden to claim their just Right:

The Apostle, ’tis true, would not have them _usurp_ Authority, where

Custom and the Law of the strongest had brought them into Subjection, as

it has in these Parts of the World. Though in remoter Regions, if

Travellers rightly inform us, the Succession to the Crown is intail’d on

the Female Line.

_GOD_ Himself, who is _no Respecter of Persons, with whom there is

neither Bond nor Free, Male nor Female, but_ they _are all one in Christ

Jesus_, did not deny Women that Divine Gift the Spirit of Prophecy,

neither under the _Jewish_ nor Christian Dispensation. We have nam’d two

great Prophetesses already, _Miriam_ and _Deborah_; and besides other

Instances, _Huldah_ the Prophetess was such an Oracle, that the good

King _Josiah_, that great Pattern of Vertue, sends even the High Priest

himself to consult her, and to receive Directions from her in the most

arduous Affairs. _It shall come to pass_, saith the Lord, _that I will

pour out my Spirit upon all Flesh, and your Sons and your Daughters

shall Prophesy_, which was accordingly fulfill’d by the Mission of the

Holy _Ghost_ on the Day of _Pentecost_, as St. _Peter_ tells us. And,

besides others, there is mention of four Daughters of _Philip_, Virgins,

who did Prophesy. For, as in the _Old_, so in the _New Testament_, Women

make a considerable Figure; the Holy Virgin receiving the greatest

Honour that Human Nature is capable of, when the Son of _GOD_ vouchsafed

to be her Son, and to derive his Humanity from her only. And if it is a

greater Blessing _to hear the Word of_ _GOD_ _and keep it_, who are more

considerable for their Assiduity in this, than the Female Disciples of

our LORD? _Mary_ being Exemplary, and receiving a noble Encomium from

Him, for her Choice of the better Part.

It would be thought tedious to enumerate all the excellent Women

mentioned in the _New Testament_, whose humble Penitence and ardent

Love, as _Magdalen_’s; their lively Faith and holy Importunity, as the

_Syrophenician_’s; extraordinary Piety and Uprightness, as

_Elizabeth_’s; Hospitality, Charity and Diligence, as _Martha_’s,

_Tabitha_’s, _&c._ (see St. _Luke_ viii.); frequent and assiduous

Devotions and Austerities, as _Anna_’s; Constancy and Courage,

Perseverance and ardent Zeal, as that of the Holy Women who attended our

LORD to His Cross, when His Disciples generally forsook, and the most

Courageous had denied Him; are Recorded for our Example. Their Love was

stronger than Death, it followed our Saviour into the Grave. And, as a

Reward, both the Angel, and even the LORD Himself, appears first to

them, and sends them to preach the great Article of the Resurrection to

the very Apostles, who being, as yet, under the Power of the Prejudices

of their Sex, esteem’d the Holy Womens _Words as idle Tales, and

believed them not_.

Some Men will have it, that the Reason of our LORD’s appearing first to

the Women, was, their being least able to keep a Secret; a witty and

masculine Remark, and wonderfully Reverent! But not to dispute whether

those Women were Blabs or no, there are many Instances in Holy

Scripture, of Women who did not betray the Confidence repos’d in them.

Thus _Rahab_, though formerly an ill Woman, being converted by the

_Report_ of those Miracles, which, though the _Israelites saw_, yet they

_believed not in_ _GOD_, _nor put their Trust in his Word_, She

acknowledges the _GOD_ of Heaven, and, as a Reward of her faithful

Service, in concealing _Joshua_’s Spies, is, with her Family, exempted

from the Ruin of her Country, and also, has the Honour of being named in

the _Messiah_’s Genealogy. _Michal_, to save _David_’s Life, exposes her

self to the Fury of a Jealous and Tyrannical Prince. A Girl was trusted

by _David_’s grave Counsellors to convey him Intelligence in his Son’s

Rebellion; and when a Lad had found it out, and blab’d it to _Absalom_,

the King’s Friends confiding in the Prudence and Fidelity of a Woman,

were secur’d by her. When our LORD escaped from the _Jews_, he trusted

Himself in the Hands of _Martha_ and _Mary_. So does St. _Peter_ with

another _Mary_, when the Angel deliver’d him from _Herod_, the Damsel

_Rhoda_ too, was acquainted with the Secret. More might be said, but one

would think here is enough to shew, that whatever other great and wise

Reasons Men may have for despising Women, and keeping them in Ignorance

and Slavery, it can’t be from their having learnt to do so in Holy

Scripture. The Bible is for, and not against us, and cannot without

great Violence done to it, be urg’d to our Prejudice.

However, there are strong and prevalent Reasons which demonstrate the

Superiority and Pre-eminence of the Men. For in the first Place, Boys

have much Time and Pains, Care and Cost bestow’d on their Education,

Girls have little or none. The former are early initiated in the

Sciences, are made acquainted with antient and modern Discoveries, they

study Books and Men, have all imaginable Encouragement; not only Fame, a

dry Reward now a-days, but also Title, Authority, Power, and Riches

themselves, which purchase all Things, are the Reward of their

Improvement. The latter are restrain’d, frown’d upon, and beat, not

_for_, but _from_ the Muses; Laughter and Ridicule, that never-failing

Scare-Crow, is set up to drive them from the Tree of Knowledge. But if,

in spite of all Difficulties Nature prevails, and they can’t be kept so

ignorant as their Masters would have them, they are star’d upon as

Monsters, censur’d, envied, and every way discouraged, or, at the best,

they have the Fate the Proverb assigns them, _Vertue is prais’d and

starv’d_. And therefore, since the coarsest Materials need the most

Curing, as every Workman can inform you, and the worst Ground the most

elaborate Culture, it undeniably follows, that Mens Understandings are

superior to Womens, for, after many Years Study and Experience, they

become wise and learned, and Women are not Born so!

Again, Men are possessed of all Places of Power, Trust and Profit, they

make Laws and exercise the Magistracy, not only the sharpest Sword, but

even all the Swords and Blunderbusses are theirs, which by the strongest

Logick in the World, gives them the best Title to every Thing they

please to claim as their Prerogative: Who shall contend with them?

Immemorial Prescription is on their Side in these Parts of the World,

antient Tradition and modern Usage! Our Fathers, have all along, both

taught and practised Superiority over the weaker Sex, and consequently

Women are by Nature inferior to Men, as was to be demonstrated. An

Argument which must be acknowledged unanswerable; for, as well as I love

my Sex, I will not pretend a Reply to _such_ Demonstration!

Only let me beg to be inform’d, to whom we poor Fatherless Maids, and

Widows who have lost their Masters, owe Subjection? It can’t be to all

Men in general, unless all Men were agreed to give the same Commands; Do

we then fall as Strays, to the first who finds us? By the Maxims of some

Men, and the Conduct of some Women one would think so. But whoever he be

that thus happens to become our Master, if he allows us to be reasonable

Creatures, and does not meerly Compliment us with that Title, since no

Man denies our Readiness to use our Tongues, it would tend, I should

think, to our Master’s Advantage, and therefore he may please to be

advis’d to teach us to improve our Reason. But if Reason is only allow’d

us by way of Raillery, and the secret Maxim is, that we have none, or

little more than Brutes, ’tis the best way to confine us with Chain and

Block to the Chimney-Corner, which, probably, might save the Estates of

some Families and the Honour of others.

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