SEX AND SOCIAL FEELING

An examination of the early habits of man and an analysis of the

instincts which persist in him show that he has been essentially a

predaceous animal, fighting his way up at every step of the struggle

for existence. It therefore becomes a point of considerable interest

to determine what influences have contributed to soften his behavior

and make it possible for him to dwell in harmony and co-operation with

large groups of his fellows.

We, the lineal representatives of the successful enactors

of one scene of slaughter after another, must, whatever more

pacific virtues we may also possess, still carry about with

us, ready to burst at any moment into flame, the smouldering

and sinister traits of character by means of which they lived

through so many massacres, harming others, but themselves

unharmed.... If evolution and the survival of the fittest

be true at all, the destruction of prey and of human rivals

must have been among the most important of man's primitive

functions, the fighting and the chasing instincts _must_ have

become ingrained. Certain perceptions _must_ immediately,

and without the intervention of inferences and ideas, have

prompted emotions and motor discharges; and both the latter

must, from the nature of the case, have been very violent, and

therefore when unchecked of an intensely pleasurable

kind. It is just because bloodthirstiness is such a primitive

part of us that it is so hard to eradicate, especially where a

fight or a hunt is promised as a part of the fun.... No! those

who try to account for this from above downwards, as if it

resulted from the consequences of the victory being rapidly

inferred, and from the agreeable sensations associated with

them in the imagination, have missed the root of the matter.

Our ferocity is blind and can only be explained from _below_.

Could we trace it back through our lines of descent, we

should see it taking more and more the form of a fatal reflex

response, and at the same time becoming more and more the pure

and direct emotion that it is.[157]

If we examine, in fact, our pleasures and pains, our moments of

elation and depression, we find that they go back for the most part to

instincts developed in the struggle for food and rivalry for mates.

We can perhaps best get at the meaning of the conflict interest to the

organism in terms of the significance to itself or the organism's own

movements. Locomotion, of whatever type, is primarily to enable the

animal to reach and grasp food, and also to escape other animals

bent on finding food. The structure of the organism has been built

up gradually through the survival of the most efficient structures.

Corresponding with a structure mechanically adapted to successful

movements, there is developed on the psychic side an interest in the

conflict situation as complete and perfect as is the structure itself.

The emotional states are, indeed, organic preparations for action,

corresponding broadly with a tendency to advance or retreat, and a

connection has even been made out between pleasurable states and the

extensor muscles, and painful states and the flexor muscles. We can

have no adequate idea of the time consumed and the experiments made in

nature before the development of these types of structure and interest

of the conflict pattern, but we know from the geological records that

the time and experiments were long and many, and the competition so

sharp, that finally, not in man alone, but in all the higher classes

of animals, body and mind, structure and interest, were working

perfectly in motor actions of the violent type involved in a life

of conflict, competition, and rivalry. There could not have been

developed an organism depending on offensive and defensive movements

for food and life without an interest in what we call a dangerous or

precarious situation. A type without this interest would have been

defective, and would have dropped out in the course of development.

There has been comparatively little change in human structure or human

interest in historical times. It is a popular view that moral and

cultural views and interests have superseded our animal instincts;

but the cultural period is only a span in comparison with prehistoric

times and the prehuman period of life, and it seems probable that

types of psychic reaction were once for all developed and fixed;

and while objects of attention and interest in different historical

periods are different, we shall never get far away from the original

types of stimulus and reaction. It is, indeed, a condition of normal

life that we should not get too far away from them.

The fact that our interests and enthusiasms are called out in

situations of the conflict type is shown by a glance at the situations

which arouse them most readily. War is simply an organized form of

fight, and as such is most attractive, or, to say the least, arouses

the interests powerfully. With the accumulation of property, and the

growth of sensibility and intelligence, it becomes apparent that war

is a wasteful and unsafe process, and public and personal interests

lead us to avoid it as much as possible. But, however genuinely war

may be deprecated, it is certainly an exciting game. The Rough Riders

in this country recently, and more recently the young men of the

aristocracy of England, went to war from motives of patriotism, no

doubt; but there are unmistakable evidences that they also regarded

it as the greatest sport they were likely to have a chance at in a

lifetime. And there is evidence in plenty that the emotional attitude

of women toward war is no less intense. Grey[158] relates that half a

dozen old women among the Australians will drive the men to war with

a neighboring tribe over a fancied injury. The Jewish maidens went out

with music and dancing, and sang that Saul had slain his thousands,

but David his ten thousands. Two American women who passed through the

horrors of the siege of Pekin were, on their return, given a reception

by their friends, and the daily press reported that they exhibited

among other trophies "a Boxer's sword with the blood still on the

blade, which was taken from the body of a Boxer killed by the legation

guards; and a Boxer spear with which a native Christian girl was

struck down in Legation Street." It is not necessary to regard as

morbid or vulgar the action of these ladies in bringing home reminders

of their peril. On the contrary, it is a sign of continued animal

health and instinct in the race to feel deep interest in perilous

situations and pleasure in their revival in consciousness.

"Unaccommodated man" was, to begin with, in relations more hostile

than friendly. The struggle for food was so serious a fact, and

predaceousness to such a degree the habit of life, that a suspicious,

hostile, and hateful state of mind was the rule, with exceptions only

in the cases where truce, association, and alliance had come about

in the course of experience. This was still the state of affairs in

so advanced a stage of development as the Indian society of North

America, where a tribe was in a state of war with every tribe with

which it had not made a treaty of peace; and it is perhaps true,

generally speaking, of men today, that they regard others with a

degree of distrust and aversion until they have proved themselves good

fellows. What, indeed, would be the fate of a man on the streets of

a city if he did otherwise? There has, nevertheless, grown up an

intimate relation between man and certain portions of his environment;

and this includes, not only his wife and children, his dog and his

blood-brother, but, with lessening intensity, the members of his clan,

tribe, and nation. These become, psychologically speaking, a portion

of himself, and stand with him against the world at large. From

the standpoint here outlined, prejudice or its analogue is the

starting-point, and our question becomes one of the determination of

the steps of the process by which man mentally allied with himself

certain portions of his environment to the exclusion of others.

If we look for an explanation of the hostility which a group feels

for another group, and of the sympathy which its members feel for one

another, we may first of all inquire whether there are any conditions

arising in the course of the biological development of a species

which, aside from social activities, lead to a predilection for those

of one's own kind and a prejudice against different groups. And we do,

in fact, find such conditions. The earliest movements of animal life

involve, in the rejection of stimulations vitally bad, an attitude

which is the analogue of prejudice. On the principle of chemiotaxis,

the micro-organism will approach a particle of food placed in the

water and shun a particle of poison; and its movements are similarly

controlled by heat, light, electricity, and other tropic forces.[159]

The development of animal life from this point upward consists in

the growth of structure and organs of sense adapted to discriminate

between different stimulations, to choose between the beneficial and

prejudicial, and to obtain in this way a more complete control of the

environment. Passing over the lower forms of animal life, we find in

the human type the power of attention, memory, and comparison highly

developed, so that an estimate is put on stimulations and situations

correspondent with the bearing of stimulations or situations of this

type on welfare in the past. The choice and rejection involved in this

process are accompanied by organic changes (felt as emotions) designed

to assist in the action which follows a decision.[160] Both the

judgment and the emotions are thus involved in the presentation to the

senses of a situation or object involving possible advantage or hurt,

pleasure or pain. It consequently transpires that the feelings called

out on the presentation of disagreeable objects and their contrary

are very different, and there arise in this connection fixed mental

attitudes corresponding with fixed or habitually recurrent external

situations--hate and love, prejudice and predilection--answering to

situations which revive feelings of pain on the one hand, and feelings

of pleasure on the other. And such is the working of suggestion that,

not alone an object or situation may produce a given state of feeling,

but a voice, an odor, a color, or any characteristic sign of an object

may produce the same effect as the object itself. The sight or smell

of blood is an excitant to a bull, because it revives a conflict state

of feeling, and even the color of a red rag produces a similar effect.

When we come to examine in detail the process by which an

associational and sympathetic relation is set up between the

individual and certain parts of the outside world to the exclusion

of others, we find this at first, on a purely instinctive and reflex

basis, originating in connection with food-getting and reproduction,

and growing more conscious in the higher forms of life. One of the

most important origins of association and prepossession is seen in

the relation of parents, particularly of mothers, to children. This

begins, of course, among the lower animals. The mammalian class, in

particular, is distinguished by the strength and persistence of the

devotion of parents to offspring. The advantage secured by the form

of reproduction characteristic of man and the other mammals is that

a closer connection is secured between the child and the mother. By

the intra-uterine form of reproduction the association of mother and

offspring is set up in an organic way before the birth of the latter,

and is continued and put on a social basis during the period of

lactation and the early helpless years of the child. By continuing the

helpless period of the young for a period of years, nature has made

provision on the time side for a complex physical and mental type,

impossible in types thrown at birth on their own resources. Along

with the structural modification of the female on account of the

intra-uterine form of reproduction and the effort of nature to secure

a more complex type and a better chance of survival, there is a

corresponding development of the sentiments, and maternal feeling,

in particular, is developed as the subjective condition necessary

to carrying out the plan of giving the infant a prolonged period of

helplessness and play through which its faculties are developed.[161]

The scheme would not work if the mother were not more interested

in the child than in anything else in the world. In the course

of development every variational tendency in mothers to dote on

their children was rewarded by the survival of these children, and

the consequent survival of the stock, owing to better nutrition,

protection, and training. Of course, this inherited interest in

children is shared by the males of the group also, though not in the

same degree, and there is reason to believe also that the interest of

the male parent in children is acquired in a great degree indirectly

and socially through his more potent desire to associate with the

mother.

This interest and providence on the score of offspring has also a

characteristic expression on the mental side. All sense-perceptions

are colored and all judgments biased where the child is in question,

and affection for it extends to the particular marks which distinguish

it. Not only its physical features, but its dress and little shoes,

its toys and everything it has touched take on a peculiar aspect.

On the organic side, therefore, there is developed a tendency, both in

connection with reactions to stimulations in general and in connection

with reproductive life in particular, to seize on particular aspects

and to be obsessed by them to the exclusion or disparagement of other

aspects. The feelings of love and hate, and the broader feelings of

race-prejudice and patriotism are consequently based first of all in

the instincts.

Perhaps the most particular and interesting expression of the general

fact of susceptibility is seen in the sensitiveness of man to the

opinion in which he is held by others. Social life in every stage of

society is characterized by an eagerness to make a striking effect.

A bare reference to the ethnological facts in this connection will

suffice: The Kite Indians have a society of young men so brave and so

ostentatious of their bravery that they will not fight from cover nor

turn aside to avoid running into an ambuscade or a hole in the ice.

The African has the privilege of cutting a gash six inches long in

his thigh for every man he has killed. The Melanesian who is planning

revenge sets up a stick or stone where it can be seen; he refuses to

eat, and stays away from the dance; he sits silent in the council and

answers questions by whistling and by other signs draws attention to

himself and has it understood that he is a brave and dangerous man,

and that he is biding his time.[162]

This bidding for the good opinion of others has plainly a connection

with food-getting, and with the conflict side of life. High courage is

praised and valued by society, and a man of courage is less imposed on

by others, and comes in for substantial recognition and the favor of

women. It is thus of advantage to act in such a way as to get public

approval and some degree of appreciation; and a degree of sensibility

on the score of the opinion of others, or at least a reckoning upon

this, is involved in the process of personal adjustment.

But the problem of personal adjustment at this point would seem

to call for more of intelligence than emotion; and we find, on the

contrary, an excess of sensibility and a mania for being well thought

of hardly to be explained as originating in the exigencies of tribal

organization, nor yet on the score of its service to the individual in

getting his food and living out his life. Why could not primitive man

live in society, be of the war-parties, plan ambuscades, develop his

fighting technique and gear, be a blood-brother to another man, show

his trophies, set a high value on his personality, and insist on

recognition and respect, without this almost pathological dependence

on the praise and blame of others?

Or if we approach the question from another standpoint and inspect our

states of consciousness, we find signs that we have a greater fund of

sensibility than is justified in immediate activity. We have the same

mania to be well thought of; we are unduly interested when we hear

that others have been talking about us; we are annoyed, even furious,

at a slight criticism, and are childishly delighted by a compliment

(without regard to our deserts); and children and adults alike

understand how to put themselves forward and get notice, and equally

well how to get notice by withdrawing themselves and staying away or

out of a game. We have a tendency to show off which is not apparently

genetically connected with exploit or organization, and we recognize

that this form of vanity is not consistent with the ordinary run of

our activities when we argue with ourselves that the opinion of this

or that person is of no consequence and attempt to think ourselves

into a state of indifference. Intellectually and deliberately our

attitude toward criticism from others would often be, if we could

choose, represented by Tweed's query: "What are you going to do about

it?" But actually it puts us to bed.

All of this seems to indicate that there is an element in sensibility

not accounted for on the exploit or food side, and this element is, I

believe, genetically connected with sexual life. Unlike the struggle

for existence in the ordinary sense of the phrase, the courtship of

the sexes presents a situation in which an appeal is made for the

favor of another personality, and the success of this appeal has a

survival value--not for the individual, but for the species through

the individual. We have, in fact, a situation in which the good

opinion of another is vitally important. On this account the means

of attracting and interesting others are definitely and bountifully

developed among all the higher species of animals. Voice, plumage,

color, odor, and movement are powerful excitants in wooing and aids

both to the conquest of the female and the attraction of the male. In

this connection we must also recognize the fact that reproductive life

must be connected with violent stimulation, or it would be neglected

and the species would become extinct; and, on the other hand, if the

conquest of the female were too easy, sexual life would be in danger

of becoming a play interest and a dissipation, destructive of energy

and fatal to the species. Working, we may assume, by a process of

selection and survival, nature has both secured and safeguarded

reproduction. The female will not submit to seizure except in a high

state of nervous excitation (as is seen especially well in the wooing

of birds), while the male must conduct himself in such a way as to

manipulate the female; and, as the more active agent, he develops a

marvelous display of technique for this purpose. This is offset by the

coyness and coquetry of the female, by which she equally attracts and

fascinates the male and practices upon him to induce a corresponding

state of nervous excitation.[163]

This is the only situation in the life of the lower animals, at

any rate, where the choice of another is vitally important; and

corresponding with the elaborate technique to secure this choice we

have in wooing pleasure-pain reactions of a violent character. In a

word, extreme sensitiveness to the judgment of another answers on

the subjective side to technique for the conquest of a member of the

opposite sex. It seems, therefore, that we are justified in concluding

that our vanity and susceptibility have their origin largely in sexual

life, and that, in particular, our susceptibility to the opinion of

others and our dependence on their good will are genetically referable

to sexual life.

This view would be completely substantiated if we could show that the

qualities of vanity and susceptibility in question are present in any

species where it is impossible to assume that they were developed

in connection with the struggle for food and as the result of the

survival of types showing a tendency to combine and co-operate in

the effort to get food. And we do, in fact, have cases of this kind

among some of the lower animals. It cannot be said that the dog, for

instance, has survived in the struggle for existence because of his

sensitiveness to public opinion in his species nor on account of an

interest in being well thought of by the community of dogs at large

which would lead him to behave in a public-spirited or moral manner.

At the same time, the dog in his relation to man shows as keen a

sensitiveness to man's opinion and treatment as does man himself. The

attention which the master pays to one dog will almost break the heart

of a dog not receiving it. A neglected dog plainly suffers as much

in his way as the soldier who is sent to Coventry by his messmates;

and if neglected and jealous dogs do not commit suicide, as they

are reported to do, they are evidently in a state of mind to do so.

This means that the dog has highly developed susceptibility to the

appreciation of others, and that the species which he represents has

had no history except a sexual history capable of developing this

mental attitude. In connection with courtship he developed a fund of

organic susceptibility, and this condition is involved in his more

general relation to man; the machinery set up in sexual relations is

played on by stimuli in general. A condition favorable to stimuli of

a particular kind is favorable to stimuli in general; and it seems

likely that this not very prominent fact of a state of excitation in a

sexual connection is an important factor in the formation of the mind

and of society.

There are also certain conditions in the development of the individual

and of society where the sexual type of reaction is so near the

surface that it shows through in connection with political, moral, and

other essentially non-sexual activities. Passing over the fact that

the period of adolescence is noticeably a period of "susceptibility"

and personal vanity, we may take as an example of the intrusion or

persistence of the sexual element in conditions of a non-sexual kind

the frequent association of sexual with religious excitement.[164]

The appeal made during a religious revival to an unconverted person

has psychologically some resemblance to the attempt of the male to

overcome the hesitancy of the female. In each case the will has to be

set aside, and strong suggestive means are used; and in both cases the

appeal is not of the conflict type, but of an intimate, sympathetic,

and pleading kind. In the effort to make a moral adjustment, it

consequently turns out that a technique is used which was derived

originally from sexual life, and the use, so to speak, of the sexual

machinery for a moral adjustment involves, in some cases, the carrying

over into the general process of some sexual manifestations. The

emotional forms used and the emotional states aroused are not entirely

stripped of their sexual content.

On the race side, also, there is a stage in development where the

sexual pattern is transferred almost unmodified to public affairs. The

following extracts from a lengthy description given by Mr. Bowdich

of his reception by the king of Ashanti, in the year 1817, will

illustrate sufficiently the employment of the turkey-cock pattern of

activity in political relations:

The sun was reflected with a glare scarcely more supportable

than the heat from massive gold ornaments which glistened in

every direction. More than a hundred bands burst at once on

our arrival, with the peculiar airs of their several chiefs;

the horns flourished their defiances, with the beating of

innumerable drums and metal instruments, and then yielded for

a while to the soft breathings of their long flutes.... At

least a hundred large umbrellas or canopies, which could

shelter thirty persons, were sprung up and down by the bearers

with brilliant effect, being made of scarlet, yellow, and

the most showy cloths and silks, and crowned on the top with

crescents, pelicans, elephants, barrels, and arms and swords

of gold.... The caboceers, as did their superior captains, and

attendants, wore Ashanti cloths of extravagant price, from the

costly foreign silks which had been unravelled to weave them

in all the varieties of color as well as pattern: they were

of incredible size and weight, and thrown over the shoulder

exactly like the Roman toga; a small silk fillet generally

encircled their temples, and many gold necklaces, intricately

wrought, suspended Moorish charms, dearly purchased, and

enclosed in small square cases of gold, silver, and curious

embroidery. Some wore necklaces reaching to the waist,

entirely of aggry beads; a band of gold and beads encircled

the knee, from which several strings of the same depended;

small circlets of gold, like guineas, rings, and casts of

animals were strung round their ankles; their sandals were

of green, red and delicate white leather; manillas, and rude

lumps of rock gold hung from their left wrists, which were so

heavily laden as to be supported on the head of one of their

handsomest boys.... [The king] wore a fillet of aggry beads

round his temples, a necklace of gold cockspur shells strung

by their larger ends, and over his right shoulder a red silk

cord, suspending three sapphires cased in gold; his bracelets

were of the richest mixtures of beads and gold, and his

fingers covered with rings; his cloth was of a dark green

silk, a pointed diadem was elegantly painted in white on

his forehead; also a pattern resembling an epaulette on each

shoulder, and an ornament like a full blown rose, one leaf

rising above another until it covered his whole breast.... The

belts of the guards behind his chair were cased in gold, and

covered with small jaw-bones of the same metal; the elephants'

tails, waving like a small cloud before him, were spangled

with gold, and large plumes of feathers were flourished among

them. His eunuch presided over these attendants, wearing only

one massive piece of gold about his neck; the royal stool,

entirely cased in gold, was displayed under a splendid

umbrella, with drums, sankos, horns, and various musical

instruments, cased in gold, about the thickness of cartridge

paper; large circles of gold hung by scarlet cloth from the

swords of state;... hatchets of the same were intermixed with

them; the breasts of the Ochras and various attendants were

adorned with large stars, stools, crescents, and gossamer

wings of solid gold.[165]

It is not surprising that the characteristically sexual method of

display and emotional appeal should be associated with the earlier

efforts at adjustment, both in the individual and in the state. This

method is based on the instincts, and just as inhibition and brain

legislation follow the instincts in point of development, a rational

mode of control, individual and public, is developed later than the

emotional form, or, at any rate, is not at first independent of it.

The origin of mental impressionability seems to lie then, not in one,

but in the two general regions of activity--that connected with the

struggle for food and that connected with reproduction. The strain

on the attention in the food and conflict side of life involves

the development of mental impressionability, particularly of an

impressionability on the side of cognition. But in addition we have

the impressionability growing out of sexual life which has been in

question above, and which is more closely related to appreciation than

to cognition. And of these two aspects of impressionability--the one

growing out of conflict and the one growing out of reproduction--the

latter has more social possibilities than the former, because it

implies a sympathetic rather than an antagonistic organic attitude. It

is certainly in virtue of susceptibility to the opinion of others that

society works--through public opinion, fashion, tradition, reproof,

encouragement, precept, and doctrine--to bring the individual

under control and make him a member of society; and it is doubtful

whether this could have been accomplished if a peculiar attitude

of responsiveness to opinion had not arisen in sexual relations,

reinforcing the more general and cognitive impressionability.

Without this capacity to be influenced the individual would be in the

condition of the hardened criminal, and society would be impossible.

This sex-susceptibility, which was originally developed as an

accessory of reproduction and had no social meaning whatever, has

thus, in the struggle of society to obtain a hold on the individual,

become a social factor of great importance, and together with another

product of sexual life--the love of offspring--it is, I suspect, the

most immediate source of our sympathetic attitudes in general, and an

important force in the development of the ideal, moral, and aesthetic

sides of life.

Morality, sympathy, and altruism are of tribal origin, and have their

roots in (1) the love of offspring, (2) the sensitivity connected

with courtship, and (3) the comradeship which arises among men in

prosecuting vital interests in common. The history of society on the

moral and aesthetic sides is in great part the history of the attempt

to make the sympathetic attitude prevail over the more antagonistic.

But how far we are still short of this, and how far our sympathy

and morality are still tribal and even familial, is indicated by the

persistence of race-prejudice and of that

lust in man no charm can tame

Of loudly publishing our neighbor's shame.

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