CLUB.

ADDRESS. If residing at a club, a man's visiting-

card should have his club's name in the lower

right-hand corner; if not, the name should

be put in lower left-hand corner.

STATIONERY. This is always in good form for

social correspondence by men.

COACHING. See DRIVING.

COACHMAN-TIPS. It is customary when a guest

leaves a house party after a visit to give the

coachman a tip.

COLLEGE DEGREES. Custom, good taste, and the fitness

of things forbid a college man having engraved,

on his visiting-card, his college degrees--as,

A.B., A.M., etc.

COMMERCE, Secretary of--How Addressed. An official

letter begins: Sir, and ends: I have, sir,

the honor to remain your most obedient servant.

A social letter begins: My dear Mr. Wilson,

and ends: I have the honor to remain most sincerely

yours.

The address on the envelope is: Hon. John

J. Wilson, Secretary of Commerce.

COMMITTEES-PUBLIC BALLS. Public balls are conducted

like private ones, and the etiquette is the

same for the guests. The difference in their

management is that, in place of a hostess, her

functions and duties are filled by committees

selected by the organization giving the ball.

CONCLUSION OF A LETTER. The standard conclusions of

letters are: I remain sincerely yours, or; Believe

me faithfully yours.

For business correspondence the standard

conclusions are: Yours truly, or; Very truly yours.

For relatives and dear friends the standard

forms are: Affectionately yours, or; Devotedly yours.

One should avoid signing a letter with only initials,

Christian name, surnames, or diminutives.

MEN. In writing formally on business to a

woman he knows slightly, a man could say:

I am respectfully yours. When not on business

he could write: I beg to remain yours to command.

He should avoid a signature like: J. Jones

Wilson, but write: James J. Wilson

WOMEN. In social correspondence a married woman should

sign: Minnie Wilson, and not: Mrs. John Wilson.

If she wants to make known in a business letter

the fact of her being married, and may not know

if the person addressed knows the fact, she may write:

Minnie Wilson

(Mrs. John Wilson)

An unmarried woman would sign her name as:

Minnie Wilson, and if wishing not to be taken

for a widow would sign: Miss Minnie Wilson.

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