While self-abnegation is a valued experience in the spiritual
discipline which goes to the formation of a perfect character, the
reaction where the ego posits itself upon the law of justice to self,
is in reality the beginning of salvation to the individual. But
preachment from any source cannot avail with any soul deeply immersed
in work for others. There is too much in array against it. The
established heredity concerning the first duty of woman is of itself
alone a formidable influence to be overcome; then either the real
needs, or the selfishness of others, present obstacles beyond the power
of loving, sensitive souls to resist. The change must come from the
consciousness of the individual of her own needs along these lines,
which alone can arouse one to sufficient will, and purpose to be true
to one's self if the heavens fall. This is first, and above all other
considerations.