XV.

_THE INQUISITIVE._

"The Inquisitive will blab: from such refrain;

Their leaky ears no secret can retain."--HORACE.

The Inquisitive is a talker whose capacity is for taking rather than

giving. To ask questions is his province, and not to give answers. He is

more anxious to know than he is to make known. Though in some instances

he may have the ability to speak good sense, yet he cannot or will not

exercise himself in so doing. He must pry into other people's stock of

knowledge, and find out all that he can for his satisfaction. If he come

to anything which is labelled "Private," he is sure to be the more

curious to ascertain what is within. He is restless and dissatisfied

until he knows. He pauses--he resumes his interrogations--he

circumlocutes--he apologizes, it may be, but make the discovery he will

if possible. His inquisitiveness is mostly in regard to matters of

comparatively minor importance in themselves, but which, at the same

time, you do not care for _him_ to know. Your pedigree--your

relations--your antecedents--your reasons for leaving your former

occupation--your prospects in life--your income--your wife's maiden name

and origin--with a hundred similar things.

His inquisitiveness often turns into impertinence and impudence, which

one does well to resent with indignancy; or, if not, to answer him

according to his folly.

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