One week into the cross-country bicycle trek, I stopped near the New
York-Massachusetts border by a sign pointing to a campground.
It was getting late. I wondered if I should save the money and sleep
in the woods. I recalled Atmananda's penchant for lodging at exclusive,
expensive hotels. I realized that I did not want to follow him.
I also realized that I did not want to *not* follow him.
I wanted to do what was right for me. I followed the sign.
I stood at the campground entrance beneath a totem pole, whose carved
faces reminded me of the Negative Forces. But I was no longer
bound by Atmananda's interpretation of the world, I told myself.
"Sweet dreams," I said to the faces and rolled past them.
The next morning I crossed over the Hudson River into Albany
and walked up the hill toward the Governor Nelson A. Rockefeller
Empire State Plaza. Endowed with intricately sculptured arches
and columns, the majestic New York State capitol building contrasted
with the modern structures across the street, which included
four towers labeled in letters of gold. I sat by a reflecting
pool where I watched wavering images of pennies at the bottom.
I thought about my financial situation. I was doing okay.
In Boston I had stopped paying Atmananda's ever-increasing tuition,
moved from a studio apartment to a small room in a house,
and commuted to my computer job each day by bicycle. I had managed
to pay off one student loan and, after selling the car, to build
a small buffer. Why, I now wondered as I tossed a penny in the pool,
did I feel so bad?
Because it was Atmananda, I suddenly realized, who had sent me
to computer school. It was Atmananda who had bought me that car.
I felt bad because I still considered myself to be in his debt.
I needed to distinguish, I told myself, between the effects of his
unsolicited gifts and the results of my own hard-earned efforts.
Two days later, as I continued to travel, the cars whizzing by served
as a constant, crushing reminder that towing a three-foot wide trailer
down a country road at night was probably not such a good idea.
But driven by the thought of staying with a friend in Utica,
I continued despite the danger. The road gradually rose into thick,
dark woods, and there were no houses in sight. To complicate matters,
I was a devout believer in the excitement and mystery of a journey and
carried no maps. I was completely lost.
The road began following a winding river, and it became increasingly
difficult to convince myself that a town or phone was just ahead.
Exhausted, I stopped at the edge of a clearing and set up the bent,
many-sided tent--another gift from Atmananda. I lay on my sleeping
bag and listened to the river and to voices from the past.
I could almost hear Atmananda talking, back in 1979, about the pending
move from New York to southern California.
"It's very important that the right people go," he had said to Rachel
and me.
We nodded.
"I'm not sure about Dana and Connie," he confided. "But I'm
sure I made the right decision about you two." Then he squinted
and focused his gaze above our heads.
"You realize, of course, who I am," he added haughtily.
I was eighteen at the time and thought I already knew who he was:
a devoted Chinmoy disciple, a respected English professor, and a kind,
sensitive person. His remark had left me so confused and repulsed
that I let it drop from my conscious mind.
Now, as I listened to the gurgling river, I realized that Atmananda
had made the same remark two years later, when he announced that Chinmoy
had fallen. I realized, too, that there were other foreshadowings
of his rise to power. There were the money and the "surprise gift"
schemes. There was the basement samadhi announcement, which came
during a debilitating thirteen-day fast. And there were numerous times
he manipulated Chinmoy's disciples through the use of images, such as
when he told me to picture my parents as "two red lobsters sporting bow ties."
Why, I wondered, had I largely ignored these and other warnings?
Part of the answer, I supposed, had to do with the masterful
way in which Atmananda used words. Equipped with a seductively
compelling voice, he built vast, virtual kingdoms which were
subject to constantly changing, contradictory etiquette.
One week, for instance, it was spiritually correct to save money
for ourselves, to have sex with someone outside the Centre,
to study with Chinmoy; the following week, it was not. It had been
difficult to maintain a perspective. I sensed that another part
of the answer had to do with me and my need to believe, but now,
as memories and realizations grew too painful to touch, I let my
thoughts swirl slowly downstream with the gurgles of the river.
Soon I was asleep.
That night, I woke to the noise of a racing engine and screeching brakes.
"This is no dream," I thought. "This is real!"
Two blinding lights sped straight toward me.
"HEEEYYYYYYYYYYYYY!" I screamed. Suddenly, the screeching and
skidding stopped. My heart pounded. No more than ten feet away
was a vehicle. It kicked into reverse, spun around, and disappeared
into the night in a cacophonous squeal of metal, rubber, and asphalt.
It was some time before the sound of rushing water lulled me back
to sleep.
The next morning, I woke to the sound of car doors slamming.
From the tent I saw a family walking toward the river. They stepped
past long skid marks. "Excuse me," I called out, "which way is it
to Utica?"