VENI; VIDI; VICI [51]
The two following letters for Lord Ballindine were sent off, in the
Grey Abbey post-bag, on the evening of the day on which Mr Armstrong
had arrived there. They were from Mr Armstrong and Lord Cashel. That
from the former was first opened.
Grey Abbey, April, 1844
Dear Frank,
You will own I have not lost much time. I left Kelly’s Court the
day before yesterday and I am already able to send you good news.
I have seen Lord Cashel, and have found him anything but
uncourteous. I have also seen Miss Wyndham, and though she said
but little to me, that little was just what you would have wished
her to say. She bade me tell you to come yourself. In obedience to
her commands, I do hereby require you to pack yourself up, and
proceed forthwith to Grey Abbey. His lordship has signified to me
that it is his intention, in his own and Lady Cashel’s name, to
request the renewed pleasure of an immediate, and, he hopes, a
prolonged visit from your lordship. You will not, my dear Frank, I
am sure, be such a fool as to allow your dislike to such an empty
butter-firkin as this earl, to stand in the way of your love or
your fortune. You can’t expect Miss Wyndham to go to you, so
pocket your resentment like a sensible fellow, and accept Lord
Cashel’s invitation as though there had been no difference between
you.
I have also received an invite, and intend staying here a day or
two. I can’t say that, judging from the master of the house, I
think that a prolonged sojourn would be very agreeable. I have, as
yet, seen none of the ladies, except my embryo Lady Ballindine.
I think I have done my business a little in the _veni vidi vici_
style. What has effected the change in Lord Cashel’s views, I need
not trouble myself to guess. You will soon learn all about it from
Miss Wyndham.
I will not, in a letter, express my admiration, &c., &c., &c. But
I will proclaim in Connaught, on my return, that so worthy a bride
was never yet brought down to the far west. Lord Cashel will, of
course, have some pet bishop or dean to marry you; but, after what
has passed, I shall certainly demand the privilege of christening
the heir.
Believe me, dear Frank,
Your
affectionate
friend,
GEORGE ARMSTRONG.
Lord Cashel’s letter was as follows. It cost his lordship three hours
to compose, and was twice copied. I trust, therefore, it is a fair
specimen of what a nobleman ought to write on such an occasion.
Grey Abbey, April, 1844.
My dear lord,
Circumstances, to which I rejoice that I need not now more
particularly allude, made your last visit at my house a
disagreeable one to both of us. The necessity under which I then
laboured, of communicating to your lordship a decision which was
likely to be inimical to your happiness, but to form which my duty
imperatively directed me, was a source of most serious inquietude
to my mind. I now rejoice that that decision was so painful to
you—has been so lastingly painful; as I trust I may measure your
gratification at a renewal of your connection with my family, by
the acuteness of the sufferings which an interruption of that
connexion has occasioned you.
I have, I can assure you, my lord, received much pleasure from the
visit of your very estimable friend, the Reverend Mr Armstrong;
and it is no slight addition to my gratification on this occasion,
to find your most intimate friendship so well bestowed. I have had
much unreserved conversation to-day with Mr Armstrong, and I am
led by him to believe that I may be able to induce you to give
Lady Cashel and myself the pleasure of your company at Grey Abbey.
We shall be truly delighted to see your lordship, and we sincerely
hope that the attractions of Grey Abbey may be such as to induce
you to prolong your visit for some time.
Perhaps it might be unnecessary for me now more explicitly to
allude to my ward; but still, I cannot but think that a short but
candid explanation of the line of conduct I have thought it my
duty to adopt, may prevent any disagreeable feeling between us,
should you, as I sincerely trust you will, do us the pleasure of
joining our family circle. I must own, my dear lord, that, a few
months since, I feared you were wedded to the expensive pleasures
of the turf.—Your acceptance of the office of Steward at the
Curragh meetings confirmed the reports which reached me from
various quarters. My ward’s fortune was then not very
considerable; and, actuated by an uncle’s affection for his niece
as well as a guardian’s caution for his ward, I conceived it my
duty to ascertain whether a withdrawal from the engagement in
contemplation between Miss Wyndham and yourself would be
detrimental to her happiness. I found that my ward’s views agreed
with my own. She thought her own fortune insufficient, seeing that
your habits were then expensive: and, perhaps, not truly knowing
the intensity of her own affection, she coincided in my views. You
are acquainted with the result. These causes have operated in
inducing me to hope that I may still welcome you by the hand as my
dear niece’s husband. Her fortune is very greatly increased; your
character is—I will not say altered—is now fixed and established.
And, lastly and chiefly, I find—I blush, my lord, to tell a lady’s
secret—that my ward’s happiness still depends on you.
I am sure, my dear lord, I need not say more. We shall be
delighted to see you at your earliest convenience. We wish that
you could have come to us before your friend left, but I regret to
learn from him that his parochial duties preclude the possibility
of his staying with us beyond Thursday.
I shall anxiously wait for your reply. In the meantime I beg to
assure you, with the joint kind remembrances of all our party,
that I am,
Most
faithfully
yours,
CASHEL.
Mr Armstrong descended to the drawing-room, before dinner, looking most
respectable, with a stiff white tie and the new suit expressly prepared
for the occasion. He was introduced to Lady Cashel and Lady Selina as a
valued friend of Lord Ballindine, and was received, by the former at
least, in a most flattering manner. Lady Selina had hardly reconciled
herself to the return of Lord Ballindine. It was from no envy at her
cousin’s happiness; she was really too high-minded, and too falsely
proud, also, to envy anyone. But it was the harsh conviction of her
mind, that no duties should be disregarded, and that all duties were
disagreeable: she was always opposed to the doing of anything which
appeared to be the especial wish of the person consulting her; because
it would be agreeable, she judged that it would be wrong. She was most
sincerely anxious for her poor dependents, but she tormented them most
cruelly. When Biddy Finn wished to marry, Lady Selina told her it was
her duty to put a restraint on her inclinations; and ultimately
prevented her, though there was no objection on earth to Tony Mara; and
when the widow Cullen wanted to open a little shop for soap and
candles, having eight pounds ten shillings left to stock it, after the
wake and funeral were over, Lady Selina told the widow it was her duty
to restrain her inclination, and she did so; and the eight pounds ten
shillings drifted away in quarters of tea, and most probably, half
noggins of whiskey.
In the same way, she could not bring herself to think that Fanny was
doing right, in following the bent of her dearest wishes—in marrying
this man she loved so truly. She was weak; she was giving way to
temptation; she was going back from her word; she was, she said, giving
up her claim to that high standard of feminine character, which it
should be the proudest boast of a woman to maintain.
It was in vain that her mother argued the point with her in her own
way. “But why shouldn’t she marry him, my dear,” said the countess,
“when they love each other—and now there’s plenty of money and all
that; and your papa thinks it’s all right? I declare I can’t see the
harm of it.”
“I don’t say there’s harm, mother,” said Lady Selina; “not absolute
harm; but there’s weakness. She had ceased to esteem Lord Ballindine.”
“Ah, but, my dear, she very soon began to esteem him again. Poor dear!
she didn’t know how well she loved him.”
“She ought to have known, mamma—to have known well, before she rejected
him; but, having rejected him, no power on earth should have induced
her to name him, or even to think of him again. She should have been
dead to him; and he should have been the same as dead to her.”
“Well, I don’t know,” said the countess; “but I’m sure I shall be
delighted to see anybody happy in the house again, and I always liked
Lord Ballindine myself. There was never any trouble about his dinners
or anything.”
And Lady Cashel was delighted. The grief she had felt at the abrupt
termination of all her hopes with regard to her son had been too much
for her; she had been unable even to mind her worsted-work, and
Griffiths had failed to comfort her; but from the moment that her
husband had told her, with many hems and haws, that Mr Armstrong had
arrived to repeat Lord Ballindine’s proposal, and that he had come to
consult her about again asking his lordship to Grey Abbey, she became
happy and light-hearted; and, before Griffiths had left her for the
night, she had commenced her consultations as to the preparations for
the wedding.