inadvertence. I have known a person who could scarcely open his lips
without offending some one, merely because he harboured no malice in his
heart. A certain excess of animal spirits with thoughtless good-humour
will often make more enemies than the most deliberate spite and
ill-nature, which is on its guard, and strikes with caution and safety.
CXXI. It is great weakness to lay ourselves open to others, who are
reserved towards us. There is not only no equality in it, but we may be
pretty sure they will turn a confidence, which they are so little
disposed to imitate, against us.
CXXII. A man has no excuse for betraying the secrets of his friends,
unless he also divulges his own. He may then seem to be actuated not by
treachery, but indiscretion.
CXXIII. As we scorn them who scorn us, so the contempt of the world (not
seldom) makes men proud.
CXXIV. Even infamy may be oftentimes a source of secret
self-complacency. We smile at the impotence of public opinion, when we
can survive its worst censures.
CXXV. Simplicity of character is the natural result of profound thought.
CXXVI. The affected modesty of most women is a decoy for the generous,
the delicate, and unsuspecting; while the artful, the bold, and
unfeeling either see or break through its slender disguises.
CXXVII. We as often repent the good we have done as the ill.
CXXVIII. The measure of any man’s virtue is what he would do, if he had
neither the laws nor public opinion, nor even his own prejudices, to
control him.
CXXIX. We like the expression of Raphael’s faces without an edict to
enforce it. I do not see why there should not be a taste in morals
formed on the same principle.
CXXX. Where a greater latitude is allowed in morals, the number of
examples of vice may increase, but so do those of virtue: at least, we
are surer of the sincerity of the latter. It is only the exceptions to
vice, that arise neither from ignorance nor hypocrisy, that are worth
counting.
CXXXI. The fear of punishment may be necessary to the suppression of
vice; but it also suspends the finer motives to virtue.
CXXXII. No wise man can have a contempt for the prejudices of others;
and he should even stand in a certain awe of his own, as if they were
aged parents and monitors. They may in the end prove wiser than he.
CXXXIII. We are only justified in rejecting prejudices, when we can
explain the grounds of them; or when they are at war with nature, which
is the strongest prejudice of all.
CXXXIV. Vulgar prejudices are those which arise out of accident,
ignorance, or authority. Natural prejudices are those which arise out of
the constitution of the human mind itself.
CXXXV. Nature is stronger than reason: for nature is, after all, the
text, reason but the comment. He is indeed a poor creature who does not
_feel_ the truth of more than he _knows_ or can explain satisfactorily
to others.
CXXXVI. The mind revolts against certain opinions, as the stomach
rejects certain foods.
CXXXVII. The drawing a certain positive line in morals, beyond which a
single false step is irretrievable, makes virtue formal, and vice
desperate.
CXXXVIII. Most codes of morality proceed on a supposition of _Original
Sin_; as if the only object was to coerce the headstrong propensities to
vice, and there were no natural disposition to good in the mind, which
it was possible to improve, refine, and cultivate.
CXXXIX. This _negative_ system of virtue leads to a very low style of
moral sentiment. It is as if the highest excellence in a picture was to
avoid gross defects in drawing; or in writing, instances of bad grammar.
It ought surely to be our aim in virtue, as well as in other things, ‘to
snatch a grace beyond the reach of art.’
CXL. We find many things to which the prohibition of them constitutes
the only temptation.
CXLI. There is neither so much vice nor so much virtue in the world, as
it might appear at first sight that there is. Many people commit actions
that they hate, as they affect virtues that they laugh at, merely
because others do so.
CXLII. When the imagination is continually led to the brink of vice by a
system of terror and denunciations, people fling themselves over the
precipice from the mere dread of falling.
CXLIII. The maxim—_Video meliora proboque, deteriora sequor_—has not
been fully explained. In general, it is taken for granted, that those
things that our reason disapproves, we give way to from passion. Nothing
like it. The course that persons in the situation of Medea pursue has
often as little to do with inclination as with judgment: but they are
led astray by some object of a disturbed imagination, that shocks their
feelings and staggers their belief; and they grasp the phantom to put an
end to this state of tormenting suspense, and to see whether it is human
or not.
CXLIV. Vice, like disease, floats in the atmosphere.
CXLV. Honesty is one part of eloquence. We persuade others by being in
earnest ourselves.
CXLVI. A mere sanguine temperament often passes for genius and
patriotism.
CXLVII. Animal spirits are continually taken for wit and fancy; and the
want of them, for sense and judgment.
CXLVIII. In public speaking, we must appeal either to the prejudices of
others, or to the love of truth and justice. If we think merely of
displaying our own ability, we shall ruin every cause we undertake.
CXLIX. Those who cannot miss an opportunity of saying a good thing or of
bringing in some fantastical opinion of their own, are not to be trusted
with the management of any great question.
CL. There are some public speakers who commit themselves and their party
by extravagances uttered in heat and through vanity, which they retract
in cold blood through cowardice and caution. They outrage propriety, and
trim to self-interest.
CLI. An honest man is respected by all parties. We forgive a hundred
rude or offensive things that are uttered from conviction or in the
conscientious discharge of a duty—never one, that proceeds from design
or with a view to raise the person who says it above us.
CLII. Truth from the mouth of an honest man, or severity from a
good-natured one, has a double effect.
CLIII. A person who does not endeavour to _seem_ more than he _is_, will
generally be thought nothing of. We habitually make such large
deductions for pretence and imposture, that no real merit will stand
against them. It is necessary to set off our good qualities with a
certain air of plausibility and self-importance, as some attention to
fashion is necessary to decency.
CLIV. If we do not aspire to admiration, we shall fall into contempt. To
expect sheer, evenhanded justice from mankind, is folly. They take the
gross inventory of our pretensions; and not to have them overlooked
entirely, we must place them in a conspicuous point of view, as men
write their trades or fix a sign over the doors of their houses. Not to
conform to the established practice in either respect, is false delicacy
in the commerce of the world.
CLV. There has been a considerable change in dress and manners in the
course of a century or two, as well as in the signs and badges of
different professions. The streets are no longer encumbered with
numberless emblems of mechanical or other occupations, nor crowded with
the pomp and pageantry of dress, nor embroiled by the insolent airs
assumed by the different candidates for rank and precedence. Our
pretensions become less gross and obtrusive with the progress of
society, and as the means of communication become more refined and
general. The simplicity and even slovenliness of the modern beau form a
striking contrast to the dazzling finery and ostentatious formality of
the oldfashioned courtier; yet both are studied devices and symbols of
distinction. It would be a curious speculation to trace the various
modes of affectation in dress from the age of Elizabeth to the present
time, in connection with the caprices of fashion, and the march of
opinion; and to shew in what manner Sir Isaac Newton’s _Principia_ or
Rousseau’s Emilius have contributed to influence the gliding movements
and curtail the costume of a modern _dandy_!
CLVI. Unlimited power is helpless, as arbitrary power is capricious. Our
energy is in proportion to the resistance it meets. We can attempt
nothing great, but from a sense of the difficulties we have to
encounter: we can persevere in nothing great, but from a pride in
overcoming them. Where our will is our law, we eagerly set about the
first trifle we think of, and lay it aside for the next trifle that
presents itself, or that is suggested to us. The character of despotism
is apathy or levity—or the love of mischief, because the latter is easy
and suits its pride and wantonness.
CLVII. Affectation is as necessary to the mind, as dress is to the body.
CLVIII. Man is an intellectual animal, and therefore an everlasting
contradiction to himself. His senses centre in himself, his ideas reach
to the ends of the universe; so that he is torn in pieces between the
two, without a possibility of its ever being otherwise. A mere physical
being, or a pure spirit, can alone be satisfied with itself.
CLIX. Our approbation of others has a good deal of selfishness in it. We
like those who give us pleasure, however little they may wish for or
deserve our esteem in return. We prefer a person with vivacity and high
spirits, though bordering upon insolence, to the timid and
pusillanimous; we are fonder of wit joined to malice, than of dullness
without it. We have no great objection to receive a man who is a villain
as our friend, if he has plausible exterior qualities; nay, we often
take a pride in our harmless familiarity with him, as we might in
keeping a tame panther; but we soon grow weary of the society of a
good-natured fool who puts our patience to the test, or of an awkward
clown who puts our pride to the blush.
CLX. We are fonder of visiting our friends in health than in sickness.
We judge less favourably of their characters, when any misfortune
happens to them; and a lucky hit, either in business or reputation,
improves even their personal appearance in our eyes.
CLXI. An heiress, with a large fortune and a moderate share of beauty,
easily rises into a reigning toast.
CLXII. One shining quality lends a lustre to another, or hides some
glaring defect.
CLXIII. We are never so much disposed to quarrel with others as when we
are dissatisfied with ourselves.
CLXIV. We are never so thoroughly tired of the company of any one else
as we sometimes are of our own.
CLXV. People outlive the interest, which, at different periods of their
lives, they take in themselves. When we forget old friends, it is a sign
we have forgotten ourselves; or despise our former ways and notions, as
much as we do their present ones.
CLXVI. We fancy ourselves superior to others, because we find that we
have improved; and at no time did we think ourselves inferior to them.
CLXVII. The notice of others is as necessary to us as the air we
breathe. If we cannot gain their good opinion, we change our battery,
and strive to provoke their hatred and contempt.
CLXVIII. Some malefactors, at the point of death, confess crimes of
which they have never been guilty, thus to raise our wonder and
indignation in the same proportion; or to shew their superiority to
vulgar prejudice, and brave that public opinion, of which they are the
victims.
CLXIX. Others make an ostentatious display of their penitence and
remorse, only to invite sympathy, and create a diversion in their own
minds from the subject of their impending punishment. So that we excite
a strong emotion in the breasts of others, we care little of what kind
it is, or by what means we produce it. We have equally the feeling of
power. The sense of insignificance or of being an object of perfect
indifference to others, is the only one that the mind never covets nor
willingly submits to.
CLXX. There are not wanting instances of those, who pass their whole
lives in endeavouring to make themselves ridiculous. They only tire of
their absurdities when others are tired of talking about and laughing at
them, so that they have become a stale jest.
CLXXI. People in the grasp of death wish all the evil they have done (as
well as all the good) to be known, not to make atonement by confession,
but to excite one more strong sensation before they die, and to leave
their interests and passions a legacy to posterity, when they themselves
are exempt from the consequences.
CLXXII. We talk little, if we do not talk about ourselves.
CLXXIII. We may give more offence by our silence than even by
impertinence.
CLXXIV. Obstinate silence implies either a mean opinion of ourselves or
a contempt of our company: and it is the more provoking, as others do
not know to which of these causes to attribute it, whether to humility
or pride.
CLXXV. Silence proceeds either from want of something to say, or from a
phlegmatic indifference which closes up our lips. The sea, or any other
striking object, suddenly bursting on a party of mutes in a stage-coach,
will occasion a general exclamation of surprise; and the ice being once
broken, they may probably be good company for the rest of the journey.
CLXXVI. We compliment ourselves on our national reserve and taciturnity
by abusing the loquacity and frivolity of the French.
CLXXVII. Nations, not being willing or able to correct their own errors,
justify them by the opposite errors of other nations.
CLXXVIII. We easily convert our own vices into virtues, the virtues of
others into vices.
CLXXIX. A person who talks with equal vivacity on every subject, excites
no interest in any. _Repose_ is as necessary in conversation as in a
picture.
CLXXX. The best kind of conversation is that which may be called
_thinking aloud_. I like very well to speak my mind on any subject (or
to hear another do so) and to go into the question according to the
degree of interest it naturally inspires, but not to have to get up a
thesis upon every topic. There are those, on the other hand, who seem
always to be practising on their audience, as if they mistook them for a
DEBATING-SOCIETY, or to hold a general retainer, by which they are bound
to explain every difficulty, and answer every objection that can be
started. This, in private society and among friends, is not desirable.
You thus lose the two great ends of conversation, which are to learn the
sentiments of others, and see what they think of yours. One of the best
talkers I ever knew had this defect—that he evidently seemed to be
considering less what he felt on any point than what might be said upon
it, and that he listened to you, not to weigh what you said, but to
reply to it, like counsel on the other side. This habit gave a brilliant
smoothness and polish to his general discourse, but, at the same time,
took from its solidity and prominence: it reduced it to a tissue of
lively, fluent, ingenious _commonplaces_, (for original genuine,
observations are like ‘minute drops from off the eaves,’ and not an
incessant shower) and, though his talent in this way was carried to the
very extreme of cleverness, yet I think it seldom, if ever, went beyond
it.
CLXXXI. Intellectual excellence can seldom be a source of much
satisfaction to the possessor. In a gross period, or in vulgar society,
it is not understood; and among those who are refined enough to
appreciate its value, it ceases to be a distinction.
CLXXXII. There is, I think, an essential difference of character in
mankind, between those who wish _to do_, and those who wish to _have_
certain things. I observe persons expressing a great desire to possess
fine horses, hounds, dress, equipage, &c. and an envy of those who have
them. I myself have no such feeling, nor the least ambition to shine,
except by doing something better than others. I have the love of power,
but not of property. I should like to be able to outstrip a greyhound in
speed; but I should be ashamed to take any merit to myself from
possessing the fleetest greyhound in the world. I cannot transfer my
personal identity from myself to what I merely call _mine_. The
generality of mankind are contented to be estimated by what they
possess, instead of what they are.
CLXXXIII. Buonaparte observes, that the diplomatists of the new school
were no match for those brought up under the ancient _regime_. The
reason probably is, that the modern style of intellect inclines to
abstract reasoning and general propositions, and pays less attention to
individual character, interests, and circumstances. The moderns have,
therefore, less tact in watching the designs of others, and less
closeness in hiding their own. They perhaps have a greater knowledge of
things, but less of the world. They calculate the force of an argument,
and rely on its success, moving _in vacuo_, without sufficiently
allowing for the resistance of opinion and prejudice.
CLXXXIV. The most comprehensive reasoners are not always the deepest or
nicest observers. They are apt to take things for granted too much, as
parts of a system. Lord Egmont, in a speech in Parliament, in the year
1750, has the following remarkable observations on this subject. ‘It is
not common-sense, but downright madness, to follow general principles in
this wild manner without limitation or reserve; and give me leave to say
one thing, which I hope will be long remembered, and well thought upon
by all those who hear me—that those gentlemen who plume themselves thus
upon their open and extensive understandings, are in fact, the men of
the narrowest principles in the kingdom. For what is a narrow mind? It
is a mind that sees any proposition in one single contracted point of
view, unable to complicate any subject with the circumstances, or
considerations, that are or may or ought to be combined with it. And
pray, what is that understanding which looks upon the question of
_naturalization_ only in this general view, that naturalization is an
increase of the people, and the increase of the people is the riches of
the nation? Never admitting the least reflection, what the people are
whom you let in upon us; how, in the present bad regulation of the
police, they are to be employed or maintained; how their principles,
opinions, or practice may influence the religion or politics of the
state, or what operation their admission may have upon the peace and
tranquillity of the country. Is not such a genius equally contemptible
and narrow with that of the poorest mortal upon earth, who grovels for
his whole life within the verge of the opposite extreme?’
CLXXXV. In an Englishman, a diversity of profession and pursuit (as the
having been a soldier, a valet, a player, &c.) implies a dissipation and
dissoluteness of character, and a fitness for nothing. In a Frenchman,
it only shews a natural vivacity of disposition, and a fitness for
everything.
CLXXXVI. Impudence, like everything else, has its limits. Let a man be
ever so hardened and unblushing, there is a point at which his courage
is sure to fail him; and not being able to carry off the matter with his
usual air of confidence, he becomes more completely confused and awkward
than any one else would in the same circumstances.
CLXXXVII. Half the miseries of human life proceed from our not
perceiving the incompatibility of different attainments, and
consequently aiming at too much. We make ourselves wretched in vainly
aspiring after advantages we are deprived of; and do not consider that
if we had these advantages, it would be quite impossible for us to
retain those which we actually do possess, and which, after all, if it
were put to the question, we would not consent to part with for the sake
of any others.
CLXXXVIII. If we use no ceremony towards others, we shall be treated
without any. People are soon tired of paying trifling attentions to
those who receive them with coldness, and return them with neglect.
CLXXXIX. Surly natures have more pleasure in disobliging others than in
serving themselves.
CXC. People in general consult their prevailing humour or ruling passion
(whatever it may be) much more than their interest.
CXCI. One of the painters (Teniers,) has represented monkeys with a
monk’s cloak and cowl. This has a ludicrous effect enough. To a superior
race of beings the pretensions of mankind to extraordinary sanctity and
virtue must seem equally ridiculous.
CXCII. When we speak ill of people behind their backs, and are civil to
them to their faces, we may be accused of insincerity. But the
contradiction is less owing to insincerity than to the change of
circumstances. We think well of them while we are with them; and in
their absence recollect the ill we durst not hint at or acknowledge to
ourselves in their presence.
CXCIII. Our opinions are not our own, but in the power of sympathy. If a
person tells us a palpable falsehood, we not only dare not contradict
him, but we dare hardly disbelieve him _to his face_. A lie boldly
uttered has the effect of truth for the instant.
CXCIV. A man’s reputation is not in his own keeping, but lies at the
mercy of the profligacy of others. Calumny requires no proof. The
throwing out malicious imputations against any character leaves a stain,
which no after-reputation can wipe out. To create an unfavourable
impression, it is not necessary that certain things should be _true_,
but that they _have been said_. The imagination is of so delicate a
texture, that even words wound it.
CXCV. A nickname is a mode of insinuating a prejudice against another
under some general designation, which, as it offers no proof, admits of
no reply.
CXCVI. It does not render the person less contemptible or ridiculous in
vulgar opinion, because it may be harmless in itself, or even downright
nonsense. By repeating it incessantly, and leaving out every other
characteristic of the individual, whom we wish to make a bye-word of, it
seems as if he were an abstraction of insignificance.
CXCVII. Want of principle is power. Truth and honesty set a limit to our
efforts, which impudence and hypocrisy easily overleap.
CXCVIII. There are many who talk on from ignorance, rather than from
knowledge; and who find the former an inexhaustible fund of
conversation.
CXCIX. Nothing gives such a blow to friendship as the detecting another
in an untruth: it strikes at the root of our confidence ever after.
CC. In estimating the value of an acquaintance or even friend, we give a
preference to intellectual or convivial over moral qualities. The truth
is, that in our habitual intercourse with others, we much oftener
require to be amused than assisted. We consider less, therefore, what a
person with whom we are intimate is ready to do for us in critical
emergencies, than what he has to say on ordinary occasions. We dispense
with his services, if he only saves us from _ennui_. In civilised
society, words are of as much importance as things.
CCI. We cultivate the society of those who are above us in station, and
beneath us in capacity. The one we do from choice, the other from
necessity. Our interest dictates our submission to the first; our vanity
is flattered by the homage of the last.
CCII. A man of talents, who shrinks from a collision with his equals or
superiors, will soon sink below himself. We improve by trying our
strength with others, not by shewing it off. A person who shuts himself
up in a little circle of dependants and admirers for fear of losing
ground in his own opinion by jostling with the world at large, may
continue to be gaped at by fools, but will forfeit the respect of sober
and sensible men.
CCIII. There are others, who entertaining a high opinion of themselves,
and not being able (for want of plausible qualities) to gather a circle
of butterflies round them, retire into solitude, and there worship the
ECHOES and themselves. They gain this advantage by it—the ECHOES do not
contradict them. But it is a question, whether by dwelling always on
their own virtues and merits, unmolested, they increase the stock. They,
indeed, pamper their ruling vices, and pile them mountain-high; and
looking down on the world from the elevation of their retreat, idly
fancy that the world has nothing to do but to look up to them with
wondering eyes.
CCIV. It is a false principle, that because we are entirely occupied
with ourselves, we must equally occupy the thoughts of others. The
contrary inference is the fair one.
CCV. It is better to desire than to enjoy—to love than to be loved.
CCVI. Every one would rather be Raphael than Hogarth. Without entering
into the question of the talent required for their different works, or
the pleasure derived from them, we prefer that which confers dignity on
human nature to that which degrades it. We would wish to _do_ what we
would wish to _be_. And, moreover, it is most difficult to do what it is
most difficult to be.
CCVII. A selfish feeling requires less moral capacity than a benevolent
one: a selfish expression requires less intellectual capacity to execute
it than a benevolent one; for in expression, and all that relates to it,
the intellectual is the reflection of the moral. Raphael’s figures are
sustained by _ideas_: Hogarth’s are distorted by mechanical habits and
instincts. It is elevation of thought that gives grandeur and delicacy
of expression to passion. The expansion and refinement of the soul are
seen in the face as in a mirror. An enlargement of purpose gives a
corresponding enlargement of form. The _mind_, as it were, acts over the
whole body, and animates it equally; while petty and local interests
seize on particular parts, and distract it by contrary and mean
expressions. Now, if mental expression has this superior grandeur and
grace, we can account at once for the superiority of Raphael. For there
is no doubt, that it is more difficult to give a whole continuously and
proportionably than to give the parts separate and disjointed, or to
diffuse the same subtle but powerful expression over a large mass than
to caricature it in a single part or feature. The actions in Raphael are
like a branch of a tree swept by the surging blast; those in Hogarth
like straws whirled and twitched about in the gusts and eddies of
passion. I do not mean to say that goodness alone constitutes greatness,
but mental power does. Hogarth’s Good Apprentice is insipid: Raphael has
clothed Elymas the Sorcerer with all the dignity and grandeur of vice.
Selfish characters and passions borrow greatness from the range of
imagination, and strength of purpose; and besides, have an advantage in
natural force and interest.
CCVIII. We find persons who are actuated in all their tastes and
feelings by a spirit of contradiction. They like nothing that other
people do, and have a natural aversion to whatever is agreeable in
itself. They read books that no one else reads; and are delighted with
passages that no one understands but themselves. They only arrive at
beauties through faults and difficulties; and all their conceptions are
brought to light by a sort of Cæsarean process. This is either an
affectation of singularity; or a morbid taste, that can relish nothing
that is obvious and simple.
CCIX. An unaccountable spirit of contradiction is sometimes carried into
men’s behaviour and actions. They never do anything from a direct
motive, or in a straightforward manner. They get rid of all sorts of
obligations, and rush on destruction without the shadow of an excuse.
They take a perverse delight in acting not only contrary to reason, but
in opposition to their own inclinations and passions, and are for ever
in a state of cross-purposes with themselves.
CCX. There are some persons who never decide from deliberate motives at
all, but are the mere creatures of impulse.
CCXI. Insignificant people are a necessary relief in society. Such
characters are extremely agreeable, and even favourites, if they appear
satisfied with the part they have to perform.
CCXII. Little men seldom seem conscious of their diminutive size; or
make up for it by the erectness of their persons, or a peculiarly dapper
air and manner.
CCXIII. Any one is to be pitied, who has just sense enough to perceive
his deficiencies.
CCXIV. I had rather be deformed than a dwarf and well-made. The one may
be attributed to accident; the other looks like a deliberate insult on
the part of nature.
CCXV. Personal deformity, in the well-disposed, produces a fine placid
expression of countenance; in the ill-tempered and peevish, a keen,
sarcastic one.
CCXVI. People say ill-natured things without design, but not without
having a pleasure in them.
CCXVII. A person who blunders upon system, has a secret motive for what
he does, unknown to himself.
CCXVIII. If any one by his general conduct contrives to part friends, he
may not be aware that such is the tendency of his actions, but assuredly
it is their motive. He has more pleasure in seeing others cold and
distant, than cordial and intimate.
CCXIX. A person who constantly meddles to no purpose, means to do harm,
and is not sorry to find he has succeeded.
CCXX. Cunning is natural to mankind. It is the sense of our weakness,
and an attempt to effect by concealment what we cannot do openly and by
force.
CCXXI. In love we never think of moral qualities, and scarcely of
intellectual ones. Temperament and manner alone (with beauty) excite
love.
CCXXII. There is no one thoroughly despicable. We cannot descend much
lower than an ideot; and an ideot has some advantages over a wise man.
CCXXIII. Comparisons are odious, because they reduce every one to a
standard he ought not to be tried by, or leave us in possession only of
those claims which we can set up, to the entire exclusion of others. By
striking off the common qualities, the remainder of excellence is
brought down to a contemptible fraction. A man may be six feet high, and
only an inch taller than another. In comparisons, this difference of an
inch is the only thing thought of or ever brought into question. The
greatest genius or virtue soon dwindles into nothing by such a mode of
computation.
CCXXIV. It is a fine remark of Rousseau’s, that the best of us differ
from others in fewer particulars than we agree with them in. The
difference between a tall and a short man is only a few inches, whereas
they are both several feet high. So a wise or learned man knows many
things, of which the vulgar are ignorant; but there is a still greater
number of things, the knowledge of which they share in common with him.
CCXXV. I am always afraid of a fool. One cannot be sure that he is not a
knave as well.
CCXXVI. Weakness has its hidden resources, as well as strength. There is
a degree of folly and meanness which we cannot calculate upon, and by
which we are as much liable to be foiled, as by the greatest ability or
courage.
CCXXVII. We can only be degraded in a contest with low natures. The
advantages that others obtain over us are fair and honourable to both
parties.
CCXXVIII. Reflection makes men cowards. There is no object that can be
put in competition with life, unless it is viewed through the medium of
passion, and we are hurried away by the impulse of the moment.
CCXXIX. The youth is better than the old age of friendship.
CCXXX. In the course of a long acquaintance we have repeated all our
good things, and discussed all our favourite topics several times over,
so that our conversation becomes a mockery of social intercourse. We
might as well talk to ourselves. The soil of friendship is worn out with
constant use. Habit may still attach us to each other, but we feel
ourselves fettered by it. Old friends might be compared to old married
people without the tie of children.
CCXXXI. We grow tired of ourselves, much more of other people. Use may
in part reconcile us to our own tediousness, but we do not adopt that of
others on the same paternal principle. We may be willing to tell a story
twice, never to hear one more than once.
CCXXXII. If we are long absent from our friends, we forget them: if we
are constantly with them, we despise them.
CCXXXIII. There are no rules for friendship. It must be left to itself;
we cannot force it any more than love.
CCXXXIV. The most violent friendships soonest wear themselves out.
CCXXXV. To be capable of steady friendship or lasting love, are the two
greatest proofs, not only of goodness of heart, but of strength of mind.
CCXXXVI. It makes us proud when our love of a mistress is returned: it
ought to make us prouder that we can love her for herself alone, without
the aid of any such selfish reflection. This is the religion of love.
CCXXXVII. An English officer who had been engaged in an intrigue in
Italy, going home one night, stumbled over a man fast asleep on the
stairs. It was a bravo who had been hired to assassinate him. Such, in
this man, was the force of conscience!
CCXXXVIII. An eminent artist having succeeded in a picture which drew
crowds to admire it, received a letter from a shuffling old relation in
these terms, ‘Dear Cousin, now you may draw good bills with a
vengeance.’ Such is the force of habit! This man only wished to be a
Raphael that he might carry on his old trade of drawing bills.
CCXXXIX. Mankind are a herd of knaves and fools. It is necessary to join
the crowd, or get out of their way, in order not to be trampled to death
by them.
CCXL. To think the worst of others, and to do the best we can ourselves,
is a safe rule, but a hard one to practise.
CCXLI. To think ill of mankind and not wish ill to them, is perhaps the
highest wisdom and virtue.
CCXLII. We may hate and love the same person, nay even at the same
moment.
CCXLIII. We never hate those whom we have once loved, merely because
they have injured us. ‘We may kill those of whom we are jealous,’ says
Fielding, ‘but we do not hate them.’ We are enraged at their conduct and
at ourselves as the objects of it, but this does not alter our passion
for them. The reason is, we loved them without their loving us; we do
not hate them because they hate us. Love may turn to indifference with
possession, but is irritated by disappointment.
CCXLIV. Revenge against the object of our love is madness. No one would
kill the woman he loves, but that he thinks he can bring her to life
afterwards. Her death seems to him as momentary as his own rash act.
_See Othello._—‘My wife! I have no wife,’ &c. He stabbed not at her
life, but at her falsehood; he thought to kill the wanton, and preserve
the wife.
CCXLV. We revenge in haste and passion: we repent at leisure and from
reflection.
CCXLVI. By retaliating our sufferings on the heads of those we love, we
get rid of a present uneasiness, and incur lasting remorse. With the
accomplishment of our revenge our fondness returns; so that we feel the
injury we have done them, even more than they do.
CCXLVII. I think men formerly were more jealous of their rivals in
love—they are now more jealous of their mistresses, and lay the blame on
them. That is, we formerly thought more of the mere possession of the
person, which the removal of a favoured lover prevented, and we now
think more of a woman’s affections, which may still follow him to the
tomb. To kill a rival is to kill a fool; but the Goddess of our idolatry
may be a sacrifice worthy of the Gods. Hackman did not think of shooting
Lord Sandwich, but Miss Ray.
CCXLVIII. Many people in reasoning on the passions make a continual
appeal to common sense. But passion is without common sense, and we must
frequently discard the one in speaking of the other.
CCXLIX. It is provoking to hear people at their ease talking reason to
others in a state of violent suffering. If you can remove their
suffering by speaking a word, do so; and then they will be in a state to
hear calm reason.
CCL. There is nothing that I so hate as I do to hear a common-place set
up against a feeling of truth and nature.
CCLI. People try to reconcile you to a disappointment in love, by asking
why you should cherish a passion for an object that has proved itself
worthless. Had you known this before, you would not have encouraged the
passion; but that having been once formed, knowledge does not destroy
it. If we have drank poison, finding it out does not prevent its being
in our veins: so passion leaves its poison in the mind! It is the nature
of all passion and of all habitual affection; we throw ourselves upon it
at a venture, but we cannot return by choice. If it is a wife that has
proved unworthy, men compassionate the loss, because there is a tie,
they say, which we cannot get rid of. But has the heart no ties? Or if
it is a child, they understand it. But is not true love a child? Or when
another has become a part of ourselves, ‘where we must live or have no
life at all,’ can we tear them from us in an instant?—No: these bargains
are for life; and that for which our souls have sighed for years, cannot
be forgotten with a breath, and without a pang.
CCLII. Besides, it is uncertainty and suspense that chiefly irritate
jealousy to madness. When we know our fate, we become gradually
reconciled to it, and try to forget a useless sorrow.
CCLIII. It is wonderful how often we see and hear of Shakspeare’s plays
without being annoyed with it. Were it any other writer, we should be
sick to death of the very name. But his volumes are like that of nature,
we can turn to them again and again:
‘Age cannot wither, nor custom stale
His infinite variety.’
CCLIV. The contempt of a wanton for a man who is determined to think her
virtuous, is perhaps the strongest of all others. He officiously reminds
her of what she ought to be; and she avenges the galling sense of lost
character on the fool who still believes in it.
CCLV. To find that a woman whom we loved has forfeited her character, is
the same thing as to learn that she is dead.
CCLVI. The only vice that cannot be forgiven is hypocrisy. The
repentance of a hypocrite is itself hypocrisy.
CCLVII. Once a renegado, and always a renegado.
CCLVIII. By speaking truth to the really beautiful, we learn to flatter
other women.
CCLIX. There is a kind of ugliness which is not disagreeable to women.
It is that which is connected with the expression of strong but bad
passions, and implies spirit and power.
CCLX. People do not persist in their vices because they are not weary of
them, but because they cannot leave them off. It is the nature of vice
to leave us no resource but in itself.
CCLXI. Our consciousness of injustice makes us add to the injury. By
aggravating a wrong, we seem to ourselves to justify it. The repetition
of the blow inflames our passion and deadens reflection.
CCLXII. In confessing the greatest offences, a criminal gives himself
credit for his candour. You and he seem to have come to an amicable
understanding on his character at last.
CCLXIII. A barefaced profligacy often succeeds to an overstrained
preciseness in morals. People in a less licentious age carefully conceal
the vices they have; as they afterwards, with an air of philosophic
freedom, set up for those they have not.
CCLXIV. It is a sign that real religion is in a state of decay, when
passages in compliment to it are applauded at the theatre. Morals and
sentiment fall within the province of the stage; but religion, except
where it is considered as a beautiful fiction which ought to be treated
with lenity, does not depend upon our suffrages.
CCLXV. There are persons to whom success gives no satisfaction, unless
it is accompanied with dishonesty. Such people willingly ruin themselves
in order to ruin others.
CCLXVI. Habitual liars invent falsehoods, not to gain any end or even to
deceive their hearers, but to amuse themselves. It is partly practice
and partly habit. It requires an effort in them to speak truth.
CCLXVII. A knave thinks himself a fool, all the time he is not making a
fool of some other person.
CCLXVIII. Fontenelle said, ‘If his hand were full of truths, he would
not open his fingers to let them out.’ Was this a satire on truth or on
mankind?
CCLXIX. The best kind of conversation is that which is made up of
observations, reflections, and anecdotes. A string of stories without
application is as tiresome as a long-winded argument.
CCLXX. The most insignificant people are the most apt to sneer at
others. They are safe from reprisals, and have no hope of rising in
their own esteem, but by lowering their neighbours. The severest critics
are always those, who have either never attempted, or who have failed in
original composition.
CCLXXI. More remarks are made upon any one’s dress, looks, &c. in
walking twenty yards along the streets of Edinburgh, or other provincial
towns, than in passing from one end of London to the other.
CCLXXII. There is less impertinence and more independence in London than
in any other place in the kingdom.
CCLXXIII. A man who meets thousands of people in a day who never saw or
heard of him before, if he thinks at all, soon learns to think little of
himself. London is the place where a man of sense is soonest cured of
his coxcombry, or where a fool may indulge his vanity with impunity, by
giving himself what airs he pleases. A valet and a lord are there nearly
on a level. Among a million of men, we do not count the units, for we
have not time.
CCLXXIV. There is some virtue in almost every vice, except hypocrisy;
and even that, while it is a mockery of virtue, is at the same time a
compliment to it.
CCLXXV. It does not follow that a man is a hypocrite, because his
actions give the lie to his words. If he at one time seems a saint, and
at other times a sinner, he possibly is both in reality, as well as in
appearance. A person may be fond of vice and of virtue too; and practise
one or the other, according to the temptation of the moment. A priest
may be pious, and a sot or bigot. A woman may be modest, and a rake at
heart. A poet may admire the beauties of nature, and be envious of those
of other writers. A moralist may act contrary to his own precepts, and
yet be sincere in recommending them to others. These are indeed
contradictions, but they arise out of the contradictory qualities in our
nature. A man is a hypocrite only when he affects to take a delight in
what he does not feel, not because he takes a perverse delight in
opposite things.
CCLXXVI. The greatest offence against virtue is to speak ill of it. To
recommend certain things is worse than to practise them. There may be an
excuse for the last in the frailty of passion; but the former can arise
from nothing but an utter depravity of disposition. Any one may yield to
temptation, and yet feel a sincere love and aspiration after virtue; but
he who maintains vice in theory, has not even the idea or capacity for
virtue in his mind. Men err: fiends only make a mock at goodness.
CCLXXVII. The passions make antitheses and subtle distinctions, finer
than any pen.
CCLXXVIII. I used to think that men were governed by their passions more
than by their interest or reason, till I heard the contrary maintained
in Scotland, _viz._ that the _main-chance_ is the great object in life,
and the proof given of it was, that every man in the street where we
were talking, however he might have a particular _hobby_, minded his
business as the principal thing, and endeavoured to make both ends meet
at the end of the year. This was a shrewd argument, and it was Scotch. I
could only answer it in my own mind by turning to different persons
among my acquaintance who have been ruined with their eyes open by some
whim or fancy. One, for instance, married a girl of the town: a second
divorced his wife to marry a wench at a lodging-house, who refused him,
and whose cruelty and charms are the torment of his own life, and that
of all his friends: a third drank himself to death: a fourth is the dupe
and victim of quack advertisements: a fifth is the slave of his wife’s
ill-humour: a sixth quarrels with all his friends without any motive: a
seventh lies on to the end of the chapter, and to his own ruin, &c. It
is true none of these are Scotchmen; and yet they live in houses, rather
than in the open air, and follow some trade or vocation to avoid
starving outright. If this is what is meant by a calculation of
consequences, the doctrine may hold true; but it does not infringe upon
the main point. It affects the husk, the shell, but not the kernel of
our dispositions. The pleasure or torment of our lives is in the pursuit
of some favourite passion or perverse humour.
‘Within our bosoms reigns another lord,
_Passion_, sole judge and umpire of itself.’
CCLXXIX. There are few things more contemptible than the conversation of
men of the town. It is made up of the technicalities and cant of all
professions, without the spirit or knowledge of any. It is flashy and
vapid, and is like the rinsings of different liquors at a night-cellar,
instead of a bottle of fine old port. It is without clearness or body,
and a heap of affectation.
CCLXXX. The conversation of players is either dull or bad. They are
tempted to say gay or fine things from the habit of uttering them with
applause on the stage, and unable to do it from the habit of repeating
what is set down for them by rote. A good comic actor, if he is a
sensible man, will generally be silent in company. It is not his
profession to invent _bon mots_, but to deliver them; and he will scorn
to produce a theatrical effect by grimace and mere vivacity. A great
tragic actress should be a _mute_, except on the stage. She cannot raise
the tone of common conversation to that of tragedy, and any other must
be quite insipid to her. Repose is necessary to her. She who died the
night before in Cleopatra, ought not to revive till she appears again as
Cassandra or Aspasia. In the intervals of her great characters, her own
should be a blank, or an unforced, unstudied part.
CCLXXXI. To marry an actress for the admiration she excites on the
stage, is to imitate the man who bought PUNCH.
CCLXXXII. To expect an author to talk as he writes is ridiculous; or
even if he did, you would find fault with him as a pedant. We should
_read_ authors, and not converse with them.
CCLXXXIII. Extremes meet. Excessive refinement is often combined with
equal grossness. They act as a relief to each other, and please by
contrast.
CCLXXXIV. The seeds of many of our vices are sown in our blood: others
we owe to the bile or a fit of indigestion. A sane mind is generally the
effect of a sane body.
CCLXXXV. Health and good temper are the two greatest blessings in life.
In all the rest, men are equal, or find an equivalent.
CCLXXXVI. Poverty, labour, and calamity are not without their luxuries;
which the rich, the indolent, and the fortunate, in vain seek for.
CCLXXXVII. Good and ill seem as necessary to human life as light and
shade are to a picture. We grow weary of uniform success, and pleasure
soon surfeits. Pain makes ease delightful; hunger relishes the homeliest
food, fatigue turns the hardest bed to down; and the difficulty and
uncertainty of pursuit in all cases enhance the value of possession. The
wretched are in this respect fortunate, that they have the strongest
yearnings after happiness; and to desire is in some sense to enjoy. If
the schemes of Utopians could be realised, the tone of society would be
changed from what it is, into a sort of insipid high life. There could
be no fine tragedies written; nor would there be any pleasure in seeing
them. We tend to this conclusion already with the progress of
civilisation.
CCLXXXVIII. The pleasure derived from tragedy is to be accounted for in
this way, that, by painting the extremes of human calamity, it by
contrast kindles the affections, and raises the most intense imagination
and desire of the contrary good.
CCLXXXIX. The question respecting dramatic illusion has not been fairly
stated. There are different degrees and kinds of belief. The point is
not whether we do or do not believe what we see to be a positive
reality, but how far and in what manner we believe in it. We do not say
every moment to ourselves, ‘This is real:’ but neither do we say every
moment, ‘This is not real.’ The involuntary impression steals upon us
till we recollect ourselves. The appearance of reality, in fact, is the
reality, so long and in as far as we are not conscious of the
contradictory circumstances that disprove it. The belief in a well-acted
tragedy never amounts to what the witnessing the actual scene would
prove, and never sinks into a mere phantasmagoria. Its power of
affecting us is not, however, taken away, even if we abstract the
feeling of identity; for it still suggests a stronger idea of what the
reality _would be_, just as a picture reminds us more powerfully of the
person for whom it is intended, though we are conscious it is not the
same.
CCXC. We have more faith in a well-written romance, while we are reading
it, than in common history. The vividness of the representations in the
one case, more than counterbalances the mere knowledge of the truth of
the facts in the other.
CCXCI. It is remarkable how virtuous and generously disposed every one
is at a play. We uniformly applaud what is right and condemn what is
wrong, when it costs us nothing but the sentiment.
CCXCII. Great natural advantages are seldom combined with great acquired
ones, because they render the labour required to attain the last
superfluous and irksome. It is only necessary to be admired; and if we
are admired for the graces of our persons, we shall not be at much pains
to adorn our minds. If Pope had been a beautiful youth, he would not
have written The Rape of the Lock.[22] A beautiful woman, who has only
to shew herself to be admired, and is famous by nature, will be in no
danger of becoming a _bluestocking_, to attract notice by her learning,
or to hide her defects.
CCXCIII. Those people who are always _improving_, never become great.
Greatness is an eminence, the ascent to which is steep and lofty, and
which a man must seize on at once by natural boldness and vigour, and
not by patient, wary steps.
CCXCIV. The late Mr Opie remarked, that an artist often put his best
thoughts into his first works. His earliest efforts were the result of
the study of all his former life, whereas his later and more mature
performances (though perhaps more skilful and finished) contained only
the gleanings of his after-observation and experience.
CCXCV. The effort necessary to overcome difficulty urges the student on
to excellence. When he can once do well with ease, he grows
comparatively careless and indifferent, and makes no farther advances to
perfection.
CCXCVI. When a man can do better than every one else in the same walk,
he does not make any very painful exertions to outdo himself. The
progress of improvement ceases nearly at the point where competition
ends.
CCXCVII. We are rarely taught by our own experience; and much less do we
put faith in that of others.
CCXCVIII. We do not attend to the advice of the sage and experienced,
because we think they are old, forgetting that they once were young, and
placed in the same situations as ourselves.
CCXCIX. We are egotists in morals as well as in other things. Every man
is determined to judge for himself as to his conduct in life, and finds
out what he ought to have done, when it is too late to do it. For this
reason, the world has to begin again with each successive generation.
CCC. We should be inclined to pay more attention to the wisdom of the
old, if they shewed greater indulgence to the follies of the young.
CCCI. The best lesson we can learn from witnessing the folly of mankind
is not to irritate ourselves against it.
CCCII. If the world were good for nothing else, it is a fine subject for
speculation.
CCCIII. In judging of individuals, we always allow something to
_character_; for even when this is not agreeable or praiseworthy, it
affords exercise for our sagacity, and baffles the harshness of our
censure.
CCCIV. There are persons to whom we never think of applying the ordinary
rules of judging. They form a class by themselves and are curiosities in
morals, like nondescripts in natural history. We forgive whatever they
do or say, for the singularity of the thing, and because it excites
attention. A man who has been hanged, is not the worse subject for
dissection; and a man who deserves to be hanged, may be a very amusing
companion or topic of discourse.
CCCV. Every man, in his own opinion, forms an exception to the ordinary
rules of morality.
CCCVI. No man ever owned to the title of a _murderer_, a _tyrant_, &c.
because, however notorious the facts might be, the epithet is
accompanied with a reference to motives and marks of opprobrium in
common language and in the feelings of others, which he does not
acknowledge in his own mind.
CCCVII. There are some things, the _idea_ of which alone is a clear gain
to the human mind. Let people rail at virtue, at genius and friendship
as long as they will—the very _names_ of these disputed qualities are
better than anything else that could be substituted for them, and embalm
even the most angry abuse of them.
CCCVIII. If goodness were only a theory, it were a pity it should be
lost to the world.
CCCIX. Were good and evil ever so nearly balanced in reality, yet
imagination would add a casting-weight to the favourable scale, by
anticipating the bright side of what is to come, and throwing a pleasing
melancholy on the past.
CCCX. Women, when left to themselves, talk chiefly about their dress:
they think more about their lovers than they talk about them.
CCCXI. With women, the great business of life is love; and they
generally make a mistake in it. They consult neither the heart nor the
head, but are led away by mere humour and fancy. If instead of a
companion for life, they had to choose a partner in a country-dance or
to trifle away an hour with, their mode of calculation would be right.
They tie their true-lover’s knots with idle, thoughtless haste, while
the institutions of society render it indissoluble.
CCCXII. When we hear complaints of the wretchedness or vanity of human
life, the proper answer to them would be that there is hardly any one
who at some time or other _has not been in love_. If we consider the
high abstraction of this feeling, its depth, its purity, its voluptuous
refinement, even in the meanest breast, how sacred and how sweet it is,
this alone may reconcile us to the lot of humanity. That drop of balm
turns the bitter cup to a delicious nectar—
‘And vindicates the ways of God to man.’
CCCXIII. It is impossible to love entirely, without being loved again.
Otherwise, the fable of Pygmalion would have no meaning. Let any one be
ever so much enamoured of a woman who does not requite his passion, and
let him consider what he feels when he finds her scorn or indifference
turning to mutual regard, the thrill, the glow of rapture, the melting
of two hearts into one, the creation of another self in her—and he will
own that he was before only half in love!
CCCXIV. Women never reason, and therefore they are (comparatively)
seldom wrong. They judge instinctively of what falls under their
immediate observation or experience, and do not trouble themselves about
remote or doubtful consequences. If they make no profound discoveries,
they do not involve themselves in gross absurdities. It is only by the
help of reason and logical inference, according to Hobbes, that ‘man
becomes excellently wise, or excellently foolish.’[23]
CCCXV. Women are less cramped by circumstances or education than men.
They are more the creatures of nature and impulse, and less cast in the
mould of habit or prejudice. If a young man and woman in common life are
seen walking out together on a holiday, the girl has the advantage in
point of air and dress. She has a greater aptitude in catching external
accomplishments and the manners of her superiors, and is less depressed
by a painful consciousness of her situation in life. A Quaker girl is
often as sensible and conversable as any other woman: while a Quaker man
is a bundle of quaint opinions and conceit. Women are not spoiled by
education and an affectation of superior wisdom. They take their chance
for wit and shrewdness, and pick up their advantages, according to their
opportunities and turn of mind. Their faculties (such as they are) shoot
out freely and gracefully, like the slender trees in a forest; and are
not clipped and cut down, as the understandings of men are, into uncouth
shapes and distorted fancies, like yew-trees in an old-fashioned garden.
Women in short resemble self-taught men, with more pliancy and delicacy
of feeling.
CCCXVI. Women have as little imagination as they have reason. They are
pure egotists. They cannot go out of themselves. There is no instance of
a woman having done anything great in poetry or philosophy. They can act
tragedy, because this depends very much on the physical expression of
the passions—they can sing, for they have flexible throats and nice
ears—they can write romances about love—and talk for ever about nothing.
CCCXVII. Women are not philosophers or poets, patriots, moralists, or
politicians—they are simply women.
CCCXVIII. Women have a quicker sense of the ridiculous than men, because
they judge from immediate impressions, and do not wait for the
explanation that may be given of them.
CCCXIX. English Women have nothing to say on general subjects: French
Women talk equally well on them or any other. This may be obviously
accounted for from the circumstance that the two sexes associate much
more together in France than they do with us, so that the tone of
conversation in the women has become masculine, and that of the men
effeminate. The tone of apathy and indifference in France to the
weightier interests of reason and humanity is ascribable to the same
cause. Women have no speculative faculty or fortitude of mind, and
wherever they exercise a continual and paramount sway, all must be soon
laughed out of countenance, but the immediately intelligible and
agreeable—but the shewy in religion, the lax in morals, and the
superficial in philosophy.
CCCXX. The texture of women’s minds, as well as of their bodies, is
softer than that of men’s: but they have not the same strength of nerve,
of understanding, or of moral purpose.
CCCXXI. In France knowledge circulates quickly from the mere
communicativeness of the national disposition. Whatever is once
discovered, be it good or bad, is made no secret of; but is spread
quickly through all ranks and classes of society. Thought then runs
along the surface of the mind like an electrical fluid; while the
English understanding is a _non-conductor_ to it, and damps it with its
_torpedo_ touch.
CCCXXII. The French are fond of reading as well as of talking. You may
constantly see girls tending an apple-stall in the coldest day in
winter, and reading Voltaire or Racine. Such a thing was never known in
London as a barrow-woman reading Shakespear. Yet we talk of our
widespread civilisation, and ample provisions for the education of the
poor.
CCCXXIII. In comparing notes with the French, we cannot boast even of
our superior conceit; for in that too they have the advantage of us.
CCCXXIV. It is curious that the French, with all their vivacity and love
of external splendour, should tolerate nothing but their prosing,
didactic style of tragedy on the stage; and that with all their flutter
and levity they should combine the most laborious patience and minute
finishing in works of art. A French student will take several weeks to
complete a chalk drawing from a head of Leonardo da Vinci, which a dull,
plodding Englishman would strike off in as many hours.
CCCXXV. The Dutch perhaps finished their landscapes so carefully,
because there was a want of romantic and striking objects in them, so
that they could only be made interesting by the accuracy of the details.
CCCXXVI. An awkward Englishman has an advantage in going abroad. Instead
of having his deficiency more remarked, it is less so; for all
Englishmen are thought awkward alike. Any slip in politeness or
abruptness of address is attributed to an ignorance of foreign manners,
and you escape under the cover of the national character. Your behaviour
is no more criticised than your accent. They consider the barbarism of
either as a compliment to their own superior refinement.
CCCXXVII. The difference between minuteness and subtlety or refinement
seems to be this—that the one relates to the parts, and the other to the
whole. Thus, the accumulation of a number of distinct particulars in a
work, as the threads of a gold-laced buttonhole, or the hairs on the
chin in a portrait of Denner’s, is minute or high finishing: the giving
the gradations of tone in a sky of Claude’s from azure to gold, where
the distinction at each step is imperceptible, but the whole effect is
striking and grand, and can only be seized upon by the eye and taste, is
true refinement and delicacy.
CCCXXVIII. The _forte_ of the French is a certain facility and grace of
execution. The Germans, who are the opposite to them, are full of throes
and labour, and do everything by an overstrained and violent effort.
CCCXXIX. The conversation of a pedantic Scotchman is like a canal with a
great number of _locks_ in it.
CCCXXX. The most learned are often the most narrowminded men.
CCCXXXI. The insolence of the vulgar is in proportion to their
ignorance. They treat everything with contempt which they do not
understand.
CCCXXXII. Our contempt for others proves nothing but the illiberality
and narrowness of our own views. The English laugh at foreigners,
because, from their insular situation, they are unacquainted with the
manners and customs of the rest of the world.
CCCXXXIII. The true barbarian is he who thinks everything barbarous but
his own tastes and prejudices.
CCCXXXIV. The difference between the vanity of a Frenchman and an
Englishman seems to be this—the one thinks everything right that is
French, the other thinks everything wrong that is not English. The
Frenchman is satisfied with his own country; the Englishman is
determined to pick a quarrel with every other.
CCCXXXV. The national precedence between the English and Scotch may be
settled by this, that the Scotch are always asserting their superiority
over the English, while the English never say a word about their
superiority over the Scotch. The first have got together a great number
of facts and arguments in their own favour; the last never trouble their
heads about the matter, but have taken the point for granted as
self-evident.
CCCXXXVI. The great characteristic of the Scotch is that of all
semi-barbarous people,—namely, a hard defiance of other nations.
CCCXXXVII. Those who are tenacious on the score of their faults shew
that they have no virtues to bring as a set-off against them.
CCCXXXVIII. An Englishman in Scotland seems to be travelling in a
conquered country, from the suspicion and precautions he has to
encounter; and this is really the history of the case.
CCCXXXIX. We learn a great deal from coming into contact and collision
with individuals of other nations. The contrast of character and
feeling—the different points of view from which they see things—is an
admirable test of the truth or reasonableness of our opinions. Among
ourselves we take a number of things for granted, which, as soon as we
find ourselves among strangers, we are called upon to account for. With
those who think and feel differently from our habitual tone, we must
have a reason for the faith that is in us, or we shall not come off very
triumphantly. By this comparing of notes, by being questioned and
cross-examined, we discover how far we have taken up certain notions on
good grounds, or barely on trust. We also learn how much of our best
knowledge is built on a sort of acquired instinct, and how little we can
analyse those things that seem to most of us self-evident. He is no mean
philosopher who can give a reason for one half of what he thinks. It by
no means follows that our tastes or judgments are wrong, because we may
be at fault in an argument. A Scotchman and a Frenchman would differ
equally from an Englishman, but would run into contrary extremes. He
might not be able to make good his ground against the levity of the one
or the pertinacity of the other, and yet he might be right, for they
cannot both be so. By visiting different countries and conversing with
their inhabitants, we strike a balance between opposite prejudices, and
have an average of truth and nature left.
CCCXL. Strength of character as well as strength of understanding is one
of the guides that point the way to truth. By seeing the bias and
prejudices of others marked in a strong and decided manner, we are led
to detect our own—from laughing at their absurdities we begin to suspect
the soundness of our own conclusions, which we find to be just the
reverse of them. When I was in Scotland some time ago, I learnt most
from the person, whose opinions were, not most right (as I conceive) but
most Scotch. In this case, as in playing a game at bowls, you have only
to allow for a certain bias in order to hit the Jack: or, as in an
algebraic equation, you deduct so much for national character and
prejudice, which is a known or given quantity, and what remains is the
truth.
CCCXLI. We learn little from mere captious controversy, or the collision
of opinions, unless where there is this collision of character to
account for the difference, and remind one, by implication, where one’s
own weakness lies. In the latter case, it is a shrewd presumption that
inasmuch as others are wrong, so are we: for the widest breach in
argument is made by mutual prejudice.
CCCXLII. There are certain moulds of national character in which all our
opinions and feelings must be cast, or they are spurious and vitiated. A
Frenchman and an Englishman, a Scotchman and an Irishman, seldom reason
alike on any two points consecutively. It is vain to think of
reconciling these antipathies: they are something in the juices and the
blood. It is not possible for a Frenchman to admire Shakspeare, except
out of mere affectation: nor is it at all necessary that he should,
while he has authors of his own to admire. But then his not admiring
Shakspeare is no reason why we should not. The harm is not in the
natural variety of tastes and dispositions, but in setting up an
artificial standard of uniformity, which makes us dissatisfied with our
own opinions, unless we can make them universal, or impose them as a law
upon the world at large.
CCCXLIII. I had rather be a lord than a king. A lord is a private
gentleman of the first class, amenable only to himself. A king is a
servant of the public, dependent on opinion, a subject for history, and
liable to be ‘baited with the rabble’s curse.’ Such a situation is no
sinecure. Kings indeed were gentlemen, when their subjects were vassals,
and the world (instead of a stage on which they have to perform a
difficult and stubborn part) was a deer-park through which they ranged
at pleasure. But the case is altered of late, and it is better and has
more of the sense of personal dignity in it to come into possession of a
large old family estate and ‘ancestral’ groves, than to have a kingdom
to govern—or to lose.
CCCXLIV. The affectation of gentility by people without birth or fortune
is a very idle species of vanity. For those who are in middle or humble
life to aspire to be always seen in the company of the great is like the
ambition of a dwarf who should hire himself as an attendant to wait upon
a giant. But we find great numbers of this class—whose pride or vanity
seems to be sufficiently gratified by the admiration of the finery or
superiority of others, without any farther object. There are sycophants
who take a pride in being seen in the train of a great man, as there are
fops who delight to follow in the train of a beautiful woman (from a
mere impulse of admiration and excitement of the imagination) without
the smallest personal pretensions of their own.
CCCXLV. There is a double aristocracy of rank and letters, which is
hardly to be endured—_monstrum ingens, biforme_. A lord, who is a poet
as well, regards the House of Peers with contempt, as a set of dull
fellows; and he considers his brother authors as a Grub-street crew. A
king is hardly good enough for him to touch: a mere man of genius is no
better than a worm. He alone is all-accomplished. Such people should be
_sent to Coventry_; and they generally are so, through their
insufferable pride and self-sufficiency.
CCCXLVI. The great are fond of patronising men of genius, when they are
remarkable for personal insignificance, so that they can dandle them
like parroquets or lapdogs, or when they are distinguished by some
awkwardness which they can laugh at, or some meanness which they can
despise. They do not wish to encourage or shew their respect for wisdom
or virtue, but to witness the defects or ridiculous circumstances
accompanying these, that they may have an excuse for treating all
sterling pretensions with supercilious indifference. They seek at best
to be amused, not to be instructed. Truth is the greatest impertinence a
man can be guilty of in polite company; and players and buffoons are the
_beau ideal_ of men of wit and talents.
CCCXLVII. We do not see nature merely from looking at it. We fancy that
we see the whole of any object that is before us, because we know no
more of it than what we see. The rest escapes us, as a matter of course;
and we easily conclude that the idea in our minds and the image in
nature are one and the same. But in fact we only see a very small part
of nature, and make an imperfect abstraction of the infinite number of
particulars, which are always to be found in it as well as we can. Some
do this with more or less accuracy than others, according to habit or
natural genius. A painter, for instance, who has been working on a face
for several days, still finds out something new in it which he did not
notice before, and which he endeavours to give in order to make his copy
more perfect, which shews how little an ordinary and unpractised eye can
be supposed to comprehend the whole at a single glance. A young artist,
when he first begins to study from nature, soon makes an end of his
sketch, because he sees only a general outline and certain gross
distinctions and masses. As he proceeds, a new field opens to him;
differences crowd upon differences; and as his perceptions grow more
refined, he could employ whole days in working upon a single part,
without satisfying himself at last. No painter, after a life devoted to
the art and the greatest care and length of time given to a single study
of a head or other object, ever succeeded in it to his wish, or did not
leave something still to be done. The greatest artists that have ever
appeared are those who have been able to employ some one view or aspect
of nature, and no more. Thus Titian was famous for colouring; Raphael
for drawing; Correggio for the gradations, Rembrandt for the extremes of
light and shade. The combined genius and powers of observation of all
the great artists in the world would not be sufficient to convey the
whole of what is contained in any one object in nature; and yet the most
vulgar spectator thinks he sees the whole of what is before him, at once
and without any trouble at all.
CCCXLVIII. A copy is never so good as an original. This would not be the
case indeed, if great painters were in the habit of copying bad
pictures; but as the contrary practice holds, it follows that the
excellent parts of a fine picture must lose in the imitation, and the
indifferent parts will not be proportionally improved by anything
substituted at a venture for them.
CCCXLIX. The greatest painters are those who have combined the finest
general effect with the highest degree of delicacy and correctness of
detail. It is a mistake that the introduction of the parts interferes or
is incompatible with the effect of the whole. Both are to be found in
nature. The most finished works of the most renowned artists are also
the best.
CCCL. We are not weaned from a misplaced attachment by (at last)
discovering the unworthiness of the object. The character of a woman is
one thing; her graces and attractions another; and these last acquire
even an additional charm and piquancy from the disappointment we feel in
other respects. The truth is, a man in love prefers his passion to every
other consideration, and is fonder of his mistress than he is of virtue.
Should she prove vicious, she makes vice lovely in his eyes.
CCCLI. An accomplished coquet excites the passions of others, in
proportion as she feels none herself. Her forwardness allures, her
indifference irritates desire. She fans the flame that does not scorch
her own bosom; plays with men’s feelings, and studies the effect of her
several arts at leisure and unmoved.
CCCLII. Grace in women is the secret charm that draws the soul into its
circle, and binds a spell round it for ever. The reason of which is,
that habitual grace implies a continual sense of delight, of ease and
propriety, which nothing can interrupt, ever varying, and adapting
itself to all circumstances alike.
CCCLIII. Even among the most abandoned of the sex, there is generally
found to exist one strong and individual attachment, which remains
unshaken through all circumstances. Virtue steals like a guilty thing
into the secret haunts of vice and infamy, clings to their devoted
victim, and will not be driven quite away. Nothing can destroy the human
heart.
CCCLIV. There is a heroism in crime as well as in virtue. Vice and
infamy have their altars and their religion. This makes nothing in their
favour, but is a proud compliment to man’s nature. Whatever he is or
does, he cannot entirely efface the stamp of the Divinity on him. Let
him strive ever so, he cannot divest himself of his natural sublimity of
thought and affection, however he may pervert or deprave it to ill.
CCCLV. We judge of character too much from names and classes and modes
of life. It alters very little with circumstances. The theological
doctrines of _Original Sin_, of _Grace_, and _Election_, admit of a
moral and natural solution. Outward acts or events hardly reach the
inward disposition or fitness for good or evil. Humanity is to be met
with in a den of robbers, nay, modesty in a brothel. Nature prevails,
and vindicates its rights to the last.
CCCLVI. Women do not become abandoned with the mere loss of character.
They only discover the vicious propensities which they before were bound
to conceal. They do not (all at once) part with their virtue, but throw
aside the veil of affectation and prudery.
CCCLVII. It is enough to satisfy ambition to excel in some one thing. In
everything else, one would wish to be a common man. Those who aim at
every kind of distinction turn out mere pretenders and coxcombs. One of
the ancients has said that ‘the wisest and most accomplished man is like
the statues of the Gods placed against a wall—in front an Apollo or a
Mercury, behind a plain piece of marble.’
CCCLVIII. The want of money, according to the poet, has the effect of
making men ridiculous. It not only has this disadvantage with respect to
ourselves, but it often shews us others in a very contemptible point of
view. If we sink in the opinion of the world from adverse circumstances,
the world is apt to sink equally in ours. Poverty is the test of
civility and the touchstone of friendship.
CCCLIX. There are those who borrow money, in order to lend it again.
This is raising a character for generosity at an easy rate.
CCCLX. The secret of the difficulties of those people who make a great
deal of money, and yet are always in want of it, is this—they throw it
away as soon as they get it on the first whim or extravagance that
strikes them, and have nothing left to meet ordinary expenses or
discharge old debts.
CCCLXI. Those who have the habit of _being generous before they are
just_, fancy they are getting out of difficulties all their lives,
because it is in their power to do so whenever they will; and for this
reason they go on in the same way to the last, because the time never
comes for baulking their inclinations or breaking off a bad habit.
CCCLXII. It is a mistake that we court the society of the rich and the
great merely with a view to what we can obtain from them. We do so,
because there is something in external rank and splendour that gratifies
and imposes on the imagination, just as we prefer the company of those
who are in good health and spirits to that of the sickly and
hypochondriacal, or as we would rather converse with a beautiful woman
than with an ugly one.
CCCLXIII. Shakspeare says, ‘Men’s judgments are a parcel of their
fortunes.’ A person in depressed circumstances is not only not listened
to—he has not the spirit to say a good thing.
CCCLXIV. We _are_ very much what others _think of us_. The reception our
observations meet with, gives us courage to proceed or damps our
efforts. A man is a wit and a philosopher in one place, who dares not
open his mouth and is considered as a blockhead in another. In some
companies nothing will go down but coarse practical jests, while the
finest remark or sarcasm would be disregarded.
CCCLXV. Men of talent rise with their company, and are brought out by
the occasion. Coxcombs and pedants have no advantage but over the dull
and ignorant, with whom they talk on by rote.
CCCLXVI. In France or abroad one feels one’s self at a loss; but then
one has an excuse ready in an ignorance of the language. In Scotland
they speak the same language, but do not understand a word that you say.
One cannot get on in society, without ideas in common. To attempt to
convert strangers to your notions, or to alter their whole way of
thinking in a short stay among them, is indeed making a toil of a
pleasure, and enemies of those who may be inclined to be friends.
CCCLXVII. In some situations, if you say nothing you are called dull; if
you talk, you are thought impertinent or arrogant. It is hard to know
what to do in this case. The question seems to be whether your vanity or
your prudence predominates.
CCCLXVIII. One has sometimes no other way of escaping from a sense of
insignificance, but by offending the self-love of others. We should
recollect, however, that good manners are indispensable at all times and
places, whereas no one is bound to make a figure, at the expense of
propriety.
CCCLXIX. People sometimes complain that you do not talk, when they have
not given you an opportunity to utter a word for a whole evening. The
real ground of disappointment has been, that you have not shewn a
sufficient degree of attention to what they have said.
CCCLXX. I can listen with patience to the dullest or emptiest companion
in the world, if he does not require me to do anything more than listen.
CCCLXXI. Wit is the rarest quality to be met with among people of
education, and the most common among the uneducated.
CCCLXXII. Are we to infer from this, that wit is a vulgar faculty, or
that people of education are proportionably deficient in liveliness and
spirit?
CCCLXXIII. We seldom hear and seldomer make a witty remark. Yet we read
nothing else in Congreve’s plays.
CCCLXXIV. Those who object to wit are envious of it.
CCCLXXV. The persons who make the greatest outcry against bad puns, are
the very same who also find fault with good ones. A bad pun at least
generally leads to a wise remark—_that it is a bad one_.
CCCLXXVI. A grave blockhead should always go about with a lively
one—they shew one another off to the best advantage.
CCCLXXVII. A lively blockhead in company is a public benefit. Silence or
dullness by the side of folly looks like wisdom.
CCCLXXVIII. It is not easy to write essays like Montaigne, nor Maxims in
the manner of the Duke de la Rochefoucault.
CCCLXXIX. The most perfect style of writing may be that which treats
strictly and methodically of a given subject; the most amusing (if not
the most instructive) is that, which mixes up the personal character of
the author with general reflections.
CCCLXXX. The seat of knowledge is in the head; of wisdom, in the heart.
We are sure to judge wrong, if we do not feel right.
CCCLXXXI. He who exercises a constant independence of spirit, and yet
seldom gives offence by the freedom of his opinions, may be presumed to
have a well-regulated mind.
CCCLXXXII. There are those who never offend by never speaking their
minds; as there are others who blurt out a thousand exceptionable things
without intending it, and because they are actuated by no feelings of
personal enmity towards any one.
CCCLXXXIII. Cowardice is not synonymous with prudence. It often happens
that the better part of discretion is valour.
CCCLXXXIV. Mental cowards are afraid of expressing a strong opinion, or
of striking hard, lest the blow should be retaliated. They throw
themselves on the forbearance of their antagonists, and hope for
impunity in their insignificance.
CCCLXXXV. No one ever gained a good word from friend or foe, from man or
woman, by want of spirit. The public know how to distinguish between a
contempt for themselves and the fear of an adversary.
CCCLXXXVI. Never be afraid of attacking a bully.
CCCLXXXVII. An honest man speaks truth, _though_ it may give offence; a
vain man, _in order that_ it may.
CCCLXXXVIII. Those only deserve a monument who do not need one; that is,
who have raised themselves a monument in the minds and memories of men.
CCCLXXXIX. Fame is the inheritance not of the dead, but of the living.
It is we who look back with lofty pride to the great names of antiquity,
who drink of that flood of glory as of a river, and refresh our wings in
it for future flight.
CCCXC. The inhabitant of a metropolis is apt to think this circumstance
alone gives him a decided superiority over every one else, and does not
improve that natural advantage so much as he ought.
CCCXCI. A true-bred _cockney_ fancies his having been born in London is
a receipt in full for every other species of merit. He belongs, in his
own opinion, to a _privileged class_.
CCCXCII. The number of objects we see from living in a large city amuses
the mind like a perpetual raree-show, without supplying it with any
ideas. The understanding thus becomes habitually mechanical and
superficial.
CCCXCIII. In proportion to the number of persons we see, we forget that
we know less of mankind.
CCCXCIV. Pertness and conceit are the characteristics of a true
_cockney_. He feels little respect for the greatest things, from the
opportunity of seeing them often and without trouble; and at the same
time he entertains a high opinion of himself from his familiarity with
them. He who has seen all the great actors, the great public characters,
the chief public buildings, and the other wonders of the metropolis,
thinks less of them from this circumstance; but conceives a prodigious
contempt for all those who have not seen what he has.
CCCXCV. The confined air of a metropolis is hurtful to the minds and
bodies of those who have never lived out of it. It is impure,
stagnant—without breathing-space to allow a larger view of ourselves or
others—and gives birth to a puny, sickly, unwholesome, and degenerate
race of beings.
CCCXCVI. Those who, from a constant change and dissipation of outward
objects have not a moment’s leisure left for their own thoughts, can
feel no respect for themselves, and learn little consideration for
humanity.
CCCXCVII. Profound hypocrisy is inconsistent with vanity: for the last
would betray our designs by some premature triumph. Indeed, vanity
implies a sympathy with others, and consummate hypocrisy is built on a
total want of it.
CCCXCVIII. A hypocrite despises those whom he deceives, but has no
respect for himself. He would make a dupe of himself too, if he could.
CCCXCIX. There is a degree of selfishness so complete, that it does not
feel the natural emotions of resentment, contempt, &c. against those who
have done all they could to provoke them. Everything but itself is a
matter of perfect indifference to it. It feels towards others no more
than if they were of a different species; and inflicts torture or
imparts delight, itself unmoved and immovable.
CCCC. Egotism is an infirmity that perpetually grows upon a man, till at
last he cannot bear to think of anything but himself, or even to suppose
that others do.
CCCCI. He will never have true friends who is afraid of making enemies.
CCCCII. The way to procure insults is to submit to them. A man meets
with no more respect than he exacts.
CCCCIII. What puts the baseness of mankind in the strongest point of
view is, that they avoid those who are in misfortune, instead of
countenancing or assisting them. They anticipate the increased demand on
their sympathy or bounty, and escape from it as from a falling house.
CCCCIV. Death puts an end to rivalship and competition. The dead can
boast no advantage over us; nor can we triumph over them.
CCCCV. We judge of an author by the quality, not the quantity, of his
productions. Unless we add as much to our reputation by a second attempt
as we did by our first, we disappoint expectation, and lose ground with
the public. Those therefore who have done the least have often the
greatest reputation. The author of Waverley has not risen in public
estimation by the extreme voluminousness of his writings: for it seems
as if that which is done so continually could not be very difficult to
do, and that there is some trick or _knack_ in it. The miracle ceases
with the repetition! The _Pleasures of Hope_ and the _Pleasures of
Memory_, on the contrary, stand alone and increase in value, because
they seem unrivalled and inimitable, even by the authors themselves. An
economy of expenditure is the way to grow rich in fame, as well as in
other pursuits.
CCCCVI. It is better to drink of deep griefs than to taste shallow
pleasures.
CCCCVII. Those who can command themselves, command others.
CCCCVIII. A surfeit of admiration or friendship often ends in an
indifference worse than hatred or contempt. It is not a lively
perception of faults, but a sickly distaste to the very idea of the
persons formerly esteemed, a palling of the imagination, or a conscious
inertness and inability to revive certain feelings—a state from which
the mind shrinks with greater repugnance than from any other.
CCCCIX. The last pleasure in life is the sense of discharging our duty.
CCCCX. Those people who are fond of giving trouble like to take it; just
as those who pay no attention to the comforts of others, are generally
indifferent to their own. We are governed by sympathy; and the extent of
our sympathy is determined by that of our sensibility.
CCCCXI. No one is idle, who can do anything.
CCCCXII. Friendship is cemented by interest, vanity, or the want of
amusement: it seldom implies esteem, or even mutual regard.
CCCCXIII. Some persons make promises for the pleasure of breaking them.
CCCCXIV. Praise is no match for blame and obloquy. For, were the scales
even, the malice of mankind would throw in the casting-weight.
CCCCXV. The safest kind of praise is to foretell that another will
become great in some particular way. It has the greatest shew of
magnanimity, and the least of it in reality. We are not jealous of
dormant merit, which nobody recognises but ourselves, and which in
proportion as it developes itself, demonstrates our sagacity. If our
prediction fails, it is forgotten; and if it proves true, we may then
set up for prophets.
CCCCXVI. Men of genius do not excel in any profession because they
labour in it, but they labour in it, because they excel.
CCCCXVII. Vice is man’s nature: virtue is a habit—or a mask.
CCCCXVIII. The foregoing maxim shews the difference between truth and
sarcasm.
CCCCXIX. Exalted station precludes even the exercise of natural
affection, much more of common humanity.
CCCCXX. We for the most part strive to regulate our actions, not so much
by conscience or reason, as by the opinion of the world. But _by the
world_ we mean those who entertain an opinion about us. Now, this circle
varies exceedingly, but never expresses more than a part. In senates, in
camps, in town, in country, in courts, in a prison, a man’s vices and
virtues are weighed in a separate scale by those who know him, and who
have similar feelings and pursuits. We care about no other opinion.
There is a moral horizon which bounds our view, and beyond which the
rest is air. The public is divided into a number of distinct
jurisdictions for different claims; and posterity is but a name, even to
those who sometimes dream of it.
CCCCXXI. We can bear to be deprived of everything but our self-conceit.
CCCCXXII. Those who are fond of setting things to rights, have no great
objection to seeing them wrong. There is often a good deal of spleen at
the bottom of benevolence.
CCCCXXIII. The reputation of science which ought to be the most lasting,
as synonymous with truth, is often the least so. One discovery
supersedes another; and the progress of light throws the past into
obscurity. What has become of the Blacks, the Lavoisiers, the
Priestleys, in chemistry? In political economy, Adam Smith is laid on
the shelf, and Davenant and De Witt have given place to the Says, the
Ricardos, the Malthuses, and the Macullochs. These persons are happy in
one respect—they have a sovereign contempt for all who have gone before
them, and never dream of those who are to come after them and usurp
their place. When any set of men think theirs the only science worth
studying, and themselves the only infallible persons in it, it is a sign
how frail the traces are of past excellence in it, and how little
connection it has with the general affairs of human life. In proportion
to the profundity of any inquiry, is its futility. The most important
and lasting truths are the most obvious ones. Nature cheats us with her
mysteries, one after another, like a juggler with his tricks; but shews
us her plain honest face, without our paying for it. The understanding
only blunders more or less in trying to find out what things are in
themselves: the heart judges at once of its own feelings and
impressions; and these are true and the same.
CCCCXXIV. Scholastic divinity was of use in its day, by affording
exercise to the mind of man. Astrology, and the finding-out the
philosopher’s stone, answered the same purpose. If we had not something
to doubt, to dispute and quarrel about, we should be at a loss what to
do with our time.
CCCCXXV. The multitude who require to be led, still hate their leaders.
CCCCXXVI. It has been said that any man may have any woman.
CCCCXXVII. Many people are infatuated with ill-success, and reduced to
despair by a lucky turn in their favour. While all goes well, they are
_like fish out of water_. They have no confidence or sympathy with their
good fortune, and look upon it as a momentary delusion. Let a doubt be
thrown on the question, and they begin to be full of lively
apprehensions again; let all their hopes vanish, and they feel
themselves on firm ground once more. From want of spirit or of habit,
their imaginations cannot rise from the low ground of humility, cannot
reflect the gay, flaunting colours of the rainbow, flag and droop into
despondency, and can neither indulge the expectation, nor employ the
means of success. Even when it is within their reach, they dare not lay
hands upon it, and shrink from unlooked-for prosperity, as something of
which they are ashamed and unworthy. The class of _croakers_ here spoken
of are less delighted at other people’s misfortunes than at their own.
Querulous complaints and anticipations of failure are the food on which
they live, and they at last acquire a passion for that which is the
favourite subject of their thoughts and conversation.
CCCCXXVIII. There are some persons who never succeed, from being too
indolent to undertake anything; and others who regularly fail, because
the instant they find success in their power, they grow indifferent, and
give over the attempt.
CCCCXXIX. To be remembered after we are dead, is but a poor recompense
for being treated with contempt while we are living.
CCCCXXX. Mankind are so ready to bestow their admiration on the dead,
because the latter do not hear it, or because it gives no pleasure to
the objects of it. Even fame is the offspring of envy.
CCCCXXXI. Truth is not one, but many; and an observation may be true in
itself that contradicts another equally true, according to the point of
view from which we contemplate the subject.
CCCCXXXII. Much intellect is not an advantage in courtship. General
topics interfere with particular attentions. A man, to be successful in
love, should think only of himself and his mistress. Rochefoucault
observes that lovers are never tired of each other’s company, because
they are always talking of themselves.
CCCCXXXIII. The best kind of oratory or argument is not that which is
most likely to succeed with any particular person. In the latter case,
we must avail ourselves of our knowledge of individual circumstances and
character: in the former, we must be guided by general rules and
calculations.
CCCCXXXIV. The picture of the Misers, by Quintin Matsys, seems to
proceed upon a wrong idea. It represents two persons of this description
engaged and delighted with the mutual contemplation of their wealth. But
avarice is not a social passion; and the true miser should retire into
his cell to gloat over his treasures alone, without sympathy or
observation.
The End.
NOTES
MEMOIRS OF THOMAS HOLCROFT
The chief source of information respecting the life of Thomas Holcroft
(1745–1809) is the _Life_ here printed. A brief résumé of dates may not,
however, be useless. He was born in London, December 10, 1745 (o.s.).
After wandering with his father, who was in turn shoemaker, horse-dealer
and pedlar, he was apprenticed at the age of thirteen as a stableboy at
Newmarket. He returned to London when he was sixteen, and his next years
were spent as shoemaker, school-master and strolling player. He turned
dramatist, and his first piece, _The Crisis, or Love and Famine_, was
acted on May 1, 1778, for a single performance. He turned author, and in
1780 his first novel, _Alwyn, or the Gentleman Comedian_, was published.
These were followed by other novels and many plays, the best known of
which is _The Road to Ruin_ (Covent Garden, February 18, 1792). In 1783
he went abroad in the interests of journalism, and busied himself with
sundry translations (_e.g._ _Le Mariage de Figaro_, by Beaumarchais,
which was successful at Covent Garden, December 14, 1784, as _The
Follies of a Day_). He did not escape the political troubles of his
time, and, on October 7, 1794, he was sent to Newgate to await his trial
for high-treason: he was discharged, however, without being tried, on
December 1. The remaining years of his life were spent in unfortunate
business speculations (chiefly picture-buying) and literary adventures
in England and abroad: they were years of constant struggle against
poverty and adverse fate. He died on March 23, 1809, and lies buried in
Marylebone Parish Cemetery. He married four times.
There does not seem much reason for the abbreviation of the names of
people mentioned in Holcroft’s ‘Memoirs,’ since they are rarely the
subject of scandal. (See, however, with respect to the Diary, a letter
from Wm. Godwin to Mrs. Holcroft, given in C. Kegan Paul’s ‘William
Godwin,’ vol. ii. pp. 176–77, and Hazlitt’s remarks on p. 169 of the
‘Memoirs.’) Capitals were evidently used for the sake of shortness; in
some cases it is easy to identify from the context the persons
indicated; in others, less so, and, where possible, the identification
is made in the Notes. In some few cases it has not been possible to
state definitely the person meant.
In addition to the works mentioned in the text Holcroft seems also to
have translated Count Stolberg’s ‘Travels through Germany, Switzerland,
Italy and Sicily’ (1796), ‘The Life of Baron Trenck’ (1792), Goethe’s
‘Hermann and Dorothea’ (1801), ‘Sacred Dramas’ by the Countess de Genlis
(1786).
In a letter from Mary Lamb to Mrs. Hazlitt (Nov. 30, 1810, ‘Memoirs of
Hazlitt,’ vol. i. p. 179), in speaking of Hazlitt’s ‘Memoirs of
Holcroft,’ she calls the book the ‘Life Everlasting.’
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1. _Orange Court, Leicester Fields_, known later as Orange Street,
Leicester Square.
2. _History of Parismus and Parismenos._ A romance of Bohemia (1598)
by Emanuel Ford (fl. 1607).
_Seven Champions of Christendom._ By Richard Johnson (1573–1659?)
Published 1596–97.
4. _Chapman’s Books_, _i.e._ books sold by chapmen or pedlars.
6. Note. _Hugh Trevor._ ‘The Adventures of Hugh Trevor,’ London,
1794–97, 6 vols. See p. 136.
10. _the feast of reason._ Pope, Hor. Bk. II. Sat. 1.
18. _the great vulgar and the small._ Cowley, Hor. Od. III. 1.
19. _spell and null._ A game of ball. The ball (= nur) is released by
a spring from a cup at the end of a piece of steel (= spell).
The object is to strike it, when released, as far as possible.
_bandy._ A game similar to hockey.
_prison-bars._ A game of speed in running from goals or bases.
22. _Childers._ 1715. He was one of the fleetest horses ever known,
and was never beaten.
_Careless._ 1751. Was bred by John Borlace Warren of Stapleford,
Notts. He seems to have been beaten in 1758 by Atlas at
Huntingdon. In 1760 he beat the Duke of Devonshire’s Atlas at
York, but previously, in 1759, he had suffered another defeat
from Atlas at Newmarket.
24. _Mr Woodcock._ Holcroft’s father could hardly have applied to a
better person. John Woodcock was chosen by Mr Jenison Shafto in
1761 to ride a match for him on the following conditions: to
ride a hundred miles a day on any one horse each day for
twenty-nine successive days on any number of horses not
exceeding twenty-nine. He began on Newmarket Heath, May 4, 1761,
at one o’clock in the morning, and won the sum staked, two
thousand guineas, for his master on the 1st of June, at six
o’clock in the evening, having ridden on only fourteen horses.
One day he rode a hundred and sixty miles owing to his first
horse having tired when sixty miles only had been accomplished.
See Whyte’s ‘History of the British Turf,’ vol. i. p. 513.
25. _Tim Bobbin’s Lancashire dialect._ By John Collier (1708–1786). A
popular humorous work in dialogue and dialect (1746).
35. _chuck-farthing._ A game in which coins are thrown into a prepared
hole.
_bones, sinews, and thews._ ‘Heart, sinews, and bones.’—‘Troilus
and Cressida,’ v. 8.
42. _Death and the Lady._ See Bell’s ‘Early Ballads and Ballads of the
Peasantry’ (1877), p. 252.
_Margaret’s Ghost._ ‘William and Margaret’ (1724), by David Mallet
(?1705–1765). See also Bell’s ‘Early Ballads,’ 1877, p. 120.
_King Charles’s golden rules._ Twelve pithy ‘Table Observations,’
probably of seventeenth century origin. See ‘Notes and Queries,’
March 7 and 14, 1863, Jan. 13, 1872. Cf. Goldsmith’s ‘The
Deserted Village,’ l. 232.
43. _The Whole Duty of Man._ 1659. Authorship unknown.
_Horneck’s Crucified Jesus._ 1686. Anthony Horneck (1641–1697).
_The Life of Francis Spira._ Possibly ‘A Relation of the fearful
estate of Francis Spira after he turned apostate from the
Protestant Religion to Popery.’ By N. Bacon, 1637 and many later
editions.
56. _Mr Granville Sharpe._ G. Sharp, the abolitionist (1735–1813).
_one Macklin._ Charles Macklin (?1697–1797). ‘Man of the World’
(1781). For particulars of further well-known actors referred to
in the ‘Memoirs of Thomas Holcroft,’ see Notes to Hazlitt’s ‘A
View of the English Stage,’ present edition.
59. _Mr Foote._ Samuel Foote (1720–1777).
_Pierre and Jaffier._ In ‘Venice Preserved’ (1681–82), by Thomas
Otway (1652–1685).
_Lothario._ In ‘The Fair Penitent’ (1703), by Nicholas Rowe
(1674–1718).
_as Nic. Bottom says_. ‘Midsummer Night’s Dream,’ 1, 2.
63. _Mossop._ Henry Mossop (?1729–?1774) opened Smock Alley Theatre in
1760.
66. _Downing or Dunning._ ? George Downing (d. 1780), who wrote the
comedy, ‘Newmarket, or The Humours of the Turf’ (1763).
67. _lamb’s wool._ A drink made of ale, nutmeg, sugar and roasted
apples.
70. _Clementi._ Muzio Clementi (1752–1832), the father of pianoforte
music.
Note. _the Spoiled Child._ 1790. Ascribed to Isaac Bickerstaffe
(d. 1812?).
Note. _The Road to Ruin._ See p. 121, and note thereto.