SIR,

'Yours of _Saturday_ last I read, not without some Resentment; but I

will suppose when you say you expect an Inundation of Ribbons and

Brocades, and to see many new Vanities which the Women will fall into

upon a Peace with _France_, that you intend only the unthinking Part

of our Sex: And what Methods can reduce them to Reason is hard to

imagine.

But, Sir, there are others yet, that your Instructions might be of

great Use to, who, after their best Endeavours, are sometimes at a

loss to acquit themselves to a Censorious World: I am far from

thinking you can altogether disapprove of Conversation between Ladies

and Gentlemen, regulated by the Rules of Honour and Prudence; and have

thought it an Observation not ill made, that where that was wholly

denied, the Women lost their Wit, and the Men their Good-manners. 'Tis

sure, from those improper Liberties you mentioned, that a sort of

undistinguishing People shall banish from their Drawing-Rooms the

best-bred Men in the World, and condemn those that do not. Your

stating this Point might, I think, be of good use, as well as much

oblige,

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