CONTENTS

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EVOLUTION OF ROMANTIC LOVE 1

COSMIC ATTRACTION AND CHEMICAL AFFINITIES 3

FLOWER LOVE AND BEAUTY 7

IMPERSONAL AFFECTION 11

PERSONAL AFFECTIONS 16

I. Love for Animals 16

II. Maternal Love 19

III. Paternal Love 20

IV. Filial Love 22

V. Brotherly and Sisterly Love 23

VI. Friendship 24

VII. Romantic Love 26

OVERTONES OF LOVE 29

I. Individual Preference 30

II. Monopoly or Exclusiveness 30

III. Jealousy 30

IV. Coyness 30

V. Gallantry 31

VI. Self-Sacrifice 31

VII. Sympathy 31

VIII. Pride of Conquest and Possession 31

IX. Emotional Hyperbole 32

X. Mixed Moods 32

XI. Admiration of Personal Beauty 32

Herbert Spencer on Love 33

LOVE AMONG ANIMALS 33

Courtship 37

(_a_) Jealousy 39

(_b_) Coyness 40

(_c_) Individual Preference 42

(_d_) Personal Beauty and Sexual Selection 43

(1) Protective Colours 48

(2) Warning Colours 48

(3) Typical Colours 48

(4) Sexual Colours 49

Love Charms and Love Calls 50

Love Dances and Display 52

LOVE AMONG SAVAGES 54

Strangers to Love 54

Primitive Courtship 56

(1) Capture 56

(2) Purchase 58

(3) Service 58

Individual Preference 59

Personal Beauty and Sexual Selection 60

Jealousy and Polygamy 62

Monopoly and Monogamy 63

Primitive Coyness 64

Can American Negroes Love? 66

HISTORY OF LOVE 67

LOVE IN EGYPT 67

ANCIENT HEBREW LOVE 69

ANCIENT ARYAN LOVE 72

Hindoo Love Maxims 73

GREEK LOVE 75

Family Affection 75

No Love Stories 76

Woman’s Position 77

Chaperonage _versus_ Courtship 77

Plato on Courtship 78

Parental _versus_ Lovers’ Choice 78

The Hetæræ 79

Platonic Love 80

Sappho and Female Friendship 81

Greek Beauty 83

Cupid’s Arrows 84

Origin of Love 85

ROMAN LOVE 86

Woman’s Position 86

No Wooing and Choice 87

Virgil, Dryden, and Scott 89

Ovid’s Art of Making Love 90

Birth of Gallantry 91

MEDIÆVAL LOVE 92

Celibacy _versus_ Marriage 92

Woman’s Lowest Degradation 93

Negation of Feminine Choice 95

Christianity and Love 97

Chivalry—Militant and Comic 98

Chivalry—Poetic 101

(_a_) French Troubadours 102

(_b_) German Minnesingers 103

Female Culture 105

Personal Beauty 107

Spenser on Love 108

Dante and Shakspere 109

MODERN LOVE 111

A Biologic Test 111

Venus, Plutus, and Minerva 112

Leading Motives 114

Modern Coyness 114

(1) An Echo of Capture 114

(2) Maiden _versus_ Wife 115

(3) Modesty 115

(4) Cunning to be Strange 115

(5) Procrastination 116

Goldsmith on Love 116

Disadvantages of Coyness 118

Coyness lessens Woman’s Love 120

Masculine _versus_ Feminine Love 120

Flirtation and Coquetry 122

Flirtation _versus_ Coyness 123

Modern Courtship 125

Modern Jealousy 127

Lover’s Jealousy 129

Retrospective and Prospective Jealousy 131

Jealousy and Beauty 133

Monopoly or Exclusiveness 133

True Love is Transient 135

Is First Love Best? 136

Heine on First Love 137

First Love is not Best 137

Pride and Vanity 141

Coquetry 142

Love and Rank 143

Special Sympathy 145

How Love Intensifies Emotions 146

Development of Sympathy 147

Pity and Love 150

Love at First Sight 152

Intellect and Love 154

Gallantry and Self-Sacrifice 157

Active and Passive Desire to Please 159

Feminine Devotion 160

Emotional Hyperbole 162

Mixed Moods and Paradoxes 166

Lunatic, Lover, and Poet 172

Individual Preference 173

Sexual Divergence 174

Making Woman Masculine 175

Love and Culture 176

Personal Beauty 177

Feminine Beauty in Masculine Eyes 177

Masculine Beauty in Feminine Eyes 178

CONJUGAL AFFECTION AND ROMANTIC LOVE 180

Romance in Conjugal Love 184

Marriages of Reason or Love Matches? 187

Marriage Hints 189

OLD MAIDS 190

BACHELORS 194

GENIUS AND MARRIAGE 197

GENIUS AND LOVE 201

GENIUS IN LOVE 204

(1) Precocity 204

(2) Ardour 207

(3) Fickleness 210

(4) Multiplicity 213

(5) Fictitiousness 215

INSANITY AND LOVE 218

Analogies 218

Erotomania, or Real Love-Sickness 222

THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE 223

I. Words 223

II. Facial Expression 224

III. Caresses 225

KISSING—PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE 227

Among Animals 227

Among Savages 228

Origin of Kissing 229

Ancient Kisses 232

Mediæval Kisses 233

Modern Kisses 234

Love Kisses 235

How to Kiss 237

HOW TO WIN LOVE 238

Brass Buttons 238

Confidence and Boldness 239

Pleasant Associations 240

Perseverance 241

Feigned Indifference 241

Compliments 244

Love Letters 246

Love Charms for Women 250

Proposing 253

Diagnosis, or Signs of Love 254

HOW TO CURE LOVE 255

Absence 256

Travel 257

Employment 257

Married Misery 257

Feminine Inferiority 260

Focussing Her Faults 262

Reason _versus_ Passion 263

Love _versus_ Love 264

Prognosis, or Chances of Recovery 265

NATIONALITY AND LOVE 265

French Love 266

Italian Love 274

Spanish Love 277

German Love 280

English Love 288

American Love 294

SCHOPENHAUER’S THEORY OF LOVE 301

Love is an Illusion 302

Individuals Sacrificed to the Species 302

Sources of Love 303

(1) Physical Beauty 303

(2) Psychic Traits 304

(3) Complementary Qualities 305

FOUR SOURCES OF BEAUTY 310

I. Health 310

Greek Beauty 313

Mediæval Ugliness 314

Modern Hygiene 316

II. Crossing 318

III. Romantic Love 322

IV. Mental Refinement 324

EVOLUTION OF TASTE 327

Savage Notions of Beauty 327

Non-Æsthetic "Ornamentation" 328

Personal Beauty as a Fine Art 329

Negative Tests of Beauty 331

(_a_) Animals 331

(_b_) Savages 333

(_c_) Degraded Classes 333

(_d_) Age and Decrepitude 334

(_e_) Disease 334

Positive Tests of Beauty 338

(_a_) Symmetry 338

(_b_) Gradation 339

(_c_) Curvature 341

Masculine and Feminine Beauty 342

(_d_) Delicacy 343

(_e_) Smoothness 344

(_f_) Lustre and Colour 345

(_g_) Expression, Variety, Individuality 348

THE FEET 351

Size 351

Fashionable Ugliness 352

Tests of Beauty 354

A Graceful Gait 357

Evolution of the Great Toe 359

National Peculiarities 361

Beautifying Hygiene 362

Dancing and Grace 364

Dancing and Courtship 365

Evolution of Dance Music 367

The Dance of Love 369

Ballet-Dancing 370

THE LOWER LIMBS 371

Muscular Development 371

Beautifying Exercise 372

Fashionable Ugliness 375

The Crinoline Craze 376

THE WAIST 378

The Beauty-Curve 378

The Wasp-Waist Mania 379

Hygienic Disadvantages 380

Æsthetic Disadvantages 381

Corpulence and Leanness 382

The Fashion Fetish Analysed 386

Individualism _versus_ Fashion 389

Masculine Fashions 391

CHEST AND BOSOM 394

Feminine Beauty 394

Masculine Beauty 397

Magic Effect of Deep Breathing 397

A Moral Question 399

NECK AND SHOULDER 400

ARM AND HAND 402

Evolution and Sexual Differences 402

Calisthenics and Massage 403

The Second Face 405

Finger Nails 406

Manicure Secrets 407

JAW, CHIN, AND MOUTH 408

Hands _versus_ Jaws 408

Dimples in the Chin 412

Refined Lips 413

Cosmetic Hints 421

THE CHEEKS 423

High Cheek Bones 423

Colour and Blushes 425

THE EARS 429

A Useless Ornament 429

Cosmetics and Fashion 431

Physiognomic Vagaries 433

Noise and Civilisation 434

A Musical Voice 435

THE NOSE 436

Size and Shape 436

Evolution of the Nose 438

Greek and Hebrew Noses 440

Fashion and Cosmetic Surgery 443

Nose-Breathing and Health 445

Cosmetic Value of Odours 446

THE FOREHEAD 448

Beauty and Brain 448

Fashionable Deformity 450

Wrinkles 451

THE COMPLEXION 453

White _versus_ Black 453

Cosmetic Hints 460

Freckles and Sunshine 462

THE EYES 464

Colour 465

Lustre 469

Form 472

Expression 475

(_a_) Lustre 476

(_b_) Colour of Iris 478

(_c_) Movements of the Iris 479

(_d_) ” ” Eyeball 480

(_e_) ” ” Eyelids 482

(_f_) ” ” Eyebrows 485

Cosmetic Hints 485

THE HAIR 486

Cause of Man’s Nudity 486

Beards and Moustaches 489

Baldness and Depilatories 492

Æsthetic Value of Hair 494

BRUNETTE AND BLONDE 496

Blonde _versus_ Brunette 496

Brunette _versus_ Blonde 498

Why Cupid Favours Brunettes 499

NATIONALITY AND BEAUTY 505

FRENCH BEAUTY 506

ITALIAN BEAUTY 511

SPANISH BEAUTY 515

GERMAN AND AUSTRIAN BEAUTY 522

ENGLISH BEAUTY 528

AMERICAN BEAUTY 535

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