HELP TO MAKE MEN.

Let sisters not begrudge the time and care bestowed on a brother. It

is hard to believe that any boy that you know so well as your brother

can ever turn out anything very useful. Well, he may not be a Moses.

There is only one of that kind needed for six thousand years. But I

tell you what your brother will be--either a blessing or a curse to

society, and a candidate for happiness or wretchedness. He will, like

Moses, have the choice between rubies and living coals, and your

influence will have much to do with his decision. He may not, like

Moses, be the deliverer of a nation, but he may, after your father and

mother are gone, be the deliverer of a household. What thousands of

homes to-day are piloted by brothers! There are properties now well

invested and yielding income for the support of sisters and younger

brothers, because the older brother rose to the leadership from the

day the father laid down to die. Whatever you do for your brother will

come back to you again. If you set him an ill-natured, censorious,

unaccommodating example, it will recoil upon you from his own

irritated and despoiled nature. If you, by patience with all his

infirmities and by nobility of character, dwell with him in the few

years of your companionship, you will have your counsels reflected

back upon you some day by his splendor of behavior in some crisis

where he would have failed but for you.

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