THE FATAL MISTAKE

of marrying men to reform them. If a young man by twenty-five years of

age or thirty years of age has the habit of strong drink fixed on him,

he is as certainly bound for a drunkard's grave as that a train

starting out from Grand Central Depot at 8 o'clock to-morrow morning

is bound for Albany. The train may not reach Albany, for it may be

thrown from the track. The young man may not reach a drunkard's grave,

for something may throw him off the iron track of evil habit; but the

probability is that the train that starts to-morrow morning at 8

o'clock for Albany will get there and the probability is that the

young man who has the habit of strong drink fixed on him before

twenty-five or thirty years of age will arrive at a drunkard's grave.

She knows he drinks, although he tries to hide it by chewing cloves.

Everybody knows he drinks. Parents warn, neighbors and friends warn.

She will marry him, she will reform him.

If she is unsuccessful in the experiment, why then the divorce law

will emancipate her, because habitual drunkenness is a cause for

divorce in Indiana, Kentucky, Florida, Connecticut, and nearly all the

States. So the poor thing goes to the altar of sacrifice. If you will

show me the poverty-struck streets in any city I will show you the

homes of the women who married men to reform them. In one case out of

ten thousand it may be a successful experiment. I never saw the

successful experiment. But have a rigorous divorce law, and that woman

will say, "If I am affianced to that man it is for life; and if now in

the ardor of his young love, and I am the prize to be won, he will not

give up his cups, when he has won the prize, surely he will not give

up his cups." And so that woman will say to the man, "No, sir, you are

already married to the club, and you are married to that evil habit,

and so you are married twice, and you are a bigamist. Go!"

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