SOCIAL DEGRADATION.

Fugitive marriage is to be deplored because it almost always implies

woman's descent from a higher social plane to a lower. If the man was

not of a higher plane, or the marriage on an equality, there would be

no objections, and hence no inducement to clandestinity. In almost all

cases it means the lowering of womanhood. Observe this law: a man

marrying a woman beneath him in society may raise her to any eminence

that he himself may reach; but if a woman marry a man beneath her in

society she always goes down to his level. That is a law inexorable,

and there are no exceptions. Is any woman so high up that she can

afford to plot for her own debasement? There is not a State in the

American Union that has not for the last twenty years furnished an

instance of the sudden departure of some intelligent woman from an

affluent home to spend her life with some one who can make five

dollars a day, provided he keeps very busy. Well, many a man has

lived on five dollars a day and been happy, but he undertakes a big

contract when with five dollars a day he attempts to support some one

who has lived in a home that cost twenty thousand per annum. This has

been about the history of most of such conjunctions of simplicity and

extravagance, the marriage of

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