But a clearer idea of the representative Roman woman on her
intellectual side, and of the estimation in which she was held, is
gathered through her relation to the world of letters, and in the
glimpses of a sympathetic family life which we find in the private
correspondence of some great men.
In the golden age of Augustus politics had ceased to be profitable or
even safe, and the educated classes turned to literature for occupation
and amusement, when they did not turn to something worse. It was the
fashion to patronize letters, and every idler prided himself on writing
elegant verses. In the words of Horace:
Now the light people bend to other aims;
A lust of scribbling every breast inflames;
Our youth, our senators, with bays are crowned,
And rhymes eternal as our feasts go round.
Even Augustus wrote bad epigrams and a worse tragedy. Public libraries
were numerous,--there were twenty-nine,--and busts of great masters
were placed beside their works. Authors were petted and flattered, and
they flattered their patrons in turn. These were the days when Horace
lived at his ease on his Sabine farm, gently satirizing the follies
and vices that were preparing the decay of this pleasure-loving world,
posing a little perhaps, and taking a lofty tone toward the courtly
Mæcenas and his powerful master, who honored the brilliant poet and
were glad to let him do as he liked. “Do you know that I am angry with
you for not addressing to me one of your epistles?” wrote Augustus.
“Are you afraid that posterity will reproach you for being my friend?
If you are so proud as to scorn my friendship, that is no reason why
I should lightly esteem yours in return.” The epistle came, but the
little gray-haired man, who saw so clearly and wrote so wisely, went
on his way serenely among his own hills, stretching himself lazily
on the grass by some ruined temple or running stream, and sending
pleasant though sometimes caustic words to the friends he would not
take the trouble to go and see unless peremptorily summoned. Such was
the relation between the ruler of the world and those who conferred
distinction on his reign. Ovid discoursed upon love, and became a lion,
until he forgot to confine himself to theory, and went a step too far
in practice. Then he was sent away from his honored place among the
gilded youth who basked in the smiles of an emperor’s granddaughter,
to meditate on the vanity of life and the uncertainty of fame, by the
desolate shores of the Euxine.
In this blending of literature and fashion women had a prominent
place, though not as writers. No woman of the educated class could
write for money, and talent of that sort, even if she had it, would
have brought her little consideration. Whatever she may have done in
that direction was like foam on the crest of a wave. It vanished with
the moment. At a later period there were a few who wrote poetry of
which a trace is left. Balbilla, who was taken to Egypt in the train
of Hadrian and the good Empress Sabina, went out to hear the song with
which Memnon greeted his mother Aurora at dawn, and scratched some
verses on the statue in honor of her visit. Possibly they were only
the flattering trifles of a clever courtier, but they were graven on
stone and outlasted many better things. Of wider fame was Sulpicia,
the wife of a noted man in the reign of Domitian, who wrote a poem on
“Conjugal Love,” also a satire on an edict banishing the philosophers,
fragments of which still exist. She had the old Roman spirit, but was
less conciliatory than the eloquent Hortensia of an earlier day, who
was tired of the brutalities of war. She mourned the degeneracy of the
age, calling for “reverses that will awaken patriotism, yes, reverses
to make Rome strong again, to rouse her from the soft and enervating
languor of a fatal peace.” The able but wicked Agrippina, of tragical
memory, wrote the story of her life which gave to Tacitus many facts
and points for his “Annals.” Doubtless there were other things that
went the way of the passing epigrams and verses of Augustus and his
elegant courtiers. Twenty centuries hence who will ever hear of the
thousands, yes, millions of more or less clever essays and poems
written by men and women to-day and multiplied indefinitely by a facile
press? What will the future antiquarian who searches the pages of a
nineteenth-century anthology know of us, save that every man and woman
wrote, but nothing lived, except perhaps a volume or two from the work
of a few poets, essayists, and historians, who can be counted on one’s
fingers? Oh, yes; there are the novelists whose value is measured by
figures and dollars, who multiply as the locusts do. Fine as we may
think them to-day, how many of their books will survive the sifting of
time? They may be piled in old libraries, but who will take the trouble
to dive into a mass that literally has no bottom? Will the world forget
that women did anything worth preserving? Yet our women are educated;
some of them are scholars, most of them are intelligent; many write
well, and a few surpassingly well.
But if women did not write, they used their influence to find a hearing
for those who did. Of the learning of the time they had their share,
though it may not have been very profound. Ovid tells us that “there
are learned fair, a very limited number; another set are not learned,
but they wish to be so.” He writes of a gay world which is not too
decorous or too serious, but in the category of a woman’s attractions
he mentions as necessary a knowledge of the great poets, both Greek
and Latin, among whom he modestly counts himself. Women of fashion had
poets or philosophers to read or talk to them, even at their toilets,
while the maids brushed their hair. They discussed Plato and Aristotle
as we do Browning and economics. They dabbled in the mysteries of
Isis and Osiris as we do in theosophy and Buddhism; speculated on
Christianity as we do on lesser faiths, and began to doubt their
falling gods. Philosophy was “the religion of polite society,” but
women have always been drawn toward a faith that appeals to the
emotions. Then there were the recitations and public readings, in which
they were actors as well as listeners.
We have glimpses of the more seriously intellectual side of the Roman
woman in the private letters of Cicero, which show us also the pleasant
family life that gives us the best test of its value and sincerity.
The brilliant orator seems to have had a special liking for able and
accomplished matrons. In his youth he sought their society in order to
polish and perfect his style. He speaks in special praise of Lælia,
the wife of Scævola with whom he studied law, also of her daughter
and granddaughters--all of whom excelled in conversation of a high
order; he refers often to Cærellia, a woman of learning and talent,
with whom he corresponded for many years; and he says that Caius Curio
owes his great fame as an orator to the conversations in his mother’s
house. Many other women he mentions whose attainments in literature,
philosophy, and eloquence did honor to their sex and placed them
on a level with the great men of their time. This was in the late
days of the Republic, when genuine talent was not yet swamped in the
pretensions of mediocrity.
The praise of his daughter Tullia is always on his lips. She was
versed in polite letters, “the best and most learned of women,” and
he valued her companionship beyond anything in life. It seems that she
was unfortunate in husbands, and they gave him a good deal of trouble;
but when she died the light went out of his world. His letters are full
of tears, and he plans the most magnificent of monuments. He would
deify her, and draw from all writers, Greek and Latin, to transmit to
posterity her perfections and his own boundless love. But precious
time was lost in dreams of the impossible, and swift fate overtook
him before any of them crystallized. Instead of the splendid temple
that was to last forever, only a few crumbling stones of his villa on
the lonely heights of Tusculum are left to-day to recall the young,
beautiful, and gifted woman in whose “sweet conversation” the great
statesman could “drop all his cares and troubles.” Here she looked for
the last time across the Campagna upon the shining array of marbles,
columns, and palaces that were the pride of Rome in its glory, and
went away from it all, leaving behind her a fast vanishing name, the
fragrance of a fresh young life, and a desolate heart.
But if these charming pictures reveal a sympathetic side of the
intimate life of the new age, they give us also the shadows that were
creeping over it. The great man, who said so many fine things and did
so many weak ones, has always a tender message for the little Attica,
the daughter of his friend, but he fears the fortune-hunters, and
objects to a husband proposed for her, because he has paid court to a
rich woman who is old and has been several times married. For his own
wife, Terentia, he has less consideration. She is not facile enough,
and finds too much fault with his way of doing things. Perhaps she
presses her influence too far, and fails to pay proper deference to
his authority. To be sure, he calls her “my light, my darling,” says
she is in his thoughts night and day, praises her ability, and trusts
her judgment until his affairs begin to go wrong. All this, however,
does not prevent his sending her away after thirty years of devotion,
and marrying his lovely young ward, who is rich enough to pay his
debts. The latter is divorced in turn because she does not sufficiently
mourn the loss of his idolized daughter, and his closing years are
burdened with the care of restoring her dowry, which draws from him
many a bitter complaint. There is a strange note of irony in the tone
of the much-married, much-sinning, and perfidious Antony, who publicly
censures the “Father of his Country” for repudiating a wife with whom
he has grown old. But the high-spirited Terentia solaced herself with
his friend Sallust, and married one or two others after his death.
Evidently no hearts were broken, as she lived some years beyond a
century.
In the literary circles of a later generation we hear of noble ladies
of serious tastes meeting to converse about the poets. Juvenal
and Martial ridiculed them as Molière did the Précieuses centuries
afterward. “I hate a woman who never violates the rules of grammar,
and quotes verses I never knew,” says Juvenal. “A husband should have
the privilege of committing a solecism.” He objects to being bored at
supper with impertinent questions about Homer and Vergil, or misplaced
sympathy with the unhappy Dido, who, no doubt, ought to have taken her
desertion philosophically instead of making it so unpleasant for her
hero lover. He even suggests that women blessed with literary tastes
should put on the tunics of the bolder sex and do various mannish
things which are sometimes recommended by the satirists of to-day. It
is with a sigh of regret that he recalls the “good old days of poverty
and morals,” when it was written on a woman’s tombstone that she “spun
wool and looked after her house.” “A good wife is rarer than a white
crow,” is his amiable conclusion.
All this goes to prove that in the first century women passed through
the same ordeal of criticism as they have in the nineteenth. The
satirists of to-day are no kinder to the Dante and Browning clubs, and
mourn equally over the “good old days” when they were in no danger of
a rival or a critic at the breakfast-table. Doubtless that age had
its little pretensions and affectations, as every other great age has
had--not excepting our own. There were women who talked platitudes
about things of which they knew nothing, and men who did the same thing
or worse on other lines laughed at them just as men do now at similar
follies, though often without the talent of a Juvenal or a Martial,
and, it is fair to say, without their incredible coarseness. The coming
of women into literature has made the latter practically impossible.
But even Martial had his better moments. He speaks of a young girl
who has the eloquence of Plato, the austerity of the philosophers,
and writes verses worthy of a chaste Sappho. One might imagine that
his enthusiasm had run away with his prejudices, if Martial could be
supposed to have had enthusiasms, as he warmly congratulates the friend
who is to marry this prodigy. Possibly he preferred her as the wife of
some one else, as he stipulates for himself, on another occasion, a
wife who is “not too learned.”
There was a great deal to censure in this dilettante world. The
fashionable life of Rome had drifted into hopeless corruption, in spite
of the efforts of good men and women to stem the tide. Long before, the
Senate had ordered a temple to Venus Verticordia, the Venus that turns
hearts to virtue; but the new goddess was not eminently successful
among the votaries of pleasure, who preferred to offer incense to
the more beautiful and less respectable one. The old patricians had
their faults and sins, but the new moneyed aristocracy was a great
deal worse, as the _noblesse oblige_ had ceased to exist, and
there were no moral ideals to take the place of it. “First let us seek
for fortune,” says the satirist; “virtue is of no importance. Hail
to wealth!” “His Majesty Gold” was as powerful as he is to-day, and
his worship was coarser. “He says silly things, but money serves for
intellect,” remarks a wit of the time. Literature declined with morals.
“These are only stores and shops, these schools in which wisdom is sold
and supplied like goods,” said one who mourned over the degeneracy of
the times. That women should suffer with the rest was inevitable. They
are not faultless; indeed, they are very simply human. If they are
usually found in the front ranks of great moral movements, they are not
always able to stand individually against the resistless tide which we
call the spirit of the age.