CONTENTION--AVOIDING OF.

Where two discourse, if the one's anger rise,

The man who lets the contest fall is wise.

--_Plutarch._

369

"I never complained of my condition but once," said an old man, "when my

feet were bare and I had no money to buy shoes; but I met a man without

feet, and became contented."

370

It is right to be contented with what we have, but never with what we

are.

--_Sir James Mackintosh._

371

A favorite saying of the beloved Dr. John A. Broaddus was: "It is better

to like what you have, than to have what you like."

--_Christian Observer._

372

If you live according to nature, you never will be poor; if according to

the world's caprice, you never will be rich.

373

Happy the man, whose wish and care

A few paternal acres bound,

Content to breathe his native air

In his own ground.

374

Since we have loaves, let us look not for cakes.

--_Spanish._

375

To be content with little is difficult; to be content with

much--impossible.

--_Marie Ebner Eschenbach._

376

If thou hast but little, make it not less by murmuring.

--_Quarles._

377

Contentment will make a cabbage look as fair as a palace.

--_W. Secker._

378

May we never murmur without a cause, nor have cause to murmur.

379

He that is rich need not live sparingly, and he that can live sparingly

need not be rich.

380

Some have too much, yet still do crave;

I have little, and seek no more:

They are but poor, though much they have,

And I am rich with little store;

They poor, I rich; they beg, I give;

They lack, I have; they pine, I live.

--_Sir Edward Dyer, (Died 1607.)_

381

If all the gems of earth were mine

And wealth and power were to me sent,

How infinitely poor I'd be

Without content.

--_Annie W. McCoy._

382

Is it possible to find perfect contentment? Some one once said:--"The

secret of perfect contentment is, that there isn't any."

383

"It is a great blessing to possess what one wishes," said one to an

ancient philosopher, who replied, "It is a greater blessing still, not

to desire what one does not possess."

384

Contentment is a pearl of great price, and whoever procures it at the

expense of ten thousand desires, makes a wise and happy purchase.

--_J. Balgury._

385

He that deserves nothing should be content with anything.

386

He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not,

but rejoices for those which he has.

--_Epictetus._

387

When the well is dry, then we all know the worth of water.

388

In conversation avoid the extremes of

Forwardness

and Reserve.

--_Cato._

389

_Conversation._--To please others we should talk on subjects they like

and that interest them; avoid disputes, seldom ask questions, and never

let them see that we pretend to be better informed than they are.

--_Rochefoucauld._

390

The first ingredient in conversation is truth, the next good sense, the

third good humor, and the fourth wit.

--_Sir W. Temple._

391

Conversation is the music of the mind; an intellectual orchestra, where

all the instruments should bear a part, but where none should play

together.

--_Colton._

392

Never argue in society; if any person differs from you, bow, and turn

the conversation.

--_Beaconsfield._

393

I never, with important air,

In conversation overbear.

--_Gay's Fables._

394

One of the best rules in conversation is, never say a thing which any of

the company can reasonably wish had been left unsaid.

--_Swift._

395

_Conversation._--As it is the mark of great minds to say many things in

a few words, so it is that of little minds to use many words to say

nothing.

"So much they talked, so very little said."

396

To say nothing charmingly is a great gift.

397

_Conversation._--In general those who nothing have to say contrive to

spend the longest time in doing it.

--_An Oriental Apologue._

398

With thee conversing, I forget all time.

--_Milton._

399

It is better to turn back than to go astray.

--_From the German._

400

He who converses with no one, learns nothing.

401

As rust corrupts iron, so envy corrupts man.

--_Antisthenes._

402

_Corporations have no souls_:--Lord Chancellor Thurlow said, "that

corporations have neither bodies to be punished, nor souls to be

condemned; they therefore do as they like."

403

Corruption is a tree, whose branches are

Of an unmeasurable length: they spread

Ev'rywhere; and the dew that drops from thence

Hath infected some chairs and stools of authority.

--_Beaumont and Fletcher._

404

The thatched cottage where one is merry, is preferable to a palace where

one weeps.

--_From the Chinese._

405

Good counsel never comes too late.

--_German._

406

From a safe port 'tis easy to give counsel.

407

He that winna be counselled canna be helped.

--_Scotch._

408

In many counsellors there is safety.

--_From the Latin._

409

Cheerful looks make every dish a feast,

And 'tis that, that crowns a welcome.

--_Massinger._

410

The countenance is frequently more expressive than the tongue.

411

A pleasing countenance is no slight advantage.

--_Duport._

412

A smiling countenance indicates courtesy, joy, good humor and happiness.

413

The character of a man's native country is as strongly impressed on his

mind as its accent is on his tongue.

--_Rochefoucauld._

414

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