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A little learning is a dangerous thing;

Above all things, avoid speaking of yourself

Above the frivolous as below the important and the secret

Abroad but they stay at home all that while

Absolute command of your temper

Abstain from learned ostentation

Absurd term of genteel and fashionable vices

Advice is seldom welcome

Affectation whatsoever in dress

Always look people in the face when you speak to them

Ancients and Moderns

Argumentative, polemical conversations

As willing and as apt to be pleased as anybody

Authority

Better not to seem to understand, than to reply

Bruyere

Cannot understand them, or will not desire to understand them

Cardinal de Retz

Cardinal Virtues, by first degrading them into weaknesses

Cautious how we draw inferences

Chameleon, be able to take every different hue

Cheerful in the countenance, but without laughing

Common sense (which, in truth, very uncommon)

Commonplace observations

Complaisance

Consciousness and an honest pride of doing well

Contempt

Conversation will help you almost as much as books

Conversation-stock being a joint and common property

Converse with his inferiors without insolence

Deriving all our actions from the source of self-love

Deserve a little, and you shall have but a little

Desirous of praise from the praiseworthy

Dexterity enough to conceal a truth without telling a lie

Difficulties seem to them, impossibilities

Distinguish between the useful and the curious

Do as you would be done by

Do what you will but do something all day long

Either do not think, or do not love to think

Equally forbid insolent contempt, or low envy and jealousy

Even where you are sure, seem rather doubtful

Every virtue, has its kindred vice or weakness

Fiddle-faddle stories, that carry no information along with the

Flattery of women

Forge accusations against themselves

Forgive, but not approve, the bad

Frank, open, and ingenuous exterior, with a prudent interior

Gain the affections as well as the esteem

Generosity often runs into profusion

Go to the bottom of things

Good company

Graces: Without us, all labor is vain

Great learning; which, if not accompanied with sound judgment

Great numbers of people met together, animate each other

Habit and prejudice

Half done or half known

Hardly any body good for every thing

Have a will and an opinion of your own, and adhere

Have but one set of jokes to live upon

He will find it out of himself without your endeavors

Heart has such an influence over the understanding

Helps only, not as guides

Historians

Honest error is to be pitied, not ridiculed

Honestest man loves himself best

How much you have to do; and how little time to do it in

I hope, I wish, I doubt, and fear alternately

I shall always love you as you shall deserve

If you would convince others, seem open to conviction yourself

Impertinent insult upon custom and fashion

Inaction at your age is unpardonable

Jealous of being slighted

Judge them all by their merits, but not by their ages

Keep good company, and company above yourself

Know their real value, and how much they are generally overrated

Knowledge is like power in this respect

Knowledge of a scholar with the manners of a courtier

Laughing, I must particularly warn you against it

Lazy mind, and the trifling, frivolous mind

Learning

Let me see more of you in your letters

Little minds mistake little objects for great ones

Livery

Loud laughter is the mirth of the mob

Low buffoonery, or silly accidents, that always excite laughter

Low company, most falsely and impudently, call pleasure

Luther's disappointed avarice

Make yourself necessary

Manner of doing things is often more important

Manners must adorn knowledge

May not forget with ease what you have with difficulty learned

Mimicry

More one sees, the less one either wonders or admires

More you know, the modester you should be

Mortifying inferiority in knowledge, rank, fortune

Most long talkers single out some one unfortunate man in compan

Much sooner forgive an injustice than an insult

Mystical nonsense

Name that we leave behind at one place often gets before us

Neglect them in little things, they will leave you in great

Negligence of it implies an indifference about pleasing

Neither retail nor receive scandal willingly

Never quit a subject till you are thoroughly master of it

Never seem wiser, nor more learned, than the people you are wit

Never slattern away one minute in idleness

Never to speak of yourself at all

Not one minute of the day in which you do nothing at all

Not to admire anything too much

Oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings

Out of livery; which makes them both impertinent and useless

Overvalue what we do not know

Pay your own reckoning, but do not treat the whole company

People angling for praise

People never desire all till they have gotten a great deal

Plain notions of right and wrong

Planted while young, that degree of knowledge now my refuge

Pleased to some degree by showing a desire to please

Pleasing in company is the only way of being pleased in yourself

Pleasure and business with equal inattention

Prefer useful to frivolous conversations

Pride remembers it forever

Prudent reserve

Pyrrhonism

Reason ought to direct the whole, but seldom does

Reformation

Refuge of people who have neither wit nor invention of their ow

Refuse more gracefully than other people could grant

Repeating

Represent, but do not pronounce

Rochefoucault

Rough corners which mere nature has given to the smoothest

Scandal: receiver is always thought, as bad as the thief

Scarcely any body who is absolutely good for nothing

Scrupled no means to obtain his ends

Secrets

Seeming frankness with a real reserve

Seeming openness is prudent

Self-love draws a thick veil between us and our faults

Serious without being dull

Shakespeare

Shepherds and ministers are both men

Some complaisance and attention to fools is prudent, and not me

Some men pass their whole time in doing nothing

Something or other is to be got out of everybody

Swearing

Take nothing for granted, upon the bare authority of the author

Take, rather than give, the tone of the company you are in

Talk often, but never long

Talk sillily upon a subject of other people's

Talking of either your own or other people's domestic affairs

Tell me whom you live with, and I will tell you who you are

Tell stories very seldom

Tenderness and affection with which, while you deserve them

The best have something bad, and something little

The worst have something good, and sometimes something great

Thin veil of Modesty drawn before Vanity

Thoroughly, not superficially

To know people's real sentiments, I trust much more to my eyes

Unopened, because one title in twenty has been omitted

Value of moments, when cast up, is immense

Vanity, that source of many of our follies

Weaknesses

What displeases or pleases you in others

What you feel pleases you in them

When well dressed for the day think no more of it afterward

Will not so much as hint at our follies

Witty without satire or commonplace

Women

Wrongs are often forgiven; but contempt never is

You had much better hold your tongue than them

Your merit and your manners can alone raise you

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