LONDON, _May 25, 1644_.
[451] Afterwards Earl of Crawford. See notice of, Letter CCXXXI.
CCCX.--_To_ MISTRESS TAYLOR, _on her son's death_. [_Her son was a
parishioner of Mr. Blair._]
(_SUGGESTIONS FOR COMFORT UNDER SORROW._)
MISTRESS,--Grace, mercy, and peace be to you.--Though I have no
relation worldly or acquaintance with you, yet (upon the testimony and
importunity of your elder son now at London, where I am, but chiefly
because I esteem Jesus Christ in you to be in place of all relations)
I make bold, in Christ, to speak my poor thoughts to you concerning
your son lately fallen asleep in the Lord, who was sometime under the
ministry of the worthy servant of Christ, my fellow-labourer, Mr.
Blair, by whose ministry I hope he reaped no small advantage. I know
that grace rooteth not out the affections of a mother, but putteth
them on His wheel who maketh all things new, that they may be refined:
therefore, sorrow for a dead child is allowed to you, though by
measure and ounce-weights. The redeemed of the Lord have not a
dominion, or lordship, over their sorrow and other affections, to
lavish out Christ's goods at their pleasure. "For ye are not your own,
but bought with a price;" and your sorrow is not your own. Nor hath He
redeemed you by halves; and therefore, ye are not to make Christ's
cross no cross. He commandeth you to weep: and that princely One, who
took up to heaven with Him a man's heart to be a compassionate High
Priest, became your fellow and companion on earth by weeping for the
dead (John xi. 35). And, therefore, ye are to love that cross, because
it was once at Christ's shoulders before you: so that by His own
practice He hath over-gilded and covered your cross with the
Mediator's lustre. The cup ye drink was at the lip of sweet Jesus, and
He drank of it; and so it hath a smell of His breath, and I conceive
that ye love it not the worse that it is thus sugared. Therefore,
drink, and believe the resurrection of your son's body. If one coal of
hell could fall off the exalted head, Jesus (Jesus the Prince of the
kings of the earth!), and burn me to ashes, knowing I were a partner
with Christ, and a fellow-sharer with Him (though the unworthiest of
men), I think that I should die a lovely death in that fire with Him.
The worst things of Christ, even His cross, have much of heaven from
Himself; and so hath your Christian sorrow, being of kin to Christ in
that kind. If your sorrow were a bastard (and not of Christ's house
because of the relation ye have to Him, in conformity to His death and
sufferings), I should the more compassionate your condition; but the
kind and compassionate Jesus, at every sigh you give for the loss of
your now glorified child (so I believe, as is meet), with a man's
heart crieth, "Half mine."
I was not a witness to his death, being called out of the kingdom;
but, if you will credit those whom I do credit (and I dare not lie),
he died comfortably. It is true, he died before he did so much service
to Christ on earth, as I hope and heartily desire that your son Mr.
Hugh (very dear to me in Jesus Christ) will do. But that were a real
matter of sorrow if this were not to counterbalance it, that he hath
changed service-houses, but hath not changed services or Master. "And
there shall be no more curse; but the throne of God and of the Lamb
shall be in it; and His servants shall serve Him" (Rev. xxii. 3). What
he could have done in this lower house, he is now upon that same
service in the higher house; and it is all one: it is the same service
and the same Master, only there is a change of conditions. And ye are
not to think it a bad bargain for your beloved son, where he hath gold
for copper and brass, eternity for time.
I believe that Christ hath taught you (for I give credit to such a
witness of you as your son Mr. Hugh) not to sorrow because he died.
All the knot must be, "He died too soon, he died too young, he died in
the morning of his life." This is all; but sovereignty must silence
your thoughts. I was in your condition; I had but two children, and
both are dead since I came hither.[452] The supreme and absolute
Former of all things giveth not an account of any of His matters. The
good Husbandman may pluck His roses, and gather in His lilies at
mid-summer, and, for aught I dare say, in the beginning of the first
summer month; and He may transplant young trees out of the lower
ground to the higher, where they may have more of the sun, and a more
free air, at any season of the year. What is that to you or me? The
goods are His own. The Creator of time and winds did a merciful injury
(if I dare borrow the word) to nature, in landing the passenger so
early. They love the sea too well who complain of a fair wind, and a
desirable tide, and a speedy coming ashore, especially a coming ashore
in that land where all the inhabitants have everlasting joy upon their
heads. He cannot be too early in heaven. His twelve hours were not
short hours. And withal if ye consider this; had ye been at his
bed-side, and should have seen Christ coming to him, ye would not, ye
could not, have adjourned Christ's free love, who would want him no
longer.
[452] He had lost two children before going to London, and the above
is in reference to the death of other two after he came thither.
And dying in another land, where his mother could not close his eyes,
is not much. Who closed Moses' eyes? And who put on his winding-sheet?
For aught I know, neither father, nor mother, nor friend, but God
only. And there is as expeditious, fair, and easy a way betwixt
Scotland and heaven, as if he had died in the very bed he was born in.
The whole earth is his Father's; any corner of his Father's house is
good enough to die in.
It may be that the living child (I speak not of Mr. Hugh) is more
grief to you than the dead. Ye are to wait on, if at any time God will
give him repentance. Christ waited as long possibly on you and me,
certainly longer on me; and if He should deny repentance to him, I
could say something to that. But I hope better things of him.
It seemeth that Christ will have this world your stepdame. I love not
your condition the worse. It may be a proof that ye are not a child of
this lower house, but a stranger. Christ seeth it not good only, but
your only good, to be led thus to heaven. And think this a favour,
that He hath bestowed on you free, free grace, that is, mercy without
hire: ye paid nothing for it. And who can put a price upon anything of
royal and princely Jesus Christ? And God hath given to you to suffer
for Him the spoiling of your goods. Esteem it as an act of free grace
also. Ye are no loser, having Himself; and I persuade myself, that if
ye could prize Christ, nothing could be bitter to you.
Grace, grace be with you.
Your brother and well-wisher,