BLACKHEATH, July 14, 1763

MY DEAR FRIEND: Yesterday I received your letter from Ratisbon, where I

am glad that you are arrived safe. You are, I find, over head and ears

engaged in ceremony and etiquette. You must not yield in anything

essential, where your public character may suffer; but I advise you, at

the same time, to distinguish carefully what may, and what may not affect

it, and to despise some German ‘minutiae’; such as one step lower or

higher upon the stairs, a bow more or less, and such sort of trifles.

By what I see in Cressener’s letter to you, the cheapness of wine

compensates the quantity, as the cheapness of servants compensates the

number that you must make use of.

Write to your mother often, if it be but three words, to prove your

existence; for, when she does not hear from you, she knows to a

demonstration that you are dead, if not buried.

The inclosed is a letter of the utmost consequence, which I was desired

to forward, with care and speed, to the most Serene LOUIS.

My head is not well to-day. So God bless you!

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