LONDON, November 20, 1753

MY DEAR FRIEND: Two mails are now due from Holland, so that I have no

letter from you to acknowledge; but that, you know, by long experience,

does not hinder my writing to you. I always receive your letters with

pleasure; but I mean, and endeavor, that you should receive mine with

some profit; preferring always your advantage to my own pleasure.

If you find yourself well settled and naturalized at Manheim, stay there

some time, and do not leave a certain for an uncertain good; but if you

think you shall be as well, or better established at Munich, go there as

soon as you please; and if disappointed, you can always return to Manheim

I mentioned, in a former letter, your passing the Carnival at Berlin,

which I think may be both useful and pleasing to you; however, do as you

will; but let me know what you resolve: That King and that country have,

and will have, so great a share in the affairs of Europe, that they are

well worth being thoroughly known.

Whether, where you are now, or ever may be hereafter, you speak French,

German, or English most, I earnestly recommend to you a particular

attention to the propriety and elegance of your style; employ the best

words you can find in the language, avoid cacophony, and make your

periods as harmonious as you can. I need not, I am sure, tell you what

you must often have felt, how much the elegance of diction adorns the

best thoughts, and palliates the worst. In the House of Commons it is

almost everything; and, indeed, in every assembly, whether public or

private. Words, which are the dress of thoughts, deserve surely more care

than clothes, which are only the dress of the person, and which, however,

ought to have their share of attention. If you attend to your style in

any one language, it will give you a habit of attending to it in every

other; and if once you speak either French or German very elegantly, you

will afterward speak much the better English for it. I repeat it to you

again, for at least the thousandth time, exert your whole attention now

in acquiring the ornamental parts of character. People know very little

of the world, and talk nonsense, when they talk of plainness and solidity

unadorned: they will do in nothing; mankind has been long out of a state

of nature, and the golden age of native simplicity will never return.

Whether for the better or the worse, no matter; but we are refined; and

plain manners, plain dress, and plain diction, would as little do in

life, as acorns, herbage, and the water of the neighboring spring, would

do at table. Some people are just come, who interrupt me in the middle of

my sermon; so good-night.

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