LETTER CLXXVI

LONDON, September 19, 1752,

MY DEAR FRIEND: Since you have been at Hanover, your correspondence has

been both unfrequent and laconic. You made indeed one great effort in

folio on the 18th, with a postscript of the 22d August, N. S., and since

that, ‘vous avez rate in quarto’. On the 31st August, N. S., you give me

no informations of what I want chiefly to know; which is, what Dr. Hugo

(whom I charged you to consult) said of your asthmatic complaint, and

what he prescribed you to prevent the returns of it; and also what is the

company that, you keep there, who has been kind and civil to you, and who

not.

You say that you go constantly to the parade; and you do very well; for

though you are not of that trade, yet military matters make so great a

part both of conversation and negotiation, that it is very proper not to

be ignorant of them. I hope you mind more than the mere exercise of the

troops you see; and that you inform yourself at the same time, of the

more material details; such as their pay, and the difference of it when

in and out of quarters; what is furnished them by the country when in

quarters, and what is allowed them of ammunition, bread, etc., when in

the field; the number of men and officers in the several troops and

companies, together with the non-commissioned officers, as ‘caporals,

frey-caporals, anspessades’, sergeants, quarter-masters, etc.; the

clothing how frequent, how good, and how furnished; whether by the

colonel, as here in England, from what we call the OFF-RECKONINGS, that

is, deductions from the men’s pay, or by commissaries appointed by the

government for that purpose, as in France and Holland. By these inquiries

you will be able to talk military with military men, who, in every

country in Europe, except England, make at least half of all the best

companies. Your attending the parades has also another good effect, which

is, that it brings you, of course, acquainted with the officers, who,

when of a certain rank and service, are generally very polite, well-bred

people, ‘et du bon ton’. They have commonly seen a great deal of the

world, and of courts; and nothing else can form a gentleman, let people

say what they will of sense and learning; with both which a man may

contrive to be a very disagreeable companion. I dare say, there are very

few captains of foot, who are not much better company than ever Descartes

or Sir Isaac Newton were. I honor and respect such superior geniuses; but

I desire to converse with people of this world, who bring into company

their share, at least, of cheerfulness, good-breeding, and knowledge of

mankind. In common life, one much oftener wants small money, and silver,

than gold. Give me a man who has ready cash about him for present

expenses; sixpences, shillings, half-crowns, and crowns, which circulate

easily: but a man who has only an ingot of gold about him, is much above

common purposes, and his riches are not handy nor convenient. Have as

much gold as you please in one pocket, but take care always to keep

change in the other; for you will much oftener have occasion for a

shilling than for a guinea. In this the French must be allowed to excel

all people in the world: they have ‘un certain entregent, un enjouement,

un aimable legerete dans la conversation, une politesse aisee et

naturelle, qui paroit ne leur rien couter’, which give society all its

charms. I am sorry to add, but it is too true, that the English and the

Dutch are the farthest from this, of all the people in the world; I do by

no means except even the Swiss.

Though you do not think proper to inform me, I know from other hands that

you were to go to the Gohr with a Comte Schullemburg, for eight or ten

days only, to see the reviews. I know also that you had a blister upon

your arm, which did you a great deal of good. I know too, you have

contracted a great friendship with Lord Essex, and that you two were

inseparable at Hanover. All these things I would rather have known from

you than from others; and they are the sort of things that I am the most

desirous of knowing, as they are more immediately relative to yourself.

I am very sorry for the Duchess of Newcastle’s illness, full as much upon

your as upon her account, as it has hindered you from being so much known

to the Duke as I could have wished; use and habit going a great way with

him, as indeed they do with most people. I have known many people

patronized, pushed up, and preferred by those who could have given no

other reason for it, than that they were used to them. We must never seek

for motives by deep reasoning, but we must find them out by careful

observation and attention, no matter what they should be, but the point

is, what they are. Trace them up, step by step, from the character of the

person. I have known ‘de par le monde’, as Brantome says, great effects

from causes too little ever to have been suspected. Some things must be

known, and can never be guessed.

God knows where this letter will find you, or follow you; not at Hanover,

I suppose; but wherever it does, may it find you in health and pleasure!

Adieu.

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