LETTER CLIX

LONDON, February 14, O. S. 1752.

MY DEAR FRIEND: In a month’s time, I believe I shall have the pleasure of

sending you, and you will have the pleasure of reading, a work of Lord

Bolingbroke’s, in two volumes octavo, “Upon the Use of History,” in

several letters to Lord Hyde, then Lord Cornbury. It is now put into the

press. It is hard to determine whether this work will instruct or please

most: the most material historical facts, from the great era of the

treaty of Munster, are touched upon, accompanied by the most solid

reflections, and adorned by all that elegance of style which was peculiar

to himself, and in which, if Cicero equals, he certainly does not exceed

him; but every other writer falls short of him. I would advise you almost

to get this book by heart. I think you have a turn to history, you love

it, and have a memory to retain it: this book will teach you the proper

use of it. Some people load their memories indiscriminately with

historical facts, as others do their stomachs with food; and bring out

the one, and bring up the other, entirely crude and undigested. You will

find in Lord Bolingbroke’s book an infallible specific against that

epidemical complaint.--[It is important to remember that at this time

Lord Bolingbroke’s philosophical works had not appeared; which accounts

for Lord Chesterfield’s recommending to his son, in this, as well as in

some foregoing passages, the study of Lord Bolingbroke’s writings.]

I remember a gentleman who had read history in this thoughtless and

undistinguishing manner, and who, having traveled, had gone through the

Valtelline. He told me that it was a miserable poor country, and

therefore it was, surely, a great error in Cardinal Richelieu to make

such a rout, and put France to so much expense about it. Had my friend

read history as he ought to have done, he would have known that the great

object of that great minister was to reduce the power of the House of

Austria; and in order to that, to cut off as much as he could the

communication between the several parts of their then extensive

dominions; which reflections would have justified the Cardinal to him, in

the affair of the Valtelline. But it was easier to him to remember facts,

than to combine and reflect.

One observation I hope you will make in reading history; for it is an

obvious and a true one. It is, that more people have made great figures

and great fortunes in courts by their exterior accomplishments, than by

their interior qualifications. Their engaging address, the politeness of

their manners, their air, their turn, hath almost always paved the way

for their superior abilities, if they have such, to exert themselves.

They have been favorites before they have been ministers. In courts, an

universal gentleness and ‘douceur dans les manieres’ is most absolutely

necessary: an offended fool, or a slighted valet de chambre, may very

possibly do you more hurt at court, than ten men of merit can do you

good. Fools, and low people, are always jealous of their dignity, and

never forget nor forgive what they reckon a slight: on the other hand,

they take civility and a little attention as a favor; remember, and

acknowledge it: this, in my mind, is buying them cheap; and therefore

they are worth buying. The prince himself, who is rarely the shining

genius of his court, esteems you only by hearsay but likes you by his

senses; that is, from your air, your politeness, and your manner of

addressing him, of which alone he is a judge. There is a court garment,

as well as a wedding garment, without which you will not be received.

That garment is the ‘volto sciolto’; an imposing air, an elegant

politeness, easy and engaging manners, universal attention, an

insinuating gentleness, and all those ‘je ne sais quoi’ that compose the

GRACES.

I am this moment disagreeably interrupted by a letter; not from you, as I

expected, but from a friend of yours at Paris, who informs me that you

have a fever which confines you at home. Since you have a fever, I am

glad you have prudence enough in it to stay at home, and take care of

yourself; a little more prudence might probably have prevented it. Your

blood is young, and consequently hot; and you naturally make a great deal

by your good stomach and good digestion; you should, therefore,

necessarily attenuate and cool it, from time to time, by gentle purges,

or by a very low diet, for two or three days together, if you would avoid

fevers. Lord Bacon, who was a very great physician in both senses of the

word, hath this aphorism in his “Essay upon Health,” ‘Nihil magis ad

Sanitatem tribuit quam crebrae et domesticae purgationes’. By

‘domesticae’, he means those simple uncompounded purgatives which

everybody can administer to themselves; such as senna-tea, stewed prunes

and senria, chewing a little rhubarb, or dissolving an ounce and a half

of manna in fair water, with the juice of a lemon to make it palatable.

Such gentle and unconfining evacuations would certainly prevent those

feverish attacks to which everybody at your age is subject.

By the way, I do desire, and insist, that whenever, from any

indisposition, you are not able to write to me upon the fixed days, that

Christian shall; and give me a TRUE account how you are. I do not expect

from him the Ciceronian epistolary style; but I will content myself with

the Swiss simplicity and truth.

I hope you extend your acquaintance at Paris, and frequent variety of

companies; the only way of knowing the world; every set of company

differs in some particulars from another; and a man of business must, in

the course of his life, have to do with all sorts. It is a very great

advantage to know the languages of the several countries one travels in;

and different companies may, in some degree, be considered as different

countries; each hath its distinctive language, customs, and manners: know

them all, and you will wonder at none.

Adieu, child. Take care of your health; there are no pleasures without

it.

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