LETTER LXXVII

LONDON, August 7, O. S. 1749.

DEAR BOY: By Mr. Harte’s letter to me of the 18th July N. S., which I

received by the last post, I am at length informed of the particulars

both of your past distemper, and of your future motions. As to the

former, I am now convinced, and so is Dr. Shaw, that your lungs were only

symptomatically affected; and that the rheumatic tendency is what you are

chiefly now to guard against, but (for greater security) with due

attention still to your lungs, as if they had been, and still were, a

little affected. In either case, a cooling, pectoral regimen is equally

good. By cooling, I mean cooling in its consequences, not cold to the

palate; for nothing is more dangerous than very cold liquors, at the very

time that one longs for them the most; which is, when one is very hot.

Fruit, when full ripe, is very wholesome; but then it must be within

certain bounds as to quantity; for I have known many of my countrymen die

of bloody-fluxes, by indulging in too great a quantity of fruit, in those

countries where, from the goodness and ripeness of it, they thought it

could do them no harm. ‘Ne quid nimis’, is a most excellent rule in

everything; but commonly the least observed, by people of your age, in

anything.

As to your future motions, I am very well pleased with them, and greatly

prefer your intended stay at Verona to Venice, whose almost stagnating

waters must, at this time of the year, corrupt the air. Verona has a pure

and clear air, and, as I am informed, a great deal of good company.

Marquis Maffei, alone, would be worth going there for. You may, I think,

very well leave Verona about the middle of September, when the great

heats will be quite over, and then make the best of your way to Naples;

where, I own, I want to have you by way of precaution (I hope it is

rather over caution) in case of the last remains of a pulmonic disorder.

The amphitheatre at Verona is worth your attention; as are also many

buildings there and at Vicenza, of the famous Andrea Palladio, whose

taste and style of buildings were truly antique. It would not be amiss,

if you employed three or four days in learning the five orders of

architecture, with their general proportions; and you may know all that

you need know of them in that time. Palladio’s own book of architecture

is the best you can make use of for that purpose, skipping over the

mechanical part of it, such as the materials, the cement, etc.

Mr. Harte tells me, that your acquaintance with the classics is renewed;

the suspension of which has been so short, that I dare say it has

produced no coldness. I hope and believe, you are now so much master of

them, that two hours every day, uninterruptedly, for a year or two more,

will make you perfectly so; and I think you cannot now allot them a

greater share than that of your time, considering the many other things

you have to learn and to do. You must know how to speak and write Italian

perfectly; you must learn some logic, some geometry, and some astronomy;

not to mention your exercises, where they are to be learned; and, above

all, you must learn the world, which is not soon learned; and only to be

learned by frequenting good and various companies.

Consider, therefore, how precious every moment of time is to you now. The

more you apply to your business, the more you will taste your pleasures.

The exercise of the mind in the morning whets the appetite for the

pleasures of the evening, as much as the exercise of the body whets the

appetite for dinner. Business and pleasure, rightly understood, mutually

assist each other, instead of being enemies, as silly or dull people

often think them. No man tastes pleasures truly, who does not earn them

by previous business, and few people do business well, who do nothing

else. Remember that when I speak of pleasures, I always mean the elegant

pleasures of a rational being, and, not the brutal ones of a swine. I

mean ‘la bonne Chere’, short of gluttony; wine, infinitely short of

drunkenness; play, without the least gaming; and gallantry without

debauchery. There is a line in all these things which men of sense, for

greater security, take care to keep a good deal on the right side of; for

sickness, pain, contempt and infamy, lie immediately on the other side of

it. Men of sense and merit, in all other respects, may have had some of

these failings; but then those few examples, instead of inviting us to

imitation, should only put us the more upon our guard against such

weaknesses: and whoever thinks them fashionable, will not be so himself;

I have often known a fashionable man have some one vice; but I never in

my life knew a vicious man a fashionable man. Vice is as degrading as it

is criminal. God bless you, my dear child!

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