LETTER XLVI

LONDON, August 2, O. S. 1748.

DEAR BOY: Duval the jeweler, is arrived, and was with me three or four

days ago. You will easily imagine that I asked him a few questions

concerning you; and I will give you the satisfaction of knowing that,

upon the whole, I was very well pleased with the account he gave me. But,

though he seemed to be much in your interest, yet he fairly owned to me

that your utterance was rapid, thick, and ungraceful. I can add nothing

to what I have already said upon this subject; but I can and do repeat

the absolute necessity of speaking distinctly and gracefully, or else of

not speaking at all, and having recourse to signs. He tells me that you

are pretty fat for one of your age: this you should attend to in a proper

way; for if, while very young; you should grow fat, it would be

troublesome, unwholesome, and ungraceful; you should therefore, when you

have time, take very strong exercise, and in your diet avoid fattening

things. All malt liquors fatten, or at least bloat; and I hope you do not

deal much in them. I look upon wine and water to be, in every respect;

much wholesomer.

Duval says there is a great deal of very good company at Madame

Valentin’s and at another lady’s, I think one Madame Ponce’s, at Leipsig.

Do you ever go to either of those houses, at leisure times? It would not,

in my mind, be amiss if you did, and would give you a habit of

ATTENTIONS; they are a tribute which all women expect; and which all men,

who would be well received by them; must pay. And, whatever the mind may

be, manners at least are certainly improved by the company of women of

fashion.

I have formerly told you, that you should inform yourself of the several

orders, whether military or religious, of the respective countries where

you may be. The Teutonic Order is the great Order of Germany, of which I

send you inclosed a short account. It may serve to suggest questions to

you for more particular inquiries as to the present state of it, of which

you ought to be minutely informed. The knights, at present, make vows, of

which they observe none, except it be that of not marrying; and their

only object now is, to arrive, by seniority, at the Commanderies in their

respective provinces; which are, many of them, very lucrative. The Order

of Malta is, by a very few years, prior to the Teutonic, and owes its

foundation to the same causes. These’ knights were first called Knights

Hospitaliers of St. John of Jerusalem, then Knights of Rhodes; and in

the year 1530, Knights of Malta, the Emperor Charles V. having granted

them that island, upon condition of their defending his island of Sicily

against the Turks, which they effectually did. L’Abbe de Vertot has

written the history of Malta, but it is the least valuable of all his

works; and moreover, too long for you to read. But there is a short

history, of all the military orders whatsoever, which I would advise you

to get, as there is also of all the religious orders; both which are

worth your having and consulting, whenever you meet with any of them in

your way; as, you will very frequently in Catholic countries. For my own

part, I find that I remember things much better, when I recur, to my

books for them, upon some particular occasion, than by reading them ‘tout

de suite’. As, for example, if I were to read the history of all the

military or religious orders, regularly one after another, the latter

puts the former out of my head; but when I read the history of any one,

upon account, of its having been the object of conversation or dispute, I

remember it much better. It is the same in geography, where, looking for

any particular place in the map, upon some particular account, fixes it

in one’s memory forever. I hope you have worn out your maps by frequent,

use of that sort. Adieu.

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