CONQUERING HAPPINESS

In a volume of short stories published some years ago there is included

the vivid narrative of two humble citizens of an Irish village, a

husband and wife, upon whom hard times have come. The husband is too

feeble to make his living as of old at his trade as a road-mender. Their

only hope is a son in America, and not a word comes from him, so they

are compelled to go to the poor house.

Friends condole with them, and they are sad enough to suit the notions

of those who feel that an awful ending is coming to their lives. One of

the saddest of their friends is their physician who dreads going to see

the unhappy old people in their new home. At last, however, he drives to

the entrance to the poor farm. There he has his first surprise. Instead

of seeing the disreputable place he had been accustomed to, he notices

that the gate is on its hinges, the weeds by the side of the driveway

are no longer in evidence, and an attempt has been made to give the

house itself a more presentable appearance. About the doors are no

discontented-looking old people, quarreling with one another. And when

the wife of the poor farm keeper answers his knock at the door, the

doctor hardly recognizes her; instead of a discouraged-looking slattern

she is actually neat and cheerful looking.

"You wonder what has happened here, don't you?" the woman remarks. "It's

all because of those blessed old folks you are asking for. They were

disheartened, just at first, but soon they began to do helpful things

for the rest of the folks. That cheered us all up, and it's made a

different place of the farm."

The doctor's errand that day is to take word to the couple that their

son from America wishes them to spend the remainder of their days with

him. He has expected them to be overjoyed by the news. But, after

talking together of the invitation, they assure him that their place is

where they are. "We be road-mending here, making ways smoother for the

folks that have rough traveling," is the explanation. "We think we ought

to bide at the farm."

Thus the old people took the way of conquering unhappiness made known so

long ago by Him who set the example of finding joy in caring for other

people, the way taken by a modern follower of His who wrote home from

the army:

"I cast my lot where I knew the road would be rough, and why should I

complain? It seems to me at times that I must give way to my lower self

and let the work slip off my back on others perhaps more tired than

myself. But I have a tender, kind Father in heaven who tells me that my

way is right. I have very little to uphold me in this work away from my

friends. My happy moments are those which I spend with my Bible during

my night watches, or thinking of happy days gone by, or building me

air-castles for days to come. I am happy, too, when I read the little

verse written in the front of my Testament, and so thankful for the

power to understand it:

"So nigh is grandeur to our dust,

So near is God to man,

When duty whispers low, 'Thou must,'

The youth replies, 'I can.'"

Yet there are those who insist that it is the duty of one whose lot is

hard to be morose and sad; that by covering his sadness with the

gladness of service he is making a cheat of himself! In verse a writer

with insight has pilloried such critics:

"He went so blithely on his way,

The way men call the way of life,

That good folks who had stopped to pray,

Shaking their heads, were wont to say,

It was not right to be so gay

Upon that weary road of strife.

"He whistled as he went, and still

He bore the young where streams were deep,

He helped the feeble up the hill,

He seemed to go with heart athrill,

Careless of deed and wild of will--

He whistled, that he might not weep."

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