FORMING CHARACTER

The best time to learn the courage that proves so effective in the

struggle of life is in youth. More than fifty years ago two boys in

Scotland were hunting rabbits. Tiring of the comparatively easy hunting

on the ground, they looked longingly at a cliff of hard clay several

hundred feet high, in whose precipitous side were many rabbit burrows.

They managed to climb the cliff. At length they were making their way

along an almost perpendicular parapet, cutting their way with their

knives. Then one of the boys fell, with a scream, to the bottom of the

cliff. There was a moment of terror. This was succeeded by a grim

determination to go forward, the only way of escape. Driving his knife

deep in the clay, he rested on this for a moment. That moment, it has

always since seemed to him, marked the first momentous period in his

life, the time when his personality first emerged into consciousness. He

says: "I whispered to myself one word, 'Courage!' Then I went on with my

work." At length he reached the ground.

The lesson learned at such fearful cost told emphatically on the boy's

character. From that day he showed that there was in him the making of a

man who would not be balked by unfavorable circumstances. He did not

understand how or why, but he felt that new will-power had come to him

with the appeal to himself to take courage in the face of death.

A few years later he went to Brazil. A Spaniard told him that moral

deterioration within six months was all but certain to come to every

young man who began life there. But he was determined not to give way to

bad habits. When he reached Santos, his companions urged him to give

himself up to all kinds of vice; they told him that it was either this

or death, or perhaps something worse than death. They emphasized their

words by pointing to a young man who had determined to keep straight,

and had been left to himself until he was demented. But the boy who had

learned courage on the precipice made up his mind that he must live as

God wished him to live, and he turned a deaf ear to all entreaties.

Another book of biography tells of a boy who delighted in playing cards

with his father and mother. But when he united with the Church and

became President of the Christian Endeavor Society he began to wonder if

he was doing right. One night his father took up the cards and called

him to play whist.

"I don't think I'll play whist any more," he said quietly. "I've been

thinking that perhaps it wasn't right for me to play."

"Are you setting yourself up to judge your father and mother, young

man?" his father asked, sternly.

"No, I didn't say it isn't all right for you to play," was the reply.

"But you know I am President of the Christian Endeavor Society and some

of the members don't think it is right to play. So I guess I'd better

not."

His father looked at him thoughtfully for a minute, then picked up the

cards and threw them back into the drawer.

"Charlie," he said, "I want you to understand that I think you have done

a manly thing to-night, and I honor you for your courage."

That was the end of whist in that house.

Courage showed itself in much the same way in the life of J. Marion

Sims, the great surgeon. He used to tell how, when he was a boy at a

South Carolina School, he was able to take a stand that had its effect

on his whole after-life. Many of his fellow students were sons of

wealthy planters, and their habits were not always the best. On several

occasions they tried to lead him into mischief. They were particularly

anxious to make him a companion in their drinking bouts. Twice he gave

way to their pleas, but after sorrowful experience of the results of his

lapses, he decided to make a brave stand. So he said to his tempters:

"See here, boys, you can all drink, and I cannot. You like wine and I do

not. I hate it; its taste is disagreeable, its effects are dreadful,

because it makes me drunk. Now, I hope you all will understand my

position. I don't think it is right for you to ask me to drink wine when

I don't want it, and when it produces such a bad effect on me."

To say this required real courage, but the results were good, not only

in himself, but also, fortunately, in some of his companions.

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