The widow enjoys great honour in American public life, although it

usually turns out to be rather a spurious and sentimental homage.

Political orators easily grow tearful over her misfortunes. For

generations after the Civil War, the Republican Party throve on a

pension-system which gathered in the youngest widow of the oldest

veteran, and Tammany has always understood how to profit from its

ostentatious alms-giving to widows and orphans. From my earliest

childhood, I can recollect how the town-beautifiers, who wanted to

take down the crazy board fences, were utterly routed by the aldermen

who said the widow’s cow must range and people must therefore keep

up their fences. Similarly, the Southern States have never been able

to put through adequate child labour laws because the widow’s child

had to be allowed to earn in order to support his mother. All this

sentimentalism proved to be in time an excellent springboard for a

genuine economic reform--the widow’s pension systems of the several

states which would be more accurately described as children’s pensions.

The legislatures were in no position to resist an appeal on behalf of

the poor widow and so nicely narcotized were they by their traditional

tender-heartedness that they failed to perceive the socialistic

basis of this new kind of widow’s pensions. Consequently America has

achieved the curious honour of leading in a socialistic innovation

which European States are now only just beginning to copy. Maternity

insurance, on the other hand, has made no headway in America although

adopted years and even decades ago in European countries. With us the

obstacle seems to be prudishness rather than capitalism--it makes a

legislator blush to hear childbirth spoken of in public while it only

makes him cry to hear of widowhood.

One aspect of widowhood is seldom touched upon and that is its

prevention. Aged widows, on the whole, in spite of their soap-boxing

and their wage-earning, are a very lonely race. Why must they bring

it on themselves by marrying men whose expectation of life is so much

less than theirs? And yet so anxious are the marrying people to observe

this conventional disparity of age, that if the bride happens to be

but by three months the senior of the bridegroom, they conceal it

henceforth as a sort of family disgrace. Even if this convention should

prove to be immutable, is there nothing to be done about the lesser

longevity of the American male? There is a life extension institute

with an ex-president at the head but, as far as I am aware, it has

never enlisted the support of the millions reported by the census as

widows, who surely, if anybody, should realize the importance of such

a movement. It is commonly assumed that the earlier demise of husbands

is due to the hazardous life they lead in business and in industry;

but domestic life is not without its hazards, and child-bearing is an

especially dangerous trade in the United States, which has the highest

maternal death-rate of seventeen civilized countries. If American

husbands were less philosophical about the hardships of child-bed--the

judgment of Eve and all that sort of thing--and American wives were

less philosophical about burying their husbands--the Lord hath given

and the Lord hath taken away and so on--it might result in greater

health and happiness for all concerned.

But the main trouble with American marriage, as all the world knows, is

that divorce so often separates the twain before death has any chance

to discriminate between them. The growing prevalence of divorce is

statistically set forth in a series of census investigations. In 1890,

there was one divorce to every sixteen marriages; in 1900, there was

one to every twelve marriages; and in 1916, there was one to every nine

marriages. The number of marriages in proportion to the population

has also increased during the same period, though not at a rate equal

to that of divorce. But divorce, being so much younger than marriage,

has had more room to grow from its first humble scared beginnings of

fifty years ago. Queen Victoria’s frown had a very discouraging effect

on divorce in America; and Mrs. Humphry Ward, studying the question

among us in the early 20th century, lent her personal influence

towards the arrest of the American evil. We also have raised up on

this side of the water our own apostles against divorce, among whom

Mr. Horace Greeley perhaps occupies the first and most distinguished

place. But in spite of all heroic crusades, divorce has continued to

grow. One even suspects that the marked increase in the marriage rate

is partly--perhaps largely--due to the remarriage of the divorced. At

any rate, they constitute new and eligible material for marriage which

formerly was lacking.

The true cause of the increase of divorce in America is not easy to

come by. Commissions and investigations have worried the question to

no profitable end, and have triumphantly come out by the same door by

which they went in. That seems to be the test of a successful divorce

inquiry; and no wonder, for the real quest means a conflict with

hypocrisy and prejudice, fear and taboo, which only the intrepid spirit

of a John Milton or a Susan B. Anthony is able to sustain. The people

who want divorces and who can pay for them seem to be able to get them

nowadays, and since it is the truth only that suffers the situation has

grown more tolerable.

In the meantime, there are popular impressions and assumptions which

do not tally with the known facts. It is assumed that divorce is

frequent in America because it is easy, and that the logical way to

reduce it would be to make it difficult. Certain States of the West

have lenient divorce laws but other States have stringent laws, while

South Carolina abolished divorce entirely in 1878. On the whole, our

laws are not so lenient as those of Scandinavia, whose divorce rate is

still far behind that of the United States. Neither is divorce cheap

in America; it is enormously expensive. Therefore for the poor it is

practically inaccessible. The Domestic Relations Courts do not grant

divorce and the Legal Aid Societies will not touch it. The wage-earning

class, like the inhabitants of South Carolina, just have to learn to

get along without it. Then there is another belief, hardly justified by

the facts, that most divorced wives get alimony. Among all the divorces

granted in 1916, alimony was not even asked for by 73 per cent. of the

wives and it was received altogether by less than 20 per cent. of them.

The statistics do not tell us whether the actual recipients of alimony

were the mothers of young children or whether they were able-bodied

ladies without offspring. The average American divorce court could not

be trusted to see any difference between them.

The war has naturally multiplied the actions for divorce in every

country. It was not for nothing that the British government called the

stipends paid to soldiers’ wives “separation allowances.” The war-time

conditions had a tendency to unmake marriages as well as to make them.

The momentary spread of divorce has revived again the idea of a uniform

divorce law embodied in an amendment to the Federal Constitution. As

no reasonable law can possibly be hoped for, the present state of

confusion is infinitely to be preferred as affording at least some

choice of resources to the individual who is seeking relief. If

there were any tendency to take divorce cases out of the hands of the

lawyers, as has been done with industrial accidents, and to put it into

domestic relations courts where it belongs; if there were the least

possibility of curbing the vested interest of the newspapers in divorce

news; if there were any dawning appreciation of the absurdity of

penalizing as connivance the most unanswerable reason for divorce, that

is, mutual consent; if there were any likelihood that the lying and

spying upon which divorce action must usually depend for its success

would be viewed as the grossest immorality in the whole situation;

if there were any hope whatever that a statesman might rise up in

Congress and, like Johan Castberg of Norway, defend a legal measure

which would help ordinary men and women to speak the truth in their

personal relationships--if there were any prospect that any of these

influences would have any weight in the deliberations of Congress,

one might regard the possibilities of Federal action with a gleam of

hope. But since nothing of the kind can be expected, the best that

can happen in regard to divorce in the near future is for Congress to

leave it alone. There is a strong tradition in the historical suffrage

movement of America which favours liberal divorce laws and which makes

it improbable that a reactionary measure could gain sufficient support

from the feminine electorate. Since the majority of those who seek

divorce in this country are women, it seems to put them logically on

the side of dissoluble marriage.

Though home is a sacred word in America, it is a portable affair.

Migration is a national habit, handed down and still retained from

the days when each generation went out to break new ground. The

disasters of the Civil War sent Southern families and New England

families scurrying to the far West. The development of the railway

and express systems produced as a by-product a type of family life

that was necessarily nomadic. The men of the railway “Brotherhoods”

have always been marrying men, and their families acquired the art of

living on wheels, as it were. Rich farmers of the Middle West retire

to spend their old age in a California cottage surrounded by an orange

grove--and the young farmers move to the city. The American family

travels on any and every excuse. The neurotic pursuit of health has

built up large communities in Colorado, Arizona, and other points West.

Whole families “picked up,” as the saying goes, and set out for the

miraculous climate that was to save one of its members from the dreaded

tuberculosis--and then later had to move again because somebody’s

heart couldn’t stand the “altitude.” The extreme examples of this

nomadic habit are found among the families of the very poor and the

very rich, who have regular seasonal migrations. The oyster canners

and strawberry-pickers have a mobility which is only equalled by that

of the Palm Beachers. And finally there is the curious practice of New

England which keeps boarders in the summer-time in order that it may be

boarded by Florida in the winter-time.

By contrast with all this geographical instability, the stable sway

of convention and custom stands out impressively. With each change

of environment, family tradition became more sacred. Unitarians who

moved to Kansas were more zealous in the faith than ever, and F.F.V.’s

who settled in Texas were fiercely and undyingly loyal to the memory

of Pocahontas. Families that were always losing their background,

tried to fixate in some form the ancestral prestige which threatened

always to evaporate. Organizations composed of the Sons and Daughters

of the Revolution, of the descendants of the Pilgrims, of Civil War

Veterans, of the Scions of the Confederacy, and so on, sprang up and

flourished on the abundant soil of family pride. All of which means

that pioneering brought no spiritual independence or intellectual

rebirth, and that new conditions were anxiously reformulated under

the sanction of the old. Above all, sanction was important. That

incredible institution, the “society column” of the local newspaper,

took up the responsibility where the Past laid it down. Stereotyped

values of yesterday gave way to stereotyped values of to-day. This

was the commercial opportunity of a multitude of home journals and

women’s magazines which undertook--by means of stories, pictures, and

advertisements--to regiment the last detail of home life. But the

perforated patterns, the foods “shot from guns,” and all the rest

of the labour-saving ingenuities which came pouring into the home

and which were supposed to mean emancipation for mothers and their

families, brought little of the real spirit of freedom in their wake.

Our materialistic civilization finds it hard to understand that liberty

is not achieved through time-saving devices but only through the love

of it.

But the notorious spoiling of the American child--some one says--is

not that a proper cradle of liberty for the personality? A spoilt

child may be a nuisance, but if he is on the way towards becoming a

self-reliant, self-expressive adult, the “American way” of bringing

up children may have its peculiar advantages. But a spoilt child is

really a babyish child, and by that token he is on the way towards

becoming a childish adult. Neither is his case disposed of simply by

adjudging him a nuisance; the consequence of his spoiling carry much

further than that. They are seen, for instance, in malnutrition of

the children of the American rich--a fact which has but recently been

discovered and which came as a great surprise to the experts. “In

Chicago,” one of them tells us, “it was found that a group of foreign

children near the stockyards were only 17 per cent. underweight, while

in the all-American group near the University of Chicago they were 57

per cent. below normal.” The same condition of things was found in a

select and expensive boarding school in the neighbourhood of Boston.

A pathetic commentary--is it not?--on a country which leads the world

in food-packing and food-profits, that it should contain so many

parents who, with all the resources of the earth at their command, do

not know how to feed their own children. Surely, the famous American

spoiling has something to do with this. Whether it may not also be

behind the vast amount of mental disturbance in the population may well

be considered. The asylums are suddenly over-crowded. The National

Committee for Mental Hygiene suggests for our consolation that this may

be because the asylums are so much more humane than they used to be and

the families of the sufferers are more willing than formerly to consign

them to institutions.

It is the fashion to attribute all these mental tragedies to the strain

of business life and industry, and more recently to war-shock. But if

we are to accept the results of the latest psychological research,

the family must receive the lion’s share of blame. The groundwork

for fatal ruptures in the adult personality is laid in childhood and

in the home which produced the victim. For many years the discussion

of American nerves has hinged on the hectic haste of business and

industrial life, on the noise and bustle and lack of repose in the

national atmosphere. But we have neglected to accuse the family to its

face of failing to protect the child against the cataclysms of the

future while it had the chance.

The tremendous influence of the family on the individuals, old and

young, composing it is not merely a pious belief. We are, alas,

what our families make us. This is not a pleasant thought to many

individuals who have learned through bitter experience to look on

family relationships as a form of soul imprisonment. Yet it seems to be

an incontestable fact that personality is first formed--or deformed--in

the family constellation. The home really does the job for which the

school, the press, the church, and the State later get the credit.

It is a smoothly articulated course from the cradle onward, however,

in which the subjugated parent produces a subjugated child, not so

much by the rod of discipline--which figures very little in American

family life--but by the more powerful and pervasive force of habit and

attitude. Parents allow themselves to be a medium for transmitting the

incessant pressure of standards which allow no room for impulse and

initiative; they become the willing instrument of a public mania for

standardization which tries to make every human soul into the image

of a folded pattern. The babe is moulded in his cradle into the man

who will drop a sentimental tear, wear a white carnation, and send a

telegram on Mother’s Day--that travesty of a family festival which

shames affection and puts spontaneous feeling to the blush.

As the family itself grows smaller, this pressure of mechanistic and

conventional standards encroaches more closely upon the child. A

sizeable group of brothers and sisters create for themselves a savage

world which is their best protection against the civilization that

awaits them. But with one or two children, or a widely scattered

series, this natural protection is lost. The youngster is prematurely

assimilated to the adult world of parents who are nowadays, owing to

later marriage, not even quite so young as formerly they were. It

is a peculiarity of parents, especially of mothers, that they never

entertain a modest doubt as to whether they might be the best of all

possible company for their children. And obviously the tired business

man cannot properly substitute in the evenings for a roistering,

shouting brother who never came into the world at all; nor can all the

concentrated care of the most devoted mother take the place of the

companionship and discipline which children get from other children.

These considerations deserve more attention than they usually receive

in connection with the falling birth-rate. The figures mean that the

environment of the young child is being altered in a fundamental

respect. Parents of small families need to take effective steps to

counteract the loss. Practical things, like nursery schools, would be a

help. But, chiefly, if parents will insist on being companions of their

children, they need themselves to understand and practise the art of

common joy and happiness.

KATHARINE ANTHONY

THE ALIEN

The immigrant alien has been discussed by the Anglo-Saxon as

though he were an Anglo-Saxon “problem.” He has been discussed by

labour as though he were a labour “problem”; by interpreters of

American institutions as though man existed for institutions and for

institutions which the class interpreting them found advantageous

to its class. Occasionally the alien has been discussed from the

point of view of the alien and but rarely from the point of view of

democracy. The “problem” of the alien is largely a problem of setting

our own house in order. It is the “problem” of Americanizing America.

The outstanding fact of three centuries of immigration is that the

immigrant alien ceases to be an alien when economic conditions are such

as properly to assimilate him.

There is something rather humorous about the way America discusses “the

alien.” For we are all aliens. And what is less to our liking we are

almost all descended from the peasant classes of Europe. We are here

because our forebears were poor. They did not rule over there. They

were oppressed; they were often owned. And with but few exceptions

they came because of their poverty. For the rich rarely emigrate. And

in the 17th and 18th centuries there was probably a smaller percentage

of immigrants who could pass the literacy test than there are to-day.

Moreover, in the early days only suffering could drive the poor of

Europe from their poverty. For the conditions of travel were hazardous.

The death toll from disease was very high. It required more fortitude

to cross the Atlantic and pass by the ring of settlers out onto the

unbroken frontier than it does to pass Ellis Island and the exploiters

round about it to-day.

The immigration question has arisen because America, too, has created a

master class, a class which owns and employs and rules. And the alien

in America is faced by a class opinion, born of the change which has

come over America rather than any change in the alien himself. America

has changed. The alien remains much the same. And the most significant

phase of the immigration problem is the way we treat the alien and the

hypocrisy of our discussion of the subject.

Sociologists have given us a classification of the immigrant alien.

They speak of the “old immigration” and the “new immigration.”

The former is the immigration of the 17th and 18th and the first

three-quarters of the 19th centuries. It was English, Scotch, Irish,

German, Scandinavian with a sprinkling of French, Swiss, and other

nationalities. From the beginning, the preponderance was British.

During the 18th century there was a heavy Scotch inflow and during the

first half of the 19th a heavy Irish and German immigration. The Irish

came because of the famine of 1848, the Scotch in large part because of

the enclosure acts and the driving of the people from the land to make

way for deer preserves and grazing lands for the British aristocracy.

Most of the British immigration was the result of oppressive land laws

of one kind or another. The population of Ireland was reduced from

eight million to slightly over four million in three-quarters of a

century. The British immigrant of the 17th century, like the recent

Russian immigration, was driven from home by economic oppression. Only

a handful came to escape religious oppression or to secure political

liberty. The cause of immigration has remained the same from the

beginning until now.

The “old immigration” was from the North of Europe. It was of Germanic

stock. It was predominantly Protestant. But the most important fact

of all and the fact most usually ignored is an economic fact. The

early immigrant found a broad continent awaiting him, peopled only

by Indians. He became a free man. He took up a homestead. He ceased

to belong to any one else. He built for himself. He paid no rent, he

took no orders, he kept what he produced, and was inspired by hope and

ambition to develop his powers. It was economic, not political, freedom

that distinguishes the “old immigration” from the “new.”

The “new immigration” is from Southern and Central Europe. It is

Latin and Slavic. It is largely Catholic. It, too, is poor. It, too,

is driven out by oppression, mostly economic and for the most part

landed. Almost every wave of immigration has been in some way related

to changes for the worse in the landed systems of Europe. Wherever

the poverty has been the most distressing, there the impulse to move

has been the strongest. It has been the poverty of Europe that has

determined our immigration from the 17th century until now.

The ethnic difference is secondary. So is the religious. The

fundamental fact that distinguishes the “old immigration” from the

“new” is economic. The “new immigration” works for the “old.” It

found the free land all taken up. The public domain had passed into

the hand of the Pacific railroads, into great manorial estates. Land

thieves had repeated the acts of the British Parliament of the 18th

century. The Westward movement of peoples that had been going on from

the beginning of time came to an end when the pioneer of the 80’s and

90’s found only the bad lands left for settlement. That ended an era.

It closed the land to settlement and sent the immigrant to the city.

The peasant of Europe has become the miner and the mill worker. He left

one kind of serfdom to take up another. It is this that distinguishes

the “old immigrant” from the “new.” It is this that distinguishes the

old America from the America of to-day. And the problem of immigration,

like the problem of America, is the re-establishment of economic

democracy. The protective tariff bred exotic industry. The employer

wanted cheap labour. The mine owners and mill owners combined with the

steamship companies to stimulate immigration. They sent agents abroad.

They brought in gangs from Southern and Central Europe. They herded

them in mining camps, in mill towns, in the tenements. The closing of

the public domain and the rise of monopoly industry marks the turning

point in immigration. It marks the beginning of the immigration

“problem.” It is partly ethnic, but largely economic.

The “new immigration” from Southern and Central Europe began to

increase in volume about 1890. It came from Southern rather than

Northern Italy, from Poland, Hungary, Bohemia, Russia, the Balkans,

and the Levant. There was a sprinkling of Spanish and Portuguese

immigrants. In 1914 South and Central European immigration amounted

to 683,000, while the North European immigration was but 220,000. Of

the former 296,000 came from Italy, 123,000 from Poland, 45,000 from

Russia, and 45,000 from Hungary. These figures do not include Jewish

immigrants, who numbered 138,000. Of the North European immigrants

105,000 came from the British Isles, 80,000 came from Germany, and

36,000 from the Scandinavian countries.

Of the 14,000,000 persons of foreign birth now in the country, a very

large percentage is of South and Central European stock.

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