CHAPTER XXIII.

MATCH-MAKING.--_Section I.: The Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice

of their Children_.--The Bridal Hour. A Home-Crisis. The Bride's Farewell.

Have Parents a right to take any part in the Marriage Choice of their

Children? This Right Proven from their Relation to their Children, from the

Inexperience of Children, from Sacred History. The Patriarchal Age.

Judaism. The Christian Church. The Extent of this Right. The Duties it

Involves. Moral Control. Coercive Measures. Improper Parental

Interposition. Its Sad Effects. Persuasive Measures. Should Parents Banish

and Disinherit Children for their Marrying against their will? Paley.

_Section II.: False Tests in the Selection of a Companion_.--The Mere

Outward. How we determine Unhappy Matches. The Manner of Paying Addresses.

The Habit of Match-Making. Tricks of Match-Makers. The Sad Fruits. Book

Match-Makers. Their Auxiliaries. The Evil. How Parents may Preserve their

Children. False Influences. Smitten. Outward Beauty. Impulsive Passion.

Falling in Love at First Sight. Wealth. Rank. English Aristocracy.

Nepotism. Snobbishness.

_Section III.: True Tests in the Selection of a Companion_.--Judicious

Views of the Nature and Responsibilities of the Marriage Institution. Our

Forefathers. Reciprocal Affection. Paley. True Love. Adaptation of

Character and Position. Fitness of Circumstances, Means, and Age. Religious

Equality and Adaptation. Only in the Lord. The Sad Effect of Inequality.

Should Persons Marry Outside of their Own Branch of the Church? Sin and

Curse of Disobedience to the Law of Religious Equality. Duty of Parents in

reference to Religious Equality. All Matches not made in Heaven. Law of

Moses. Abraham. Historical Instances of the Fruits of Disobeying this Law.

Reasonableness of the Law. The Primitive Christians. Sense of the Christian

Church. Address to Christians.

The Christian Home As it is in the Sphere of Nature and the Church; Showing the Mission, Duties, Influences, Habits, and Responsibilities of Home, its Education, Government, and Discipline; with Hints on "Match Making," and the Relation of Parents to the Marriage Choice of their Children; together with a consideration of the Tests in the Selection of a Companion, Etc. · 第 23 / 32 章