OF RECONCILING, OR PACIFYING ANGER.
_Reconciliation_ is the appeasing of anger.
Those to whom men are easily reconciled, are: such as have not offended
out of neglect. And such as have done it against their will. And such as
wish done the contrary of what they have done. And such as have done as
much to themselves. And such as confess and repent. And such as are
humbled. And such as do seriously the same things, that they do
seriously. And such as have done them more good heretofore, than now
hurt. And such as sue to them for any thing. And such as are not
insolent, nor mockers, nor slighters of others in their own disposition.
And generally such as are of a contrary disposition to those whom men
are usually angry withal. And such as they fear or reverence. And such
as reverence them. And such as have offended their anger.
_Reconcileable_ are: such as are contrarily affected to those, whom we
have said before to be easily angry. And such as play, laugh, make
merry, prosper, live in plenty; and, in sum, all that have no cause of
grief. And such as have given their anger time.
Men lay down their anger for these causes. Because they have gotten the
victory. Because the offender has suffered more than they meant to
inflict. Because they have been revenged of another. Because they think
they suffer justly. And because they think the revenge will not be felt,
or not known that the revenge was theirs, and for such an injury. And
because the offender is dead.
Whosoever therefore would _assuage_ the anger of his _auditor_, must
make himself appear such as men use to be _reconciled_ unto: and beget
in his _auditor_ such opinions as make him _reconcileable_.
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