BUSHMAN QUALIFICATIONS FOR LOVE

The eminent anatomist Fritsch, in his valuable work on the natives of

South Africa (386-407), describes the Bushmen as being even in

physical development far below the normal standard. Their limbs are

"horribly thin" in both sexes; both women and men are "frightfully

ugly," and so much alike that, although they go about almost naked, it

is difficult to tell them apart. He thinks they are probably the

aboriginal inhabitants of Africa, scattered from the Cape to the

Zambesi, and perhaps beyond. They are filthy in their habits, and

"washing the body is a proceeding unknown to them." When the French

anatomist Cuvier examined a Bushman woman, he was reminded of an ape

by her head, her ears, her movements, and her way of pouting the lips.

The language of the Bushmen has often been likened to the chattering

of monkeys. According to Bleek, who has collected their tales, their

language is of the lowest known type. Lichtenstein (II., 42) found the

Bushman women like the men, "ugly in the extreme," adding that "they

understand each other more by their gestures than by their speaking."

"No one has a name peculiar to himself." Others have described them as

having protuberant stomachs, prominent posteriors, hollowed-out backs,

and "few ideas but those of vengeance and eating." They have only two

numerals, everything beyond two being "much," and except in those

directions where the struggle for life has sharpened their wits, their

intellectual faculties in general are on a level with their

mathematics. Their childish ignorance is illustrated by a question

which some of them seriously asked Chapman (I., 83) one day--whether

his big wagons were not the mothers of the little ones with slender

tires.

How well their minds are otherwise adapted for such an

intellectualized, refined, and esthetic feeling as love, may also be

inferred from the following observations. Lichtenstein points out that

while necessity has given them acute sight and hearing,

"they might almost be supposed to have neither taste, smell,

nor feeling; no disgust is ever evinced by them at even the

most nauseous kind of food, nor do they appear to have any

feeling of even the most striking changes in the temperature

of the atmosphere."

"No meat," says Chapman (I., 57), "in whatever state of decomposition,

is ever discarded by Bushmen." They dispute carrion with wolves and

vultures. Rabbits they eat skins and all, and their menu is varied by

all sorts of loathsome reptiles and insects.

No other savages, says Lichtenstein, betray "so high a degree of

brutal ferocity" as the Bushmen. They "kill their own children without

remorse." The missionary Moffat says (57) that "when a mother dies

whose infant is not able to shift for itself, it is, without any

ceremony, buried alive with the corpse of its mother." Kicherer,

another missionary, says

"there are instances of parents throwing their tender

offspring to the hungry lion, who stands roaring before

their cavern, refusing to depart till some peace-offering be

made to him."

He adds that after a quarrel between husband and wife the one beaten

is apt to take revenge by killing their child; and that, on various

occasions, parents smother their children, cast them away in the

desert, or bury them alive without remorse. Murder is an amusement,

and is considered a praiseworthy act. Livingstone (_M.T._, 159) tells

of a Bushman who thought his god would consider him a "clever fellow"

because he had murdered a man, two women, and two children. When

fathers and mothers become too old to be of any use, or to take care

of themselves, they are abandoned in the desert to be devoured alive

by wild beasts. "I have often reasoned with the natives on this cruel

practice," says the missionary Moffat (99); "in reply to which, they

would only laugh." "It appears an awful exhibition of human

depravity," he adds, "when children compel their parents to perish for

want, or to be devoured by beasts of prey in a desert, _from no other

motive but sheer laziness._" Kicherer says there are a few cases of

"natural affection" sufficient to raise these creatures to "a level

with the brute creation," Moffat, too, refers to exceptional cases of

kindness, but the only instance he gives (112) describes their terror

on finding he had drunk some water poisoned by them, and their

gladness when he escaped--which terror and gladness were, however,

very probably inspired not by sympathy but by the idea of punishment

at causing the death of a white man. Chapman himself, the chosen

champion of the Bushmen, relates (I., 67) how, having heard of Bushmen

rescuing and carrying home some Makalolos whom they had found dying of

thirst in the desert, he believed it at first; but he adds:

"Had I at that time possessed a sufficient knowledge of

native character, I should not have been so credulous

as to have listened to this report, for the idea of

Bushmen carrying human beings whom they had found half

dead out of a desert implies an act of charity quite

inconsistent with their natural disposition and

habits."

Barrow declares (269) that if Bushmen come across a Hottentot guarding

his master's cattle,

"not contented with putting him to immediate death,

they torture him by every means of cruelty that their

invention can frame, as drawing out his bowels, tearing

off his nails, scalping, and other acts equally

savage."

They sometimes bury a victim up to the neck in the ground and thus

leave him to be pecked to death by crows.

"LOVE IN ALL THEIR MARRIAGES"

And yet--I say it once more--we are asked to believe there is "love in

all the marriages" of these fiendish creatures--beings who, as

Kicherer says, live in holes or caves, where they "lie close together

like pigs in a sty" and of whom Moffat declares that with the

exception of Pliny's Troglodites "no tribe or people are surely more

brutish, ignorant, and miserable." Our amazement at Chapman's

assertion increases when we examine his argument more closely. Here it

is (I., 258-59):

"Although they have a plurality of wives, which they

also obtain by purchase, there is still love in all

their marriages, and courtship among them is a very

formal and, in some respects, a rather punctilious

affair. When a young Bushman falls in love, he sends

his sister to ask permission to pay his addresses; with

becoming modesty the girl holds off in a playful, yet

not scornful or repulsive manner if she likes him. The

young man next sends his sister with a spear, or some

other trifling article, which she leaves at the door of

the girl's home. If this be not returned within the

three or four days allowed for consideration, the

Bushman takes it for granted that he is accepted, and

gathering a number of his friends, he makes a grand

hunt, generally killing an elephant or some other large

animal and bringing the whole of the flesh to his

intended father-in-law. The family now riot in an

abundant supply.... After this the couple are

proclaimed husband and wife, and the man goes to live

with his father-in-law for a couple of winters, killing

game, and always laying the produce of the chase at his

feet as a mark of respect, duty, and gratitude."

It would take considerable ingenuity to condense into an equal number

of lines a greater amount of ignorance and naïveté than this passage

includes. And yet a number of anthropologists have accepted this

passage serenely as expert evidence that there is love in all the

marriages of the lowest of African races. Peschel was misled by it;

Westermarck triumphantly puts it at the head of his cases intended to

prove that "even very rude savages may have conjugal affection;" Moll

meekly accepts it as a fact (_Lib. Sex._, Bd. I., Pt. 2, 403); and it

seems to have made an impression on Katzel, and even on Fritsch. If

these writers had taken the trouble to examine Chapman's

qualifications for serving as a witness in anthropological questions,

they would have saved themselves the humiliation of being thus duped.

His very assertion that there is love in _all_ Bushman marriages ought

to have shown them what an untrustworthy witness he is; for a more

reckless and absurd statement surely was never penned by any

globe-trotter. There is not now, and there never has been, a people

among whom love could be found in all marriages, or half the

marriages. In another place (I., 43) Chapman gives still more striking

evidence of his unfitness to serve as a witness. Speaking of the

family of a Bamanwato chief, he says:

"I was not aware of this practice of early marriages

until the wife of an old man I had engaged here to

accompany us, a child of about eight years of age, was

pointed out to me, and in my ignorance I laughed

outright, until my interpreter explained the

matrimonial usages of their people."

Chapman's own editor was tempted by this exhibition of ignorance to

write the following footnote: "The author seems not to have been aware

that such early marriages are common among the Hindoos." He might have

added "and among most of the lower races."

The ignorance which made Chapman "laugh outright" when he was

confronted by one of the most elementary facts of anthropology, is

responsible for his reckless assertions in the paragraph above quoted.

It is an ignorant assumption on his part that it is the feelings of

"respect, duty, and gratitude" that make a Bushman provide his bride's

father with game for a couple of winters. Such feelings are unknown to

the Bushman's soul. Working for the bride's father is simply his way

(if he has no property to give) of paying for his wife--an

illustration of the widespread custom of service. If polygamy and the

custom of purchasing wives do not, as Chapman intimates, prevent love

from entering into all Bushman marriages, then these aborigines must

be constructed on an entirely different plan from other human beings,

among whom we know that polygamy crushes monopoly of affection, while

a marriage by purchase is a purse-affair, not a heart-affair--the girl

going nearly always to the highest bidder.

But Chapman's most serious error--the one on which he founded his

theory that there is love in all Bushman marriages--lies in his

assumption that the ceremony of sham capture indicates modesty and

love, whereas, as we saw in the chapter on Coyness, it is a mere

survival of capture, the most ruffianly way of securing a bride, in

which her choice or feelings are absolutely disregarded, and which

tells us nothing except that a man covets a woman and that she feigns

resistance because custom, as taught by her parents, compels her to do

so. Inasmuch as she _must_ resist whether she likes the man or not,

how could such sham "coyness" be a symptom of love? Moreover, it

appears that even this sham coyness is exceptional, since, as Burchell

informs us (II., 59), it is only when a girl grows up to womanhood

without having been betrothed--"which, however, seldom happens"--that

the female receives the man's attentions with such an "affectation of

great alarm and disinclination on her part."

Burchell also informs us that a Bushman will take a second wife when

the first one has become old, "not in years but in constitution;" and

Barrow discovered the same thing (I., 276): "It appeared that it was

customary for the elderly men to have two wives, one old and past

child-bearing, the other young." Chapman, too, relates that a Bushman

will often cast off his early wife and take a younger one, and as that

does not prevent him from finding affection in their conjugal unions,

we are enabled from this to infer that "love" means to him not

enduring sympathy or altruistic capacity and eagerness for

self-sacrifice, but a selfish, transient fondness continuing only as

long as a woman is young and can gratify a man's sexual appetite. That

kind of love doubtless does exist in all Bushman marriages.

Chapman further declares (II., 75) that these people lead

"comparatively" chaste lives. I had supposed that, as an egg is either

good or bad, so a man or woman is either chaste or unchaste. Other

writers, who had no desire to whitewash savages, tell us not only

"comparatively" but positively what Bushman morals are. A Bushman told

Theophilus Halm (_Globus_, XVIII., 122) that quarrels for the

possession of women often lead to murder; "nevertheless, the

lascivious fellow assured me it was a fine thing to appropriate the

wives of others." Wake (I., 205) says they lend their wives to

strangers, and Lichtenstein tells us (II., 48) that "the wife is not

indissolubly united to the husband; but when he gives her permission,

she may go whither she will and associate with any other man." And

again (42):

"Infidelity to the marriage compact is not considered a

crime, it is scarcely regarded by the offended

person.... They seem to have no idea of the distinction

of girl, maiden, and wife; they are all expressed by

one word alone. I leave every reader to draw from this

single circumstance his own inference with regard to

the nature of love and every kind of moral feeling

among them."[137]

That this is not too severe a criticism is obvious from the fact that

Lichtenstein, in judging savages, was rather apt to err on the side of

leniency. The equally generous and amiable missionary Moffat (174-75)

censures him, for instance, for his favorable view of the Bechuanas,

saying that he was not with them long enough to know their real

character. Had he dwelt among them, accompanied them on journeys, and

known them as he (Moffat) did, "he would not have attempted to revive

the fabled delights and bliss of ignorance reported to exist in the

abodes of heathenism."

It is in comparison with these Bechuanas that Chapman calls the

Bushmen moral, obviously confounding morality with licentiousness.

Without having any moral principles at all, it is quite likely that

the Bushmen are less licentious than their neighbors for the simple

reason that they are less well-fed; for as old Burton remarks, for the

most part those are "aptest to love that are young and lusty, live at

ease, stall-fed, free from cares, like cattle in a rank

pasture"--whereas the Bushmen are nearly always thin, half-starved

denizens of the African deserts, enervated by constant fears, and so

unmanly that "a single musket shot," says Lichtenstein, "will put a

hundred to flight, and whoever rushes upon them with only a good stick

in his hand has no reason to fear any resistance from ever so large a

number."

Such men are not apt to be heroes among women in any sense. Indeed,

Galton says (_T.S.A._, 178), "I am sure that Bushmen are, generally

speaking, henpecked. They always consult their wives. The Damaras do

not." Chapman himself, with unconscious humor, gives us (I., 391) a

sample of the "love" which he found in "all Bushman marriages;" his

remarks confirming at the same time the truth I dwelt on in the

chapter on Individual Preference, that among savages the sexes are

less individualized than with us, the men being more effeminate, the

women viragoes:

"The passive and _effeminate_ disposition of the men,

of which we have had frequent reason to complain in the

course of this narrative, was illustrated in the revel

which accompanied the parting feast, when the men

allowed themselves to be beaten by the women, who, I am

told, are in the constant habit of belaboring their

devoted husbands, in order to keep them in proper

subjection. On this occasion the men got broken heads

at the hands of their gentle partners; one had his

nose, another his ear, nearly bitten off."

Notwithstanding this affectionate "constant habit" of breaking their

husbands' heads, the Bushman women have not succeeded in teaching them

even the rudiments of gallantry. "The woman is a beast of burden,"

says Hahn; "at the same time she is subjected to ill-treatment which

not seldom leads to death." When camp is moved, the gallant husband

carries his spear and quiver, the wife "does the rest," carrying the

baby, the mat, the earthen cooking-pot, the ostrich shells, and a

bundle of skins. If it happens, as it often does, that there is not

enough to eat, the wife has to go hungry. In revenge she usually

prepares her own food only, leaving him to do his own cooking. If a

wife falls ill on the way to a new camping-place, she is left behind

to perish. (Ratzel, I., 7.)

In conclusion, and as a climax to my argument, I will quote the

testimony of three missionaries who did not simply make a flying visit

or two to the country of the Bushmen, as Chapman did, but lived among

them. The Rev. R. Moffat (49) cites the missionary Kicherer, "whose

circumstances while living among them afforded abundant opportunities

of becoming intimately acquainted with their real condition," and who

wrote that the Bushmen "are total strangers to domestic happiness. The

men have several wives, but conjugal affection is little known." This

opinion is thus endorsed by Moffat, and a third missionary, the Rev.

F. Fleming, wrote (167) that among Bushmen "conjugal affection seems

totally unknown," and pre-matrimonial love is of course out of

question in a region where girls are married as infants. The wife

always has to work harder than the husband. If she becomes weak or ill

she is unceremoniously left behind to starve. (Ratzel, I., 72.)

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