PRIMITIVE CONTEMPT FOR WOMEN

The adoration of women, individually or collectively, is, however, an

entirely modern phenomenon, and is even now very far from being

universal. As Professor Chamberlain has pointed out (345): "Among

ourselves woman-worship nourishes among the well-to-do, but is almost,

if not entirely, absent among the peasantry." Still less would we

expect to find it among the lower races. Primitive times were warlike

times, during which warriors were more important than wives, sons more

useful than daughters. Sons also were needed for ancestor worship,

which was believed to be essential for bliss in a future life. For

these reasons, and because women were weaker and the victims of

natural physical disadvantages, they were despised as vastly inferior

to men, and while a son was welcomed with joy, the birth of a daughter

was bewailed as a calamity, and in many countries she was lucky--or

rather unlucky--if she was allowed to live at all.

A whole volume of the size of this one might be made up of extracts

from the works of explorers and missionaries describing the contempt

for women--frequently coupled with maltreatment--exhibited by the

lower races in all parts of the world. But as the attitude of

Africans, Australians, Polynesians, Americans, and others, is to be

fully described in future chapters, we can limit ourselves here to a

few sample cases taken at random.[25] Jacques and Storm relate (Floss,

II., 423) how one day in a Central African village, the rumor spread

that a goat had been carried off by a crocodile. Everybody ran to and

fro in great excitement until it was ascertained that the victim was

only a woman, whereupon quiet was restored. If an Indian refuses to

quarrel with a squaw or beat her, this is due, as Charlevoix explains

(VI., 44), to the fact that he would consider that as unworthy of a

warrior, as she is too far beneath him. In Tahiti the head of a

husband or father was sacred from a woman's touch. Offerings to the

gods would have been polluted if touched by a woman. In Siam the wife

had to sleep on a lower pillow than her husband's, to remind her of

her inferiority. No woman was allowed to enter the house of a Maori

chief. Among the Samoyedes and Ostyaks a wife was not allowed in any

corner of the tent except her own; after pitching the tent she was

obliged to fumigate it before the men would enter. The Zulus regard

their women "with haughty contempt." Among Mohammedans a woman has a

definite value only in so far as she is related to a husband;

unmarried she will always be despised, and heaven has no room for her.

(Ploss, II., 577-78.) In India the blessing bestowed on girls by

elders and priests is the insulting

"Mayst thou have eight sons, and may thy husband survive

thee." "On every occasion the poor girl is made to feel that

she is an unwelcome guest in the family." (Ramabai

Saravasti, 13.)

William Jameson Reid, who visited some of the unexplored regions of

Northeastern Thibet gives a graphic description of the hardness and

misery of woman's lot among the Pa-Urgs:

"Although, owing to the scarcity, a woman is a valuable

commodity, she is treated with the utmost contempt, and

her existence is infinitely worse than the very animals

of her lord and master. Polyandry is generally

practised, increasing the horror of her position, for

she is required to be a slave to a number of masters,

who treat her with the most rigorous harshness and

brutality. From the day of her birth until her death

(few Pa-Urg women live to be fifty) her life is one

protracted period of degradation. She is called upon to

perform the most menial and degrading of services and

the entire manual labor of the community, it being

considered base of a male to engage in other labor than

that of warfare and the chase....

"When a child is to be born the mother is driven from

the village in which she lives, and is compelled to

take up her abode in some roadside hut or cave in the

open country, a scanty supply of food, furnished by her

husbands, being brought to her by the other women of

the tribe. When the child is born the mother remains

with it for one or two months, and then leaving it in a

cave, returns to the village and informs her eldest

husband of its birth and the place where she has left

it. If the child is a male, some consideration is shown

to her; should it be a female, however, her lot is

frightful, for aside from the severe beating to which

she is subjected by her husband, she suffers the scorn

and contumely of the rest of the tribe. If a male

child, the husband goes to the cave and brings it back

to the village; if it is of the opposite sex he is left

to his own volition; sometimes he returns with the

female infant; as often he ignores it entirely and

allows it to perish, or may dispose of it to some other

man as a prospective wife."[26]

In Corea women are so little esteemed that they do not even receive

separate names, and a husband considers it an act of condescension to

speak to his wife. When a young man of the ruling classes marries, he

spends three or four days with his bride, then returns to his

concubine, "in order to prove that he does not care much for the

bride." (Ploss, II., 434.) "The condition of Chinese women is most

pitiable," writes the Abbé Hue:

"Suffering, privation, contempt, all kinds of misery

and degradation, seize on her in the cradle, and

accompany her to the tomb. Her birth is commonly

regarded as a humiliation and a disgrace to the

family--an evident sign of the malediction of heaven.

If she be not immediately suffocated, a girl is

regarded and treated as a creature radically

despicable, and scarcely belonging to the human race."

He adds that if a bridegroom dies, the most honorable course for the

bride is to commit suicide. Even the Japanese, so highly civilized in

some respects, look down on women with unfeigned contempt, likening

themselves to heaven and the women to earth. There are ten stations on

the way up the sacred mount Fuji. Formerly no woman was allowed to

climb above the eighth. Professor Basil Hall Chamberlain, of the

University of Tokyo, has a foot-note in his _Things Japanese_ (274) in

which he relates that in the introduction to his translation of the

_Kojiki_ he had drawn attention to the inferior place held by women in

ancient as in modern Japan. Some years afterward six of the chief

literati of the old school translated this introduction into Japanese.

They patted the author on the head for many things, but when they

reached the observation anent the subjection of women, their wrath

exploded:

"The subordination of women to men," so ran their

commentary, "is an extremely correct custom. To think

the contrary is to harbor European prejudice.... For

the man to take precedence over the woman is the grand

law of heaven and earth. To ignore this, and to talk of

the contrary as barbarous, is absurd."

The way in which these kind, gentle, and pretty women are treated by

the men, Chamberlain says on another page,

"has hitherto been such as might cause a pang to any

generous European heart.... At the present moment the

greatest duchess or marchioness in the land is still

her husband's drudge. She fetches and carries for him,

bows down humbly in the hall when my lord sallies forth

on his walks abroad, waits upon him at meals, may be

divorced at his good pleasure."

This testimony regarding a nation which in some things--especially

aesthetic culture and general courteousness--surpasses Europe and

America, is of special value, as it shows that love, based on sympathy

with women's joys and sorrows, and adoration of their peculiar

qualities, is everywhere the last flower of civilization, and not, as

the sentimentalists claim, the first. If even the advanced Japanese

are unable to feel romantic love--for you cannot adore what you

egotistically look down on--it is absurd to look for it among

barbarians and savages, such as the Fuegians, who, in times of

necessity, eat their old women, or the Australians, among whom not

many women are allowed to die a natural death, "they being generally

despatched ere they become old and emaciated, that so much good food

may not be lost."[27]

There are some apparent exceptions to the universal contempt for

females even among cannibals. Thus it is known that the Peruvian

Casibos never eat women. It is natural to jump to the conclusion that

this is due to respect for the female sex. It is, however, as Tschudi

shows, assignable to exactly the opposite feeling:

"All the South American Indians, who still remain under

the influence of sorcery and empiricism, consider women

in the light of impure and evil beings, and calculated

to injure them. Among a few of the less rude nations

this aversion is apparent in domestic life, in a

certain unconquerable contempt of females. With the

anthropophagi the feeling extends, fortunately, to

their flesh, which is held to be poisonous."

The Caribs had a different reason for making it unlawful to eat women.

"Those who were captured," says P. Martyr, "were kept for breeding, as

we keep fowl, etc," Sir Samuel Baker relates (_A.N._, 240), that among

the Latookas it was considered a disgrace to kill a woman--not,

however, because of any respect felt for the sex, but because of the

scarcity and money value of women.

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