The young naturally take on the moods and accept and reflect the

influences around them more readily than the old, just as a new

piece of land will produce a better crop than one which is worn or

pre-occupied. A virgin mind is like a virgin soil. It contains all

the elements of fertility, and is adapted to the production of any

crop. It has been exhausted in no department of its constitution.

It is not occupied by roots, and shaded by foliage. It is not

turf-bound and dry; but it is soft and open, and clean and moist,

and ready for the reception of any seed that may fall upon it.

Until age brings individuality, the mind seems to have little

choice as to what it will receive. Then, indeed, it does reject

much seed that falls upon it, and much fails to take root because

of the pre-occupation of the surface. A sensual seed is planted in

the soul of a young man, and it springs up readily, and produces

after its kind; but the same seed tossed upon an older soil fails

to sink and germinate, because the surface is pre-occupied, or,

more frequently, because that peculiar element on which the germ

must rely for quickening and sustentation has been exhausted. Some

manly or Christian grace falls upon a young mind, and quickly

strikes root and rises into flower and fruit; while the same grace

thrown upon an adult mind would fail to reach the soil, through

the vices that cumber and choke it. It is thus that home and the

school-room are literally seminaries--places where seed is sown--

and it is in these that we expect and intend that every seed shall

produce after its kind. Let us talk about this a little.

I once heard a person say that one of his acquaintances, whom he

named, had no moral right to have a child. Why was this harsh

judgment uttered? Because he was hereditarily scrofulous, and

would necessarily entail upon his offspring the family taint. If

there were even a show of justice in this, what must be said of a

parent who does not possess a single moral quality, that even he,

in the selfishness of his parental love, would desire to see

implanted in his child? How many homes are scattered over

Christendom in which no good seed is sown! How many selfish,

niggardly, vicious parents are there, who, producing after their

kind, by generation and by influence, are filling the world with

selfish, niggardly, and vicious children! How many homes are there

in which the gentle words of love are never heard; in which the

tender graces of a Christian heart are never unfolded; in which a

prayer is never uttered! How many fathers are there whose lips are

black with profanity and foul with obscenity, and whose lives are

mean and unwholesome! How many mothers are there whose tongues are

nimble with scandal and bitter with scolding, and whose brains are

busy with vanities and jealousies! Ah! if there be any man or

woman in this world who has no moral right to have a child, it is

one who has not a single trait of character desirable to be

reproduced in a child. Scrofula may be bad, but sin is worse.

Bodily taint may be terrible, but spiritual taint is horrible.

It is a general truth, under the law that every thing produces

after its kind, that children become what their parents are. A

simple people, virtuous and healthy, will produce virtuous,

healthy, and true-hearted children, A luxurious people--lazy,

sensual, wasteful--will produce children like themselves. If we go

through the vicious quarters of a great city, where licentiousness

and drunkenness and beastly vices prevail, we shall find that

though all die before old age, the communities are abundantly

recruited by the children which they produce. Men, principles,

habits, ideas, vices, all have children, whose features betray

their parentage; so that no parent has a right to expect a child

to be better than its father and mother. On the contrary, he has

every reason to believe that every thing that a child sees wrong

in the parents, will be imitated. There is no way by which bad

parents can bring up a family well. There must be in the parental

life good principles, a sweet and equable temper, a tender and

loving disposition, a firm self-control, a pleasant deportment,

and a conscientious devotion to duty, or these will not be found

in the life of the children. Bad seed, sown in the quick soil of a

child's mind, is sure to spring up, and to bear fruit after its

kind. No sensible man ever dreams of gathering figs from thistles,

or grapes from bramble-bushes, and no man has the slightest right

to suppose that he can bring up a family to be better than he is.

The plant will be true to the seed.

We are in the habit of hearing that the children of a certain

neighborhood, or school, or town, are extraordinarily bad

children. Great wonder is sometimes expressed in regard to such

instances, when, really, they are not wonderful at all. When

children are unusually bad, parents are unusually bad, or, if they

are not bad-hearted, they are wrong-headed. I ought, perhaps, to

say here that I have known an irascible, tyrannical, unjust and

cruel school-teacher to spoil a neighborhood of children, when the

parents were without any special fault, save that of failing to

thrust him out of the charge which he had abused. But usually the

fault is at home. If the seed planted there be good, it will

produce good fruit. Yet my reader will say that the best man he

ever knew, had the worst children he ever saw. The truth of the

statement is admitted, but what do you know of the home life of

that family? How much unreasonable restraint has been exercised

upon those children? From how many exhibitions of stern and

unrelenting injustice have these children suffered? What laxity of

discipline and carelessness of culture have reigned in that

family? I know many who seem to be excellent men in society, but

who are any thing but amiable men at home. In one they are

pleasant, affable, kind, and charitable; in the other, cross-grained,

hard, unkind, and unjust. I declare with all positiveness, that when

a family or a neighborhood of children is bad, there is a reason for it

outside of the children. There are bad influences which descend

upon them, and work out their natural results in them.

It is astonishing to see how long a seed will lie in the ground

without germinating, and how true it will remain to its kind

through untold years. Cut down a pine forest, where an oak has not

been seen for a century, and oak shrubbery will spring up. Heave

out upon the surface a pile of earth that has lain hidden from the

eyes of a dozen generations, and forthwith it will grow green with

weeds. Plough up the prairie, and turn under the grass and flowers

that have grown there since the white settler can remember, and

there will spring from the inverted sod a strange growth that has

had no representative in the sunlight for long ages. Soul and soil

are alike in this. I once heard a man say of his father, who had

been dead many years--"I hate him: I hate his memory." The words

were spoken bitterly, with a flushed face and angry eyes, yet he

who spoke them was one of the kindest and most placable of men.

Deep down in his heart, under love for his mother which was almost

worship, and under affection for wife, children, and sisters which

was as deep as his nature, and under multiplied friendships, there

had been planted this seed. The father had treated the boy harshly

and unjustly; and the young soul was stung as the tender fruit is

stung by an insect. Where anger and resentment were sown, anger

and resentment were ready to spring up the moment the seed was

uncovered. I have known men to carry through life a revenge

planted in their hearts by some unjust and cruel schoolmaster. How

many men are there are in the world who have sworn to revenge

themselves upon one who had stung them with anger or injustice

when in childhood!

So we come to the grand lesson, that if we would have good

children, we must ourselves be exactly what we would have them

become; if we would govern our families, we must first govern

ourselves; if we would have only pleasant words greet our ears in

the home circle, we must speak only pleasant words. We should see

to it that we plant nothing, the legitimate fruits of which we

shall not be willing and glad to see borne in the lives of our

children. If our children are bad, the fault is, ninety-nine cases

in a hundred, our own, in some way. If we would reform society, or

make it better in any respect, our quickest way to do it is to

reform and make ourselves better. If I would reap courtesy and

hospitality and kindness and love, I must plant them; and it is

the sum of all arrogance to assume that I have a right to reap

them without planting them. A man who receives courtesy without

exercising it, reaps that which he has not sown. He is a thief,

and ought in justice to be kicked out of society. Blessings on the

man who sows the seeds of a happy nature and a noble character

broadcast wherever his feet wander,--who has a smile alike for joy

and sorrow, a tender word always for a child, a compassionate

utterance for suffering, courtesy for friends and for strangers,

encouragement for the despairing, an open heart for all--love for

all--good words for all! Such seed produces after its kind in all

soils, when it finds lodgment; and that which the sower fails to

reap, passes into hands that are grateful for the largess.

LESSON V.

TRUTH AND TRUTHFULNESS.

"For truth is as impossible to be soiled by any outward touch as

a sunbeam." MILTON.

"Odds life! must one swear to the truth of a song?" MATTHEW PRIOR.

"Get but the truth once uttered, and 'tis like

A star new-born that drops into its place,

And which, once circling in its placid round,

Not all the tumult of the earth can shake." LOWELL.

One of the rarest powers possessed by man is the power to state a

fact. It seems a very simple thing to tell the truth, but, beyond

all question, there is nothing half so easy as lying. To

comprehend a fact in its exact length, breadth, relations, and

significance, and to state it in language that shall represent it

with exact fidelity, are the work of a mind singularly gifted,

finely balanced, and thoroughly practiced in that special

department of effort. The greatness of Daniel Webster was more

apparent in his power to state a fact, or to present a truth,

than in any other characteristic of his gigantic nature. It was

the power of truth that won for him his forensic victories.

Whenever he was truest to truth, then was truth truest to him. He

was a man who implicitly believed in the power of truth to take

care of itself when it had been fairly presented; and the failures

of his life always grew out of his attempts to make falsehood look

like truth--a field of effort in which the most gifted of his

cotemporaries won the most brilliant of his triumphs.

The men are comparatively few who are in the habit of telling the

truth. We all lie, every day of our lives--almost in every

sentence we utter--not consciously and criminally, perhaps, but

really, in that our language fails to represent truth, and state

facts correctly. Our truths are half-truths, or distorted truths,

or exaggerated truths, or sophisticated truths. Much of this is

owing to carelessness, much to habit, and, more than has generally

been supposed, to mental incapacity. I have known eminent men who

had not the power to state a fact, in its whole volume and

outline, because, first, they could not comprehend it perfectly,

and, second, because their power of expression was limited. The

lenses by which they apprehended their facts were not adjusted

properly, so they saw every thing with a blur. Definite outlines,

cleanly cut edges, exact apprehension of volume and weight, nice

measurement of relations, were matters outside of their

observation and experience. They had broad minds, but bungling;

and their language was no better than their apprehensions--usually

it was worse, because language is rarely as definite as

apprehension. Men rarely do their work to suit them, because their

tools are imperfect.

There are men in all communities who are believed to be honest,

yet whose word is never taken as authority upon any subject. There

is a flaw or a warp somewhere in their perceptions, which prevents

them from receiving truthful impressions. Every thing comes to

them distorted, as natural objects are distorted by reaching the

eye through wrinkled window-glass. Some are able to apprehend a

fact and state it correctly, if it have no direct relation to

themselves; but the moment their personality, or their personal

interest, is involved, the fact assumes false proportions and

false colors. I know a physician whose patients are always

alarmingly sick when he is first called to them. As they usually

get well, I am bound to believe that he is a good physician; but I

am not bound to believe that they are all as sick at beginning as

he supposes them to be. The first violent symptoms operate upon

his imagination and excite his fears, and his opinion as to the

degree of danger attaching to the diseases of his patients is not

worth half so much as that of any sensible old nurse. In fact,

nobody thinks of taking it all; and those who know him, and who

hear his sad representations of the condition of his patients,

show equal distrust of his word and faith in his skill, by taking

it for granted that they are in a fair way to get well.

It is impossible for bigots, for men of one idea, for fanatics,

for those who set boundaries to themselves in religious, social,

and political creeds, for men who think more of their own selfish

interests than they do of truth, and for vicious men, to speak the

truth. We are all, I suppose, bigots to a greater or less extent.

We all have a creed written in our minds, or printed in our books;

and to this we are more or less blindly attached. We set down an

article of faith, or adopt an opinion, and nothing is allowed to

interfere with it. If a sturdy fact comes along, and asks

admission, we turn to our creed to see if we can safely entertain

it. If the creed says "No," we say "No," and the fact is turned

out of doors, and misrepresented after it is gone. Our creeds are

our dwellings. They come next to us, and nothing can come to us,

or go out from us, without going through our creeds. The simple

fact of the death of Jesus Christ upon the cross, reaching the

mind through various creeds, and passing out again, goes through

as many phases as there are creeds, ranging through a scale which

at one extreme presents a God dying to redeem the lost millions of

a world, and, at the other, a benevolent, sweet-tempered man,

yielding his life in testimony of the honesty of his teachings.

No new truth presents itself, which does not have to run the

gauntlet of our creeds. If it get through alive, and seem disposed

to be peaceable, and to remain subordinate to them, then we let it

live, and receive it into respectable society;--otherwise, we

entreat it shamefully. Sometimes the truth is too much for us, and

asserts its power to stand without our help, and then we

compromise with it. The world will turn on its axis, and wheel

around its orbit, though we stop the mouth of the profane wretch

who declares it; so, after a while, we get tired of fighting the

fact, and shape our creeds accordingly. We fight the sturdy truths

of geology, because they interfere with our creeds, but after

awhile the sturdy truths of geology become too sturdy for us, and

then we begin to patronize them, and to confer upon them the honor

of harmonizing with our creeds. A man who has adopted the creed of

a materialist, is entirely incompetent to receive, entertain, and

represent a spiritual fact. My creed is the window at which I sit,

and look at all the world of truth outside of me. All truth is

tinted by the medium through which it passes to reach my mind; and

such is my imperfection and my weakness, that I could not raise my

window immediately, and place my soul in direct, vital contact

with the great atmosphere of truth, if I would.

But if bigotry be such a bar to the correct perception of truth,

what shall be said of self-interest and personal vices of appetite

and passion? It is possible for no man who owns a slave and finds

profit in such ownership, to receive the truth touching the right

of man to himself, and the moral wrong of slavery. We have too

much evidence that even creeds must bend to self-interest, and

that any traffic will be regarded as morally right which is

pecuniarily profitable. Once, in the creed of the slaveholders,

slavery was admitted to be wrong, but that was when it was looked

upon as temporary in its character, and, on the whole, evil in its

results to all concerned. Now, when it is sought to be made a

permanent institution, because it seems to be the only source of

the wealth of a section, it has become right; and even the

slave-trade logically falls into the category of laudable and

legitimate commerce. It is impossible for a people who have allowed

pecuniary interest to deprave their moral sense to this extent,

to perceive and receive any sound political truth, or to apprehend

the spirit and temper of those who are opposed to them. The same

may be said of the liquor traffic. The act of selling liquor is

looked upon with horror by those who stand outside, and who have

an eye upon its consequences; but the seller deems it legitimate,

and looks upon any interference with his sales as an infringement

of his rights. Our selfish interest in any business, or in any

scheme of profit, distorts all truth either directly or indirectly

related to such business or scheme, or living in its region and

atmosphere. The President of the United States, or the governor of

the commonwealth, may be an excellent man; but if I want an

office, and he fails to appoint me to it, why I don't exactly

regard him as such. He becomes to me a very ordinary and vulgar

sort of man indeed; but if he give me my office, then, though he

may be all that his enemies think him, he seems to me to be

invested with a singular nobility of character that other people

do not apprehend at all.

The vices of humanity are sad media through which to receive

truth--often so opaque that no truth can reach the mind at all. It

is impossible for a man whose affections are bestialized, whose

practices are libertine, and whose imaginations are all impure, to

receive the truth that there are such things as purity and virtue,

and that there are men and women around him who are virtuous and

pure. There is no truth which personal vice will not distort. The

approaches to a sensual mind are through the senses, and the same

may be said of all minds in a general way; but the approaches to a

sensual mind are only through the senses, and they, being

perverted, abused, exhausted, or unduly excited, furnish the

utterly unreliable avenues by which truth reaches the soul. The

grand reason why truth, published from the pulpit and the

platform, revealed in periodicals and books, and embodied in

pictures and statues, works no greater changes upon the minds and

morals of men, is, that it never gets inside of men in the shape

in which it is uttered. It passes through such media of bigotry,

or self-interest, or vice, that its identity and power are lost.

It is not, therefore, remarkable that so little truth is told

when so little is received--that so little is expressed when so

little is apprehended. The largest field will not produce an

oat-straw that will stand alone, if there be no silica in the soil,

and the largest mind cannot express a pure truth if it has lived

always so encased that pure truth could not find its way into it.

All truth reaches our minds through various media, by which it is

more or less colored and refracted; and it is very rare that a man

has the power to embody in language and utter a truth in the

degree of perfection in which he received it. As I said at

beginning, the power to state a fact correctly, or to express a

pure truth, is among the rarest gifts of man. It never struck me

that David was remarkably hasty, when he said that all men were

liars. All men are liars, in one respect or another. They are

divisible into various classes, which may legitimately be

mentioned under two heads, viz., unconscious liars and conscious

liars.

Of those who lie, and suppose they are telling the truth, I have

already spoken. They are a large and most respectable class of

people, and their apology must be found in the theory I have

advanced; yet among these may be found men and women who will

require all the amplitude of our mantles of charity to cover them.

I have been much impressed with a passage in Dr. Bushnell's recent

volume, entitled "Christian Nurture," which incidentally touches

upon this subject, in the writer's characteristically powerful

way; and as I cannot condense it, I will copy it:

"There is, in some persons who appear in all other respects to be

Christian, a strange defect of truth, or truthfulness. They are

not conscious of it. They would take it as a cruel injustice were

they only to suspect their acquaintances of holding such an

estimate of them. And yet, there is a want of truth in every sort

of demonstration they make. It is not their words only that lie,

but their voice, air, action; their every putting forth has a

lying character. The atmosphere they live in is an atmosphere of

pretence. Their virtues are affectations. Their compassions and

sympathies are the airs they put on. Their friendship is their

mood, and nothing more; and yet they do not know it. They mean, it

may be, no fraud. They only cheat themselves so effectually as to

believe that what they are only acting is their truth. And, what

is difficult to reconcile, they have a great many Christian

sentiments; they maintain prayer as a habit, and will sometimes

speak intelligently of matters of Christian experience."

It was the oracular sage, Deacon Bedott, who, in view of the

imperfections of his kind, remarked several times in his life:

"we are all poor creeturs"--a remark that comes as near to being

pure truth as any we meet with outside of the Bible and the

standard treatises on mathematics. We are, indeed, poor creatures.

Our highest conceptions of truth are contemptible, our best

utterances fall short of our conceptions, and our lives are poorer

than our language.

Of all conscious and criminal lying, I know of none that exceeds

in malignity and magnitude that of a political campaign. In such a

struggle, men get in love with lies. They seek apologies for the

circulation of lies. They hug lies to their hearts in preference

to truth. It is the habit of hopeful philosophers to enlarge upon

the benefit to our people of the annual and quadrennial contests

for place, which occur in our country, as if principles were the

things really at stake, and personalities were out of the

question, as the lying politicians would have us believe. What, in

honesty, can be said of the leading speakers and the leading

presses which sustain a party in a contest for power, but that

they studiously misrepresent their opponents, misstate their own

motives, give currency to false accusations, suppress truth that

tells against them, exaggerate the importance of that which favors

them, seize upon all plausible pretexts for fraud, skulk behind

subterfuges, and lie outright when it is deemed necessary. And

what can be expected more and better than this, when the leaders

are office-seekers, who live and thrive on the grand basilar lie

that the motive which inspires all their action is a regard for

the popular good? Of course I speak generally. There are

politicians and presses that are above personal considerations;

but even these become infected with the prevalent poison of

falsehood that is everywhere associated with their efforts.

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