CHAPTER XVII

ORIGIN AND DEVELOPMENT OF THE FAMILY TENDENCIES--THE REPRESSION OF LOVE

[Sidenote: Causes of Incest Repression]

Supposing the tendency to incest to have been called into being and

maintained by some such causes, or combination of causes, as we have

considered in the last chapter, what are the influences that have brought

about the inhibition and repression of this tendency--influences which, as

we have already remarked, must be strong in proportion to the strength of

the tendency itself? We find here, as was not the case with our discussion

of the positive aspects of the tendency, that certain explanations have

already been advanced, though these are for the most part obviously

unsatisfactory, or at best incomplete.

[Sidenote: Explanations of primitive peoples]

(1) The reasons which are given by primitive peoples for their obedience

to the rule of exogamy are various; sometimes it is considered that harm

would come to the pair who are guilty of the forbidden union, this perhaps

being usually of the nature of some disease, or else very frequently,

impotence or barrenness; sometimes it is the offspring of the guilty pair

who will incur the penalty; quite often, however, the evil results of such

a union are supposed to affect the whole community to which they belong

and consist not uncommonly in general infertility of women, animals and

plants. These reasons, though they no doubt exercise a powerful influence

among those who hold them, are for the most part too obviously of the

nature of superstitions, inventions or rationalisations to be taken at

their face value; though the study of them on psycho-analytic principles

would no doubt bring interesting and suggestive results.

Hardly much more satisfactory, if regarded as attempts at affording

complete and ultimate explanations, are some of hypotheses that have been

put forward by modern students of exogamy.

[Sidenote: Durkheim's Theory of the sanctity of blood]

(2) Thus, Durkheim[246] suggests that exogamy arose as a result of

the religious respect for blood, particularly menstruous blood; the

divine totemic being is supposed to be resident in blood, hence blood

is sacred, especially to those of the totem clan, and no man of this

clan may trespass on the very spot where the sacred blood periodically

manifests itself. Even if this theory should afford a satisfactory

proximate explanation of exogamy, it is obviously very far from revealing

the true ultimate biological and psychological factors that have led to

the practice. Even apart from this, however, it gives rise to certain

difficulties and objections (more especially connected with the lack of

the close correspondence between exogamous classes and totemic clans which

we should expect upon this theory) and has almost certainly at best but a

very limited field of application[247].

[Sidenote: Westermarck's theory of an innate aversion to incest]

(3) Westermarck[248] would explain exogamy and the avoidance of incest

generally as due to the fact that there is an innate aversion to sexual

intercourse between persons living together from early youth, and that,

as such persons are in most cases related by blood, this feeling would

naturally display itself in custom and law as a horror of intercourse

between near kin[249].

[Sidenote: resulting from the injurious effects of inbreeding]

As to the general existence of this horror there can be no doubt, and to

assign to it an important part in framing human opinions and institutions

with regard to incest is perfectly justifiable so long as we do not lose

sight of the fact that this horror is only one side of the total human

attitude towards the matter and that alongside of the horror there exists

an attraction towards incest which corresponds in intensity to that of

the horror itself[250]. An explanation in terms of this incest horror is

not, however, that which we are seeking; it is, on the contrary, the very

existence of this horror for which we are trying to account. We have to

ask, what are the conditions in human life and mind that have brought

about the widespread aversion to incest that is so generally manifested.

According to Westermarck, these conditions are to be found in the process

of natural selection; marriages between near kin are, he maintains, on

the whole injurious to the species and, therefore, through survival of

the fittest, the existing races of men show a marked aversion to such

marriages.

[Sidenote: These effects by no means certain]

In estimating the correctness of this theory, it is well to remember

that the supposed ill effects of inbreeding in men and animals are by no

means as yet universally admitted by those who have studied the subject,

and that, even so far as their existence is admitted, they are not yet

fully understood or accurately measured. It is indeed often a matter of

considerable difficulty to discover any ill effects that may be due to

this cause, especially in the case of slow breeding animals, such as Man,

and the conclusions that have been arrived at with regard to the human

race have to a great extent been derived by analogy from observations

made upon lower animals. It would seem to be fairly generally agreed

that such ill effects as may exist arise for the most part from the

reinforcement or accentuation of hereditary weaknesses and defects that

is liable to occur in inbreeding and that members of a perfectly healthy

family might continue to mate with one another for several (perhaps for

many) generations without evil consequences, though possibly a loss of

vigour, strength or fertility might ultimately occur. In the case of the

Ptolemies of Egypt and the Incas of Peru inbreeding of this kind has (as

we have already observed in another connection) actually been practised

and does not seem to have produced any conspicuously bad results. There

is some evidence, too, that seems to point to the fact that the supposed

ill effects of inbreeding are due to the results of continuously similar

environment and conditions of life rather than to the physiological

resemblance of the parents, or at any rate that any evil effects of the

latter cause may be counterbalanced by a change of abode or of the mode of

living[251].

East and Jones in their recent valuable survey of our present knowledge

on the subject[252] conclude quite definitely that inbreeding is not

in itself productive of ill effects, the results of inbreeding in

any particular case depending entirely upon the hereditary qualities

transmitted; so that, although in bad stock the intensification of

undesirable qualities through inbreeding might soon bring about

deterioration, in good stock inbreeding is the surest method of making

the desirable qualities a stable and permanent characteristic of the

race. Nevertheless there are, in the opinion of these writers, certain

advantages of a general nature to be derived from outbreeding connected

principally: (1) with the occurrence of heterosis or hybrid vigour as a

result of outbreeding, (2) with the fact that outbreeding leads to greater

variability between individuals than does inbreeding, thus giving greater

scope for the action of selective agencies and therefore endowing the race

with greater power of adaptation to a changing environment--a factor which

is probably of very considerable importance and which indeed seems to

have been overlooked in a number of previous discussions of the subject,

especially by nonbiological writers.

[Sidenote: and can scarcely account for the intensity of the incest

prohibition]

It thus appears that stress should be laid upon the advantages of

outbreeding rather than upon the supposed ill effects of inbreeding.

Nevertheless we must admit that there exist biological factors of such a

kind as to be capable of influencing the psychological attitude towards

incest in the way that Westermarck's theory requires. But although the

theory that incest prohibition is due to natural selection working on

the _relative_ disadvantages of inbreeding may be correct so far as it

goes, this does not absolve us from the duty of looking elsewhere for

other factors which may have worked in the same direction. For it appears

very doubtful whether the factors we have just been considering can be

regarded as an adequate explanation of incest prohibition as we know it.

If it is the advantages of outbreeding rather than the disadvantages of

inbreeding that are potent; if the evil effects of inbreeding are so

relatively slight as to leave room for doubt as to their nature and even

the fact of their existence; if they are of such kind as to leave healthy

stocks but little if at all affected and to become serious only after long

continuance without admixture of fresh blood from outside (a state of

affairs that can but rarely have occurred); and if they are liable to be

counteracted by a change of locality or of life's conditions (which must

sometimes have occurred, especially among nomadic peoples): then it is not

easy to understand how such a widespread and powerful human characteristic

as the aversion to incest can have arisen _solely_ as the result of

natural selection, working through the bad effects of incest or the

superior advantages of outbreeding. The largeness of the result would be

manifestly out of proportion to the cause, and it would seem that although

we may allow some considerable influence to this factor, we have to admit

that it must be supplemented by some other cause or causes of appreciable

magnitude[253].

[Sidenote: Influence of non-sexual factors]

(4) According to one type of explanation (_e. g._ that held by Wundt[254])

the horror of incest is not the cause of exogamy, but the consequence of

it--the origin of exogamy itself being due to some other influences only

indirectly connected with the sex life. Of such theories of the origin of

exogamy a number have been put forward by eminent authorities.

Thus McLennan[255], the discoverer of both Totemism and Exogamy, held the

view that exogamy was a consequence of the wide prevalence of marriage

by capture; this latter being itself a result of the preponderance of

the male sex over the female in primitive communities and of the general

condition of hostility existing between neighbouring tribes. Herbert

Spencer[256] similarly thought that exogamy arose from marriage by

capture, men belonging to successful tribes nearly always acquiring their

brides in this way, so that it eventually became a disgrace to marry

within the tribe. Lord Avebury[257], believing that group marriage or

promiscuity was the rule in primitive society, suggests that women taken

in war belonged to their individual captor, marriage in a narrow sense

being thus exogamous from the start. Kohler[258] believes on the contrary,

that exogamy arose as a means of bringing about inter-tribal friendships

or alliances. Andrew Lang[259] has suggested that exogamy is due to the

fact that the younger brothers of a family were frequently driven out by

the stronger and older ones in order to ward off any want that might arise

from the living together of a large number of brothers and sisters--the

younger brothers being then obliged to marry outside the family group.

[Sidenote: Such factors cannot fully explain exogamy]

Now all these factors--and others too perhaps--may very well have had

their influence in bringing about the practice of exogamy: in particular,

it would seem that the difficulty of supporting a large family living

together under really primitive conditions would be very likely to

have had the effect of driving the younger members of the family away

from the immediate circle of their parents. Nevertheless there appears

to be a pretty general agreement that none of these theories affords a

complete and sufficient account of the origin of exogamy. The conditions

postulated by McLennan's theory (shortage of women and frequent wars

between neighbouring groups) are by no means universally found among

primitive peoples, and even if there exists the required preponderance

of men over women, it is by no means obvious why the men should refuse

to avail themselves of such fellow-tribeswomen as they could find.

On Spencer's view, it is difficult or impossible to account for the

existence of exogamy among all the tribes of a given area, since in

constant warfare there must be some which are vanquished, and among

these endogamy rather than exogamy should be the rule. Lord Avebury's

theory rests on the assumption that communal marriage was the original

condition of mankind--an assumption that is now abandoned by many of the

best authorities. Kohler's view can scarcely explain how the objection

to sexual unions within the tribe should have come to apply not only

to marriage but (equally strongly) to less regular or purely temporary

connections. Andrew Lang's theory similarly fails to explain why the rule

of exogamy is made to apply to the elder members of the family with the

same force as to the younger[260].

[Sidenote: The psychological nature of the incest prohibition shows the

insufficiency of these influences]

Moreover, even supposing that the existence of such an institution as

exogamy could be in itself satisfactorily accounted for on some such

grounds as those advanced by theories of this kind, it is at once evident

that we have here no adequate explanation of the strictness with which the

system is enforced, the severe penalties that are exacted for infringement

of its rules (which is very often punishable by death), the intense

nature of the incest horror generally, and the fact that this horror

persists even where, as in civilised countries, there is no organised

system of exogamy in the technical sense. The psychological researches

of Freud and his followers would seem to have shown conclusively that

this intense aversion to incest (like all repugnances and taboos of a

similar kind) is the negative expression of a correspondingly intense

desire for the forbidden thing, and therefore no explanation which

neglects to take into consideration this desire can be regarded as even

approximately satisfactory. If the aversion to incest had arisen merely

as a consequence of the age-long practice of exogamy--which itself is due

to other causes--there would be no reason why this aversion should be

intimately connected with the positive tendency to incest or of sufficient

strength to overcome this tendency, with the powerfulness of which we are

now well acquainted. In view of the existence of this strong tendency to

incest (which was not appreciated before the work of Freud), it seems

no longer possible to maintain, either that exogamy can have arisen

independently of the counter-impulse to repress this tendency, or that

this counter-impulse, which finds its psychic expression in that incest

horror so generally observable both in primitive and cultured man, can be

satisfactorily explained as the result of any institution or custom itself

unconnected with the tendency to incest.

[Sidenote: The biological absurdity of parent-child incest]

(5) Turning to factors that have in general received less explicit

recognition at the hands of the authorities who have written on the

subject, we may note first that as regards the most fundamental type

of incest as revealed by psycho-analytic study--that of parent and

child--there is involved a sort of biological absurdity, which may well

have been to some extent instrumental, through the agency of natural

selection, of bringing about that inhibition of the incestuous tendencies

for which we have to account. Parents and children necessarily differ

considerably in age, though less so in most primitive communities than in

the civilised societies of to-day, where marriage is so often postponed

till relatively late in life. Even among primitive peoples however the

difference is very appreciable, especially in view of the fact (which must

be borne in mind in this connection) that with such peoples, owing to the

harder conditions of existence, life is often shorter than in civilised

communities, while the enfeeblement that accompanies advancing age comes

on proportionately sooner. If men were to follow blindly the impulses

manifested in the primitive and fundamental forms of incest tendency, sons

would cohabit with their mothers, daughters with their fathers. In such

unions one of the partners would be relatively aged, and the offspring

would in consequence very probably be lacking in that degree of vitality

or health normally possessed by the children of parents of more equal age;

they would moreover fail, in the majority of cases, to enjoy that degree

of provision and protection which could be afforded where _both_ parents

are still youthful. Even if such unions were to occur, they could not (in

the case of one sex at any rate) be continued in the following generation;

for if a son were to cohabit with his mother and if a male child resulted

from their union, this child could not in turn fruitfully unite with his

mother (who would also be his grandmother), as she would be now definitely

past the reproductive age. Further, such unions would come into opposition

with the almost universal tendency to find sexual attractiveness in

youthful rather than in aged persons--a tendency which, like the

appreciation of beauty in the opposite sex in general, we may suppose has

been shaped largely, if not wholly, by the operation of natural selection,

which has ensured that men and women should in the main be attracted to

those who are most likely to produce strong and healthy children.

Thus it can easily be understood that any races which tended to indulge to

any large extent the impulses which prompt to incestuous unions between

parents and children would be at a disadvantage as compared with those

races in which these unions did not occur or occurred less frequently;

the latter races tending therefore to supplant the former. Given then the

existence of a strong impulse towards parent-children unions, we can see

how biological factors may very well have favoured the growth of strong

counteracting factors, such as manifest themselves in the repression of

the tendencies towards this form of incest.

These considerations would of course apply not only to relations between

parents and children but to all other unions in which the age difference

between the partners is considerable. They would not however apply

to unions between brother and sister or between cousins who are of

approximately equal age. The influences which lead to the aversions to

these latter unions must be sought elsewhere[261].

[Sidenote: Fear of the consequences of parental jealousy]

(6) A potent set of influences calculated to inhibit tendencies to incest

are those connected with sexual jealousy. A boy's love towards his

mother, as we have seen, almost necessarily brings him to some extent

into conflict with his father, while a girl's affection to her father

is similarly calculated to bring about the jealousy of her mother. This

arousal of jealousy on the part of the parents may produce repression of

the incest tendency in the child in a variety of ways; of which perhaps

the most frequent and important are:--

_a._ fear of punishment at the hands of the jealous parent, and

_b._ unwillingness to cause injury or sorrow to this parent because

of genuine affection being felt towards him (or her)--affection which

of course may quite well co-exist with very considerable jealousy and

rivalry. Both these motives appear prominently in psycho-analytic

investigations of the conditions underlying the repression of the Œdipus

complex in normal and neurotic persons of the present day, and both

have been operative for long ages in the past wherever the family has

existed in a monogamous form in which the parents lived together for

a considerable period after the birth of their children. Very similar

motives may also co-operate in the repression of incest tendencies as

between brothers and sisters, the jealousies in this case being for the

most part those between brothers or between sisters respectively.

[Sidenote: Strong family ties conflict with social development]

(7) There can be little doubt that there exists a certain degree of

antagonism between the development of strong and permanent ties within

the family and the development of those sentiments and feelings which

bind the individual to the larger social groups, such as the tribe or

nation, or those which make him a prominent, useful and agreeable member

of society--in that family affections conflict in some degree with

gregariousness. This antagonism can be observed in society to-day in such

cases as those in which dependence on, and attachment to, the family

will prevent an individual from easily adapting himself to the wider

environment of school, college or club life, or from becoming "at home"

in the circle of his business, sporting or professional acquaintances.

Similarly, undue concentration of interest or affection on the family will

very frequently prevent the formation of those wider sublimations, some of

which we studied in Chapter XIII, sublimations upon which the successful

working of a large community may often depend. The individual who finds

the satisfaction of all his emotions and desires within the circle of his

family is unlikely to develop to the full those wider interests in his

fellow men and in the social conditions of his age and place, without

which all higher political progress and development become impossible.

At an earlier stage of human society the conflict was very possibly much

more acute. Man, as we have seen, was probably in origin a family, rather

than a social, animal; nevertheless it is the gregariousness of man which

is responsible for the most characteristic features of the progress in

culture which has led to civilisation. Gregariousness has therefore proved

itself a very precious biological possession and natural selection would

be likely to ensure its retention and development in the human mind, thus

affording a strong influence in favour of the repression of those family

affections which might threaten it. It is to some extent in this way

perhaps that there came about that great revulsion against the monogamic

family which is manifested in the totemic age--an age in which the ties

connecting the individual with other members of a larger social group were

developed at the expense of those which attached him to his family, and an

age which elaborated the most complex, far-reaching and intense barriers

against the incest tendencies which are shown in the various systems of

exogamy.

At a later stage of human development, when the foundations of society

were more securely settled, circumstances seem to have permitted something

in the nature of a relaxation of the restrictions on family ties and

family affections, the exogamic rules becoming less strict or less

far-reaching and the family becoming more firmly knit together; this

change being perhaps made possible by the fact that the larger and more

complex social groups of a more developed society no longer came into

such direct conflict with the family as an alternative social unit--the

larger group being now of sufficient size and strength to tolerate the

co-existence of the smaller (or, more strictly speaking, to include the

smaller within itself) without fear of competition or disruption.

Thus, though the urgency of the pressure may very well have varied in

different times and places, it would seem probable that the claims of

social life have constantly exercised some influence in restricting the

interests and affections which centre round the family and have therefore

probably constituted one of the forces which have helped to bring about

that inhibition of the incest tendencies for which we are here trying to

account.

[Sidenote: They conflict also with individual development]

(8) There exists a very similar antagonism between a high degree of family

attachment and the claims of individual development. We have seen in the

earlier chapters the way in which the full unfolding of the individual's

capacities--his ability to maintain himself by his own efforts, his

power of self reliance, of initiative and of independent thought and

action--demand a relaxation of the ties that bind him to his family. It

is true that the relations of an individual to his family which are here

in question are not primarily the erotic ones; still they are everywhere

in contact with these erotic aspects of the family relationship and would

seem to be highly correlated with them--so much so that it is often a

matter of great difficulty to decide where the erotic elements end and the

purely dependence relationships begin[262]. In virtue of this correlation

it would seem that the incest tendencies, when developed or retained in a

high degree, must be inimical to the free growth of individual capacity;

in other words, that those communities in which the incest tendencies

have flourished would, other things equal, consist of less energetic,

self-reliant, and efficient individuals than those in which these

tendencies had been kept within more moderate bounds. Natural selection

would therefore, we might expect, ensure the continuation of those

communities in which the incest tendencies were more repressed. Similarly,

as regards the individuals themselves, it would seem likely that, in

virtue of their greater efficiency, those would survive and prosper who

were able to control and to sublimate their incest tendencies rather than

those in whom these tendencies had free and unrestricted play.

[Sidenote: Both greater integration and greater differentiation of society

is thus secured]

Under the last heading (7) we saw that the repression of incest would on

the whole lead to the greater integration of human society through a more

developed gregariousness and the establishment of firmer ties of interest

and affection between the individual and the community. Under the present

heading we have seen that the repression of the incest tendencies would

also lead to greater differentiation through a more thorough development

of individual characters, abilities and differences. If, with Herbert

Spencer, we agree that the progress of society (like evolution generally)

involves both integration and differentiation, it is easy to see how the

inhibition of the tendencies to incest may have thus contributed in two

distinct but complementary ways to the advance of human civilisation.

(9) Westermarck, as we saw above (3), in endeavouring to account for

the origin of incest horror, drew attention to the aversion to sexual

intercourse between those who had lived together from early youth (a class

of persons which usually, of course, includes the closer blood relatives).

While we must disagree with Westermarck in his implicit denial of the

underlying attraction between these persons--an attraction which makes

the aversion in question to a large extent nothing more than a reaction

against the desire for intercourse between them--it is nevertheless

possible that the study of this wider aversion may throw a few rays of

fresh light upon the narrower incest aversion with which we are concerned.

[Sidenote: Among those who live together sexual reactions are inhibited by

non-sexual]

Westermarck would regard the objection to intercourse between those living

together from youth as due to the biological causes discussed above (3).

Without denying the truth of this view, we may venture to suggest that

there perhaps exist psychological causes, which tend to bring about the

same result. Those who live much together must necessarily react in and

to each other's presence in a great variety of ways, involving a very

considerable number of instinctive and habitual mechanisms, the majority

of which are not--or at most are only quite indirectly--sexual in nature,

being concerned for the most part with life preserving activities (_e.

g._ obtaining and preparing food, eating, washing, dressing, acquiring

or practising various branches of skill or knowledge, the carrying on of

professional activities, _etc._). During the greater part of their time

together, the sexual instincts of the persons concerned are therefore

held in check in order that the other mental trends involved in these

various necessary functions may enjoy full play; in fact the reaction

to each other's presence along the lines of these other trends becomes

much more habitual than does reaction along the lines of sexual feeling.

The very constant inhibition of this latter feeling occasioned by the

almost continual preoccupation with everyday affairs, in which those who

live together are equally concerned, is apt to make it difficult for the

inhibition to be entirely removed and for the sexual trends to have free

play, even when opportunity offers; and is therefore calculated to make a

union between those whose lives have long been intimately connected appear

unsuitable or unattractive, quite apart from the operation of any definite

taboo or prohibition; whereas with strangers inhibitions of the kind just

described are far less operative and the sexual impulses can therefore

work without impediment.

[Sidenote: and especially by hostile tendencies]

A further factor which may reinforce the foregoing is connected with

the actual hostility (conscious or repressed) that so frequently exists

between those whose lives and interests are connected. As we have already

had occasion to see, the competition that exists between members of

the same family is almost bound to engender some degree of hostility;

and this hostility (even if in later life it be quite indiscernible to

consciousness) will add its weight to any force which tends to inhibit

love of the person towards whom hostility is felt.

Here then we have two factors, which, though not peculiar to incestuous

relationships, nevertheless very probably contribute a certain share of

influence to the sum total of the forces productive of the aversion to

incest[263].

[Sidenote: The incest tendencies are also affected by the general sexual

inhibitions]

(10) The incestuous tendencies with which we are here concerned are, as we

have amply seen, among the earliest manifestations of sexuality (in the

wide sense of this term commonly employed by psycho-analysts) and, like

most other manifestations of this aspect of human nature, suffer from the

general repression to which sexuality in all its more direct expressions

is habitually subject. It is no doubt true that the incestuous direction

of the youthful sexual impulse itself contributes in very appreciable

measure to the conditions which bring about this general repression, and

that this repression is therefore to some extent an effect rather than

a cause of the incest inhibition. Nevertheless it would seem at least

equally certain that incest inhibition is far from being responsible for

the whole of sexual repression and that the latter does react powerfully

in certain respects upon the former, so that the existence of a general

tendency to the repression of all manifestations of the sexual instinct

may be regarded as constituting an additional factor in the inhibition of

incestuous affection for which we have been trying to account[264].

[Sidenote: Thus the circumstances of human life are responsible for the

mental conflicts that centre round the incest tendencies]

We have now studied some of the principal factors which, it seems, may

have had some influence in producing the tremendous conflicts in the

human mind which centre round the family. In so far as we have been

correct in our analysis of these factors, it would appear that there are

strong influences, both in the individual and in the race, which work

both positively and negatively in regard to those aspects of love and

hate which constitute the Œdipus complex. The existence of the mental

struggles which this complex inevitably brings in its train may therefore,

on a wider view, appear less startling than on a first approach. Both

the human individual and the human race are subject to conditions, some

of which favour one mode of response, some of which are best reacted

to by a contrary or at least an antagonistic type of behaviour. Owing

to the inherent limitations of the human mind at the unconscious and

primitive levels--its difficulty in overcoming habits that have once been

formed, its tendency to give expression simultaneously to incompatible

impulses, its relatively small power of creating distinctions and

differentiations--it is inevitable that the different tendencies which

are thus created and aroused should frequently come into conflict. It

would seem to be more especially the function of consciousness however

to produce a clear distinction between different situations and thus to

facilitate nicer adaptations of conduct than would otherwise be possible.

By understanding his own impulses and the true nature of the situations

which have called them forth and to which they are adapted, man becomes

to some extent master of his own fate and can rise above the blind level

of instinctive behaviour, inasmuch as his own motives become co-ordinated

and integrated and subject to the best that is in him; while his conduct

becomes more delicately adapted to his environment and more nearly

productive of the ends that he desires. It is as contributions, be they

ever so slight, towards this wider understanding and control of man's

nature, that, from the practical and ethical point of view, studies like

the present acquire such value as they may possess.

FOOTNOTES:

[Footnote 246: "La Prohibition de l'inceste et ses origines," _L'Année

Sociologique_, I, 1890, 55 ff.]

[Footnote 247: _Cp_. Frazer, "Totemism and Exogamy", IV, 100 ff.]

[Footnote 248: "History of Human Marriage," 320 ff.]

[Footnote 249: A difficulty in connection with Westermarck's theory is

concerned with the question as to how an aversion to sexual intercourse

between those who have lived from infancy together changed to a similar

aversion between blood relatives. How is it, if the original aversion was

of the former kind, that it has left but little trace of its existence,

while the aversion to marriage between blood relatives, which is supposed

to have been derived from it, is grown so strong? It would seem as if the

theory would perhaps have to be modified so as to postulate the existence

of an original aversion to the marriage of blood relatives, as such;

though of course this only opens up the fresh difficulty of accounting

for the manner in which such an aversion could arise. We are here faced

with the same problem that we have already encountered in the case of the

positive aspects of the love impulse between relatives (p. 198 footnote).]

[Footnote 250: If this were not the case, we might well ask with other

critics why a natural instinct to avoid incestuous relations should need

the reinforcement of legal penalties and prohibitions.]

[Footnote 251: For a discussion of the question of inbreeding in the

present connection, see Frazer, "Totemism and Exogamy", IV. 160 ff.]

[Footnote 252: "Inbreeding and Outbreeding", Monographs on Experimental

Biology, 1919.]

[Footnote 253: Supposing that natural selection does exercise some

influence of the kind indicated, such influence does not of course,

here any more than elsewhere, necessarily imply any appreciation of the

nature of the causes at work. On the contrary, as some authorities have

pointed out, it is scarcely possible to ascribe to primitive man any

conscious realisation of the ill effects of inbreeding (if these exist).

These ill effects manifest themselves much too slowly to be observed by

the savage with his relatively short memory and his lack of interest in

remote events, especially when, as has often been the case, there has been

uncertainty as to the nature of paternity. Even if the savage were able

to realise the nature of this hereditary influence, it is pretty clear

that his actions and feelings would be but little affected thereby, for it

is one of the most general characteristics of the primitive mind that it

takes but small account of distant consequences, whereas Eugenics involves

the appreciation of such consequences in a high degree.]

[Footnote 254: "Elements of Folk Psychology", 151.]

[Footnote 255: "Studies in Ancient History" (2nd. ed.) 160.]

[Footnote 256: "Principles of Sociology", I, 619.]

[Footnote 257: "The Origin of Civilisation", 135 ff.]

[Footnote 258: "Indisches Ehe- und Familienrecht", _Zeitschrift für

vergleichende Rechtswissenschaft_, III, 1882, 361.]

[Footnote 259: Atkinson and Andrew Lang, "The Primal Law."]

[Footnote 260: A full discussion of these theories will be found in

Westermarck's "History of Human Marriage" and Frazer's "Totemism and

Exogamy".]

[Footnote 261: Whatever real truth there may be in this argument, we

must not fail to bear in mind that it is admirably adapted for use as

a "rationalisation", _i. e._ the fear of evil consequences (dysgenic

or other) from marriages between young and old may well be a conscious

(and, in a sense, artificial) substitute for the unconscious aversion to

such marriages on the ground of their being an indirect expression of

incestuous desires. We must therefore be on our guard against the tendency

to overemphasise this argument in the absence of adequate objective

evidence.]

[Footnote 262: It is round this point of course, as we have above shown,

that the differences of opinion between Freud and Jung have largely

centred.]

[Footnote 263: That some such factors as these are probably really

operative in addition to the more specific sexual inhibitions that compose

the incest barrier proper, is shown by a consideration of cases in which

no such specific inhibition exists, _e. g._ that of husband and wife.

In spite of the fact that sexual relations between husband and wife are

not only permitted but enjoined and that mutual sexual attractiveness

has usually played some considerable part in bringing about the union,

there can be little doubt that in very many cases a husband and wife,

after a certain period of married life, tend to find--superficially at

any rate--greater sexual attractiveness in strangers than in one another.

The reasons for this (in the absence of any other adequate cause) are

often fairly clearly of the kind described--first, the fact that their

associations with one another are largely connected with the "humdrum"

activities of everyday life in which non-sexual instincts are principally

concerned (whereas with strangers the sexual feelings may constitute the

predominant, or perhaps the only, bond); secondly the fact that through

the very intimacy of their connection there are (as in the case of blood

relatives) a number of matters as regards which the husband and wife are

competitors or have conflicting interests, thus leading to a certain

degree of (usually more or less repressed) hostility on either side.]

[Footnote 264: The reasons for the existence of a general sexual

repression, over and above the incest inhibition, and the psychological

mechanisms by which this repression is brought about, form a vast and

highly important theme on which there exists at present but little

general agreement and which, being only indirectly connected with our

subject, need fortunately not be entered into here. It is perhaps worth

while to point out however in passing, that some of the factors which

are responsible for the more general sexual repression are, in all

probability, similar to those which we have considered in connection with

the production of incest inhibition. Thus there would seem to exist an

antagonism between a highly developed and intensive sexuality and those

wider social bonds in virtue of which alone the larger human communities

are possible. It is on the basis of the manifestations of this antagonism

that some writers--as already mentioned--hold that the chief motive forces

which are active in sexual repression are to be found in the instincts

of the herd. Still more marked perhaps is the antagonism between sex and

individuation. It has long been recognised, and modern psychological

researches have pretty definitely proved, that many of the more complex

desires and activities of the individual--desires and activities upon

which human culture ultimately depends--are built up upon sublimations

of the sexual tendencies. All these sublimations involve a deflection of

sexual energy from its original and primitive direction--a deflection

which occurs for the most part or entirely as the result of conflict with

the sexual tendencies when thus primitively directed.

As regards the motive forces engaged in this conflict, there is again

at present much uncertainty, but they probably to some extent differ

from one case to another. The conflict would seem to be waged, sometimes

between two aspects of the sexual impulse, _e. g._ between Narcissism and

object-love or between physical desire and tender affection (when these

elements have been dissociated in the ways we have already studied). In

other cases the gregarious instincts are probably engaged in the manner

suggested by Trotter and others; while, in still other instances, there

may be an antagonism between the sexual impulses and the tendencies

of self-assertion, self-respect or self-preservation, as emphasised

especially by Freud. For a more general discussion of the factors

concerned in sexual inhibition, see E. Bleuler, "Der Sexualwiderstand",

_Jahrbuch für psychoanalytische und psychopathologische Forschungen_,

1913, V, 442, and J. C. Flügel, "On the Biological Basis of Sexual

Repression and its Sociological Significance", _British Journal of

Psychology_ (_Medical Section_), 1921, I, 225.]

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